Your video makes excellent points but I feel that towards the end you made it seem like it's black men's fault that black women choose shitty men because they're either one extreme which is a spineless, corny nerd or a psychotic, abusive maniac. The thing is, black women don't get with abusive men because they have no choice they get with them because they LOVE those kind of men. Your statements imply that black men are being the type of men that black women truly need.
This is partly what scripture means about "casting pearls to swine". Of course I am not calling women that like bad boys/ thugs swine The point is if the receiver cannot accept that when a man ( or anyone else for that matter ) speaks from the heart, it is not the fault of the "giver". The "world" as been allowed to define man and woman and it's definition is at odds with God's.
or appear threatening, they see a man. Manhood has been skewed by society. It, ( like womanhood) is more spiritually based that physical. There are a lot of so-called "nice guys" that can protect a woman/family but because they don't wear that "warrior spirit" on their sleeves many women miss it. If they don't see it phyiscally in a man, they think it does not exist. If a woman can not recieve a compliment from a man that does not mean he is "corny". It just means she cannot recieve it. con't
The spirit with which they ( some) use to threaten or in many cases assault people was meant to PROTECT and not to be used to harm people that mean mugged or wore the wrong color. It is a warrior spirit that was given by God for the protection of family, (not to be confused with revenge). Society says that men are visual beings; we are but so are women. They associate manhood with physical characteristics and when they see a man "acting out" Some, when they see a man shouting, con't
Or how many men she can attract with her body. Women of this sort may not understand that they have a heart ( other than the one that pumps blood) or soul that is really the essence of their being; inner beauty. If she is "cut off from that part of herself, she can not recieve ANY goodness. She will attract like-minded people like thugs. Thugs are of the same mind set; they associate manhood strictly in the physical sense, not understanding that they are misusing what God gave them. con't.
Women that like bad boys/thuds say nice guys are "corny"? Compliments,(not flattery) come from the heart of the giver to the heart to the reciever. If a woman's heart cannot "recieve"( or thinks she is not worthy of the compliment) she will thnk the giver of the compliment is corny because her heart is hardened. If a man said to the same woman, "damn girl, let me get with you", she can recieve it. That is because her womanhood is tied to her sexuality and how many men she can seduce. con't
Since I'm married, I don't have to deal with this issue directly, I end up having to deal with their neglected off-spring. Their thug-brats want to attack my well-behaved children, sell drugs, get buck for no good reasons, and try to rob the rest of us. I also get attitude from these same women once in a while because some of them have contempt for non-thugs PERIOD, making me glad I'm off the market. Usually all you have to do is be firm with Bumquisha and she'll shut the hell up.
@openfist247 That's the thing right there; I don't care that some black women like "thugs" or bad boys. If that 's what they like, fine. But they have the nerve to hate black men that are not of that genre. I "get" that some BW don't want to be in relationship with decent men but they also HATE BM that are not thugs/bad boys.
@openfist247 Speaking of "Bumquisha", I've wonder if the names some women have, have anything to do with "attitude". There seems to be a certain behavior that goes with those names. Names have meaning. This does not mean that "Sheila" or "Mary" cannot have attitude but I noticed since the advent of the more contemporary names a blatant lack of respect for self and others. Then again, we live in the times of a lack of respect anyway.
The comments are very entertaining. I could read them all day. I'm a married black man with a beautiful black wife. The important thing is she's beautiful on the inside and out. I wouldn't have married her if she was just attractive on the outside, but nasty/ghetto/ignorant on the inside. My question is...why do some of you guys CARE ABOUT a lowlife bw getting with a lowlife bm? They were meant for each other. You should have your eyes set on finding a queen. Not some slut. Why you care so much?
the things i hate about about fucking black American woman when you talk to them they ignore you like a fucking mirror from the wall fuck them. then can suck on on the white cock and spic cock to fucking skanks
dont say "thugs" are the worst men in the world alot of those "thugs" are just doing what they have to do remember we live in a white society and we dont own businesses so if u want a job guess who you have to ask
THE FIRST 3 MINUTES SAID IT ALL... WHY DO U DUDES POST VIDEOS ABOUT WOMEN DATING THUGS AND GANGSTAS... THAT WOMAN DID U A FAVOR, BECAUSE U FOUND OUT WHERE HER HEAD IS AT.. JUST IMAGINE U DATING THAT SAME WOMAN, UR ASS WOULD BE GOING THROUGH THE SAME MENTAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE THEY GOING THROUGH WITH THE BAD BOYS. BE GLAD U AVOIDED THEM CHICKS
The future of "big booty" is cottage cheese and overall obesity. Just a matter of time. It WILL happen. Better to be toned, in shape and slender overall. Lasts a lot longer.
Also physical attractiveness does play a part but when you have ugly/below average looking women starting they want an Chris Brown, Lil Wayne, Usher, Drake,etc really it is not going to happen just like the dudes who want an Beyonce, Kim K, Trina, Nikki Minaj,etc that is Not going to happen unless he has an BMW, 230K,etc. But my thing is if you are ugly stick with ugly, average stick with average and pretty stick with pretty unless opposites attract
Also when you are young, career/education driven, open minded to things such as music (new wave, heavy metal, rock, country), life (going to a library,starting a business,etc) and focusing on your future will make ignorant black women call you a sellout, uncle tom but the thing is you have geeky/nerdy seldomly attractive black women who is into those things and yet get ignored so basically it is a double standard
@MrGrunge1991 They can call them "Uncle Tom" all they want. Those ignorant ones you refer to are the SAME ones who lay up with some jackass and then have kids by him..and big surprise, he runs off. They pollute television and radio waves with their bashing of black men.
@DeadSleepers that's why every time you see an news either its cnn, msnbc, nbc, fox news they always talking about black women unmarried, interracial marriages,etc but like I said before when you have people (majority of black people) having a shallow preference and is believing what rap music, society,media tells you to do for example when in rap music they always shown the flashy, bling bling, "swag" (what a stupid term) niggas while shown no geek/nerd. And that's why some black people is lame
@DeadSleepers Yep. These bitches go for the lowest common denominator. He plays her ass out. Dont pay child support and all you hear is "these black men aint shit." No bitch, you aint shit. And you laid down w/an aint shit nigga. Both of yall deserve each other. Dont salt up my game b/c of yo bad judgment. Black hoes good for that shit. Thats why when they get beat down by these thugs I dont give a fuck. Dont come runnin to me. I got me a white girl. Fuck you trick bitches
@MrGrunge1991 Find me a cute geeky, nerdy sistah. I'm all in. That's the kind broad I want. Them nappy head bitches that be goin to the club every weekend and freakin on the dance floor w/niggas rubbin they dicks up they asshole in public, you can have them. Those the black bitches that end up w/thug life niggas who beat they ass
However nice guys finish last when it comes to their teenage/early adult years from thirteen to mid twenties but when they finish college, create an long time successful career it is now the "Revenge Of The Geeks" sorta say because when in their 30's, The geeks will move on with his life with an beautiful educated, career driven wife which has kids together while the thugs are either dead, jailed or disappeared from society
no wonder why the black community is fucked up and always talked about by every single race throughout the world because the issue of thugs against nice guys, light vs dark, ghetto vs suburban, etc but in my opinion the reason why the slogan of nice guys finish last is sometimes true is because they lacked confidence, etc while the thug really don't care of how people feel about him and they have three elements that females like (MONEY, POWER AND RESPECT)
@MrGrunge1991 You make a good point but not all thugs have money, power nor respect. Many don't have those three elements, that's WHY they are thugs; they are trying to attain them.
Bw like hood nigga because they may have money and a lot of black women look at money and living the hood life as having power.Who would want a lame ass nigga?
i realize that most if not all women go through the whole bad boy phase but it seems like through observation that non-black women are wise enough to get out of this mentality earlier than black women. blk women(on average) go through this phase and STAY in this phase
It is very hard to find a black woman who are not into thugs. The only women that seem to be into me are the unatractive ones. The ones that the Thugs don't want. I have tried and tried but in vain. Seems to be the only way to get with one is to become a thug too. But i'm not that desperate. There are good women of other races out there.
@southboy99 GREAT decision. I had a black bitch I grew up with tell me she thought I was boring, this was about 15 years ago, b/c of my job as a writer. I was making about $80K a year at that time and she had no idea. She dropped out of college b/c she got pregnant by some knucklehead. Now I do well financially but I'm not rich. I dont front. However, this bitch figured b/c I had a brain and used it that made me boring. Now she wants me. I flaunt my snowbird just to piss her off. Fuck that ho
@Vergadoce Yea man, I have said this before. The same women that thought I was too nice, boring, lame back in the day are the same ones hitting my up on facebook talking about how fine I am now. What they see now is a man with a good job and doing well for him self that can help her fat ass raise their kids.
@southboy99 U know damn well black ppl are not growing the cocaine or heroin. White ppl bring drugs into this country by the TONS but u wanna blame the nickle and dime punk on the corner. Bitch plz, u are THE sellout. Why the fuck would u wanna race mix and give your children some tainted blood ? What race will your children belong to ? BLACK PPL ARE SUPERIOR !!! We ruled the world for THOUSANDS of years these pussy ass whites just started ruling it 500 yrs ago
@sittingbull706 Bitch get the fuck out of here. Nobody is putting a gun to these ignorant asses heads to sell that shit. Tainted Blood? Dumb Nigga! Are you 100% African? FUCK NO. I'm pround to be black. But Black people don't even own shit in Africa.
@Vergadoce WtTF. dont u know that with 50% of blk men in prison that leaves u with an ENORMOUS selection of blk women who will FIGHT other women to be with BLACK man such as yourself ? But u wanna pass all that up for a sharp nose no lip flat ass white she devil cave bitch. Nigga u a pussya ass sellout
@sittingbull706 Nothing wrong w/a sharp nose, no stretch mark and beer belly on a bitch. Oh, and that "flat ass" remark about white bitches no longer applies. Today's white hoes fatter than a muthaufkka. Get outta the 1970s nigga. You can go grab you a nappy head who dont go to the gym and will be the size of a clydesdale by the time she's 40. I'll keep my snowbird. Plus, they know when to STFU and only speak when spoken to. Hatin ass nigga. Dont be made you got a nappy head. Cross ove,r nigga
@Vergadoce Fuck that im not a race TRAITOR. I got enough sense to know that white ppl are the enemy. What u r doin is 100% selfish,ignorant,and disgusting. A FEW of them grew a ass SO GODDAMN WHAT !!! Use her for sex then go home to a fine black queen that is submissive. THERE IS PLENTY OF THEM OUT THERE U DAMN FOOL. Watch the videos on my favorites and wake the fuck up
@sittingbull706 A traitor? LOOOOOL. You've been brainwashed by the Soul Patrol. Niggas like you hate on snowbirds and supposedly all about the community, but slang dope on the corner. I know yo kind. I aint got time for no loudmouth black bitch. Watch Basketball Wives. Nothing but ignorant ghetto trash. You can have em. You cant take them nowhere. Plus you can have all that hairweave and blue contact shit. You like them black bitches, but they spend all they time trying to look white. LOL
@sittingbull706 As of 2010 there was aprox 846,000 black males incarcerated in State or Federal Prisons. There is aprox 15 million black men living in the USA. If my math is correct then there is aprox 6% of black males locked up.
@DeadSleepers 6% ? BULLSHIT !!! i know i was exagerating saying 50 % of blk men are in prison butU and i both know that with soooooooooooooooo many blk men in prison, with white women, and turning gay or dead we are fucking doomed if we dont get it together RIGHT NOW
I don't believe this, I'm officially convinced that all of them just want to date trash and whine about the fucked up results of it forever. Doesn't make no goddamn sense to me. What's the point in trying to chase a speeding bullet forever? Fucking pointless.
ATTENTION NIGGERS, SPADES, COONS, PORCH-MONKEYS, SPOOKS: Niggers are the scum of the earth, useless to society and themselves and cursed by God (curse of Ham). The world would be a better place without this sub-human slave-race (less disease, criminals, laziness and stupidity)
P.S. YOU ALL LOOK LIKE THE SHIT THAT COMES OUT OF MY ASS AND I WANT TO USE YOU ALL AS TOILET PAPER….LOL!
I think you missed it with the 2 extremes. Steve Erkle is fine for one extreme, but the other extreme would be more like Jim Brown, not Ike Turner. U r right; women don't find Erkle attractive at all, but few women would find Ike attractive either. To be opposite ends of the spectrum, the 2 extremes must be opposites. These guys r not opposites. They r both physycally unattractive. Jim Brown was a physical specimen & abusive to women; so he is the other end of the spectrum..
@h0llywh0 Poor dumb girl...Exotic women don't beat men. They don't choke em to death or abuse the men. When woman goes for a THUG, she puts herself in jeopardy for all that shit. If you like being degraded, physically abused and having to bail these niggas outta jail, have at it. If you don't see why your thinking is fucked up, you're too fuckin stupid to convince otherwise and deserve whatever misery you get
Good vids. But whats the difference between guys liking the women like in the video vs. girls liking thugs. the women portrayed in the video are half naked and not representing themselves well but guys fall for them and then feels like every other woman is a hoe.
JUNEBUG OBAMA did it again,main u know how to keep someone in suspense and its addictive,when are u going to come up with more topics? cant wait. goodluck to u man
IN THIS CRAZY SOCIETY ESPECIALLY THE BLACK COMMUNITY EVERY BODYS ON THIS IMAGINARY ASS CLOUD WHERE THEY THINK THEY THE SHIT BROKE DUDES WITH SWAG UGLY ASS SISTAS WITH ASS WHO THINK THEY LOOK GOOD WITH BLONDE WEAVE IN THEY HEAD I WOULDNT CHANGE MY SELF FOR THESE DELUSIONAL IDIOTS BLACK PEOPLE NEED TO READ MORE
@eyeonwashparish That's because it's not the first time I uploaded part one. When I first uploaded part one there was a "flag war" going on on You Tube. They flagged part one until You Tube banned it. So I had to upload it again and the number of views started over again at zero.
Overall, if you count the views from the first time I uploaded part one, all three vids have gotten about the same amount of views.
LOL Urkel was my hero growing up!! It's true it's just tough to in the center of this scale because of certain other factors like geography, demographics, whatever. Good series of vids tho, super helpful!
I understand you using Denzel as an example but this is kinda wrong.
When J.Foxx, Denzel & Halle did a photoshoot, Denzel literally became "Urkel" when trying to flirt with Halle, and as a married man at that. Dude came off as a straight lame.
Again i understand the point, but what im saying is ppl get fooled so much by the image of muthafuckas. Just cuz Denzel is smooth in movies/interviews don't mean he REALLY smooth.
Same goes for ur friends. Ur story about them had holes.
Lastly, as productive black men WE MUST continue helping the brothers that want to be helped and guided into the right direction, whether they are family or not.
The problem is that they are creating more trouble and foolishness in our community by having kids with these thuggish brothas. What real man does not want to father his children? The is getting ridiculous. Young men will often become what they see, put a Productive Brother in your house and you will likely produce a productive son who will become a productive black man. Stop having children while unmarried on purpose. This is creating chaos in our communities and the boys are lost..
You are absolutlely right, man. I don't know why far too many young black women make excuses for dating thugs and say they don't want a nerd or they don't want a soft ass man. Those are the EXTREMES, there are plenty of productive masculine black men are out here that are smooth, have swagger, educated and cool, and so forth, and are not thugs or nerds. The thing is that these particular black women are getting the mistreatment that they "like" by dealing with these unproductive thugs.
@openmindedfemme Men of other races don't have black mother's who got fucked by idiots! Most other races grow up in stable homes and are not the product of broken homes! Stop being a cunt and take responsibility for what your mother and grandmother allowed to happen! Nobody forced them to get impregnated by Bobby Brown they chose to do so and their son was forced to get through life with no one to guide him! Get fucked black whore
Well, Hip-hop is a strong factor in the ghetto, it manipulates lower-class black people into thinking that the word "Nigga" means black man, and the word "Hoe" means a good looking black woman which is not true. It overall comes down to the word CHOICE, good, or bad, its your life. And despite your choice, you are going to have to live with the consequences...
You hit it right on the money that is "most women” are the White, Asian, Hispanic etc..... would find men in the middle attractive, unfortunately the Black women do not fit " Most Women" Black women are CRAZZZYYYYYYYYYYY
wow, at least we can agree that there are so many beautiful women in the world. i do see that women go for the jerk types. sure they go almost always toward ike turners, but there r other factors. things that would attract men, i would go into detail, but not my vid. for ex. women go BEJABBERS 4 a nice chiseled body and sense of security from power that allows women 2 put up with lots of stuff . vid was funny, but not really informative.
I am a black woman and I dont want a thug. They cannot respect a women and thinks of women as bitches and hoes and sluts. I dont know why some black women want to day thugs.. I dont want a man who thinks that beating a woman is love. Thats not the life.
thugs are wack its 2010 no job dropout freaking everybody in the hood aid infected and stdin it out is not what is up and 5 or 6 baby mamas you gotta be a simple bitch to call dat love
When I was ages 11-14, I loved thugs-then I grew out of it. Who wants someone who beats you, calls you a bitch, can't speak proper english, and who's future is either in the grave or in prison, getting smashed in the booty all day? Please! Some people need to escape the matrix.
the real fact is..nice guys hardly ever notice a nice, good woman..they always get caught up with no good dirty females that take all their money, have babies by their best friends, divorce them and take all their damn money..when a black man does get a good woman, he shyts on her.....so its not all on the black woman...people in general are just attracted to what they don't need...it takes evolving to thim..not to speak illof the dead, but he had a very evil look in his eyes....jus saying.
Hell, I haven't had any women approach me, don't know why. I still got college years after I finish high school this year, I'll see what happens there.
SHOO I'M GLAD I'M DATING A RESPECTFUL MAN. Yes I dated a thug once and I didn't like it, i felt i could hang on to him told him he was doing the wrong things, he was like duhhh-uhhh in a dumb state of mind, after when i left his azz. he realized what he had, a woman that told him he was doing wrong in his ways, called me about three years later and said, you were right.. now he works for one of the Best 100 Companies in the world. It takes the WORDS OF TRUTH to heal someone. for real
To answer this simple question BLAME THE MEDIA! Quit watching the rap videos and quit listening to these wack ass rappers talk about the same shit money cars hoes keeping listening and you WILL be under mind control. Its called programming!
ok.. umm.. u said no girl would really turn down a will smith type of dude.. pepa from salt n pepa wrote a book.. she said will smith won a grammy and was courting pep at the time.. this dude was successful and interested in pep.. pep TURNED HIM DOWN and went for TREACH who beat the shit out of her.. don't believe me? READ HER BOOK!!!
I am aware of her book and the story. Pepa falls into the category of woman that I discussed in part one. She initially wants a bad boy type, but later, (after she has gotten older and less desirable) she wants to change and get a "good man".
There is no cure all to keep a man from never getting rejected. You are not going to go through life and not encounter a "Pepa" at some point.
Listen to what I said starting at 1:55. The Pepas of the world aren't worth your time and energy anyway.
@JunebugObama bro, i am 35 and have been married for the past 10years. you have hit the nail right on the head. you can not convince a pear its an orange. no mattter what your logic is!! unfortunately most males have to dig thew the dirt before we find our flower, but they are there!!! keep encouraging the young brothers.. excellent video ... excellent, excellent ...
@CurveAngel dnt reply to me i wasn't even talking to u.. and dnt say anything else to me either cuz if u do i'm not gnna read it.. how r u gnna try to talk bad about my comment i was conducting relevant discussion.. plus that was months ago.. smh
@videoshirt And? It's meant for you to read. And if you can make a public comment here on youtube, then I have a right to comment on how I feel about it HELLO!
And it doesnt matter when you made that comment, it's still on the font page! Last time I checked, there was'nt any kind of time limit or deadline to respond. Why so offensive?
A part of it also has to do with the media promoting (to women) the idea that the "bad boy" is sexy. Some of us are socialized to be attracted to certain types.
Listen to all three parts of the series carefully...I do explain in more detail. Also, stay tuned to my channel because I am working on a series that will go into more specifics.
If not, well...., fuck ya anyway. And I aint got a bit of hate. I dont like when people introduce new negative words to me.I feel Im being corrupted. Haters... words like that. Im trying to get my shit right. I dont know most people well enough to hate them. I dont even have the capicity to care. Im trying to avoid the bing.
Its okay though, Im strong as fuck. Put the blame on me. Yea Im that thug. But I dont disrespect women. Who has time for that shit? I got packs to move off. Women, yea ... that would be something. If I knew what to say.... like I give a fuck anyway. Maybe I will meet some people who wont treat me like an inmate.
Why do people always try to convince me that they are not snitches? When I know damn well that most people are snitches. Sure. Just start bashing someone over the fuckin head for trying you and they will be callin da police.
Sometimes I try to dress decent in a suit or sportcoat or something. That just pisses people off. "Why you all dressed up nigga?" "Nigga please you a thug." "What the hell do you think you are? A lawyer?"
Today is another day I realize that Im a thug. People look at me in that "way" as to say "I wonder what he does for a living". I dont act like a disrespectful thug but people feel comfortable treating me that way. Im tired of people thinking I want some weed to smoke. Im tired of people having something to say about me wearing shades.( The shades are polarized for fishing) but that doesent matter. According to them Im trying to be somebody Im not.
Black women tend to like those type of black men. Selling crack on the corner, in and out of jail. Black women know they love the thugs, that's why those men act like that.
Man, your doing the right thing. Black women treat me the same way. But I get love from spanish and white women for some reason. Don't worry. These same black women will want you when they reach 35-40. But by then they will have hella kids, have a shit load of weight, and probably have some type of STD. So your good man. Never look back.
Does race really even matter their is an entire world of people to meet. Different languages, skin textures, passion, physical features. People are so bounded by their environments. Secondly, 1 corinthians chp 13 discusses God's definition of love, and the average person doesn't know this. We develop our own love from previous relations and our past, and that is why the divorce rate is soring.....Love conquers all....We as people have lost the true essence of Love....God. Our creator...
@tObYStryker change ur circle & keep the hood rats out of your vicinity. it will only bring disappointment, resentment, and confusion. instead do what i do, surround yourself with positive black people. You'd be surprised how much love you'd get from a group of educated successful Black women who are MATURE... im currently in a PhD program, and quite frankly, we need more men like you around. i couldnt find a "corny" BM here to save my life, unfortunately. where r u, tobystryker? lol! good luck.
What's funny is that the women that I used to talk to wasn't feeling me because they said I wasn't a thug...Today I can see those same women, and they're trying to throw the pussy at me...Needless to say that I couldn't take them up on their offer. Even if it's "grudge sex"...lol
I swear to God. I knew of a woman who told me that she was attracted to men who been in jail, or are currently in jail and love dating those guys. Stupid woman. Do you think I'd get myself thrown in jail just for her to accept me? Pfffttt!!! LOL No.
These stupid sistas who choose to pimp her self out,don't bother to save those coons and the brothas who choose to do it,leave them alone too.I rather deal with the ones who want to the help and motherfuck these coons who choos to sell they're souls to the Devil of Amerikkka.
the fact is not all black women like thugs. only lower class ghetto type black women like thugs. the reason I say lower class is because most black women that choose to have a ghetto mentality never push themselves to the limit to see pass ghetto life and stop dating thugs. upper class black women are the ones that aren't ghetto and have a independent leadership mentality. these type of black women date college educated men
@HealthFoodSource Word..that's just a big azz myth...i don't date thugs.neither do any of my girlfriends and the type of women i've associated with......i can't stand men who drink too much, do drugs, watch a lot of porn, and wear their drawers as outerwear.....i think most intelligent black women just want hardworking,intelligent, loving and GOD fearing men....and that kind of man doesn't necessarily have a big bank either..but real women don't care about that either....
for some women that thug shit is just a phase, when a woman figures out what a real man is they look for something better, but thanks for being so respectful, and not putting black women down like some of these other black men
@deebaby3d Yeah, and they go to the black nerdy guys after the bad boys banged em in bed over the years. Now the pretty woman throws the nerdy boy a bone like.."I'm ready to have a good man now." They still fantasize about those bad guys in their past still even when they settled for the nerdy boy after all the bad boys. If I were the nerdy boy, I wouldn't date her at all, she used you only after years of being tired of the bad boy. Women are cold natured.
Captain save a ho. Fuckin awesome
RebirthOfPhoneix 3 weeks ago
Gywnplane123 wtf bitches get horny niggas die n kill ya self 4 that comment or burn in hell with erbody else
alphy881 2 months ago
Bitches aint shit we dont love them hoes
alphy881 2 months ago
Your video makes excellent points but I feel that towards the end you made it seem like it's black men's fault that black women choose shitty men because they're either one extreme which is a spineless, corny nerd or a psychotic, abusive maniac. The thing is, black women don't get with abusive men because they have no choice they get with them because they LOVE those kind of men. Your statements imply that black men are being the type of men that black women truly need.
gwynplane723 2 months ago
This is partly what scripture means about "casting pearls to swine". Of course I am not calling women that like bad boys/ thugs swine The point is if the receiver cannot accept that when a man ( or anyone else for that matter ) speaks from the heart, it is not the fault of the "giver". The "world" as been allowed to define man and woman and it's definition is at odds with God's.
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
or appear threatening, they see a man. Manhood has been skewed by society. It, ( like womanhood) is more spiritually based that physical. There are a lot of so-called "nice guys" that can protect a woman/family but because they don't wear that "warrior spirit" on their sleeves many women miss it. If they don't see it phyiscally in a man, they think it does not exist. If a woman can not recieve a compliment from a man that does not mean he is "corny". It just means she cannot recieve it. con't
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
The spirit with which they ( some) use to threaten or in many cases assault people was meant to PROTECT and not to be used to harm people that mean mugged or wore the wrong color. It is a warrior spirit that was given by God for the protection of family, (not to be confused with revenge). Society says that men are visual beings; we are but so are women. They associate manhood with physical characteristics and when they see a man "acting out" Some, when they see a man shouting, con't
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
Or how many men she can attract with her body. Women of this sort may not understand that they have a heart ( other than the one that pumps blood) or soul that is really the essence of their being; inner beauty. If she is "cut off from that part of herself, she can not recieve ANY goodness. She will attract like-minded people like thugs. Thugs are of the same mind set; they associate manhood strictly in the physical sense, not understanding that they are misusing what God gave them. con't.
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
Women that like bad boys/thuds say nice guys are "corny"? Compliments,(not flattery) come from the heart of the giver to the heart to the reciever. If a woman's heart cannot "recieve"( or thinks she is not worthy of the compliment) she will thnk the giver of the compliment is corny because her heart is hardened. If a man said to the same woman, "damn girl, let me get with you", she can recieve it. That is because her womanhood is tied to her sexuality and how many men she can seduce. con't
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
@TheAmbassador11 And there are many heart that are hardened
BarbarianLion 2 months ago
Since I'm married, I don't have to deal with this issue directly, I end up having to deal with their neglected off-spring. Their thug-brats want to attack my well-behaved children, sell drugs, get buck for no good reasons, and try to rob the rest of us. I also get attitude from these same women once in a while because some of them have contempt for non-thugs PERIOD, making me glad I'm off the market. Usually all you have to do is be firm with Bumquisha and she'll shut the hell up.
openfist247 2 months ago
@openfist247 That's the thing right there; I don't care that some black women like "thugs" or bad boys. If that 's what they like, fine. But they have the nerve to hate black men that are not of that genre. I "get" that some BW don't want to be in relationship with decent men but they also HATE BM that are not thugs/bad boys.
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
@openfist247 Speaking of "Bumquisha", I've wonder if the names some women have, have anything to do with "attitude". There seems to be a certain behavior that goes with those names. Names have meaning. This does not mean that "Sheila" or "Mary" cannot have attitude but I noticed since the advent of the more contemporary names a blatant lack of respect for self and others. Then again, we live in the times of a lack of respect anyway.
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
The comments are very entertaining. I could read them all day. I'm a married black man with a beautiful black wife. The important thing is she's beautiful on the inside and out. I wouldn't have married her if she was just attractive on the outside, but nasty/ghetto/ignorant on the inside. My question is...why do some of you guys CARE ABOUT a lowlife bw getting with a lowlife bm? They were meant for each other. You should have your eyes set on finding a queen. Not some slut. Why you care so much?
enlightenedchild 3 months ago
@enlightenedchild What a insightful post! Thank you for your intelligence.
BeautyinChaos1 2 months ago
@enlightenedchild Agreed; men need to stop wondering about a "mystery" that really is not a mystery at all. They can date whom ever they like.
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
what do the pictures of the naked women have to do with what you are talking about?
Atypical82 3 months ago
the things i hate about about fucking black American woman when you talk to them they ignore you like a fucking mirror from the wall fuck them. then can suck on on the white cock and spic cock to fucking skanks
deleoa471 3 months ago
alot of the things you are saying is true but.
dont say "thugs" are the worst men in the world alot of those "thugs" are just doing what they have to do remember we live in a white society and we dont own businesses so if u want a job guess who you have to ask
playaporschewilliams 4 months ago
THE FIRST 3 MINUTES SAID IT ALL... WHY DO U DUDES POST VIDEOS ABOUT WOMEN DATING THUGS AND GANGSTAS... THAT WOMAN DID U A FAVOR, BECAUSE U FOUND OUT WHERE HER HEAD IS AT.. JUST IMAGINE U DATING THAT SAME WOMAN, UR ASS WOULD BE GOING THROUGH THE SAME MENTAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE THEY GOING THROUGH WITH THE BAD BOYS. BE GLAD U AVOIDED THEM CHICKS
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MYGIRLMicahMicah 4 months ago
lol obama
zmarpotty 5 months ago
Its about the lifestyle not him being a thug.
DANTEG7414 5 months ago
The future of "big booty" is cottage cheese and overall obesity. Just a matter of time. It WILL happen. Better to be toned, in shape and slender overall. Lasts a lot longer.
rayhend100 6 months ago
that is why I date outside of my race who needs this shit.
erictbrown1 7 months ago
@erictbrown1 WTF. Dont let a few dumbass broads turn u against your own kind. Be stronger and smarter than that.
sittingbull706 6 months ago
@sittingbull706 I just don't have time for bullshit.
erictbrown1 6 months ago
Also physical attractiveness does play a part but when you have ugly/below average looking women starting they want an Chris Brown, Lil Wayne, Usher, Drake,etc really it is not going to happen just like the dudes who want an Beyonce, Kim K, Trina, Nikki Minaj,etc that is Not going to happen unless he has an BMW, 230K,etc. But my thing is if you are ugly stick with ugly, average stick with average and pretty stick with pretty unless opposites attract
MrGrunge1991 8 months ago
Also when you are young, career/education driven, open minded to things such as music (new wave, heavy metal, rock, country), life (going to a library,starting a business,etc) and focusing on your future will make ignorant black women call you a sellout, uncle tom but the thing is you have geeky/nerdy seldomly attractive black women who is into those things and yet get ignored so basically it is a double standard
MrGrunge1991 8 months ago
@MrGrunge1991 They can call them "Uncle Tom" all they want. Those ignorant ones you refer to are the SAME ones who lay up with some jackass and then have kids by him..and big surprise, he runs off. They pollute television and radio waves with their bashing of black men.
DeadSleepers 8 months ago
@DeadSleepers that's why every time you see an news either its cnn, msnbc, nbc, fox news they always talking about black women unmarried, interracial marriages,etc but like I said before when you have people (majority of black people) having a shallow preference and is believing what rap music, society,media tells you to do for example when in rap music they always shown the flashy, bling bling, "swag" (what a stupid term) niggas while shown no geek/nerd. And that's why some black people is lame
MrGrunge1991 8 months ago
@DeadSleepers Yep. These bitches go for the lowest common denominator. He plays her ass out. Dont pay child support and all you hear is "these black men aint shit." No bitch, you aint shit. And you laid down w/an aint shit nigga. Both of yall deserve each other. Dont salt up my game b/c of yo bad judgment. Black hoes good for that shit. Thats why when they get beat down by these thugs I dont give a fuck. Dont come runnin to me. I got me a white girl. Fuck you trick bitches
Vergadoce 6 months ago
@Vergadoce Exactly. And whats sad is that they BELIEVE that they represent all black women everywhere.
DeadSleepers 6 months ago
@MrGrunge1991 Find me a cute geeky, nerdy sistah. I'm all in. That's the kind broad I want. Them nappy head bitches that be goin to the club every weekend and freakin on the dance floor w/niggas rubbin they dicks up they asshole in public, you can have them. Those the black bitches that end up w/thug life niggas who beat they ass
Vergadoce 6 months ago
However nice guys finish last when it comes to their teenage/early adult years from thirteen to mid twenties but when they finish college, create an long time successful career it is now the "Revenge Of The Geeks" sorta say because when in their 30's, The geeks will move on with his life with an beautiful educated, career driven wife which has kids together while the thugs are either dead, jailed or disappeared from society
MrGrunge1991 8 months ago
no wonder why the black community is fucked up and always talked about by every single race throughout the world because the issue of thugs against nice guys, light vs dark, ghetto vs suburban, etc but in my opinion the reason why the slogan of nice guys finish last is sometimes true is because they lacked confidence, etc while the thug really don't care of how people feel about him and they have three elements that females like (MONEY, POWER AND RESPECT)
MrGrunge1991 8 months ago
@MrGrunge1991 You make a good point but not all thugs have money, power nor respect. Many don't have those three elements, that's WHY they are thugs; they are trying to attain them.
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
Bw like hood nigga because they may have money and a lot of black women look at money and living the hood life as having power.Who would want a lame ass nigga?
DANTEG7414 8 months ago
ha ha yall sum no pussy gettin ass niggas.... get ya swag up
fromcle2israel 8 months ago
i realize that most if not all women go through the whole bad boy phase but it seems like through observation that non-black women are wise enough to get out of this mentality earlier than black women. blk women(on average) go through this phase and STAY in this phase
Kingtunice 8 months ago
It is very hard to find a black woman who are not into thugs. The only women that seem to be into me are the unatractive ones. The ones that the Thugs don't want. I have tried and tried but in vain. Seems to be the only way to get with one is to become a thug too. But i'm not that desperate. There are good women of other races out there.
southboy99 8 months ago
@southboy99 Get a WHITE GIRL. That's what I did. Fuck these hoe ass thug luvin black bitches
Vergadoce 7 months ago
@Vergadoce Oh I did. And I will never go back.
southboy99 7 months ago
@southboy99 GREAT decision. I had a black bitch I grew up with tell me she thought I was boring, this was about 15 years ago, b/c of my job as a writer. I was making about $80K a year at that time and she had no idea. She dropped out of college b/c she got pregnant by some knucklehead. Now I do well financially but I'm not rich. I dont front. However, this bitch figured b/c I had a brain and used it that made me boring. Now she wants me. I flaunt my snowbird just to piss her off. Fuck that ho
Vergadoce 7 months ago
@Vergadoce Yea man, I have said this before. The same women that thought I was too nice, boring, lame back in the day are the same ones hitting my up on facebook talking about how fine I am now. What they see now is a man with a good job and doing well for him self that can help her fat ass raise their kids.
southboy99 7 months ago
@southboy99 sellout
sittingbull706 6 months ago
@sittingbull706 Sellout? The dumb ass nigga that sells drugs to his own people is the fucking sellout.
southboy99 6 months ago
@southboy99 U know damn well black ppl are not growing the cocaine or heroin. White ppl bring drugs into this country by the TONS but u wanna blame the nickle and dime punk on the corner. Bitch plz, u are THE sellout. Why the fuck would u wanna race mix and give your children some tainted blood ? What race will your children belong to ? BLACK PPL ARE SUPERIOR !!! We ruled the world for THOUSANDS of years these pussy ass whites just started ruling it 500 yrs ago
sittingbull706 6 months ago
@sittingbull706 Bitch get the fuck out of here. Nobody is putting a gun to these ignorant asses heads to sell that shit. Tainted Blood? Dumb Nigga! Are you 100% African? FUCK NO. I'm pround to be black. But Black people don't even own shit in Africa.
southboy99 6 months ago
@sittingbull706 Someone once said that "if black men and women knew who they were, you could'nt find a ghetto in America".
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
@TheAmbassador11 Damn right. We would change all this mess OVERNIGHT
sittingbull706 2 months ago
@Vergadoce WtTF. dont u know that with 50% of blk men in prison that leaves u with an ENORMOUS selection of blk women who will FIGHT other women to be with BLACK man such as yourself ? But u wanna pass all that up for a sharp nose no lip flat ass white she devil cave bitch. Nigga u a pussya ass sellout
sittingbull706 6 months ago
@sittingbull706 Nothing wrong w/a sharp nose, no stretch mark and beer belly on a bitch. Oh, and that "flat ass" remark about white bitches no longer applies. Today's white hoes fatter than a muthaufkka. Get outta the 1970s nigga. You can go grab you a nappy head who dont go to the gym and will be the size of a clydesdale by the time she's 40. I'll keep my snowbird. Plus, they know when to STFU and only speak when spoken to. Hatin ass nigga. Dont be made you got a nappy head. Cross ove,r nigga
Vergadoce 6 months ago
@Vergadoce Fuck that im not a race TRAITOR. I got enough sense to know that white ppl are the enemy. What u r doin is 100% selfish,ignorant,and disgusting. A FEW of them grew a ass SO GODDAMN WHAT !!! Use her for sex then go home to a fine black queen that is submissive. THERE IS PLENTY OF THEM OUT THERE U DAMN FOOL. Watch the videos on my favorites and wake the fuck up
sittingbull706 6 months ago
@sittingbull706 A traitor? LOOOOOL. You've been brainwashed by the Soul Patrol. Niggas like you hate on snowbirds and supposedly all about the community, but slang dope on the corner. I know yo kind. I aint got time for no loudmouth black bitch. Watch Basketball Wives. Nothing but ignorant ghetto trash. You can have em. You cant take them nowhere. Plus you can have all that hairweave and blue contact shit. You like them black bitches, but they spend all they time trying to look white. LOL
Vergadoce 6 months ago
@sittingbull706 As of 2010 there was aprox 846,000 black males incarcerated in State or Federal Prisons. There is aprox 15 million black men living in the USA. If my math is correct then there is aprox 6% of black males locked up.
DeadSleepers 6 months ago
@DeadSleepers 6% ? BULLSHIT !!! i know i was exagerating saying 50 % of blk men are in prison butU and i both know that with soooooooooooooooo many blk men in prison, with white women, and turning gay or dead we are fucking doomed if we dont get it together RIGHT NOW
sittingbull706 6 months ago
@DeadSleepers
15 million...does that include all males (children)
sansez 6 months ago
Its sad man...a lot of them hold degrees and high positions..its insanity..but it is what it is..low self esteem is no joke...
Keep doing your thang!! I was always the "cool breeze"..
unique74muzik 9 months ago
Oh yeah??? See my video... This is a decent brotha rightcheah!!!
"Jethronius Project" Or see my channel.
If this brothas not for you, than youre done!!!!
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liznshauny 10 months ago
@liznshauny Send me your digits. I'll bust that thang out. Also, send me some pics. Preferrably nude
Vergadoce 7 months ago
@tObYStryker You are so right dude. You should make a video about this subject too.
kltiswhoib 10 months ago
I don't believe this, I'm officially convinced that all of them just want to date trash and whine about the fucked up results of it forever. Doesn't make no goddamn sense to me. What's the point in trying to chase a speeding bullet forever? Fucking pointless.
kltiswhoib 10 months ago
2:00 HOLY MONKEY SHAT!!! O MY FAUKING DAM!!!
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entertainmentvalues2 11 months ago
I think you missed it with the 2 extremes. Steve Erkle is fine for one extreme, but the other extreme would be more like Jim Brown, not Ike Turner. U r right; women don't find Erkle attractive at all, but few women would find Ike attractive either. To be opposite ends of the spectrum, the 2 extremes must be opposites. These guys r not opposites. They r both physycally unattractive. Jim Brown was a physical specimen & abusive to women; so he is the other end of the spectrum..
dienglee 11 months ago
i only came here cuz i thought the video was about half neckit hoes
tjcco2005 11 months ago
I DONT GET WHY PPL BASH ONLY BLACK WOMEN FOR LIKING THUGS WOMEN OF ALL RACES LOVEEEEEEEE BAD BOYS ITS WHAT ATTRACTIVE
WE DONT BASH MEN FOR LIKING EXOTIC WOMEN...BECAUSE THATS WHAT ATTRACTIVE FOR A GIRL STFU NOW
THUGS WILL ALWAYS BE IN SORRY TO SAY.
h0llywh0 1 year ago
@h0llywh0 thats why black women are the worst because you like thugs ilogical stupid bitches
mottopower4250 11 months ago
@h0llywh0 Poor dumb girl...Exotic women don't beat men. They don't choke em to death or abuse the men. When woman goes for a THUG, she puts herself in jeopardy for all that shit. If you like being degraded, physically abused and having to bail these niggas outta jail, have at it. If you don't see why your thinking is fucked up, you're too fuckin stupid to convince otherwise and deserve whatever misery you get
Vergadoce 7 months ago
RYAN LESLIE :D hes smart, artisticly gifted, and a gentlemen :) my kind of man
650Pisces 1 year ago
I DONT LIKE THUGS!!!!!!! or MACHOS uggggh
650Pisces 1 year ago
This is a great video. Very intelligently presented and this brother is well versed o the subject matter.
goscott2 1 year ago
This gay ass nigger hatin' on real nagas
Ciderhouseproducts 1 year ago
Good vids. But whats the difference between guys liking the women like in the video vs. girls liking thugs. the women portrayed in the video are half naked and not representing themselves well but guys fall for them and then feels like every other woman is a hoe.
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kay19833 1 year ago
Damn right. We don't say anything when they go out and date white men. Why do they raise such hell when black men do the same thing?
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jamyacollins 1 year ago
Part 2 has like 40000 more views than part one lolwtf
eyeonwashparish 1 year ago 2
@eyeonwashparish That's because it's not the first time I uploaded part one. When I first uploaded part one there was a "flag war" going on on You Tube. They flagged part one until You Tube banned it. So I had to upload it again and the number of views started over again at zero.
Overall, if you count the views from the first time I uploaded part one, all three vids have gotten about the same amount of views.
JunebugObama 1 year ago 2
@boywunder1 Talking some sense to a BW is like trying to slam a revolving door
gemini19662010 1 year ago
@gemini19662010 lol
TheAmbassador11 2 months ago
Mike Tyson is a violent-looking motherfucker! He's a gangsta-killa-lookin' motherfucker!
amazinero 1 year ago
LOL Urkel was my hero growing up!! It's true it's just tough to in the center of this scale because of certain other factors like geography, demographics, whatever. Good series of vids tho, super helpful!
davesqueakywheels 1 year ago
i truely appreciate your efforts, this is an up hill road, we got so much work 2 do, God help us!
ememy24 1 year ago
Cont...
Like your corporate friend. You said that he was and acted like a corporate dude allday and wearing suits and stuff on the regular right?
Again, "IMAGE".
Females were most probably attracted to him because of his potential (money/career wise) because of that.
Again, females are dumb but they ain't that dumb. They know all that "smooth", "game" stuff.
You telling me if the biggest geek in the world acted smooth he'd get all the dime ladies? LOL cmon.
Again "IMAGE".
DeezNuutz10 1 year ago
I understand you using Denzel as an example but this is kinda wrong.
When J.Foxx, Denzel & Halle did a photoshoot, Denzel literally became "Urkel" when trying to flirt with Halle, and as a married man at that. Dude came off as a straight lame.
Again i understand the point, but what im saying is ppl get fooled so much by the image of muthafuckas. Just cuz Denzel is smooth in movies/interviews don't mean he REALLY smooth.
Same goes for ur friends. Ur story about them had holes.
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1redgentleman 1 year ago
The problem is that they are creating more trouble and foolishness in our community by having kids with these thuggish brothas. What real man does not want to father his children? The is getting ridiculous. Young men will often become what they see, put a Productive Brother in your house and you will likely produce a productive son who will become a productive black man. Stop having children while unmarried on purpose. This is creating chaos in our communities and the boys are lost..
1redgentleman 1 year ago
You are absolutlely right, man. I don't know why far too many young black women make excuses for dating thugs and say they don't want a nerd or they don't want a soft ass man. Those are the EXTREMES, there are plenty of productive masculine black men are out here that are smooth, have swagger, educated and cool, and so forth, and are not thugs or nerds. The thing is that these particular black women are getting the mistreatment that they "like" by dealing with these unproductive thugs.
1redgentleman 1 year ago
@1redgentleman BW will pass up 12 nice guys for 1 thug
gemini19662010 1 year ago
some good stuff!
super9964 1 year ago
lol S Urkel ftw
darpachief 1 year ago
@openmindedfemme Men of other races don't have black mother's who got fucked by idiots! Most other races grow up in stable homes and are not the product of broken homes! Stop being a cunt and take responsibility for what your mother and grandmother allowed to happen! Nobody forced them to get impregnated by Bobby Brown they chose to do so and their son was forced to get through life with no one to guide him! Get fucked black whore
0alstonw0 1 year ago
ops mispelt i ment urkel not urkle hah >.<
jacoblover38 1 year ago
:O i like steve urkle :} hah hes awsome i watch it like everday he may be a nerd but hes soooo nice lol i want random jewlery like he gives lol
jacoblover38 1 year ago
Well, Hip-hop is a strong factor in the ghetto, it manipulates lower-class black people into thinking that the word "Nigga" means black man, and the word "Hoe" means a good looking black woman which is not true. It overall comes down to the word CHOICE, good, or bad, its your life. And despite your choice, you are going to have to live with the consequences...
lionied2 1 year ago 2
You hit it right on the money that is "most women” are the White, Asian, Hispanic etc..... would find men in the middle attractive, unfortunately the Black women do not fit " Most Women" Black women are CRAZZZYYYYYYYYYYY
Gluluman 1 year ago 2
@Gluluman @1redgentleman BW will pass up 12 nice guys for 1 thug
gemini19662010 1 year ago 3
wow, at least we can agree that there are so many beautiful women in the world. i do see that women go for the jerk types. sure they go almost always toward ike turners, but there r other factors. things that would attract men, i would go into detail, but not my vid. for ex. women go BEJABBERS 4 a nice chiseled body and sense of security from power that allows women 2 put up with lots of stuff . vid was funny, but not really informative.
shazzaforeverthabest 1 year ago
@tObYStryker Exactly right!
thuglifegreg24 1 year ago
I grew out of the whole thug thing when I turned 16.
CurveAngel 1 year ago
I don't like the Urkel image, ofcourse that's a sign of a pitiful black man
letting women walk over him. And yes we got the thug which is very
abusive towards black women like the triglodytes was the cavemen in
the day, its closer to the caveman image than Urkel.
BigHRD2 1 year ago
I am a black woman and I dont want a thug. They cannot respect a women and thinks of women as bitches and hoes and sluts. I dont know why some black women want to day thugs.. I dont want a man who thinks that beating a woman is love. Thats not the life.
bRoWn3y3dGuRl17 1 year ago 8
in that scale what ages of women are u talkin about would find denzel the best
SmallSteps3000 1 year ago
@SmallSteps3000 35 to 45
southboy99 1 year ago
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alot of them guys who talk about women are sexually frustrated and are PUSSY BEGGERS lol
blackPowerStick 1 year ago
thugs are wack its 2010 no job dropout freaking everybody in the hood aid infected and stdin it out is not what is up and 5 or 6 baby mamas you gotta be a simple bitch to call dat love
Brittanymoore1000 1 year ago
When I was ages 11-14, I loved thugs-then I grew out of it. Who wants someone who beats you, calls you a bitch, can't speak proper english, and who's future is either in the grave or in prison, getting smashed in the booty all day? Please! Some people need to escape the matrix.
GataAgressiva411 1 year ago 10
@GataAgressiva411 I'm glad that you grew out of it early. You were very smart.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@GataAgressiva411 Thank God that you woke up before it's too late
gemini19662010 1 year ago
@GataAgressiva411 amen 2 that!
DuAnEXaVieR1 1 year ago
the real fact is..nice guys hardly ever notice a nice, good woman..they always get caught up with no good dirty females that take all their money, have babies by their best friends, divorce them and take all their damn money..when a black man does get a good woman, he shyts on her.....so its not all on the black woman...people in general are just attracted to what they don't need...it takes evolving to thim..not to speak illof the dead, but he had a very evil look in his eyes....jus saying.
Machelle3200 1 year ago
@tObYStryker
Hell, I haven't had any women approach me, don't know why. I still got college years after I finish high school this year, I'll see what happens there.
HybridD91 1 year ago
It's funny how rappers claim to be thugs lol.
HybridD91 1 year ago
do yu have a girl?
sexyht312 2 years ago
Keep on being nice don't change for them
and I never complain about them dating thugs
if that's what they gonna do. They gonna do
whatever, because they are thug bitches themselves so that's what the connection come from.
BigHRD2 2 years ago
@BigHRD2: Well said. At the end of the day, like attracts like. As long as you're confident, you'll be OK with women.
inphanta 1 year ago
True, that's why brothers need to look for
church sistas. Somebody who has God in
their life.
BigHRD2 2 years ago
My little 8yo nephew recently changed his name to Stephan Urkelle (Ya know Steve's cool alter ego).Guess even the kids feel it huh.
thegreatcratesofsoul 2 years ago
I think most black women's perception of masculinity is a bit jaded.
infamouszoe305 2 years ago
SHOO I'M GLAD I'M DATING A RESPECTFUL MAN. Yes I dated a thug once and I didn't like it, i felt i could hang on to him told him he was doing the wrong things, he was like duhhh-uhhh in a dumb state of mind, after when i left his azz. he realized what he had, a woman that told him he was doing wrong in his ways, called me about three years later and said, you were right.. now he works for one of the Best 100 Companies in the world. It takes the WORDS OF TRUTH to heal someone. for real
ForgiveableDalana 2 years ago
To answer this simple question BLAME THE MEDIA! Quit watching the rap videos and quit listening to these wack ass rappers talk about the same shit money cars hoes keeping listening and you WILL be under mind control. Its called programming!
TrillCoop 2 years ago 2
ok.. umm.. u said no girl would really turn down a will smith type of dude.. pepa from salt n pepa wrote a book.. she said will smith won a grammy and was courting pep at the time.. this dude was successful and interested in pep.. pep TURNED HIM DOWN and went for TREACH who beat the shit out of her.. don't believe me? READ HER BOOK!!!
videoshirt 2 years ago 5
I am aware of her book and the story. Pepa falls into the category of woman that I discussed in part one. She initially wants a bad boy type, but later, (after she has gotten older and less desirable) she wants to change and get a "good man".
There is no cure all to keep a man from never getting rejected. You are not going to go through life and not encounter a "Pepa" at some point.
Listen to what I said starting at 1:55. The Pepas of the world aren't worth your time and energy anyway.
JunebugObama 2 years ago 6
@JunebugObama bro, i am 35 and have been married for the past 10years. you have hit the nail right on the head. you can not convince a pear its an orange. no mattter what your logic is!! unfortunately most males have to dig thew the dirt before we find our flower, but they are there!!! keep encouraging the young brothers.. excellent video ... excellent, excellent ...
TheSaleschamp12000 1 year ago
@JunebugObama Seems like we all run into a Pepa everyday lol.
southboy99 1 year ago
@JunebugObama Time & gravity are a woman's worst enemy
gemini19662010 1 year ago
@videoshirt OK? Thats PEPA!
CurveAngel 1 year ago
@CurveAngel dnt reply to me i wasn't even talking to u.. and dnt say anything else to me either cuz if u do i'm not gnna read it.. how r u gnna try to talk bad about my comment i was conducting relevant discussion.. plus that was months ago.. smh
videoshirt 1 year ago
@videoshirt And? It's meant for you to read. And if you can make a public comment here on youtube, then I have a right to comment on how I feel about it HELLO!
And it doesnt matter when you made that comment, it's still on the font page! Last time I checked, there was'nt any kind of time limit or deadline to respond. Why so offensive?
CurveAngel 1 year ago
@videoshirt
Also, fundamentally Pepa and Smith were on a similar level: celebrity status.
That's a key difference and point.
Appeal to status enhancement in most every case and your odds increase.
OniNoFro 1 year ago
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slickkapone 2 years ago
A part of it also has to do with the media promoting (to women) the idea that the "bad boy" is sexy. Some of us are socialized to be attracted to certain types.
JunebugObama 2 years ago 2
LOL Junebug sound like Eddie Murphy
11966ericp 2 years ago
Blair Underwood, Denzel Washington, and Will Smith are Not Your Average Everyday Guy! Can you explain this a little better?
southboy99 2 years ago
Listen to all three parts of the series carefully...I do explain in more detail. Also, stay tuned to my channel because I am working on a series that will go into more specifics.
JunebugObama 2 years ago
If not, well...., fuck ya anyway. And I aint got a bit of hate. I dont like when people introduce new negative words to me.I feel Im being corrupted. Haters... words like that. Im trying to get my shit right. I dont know most people well enough to hate them. I dont even have the capicity to care. Im trying to avoid the bing.
1cambiamos 2 years ago
Its okay though, Im strong as fuck. Put the blame on me. Yea Im that thug. But I dont disrespect women. Who has time for that shit? I got packs to move off. Women, yea ... that would be something. If I knew what to say.... like I give a fuck anyway. Maybe I will meet some people who wont treat me like an inmate.
1cambiamos 2 years ago
Why do people always try to convince me that they are not snitches? When I know damn well that most people are snitches. Sure. Just start bashing someone over the fuckin head for trying you and they will be callin da police.
1cambiamos 2 years ago
Sometimes I try to dress decent in a suit or sportcoat or something. That just pisses people off. "Why you all dressed up nigga?" "Nigga please you a thug." "What the hell do you think you are? A lawyer?"
1cambiamos 2 years ago
Today is another day I realize that Im a thug. People look at me in that "way" as to say "I wonder what he does for a living". I dont act like a disrespectful thug but people feel comfortable treating me that way. Im tired of people thinking I want some weed to smoke. Im tired of people having something to say about me wearing shades.( The shades are polarized for fishing) but that doesent matter. According to them Im trying to be somebody Im not.
1cambiamos 2 years ago
Black women tend to like those type of black men. Selling crack on the corner, in and out of jail. Black women know they love the thugs, that's why those men act like that.
southboy99 2 years ago
Man, your doing the right thing. Black women treat me the same way. But I get love from spanish and white women for some reason. Don't worry. These same black women will want you when they reach 35-40. But by then they will have hella kids, have a shit load of weight, and probably have some type of STD. So your good man. Never look back.
southboy99 2 years ago
Does race really even matter their is an entire world of people to meet. Different languages, skin textures, passion, physical features. People are so bounded by their environments. Secondly, 1 corinthians chp 13 discusses God's definition of love, and the average person doesn't know this. We develop our own love from previous relations and our past, and that is why the divorce rate is soring.....Love conquers all....We as people have lost the true essence of Love....God. Our creator...
aaronwilliams0 2 years ago
@tObYStryker change ur circle & keep the hood rats out of your vicinity. it will only bring disappointment, resentment, and confusion. instead do what i do, surround yourself with positive black people. You'd be surprised how much love you'd get from a group of educated successful Black women who are MATURE... im currently in a PhD program, and quite frankly, we need more men like you around. i couldnt find a "corny" BM here to save my life, unfortunately. where r u, tobystryker? lol! good luck.
coconisha85 2 years ago
What's funny is that the women that I used to talk to wasn't feeling me because they said I wasn't a thug...Today I can see those same women, and they're trying to throw the pussy at me...Needless to say that I couldn't take them up on their offer. Even if it's "grudge sex"...lol
keepthapinit 2 years ago
I swear to God. I knew of a woman who told me that she was attracted to men who been in jail, or are currently in jail and love dating those guys. Stupid woman. Do you think I'd get myself thrown in jail just for her to accept me? Pfffttt!!! LOL No.
Boogers4dinner 2 years ago 3
These stupid sistas who choose to pimp her self out,don't bother to save those coons and the brothas who choose to do it,leave them alone too.I rather deal with the ones who want to the help and motherfuck these coons who choos to sell they're souls to the Devil of Amerikkka.
mightyblack1 2 years ago
the fact is not all black women like thugs. only lower class ghetto type black women like thugs. the reason I say lower class is because most black women that choose to have a ghetto mentality never push themselves to the limit to see pass ghetto life and stop dating thugs. upper class black women are the ones that aren't ghetto and have a independent leadership mentality. these type of black women date college educated men
HealthFoodSource 2 years ago 9
@HealthFoodSource Word..that's just a big azz myth...i don't date thugs.neither do any of my girlfriends and the type of women i've associated with......i can't stand men who drink too much, do drugs, watch a lot of porn, and wear their drawers as outerwear.....i think most intelligent black women just want hardworking,intelligent, loving and GOD fearing men....and that kind of man doesn't necessarily have a big bank either..but real women don't care about that either....
Machelle3200 1 year ago
@HealthFoodSource Where do most of the black women in the US come from? The Ghetto.
southboy99 1 year ago
@HealthFoodSource you seriously have no idea what you are talking about
bird1917 1 year ago
what the fuck do yall mean about thug??? its gansta niggaz and thug niggaz in the blck community. its a difference between two
jazziejay0918 2 years ago
Who gives a shit, They're both Negative
Mkpier20 2 years ago
for some women that thug shit is just a phase, when a woman figures out what a real man is they look for something better, but thanks for being so respectful, and not putting black women down like some of these other black men
deebaby3d 2 years ago 3
@deebaby3d Yeah, and they go to the black nerdy guys after the bad boys banged em in bed over the years. Now the pretty woman throws the nerdy boy a bone like.."I'm ready to have a good man now." They still fantasize about those bad guys in their past still even when they settled for the nerdy boy after all the bad boys. If I were the nerdy boy, I wouldn't date her at all, she used you only after years of being tired of the bad boy. Women are cold natured.
Boogers4dinner 2 years ago 2
im from nyc and if u dont have atleast 2 felonies its hard to get a date
tristensfather 2 years ago