Raise Your Self Esteem www.practicalhappiness.com

[SuperVegito9000]

I've Got Acne, And It Won't Go Away? What To DO Now? WHen I Can't Change It,

[tatu835]

So easy and so true!!! Thanx

[rashadheat3]

this guy is a genius. wow everything he said is true

[noobman50]

why didnt i watch these videos years ago??

[Shitnames]

Active change is the most important thing, when you feel unhappy.

But: Dont wait till "tomorrow". Change your problem RIGHT NOW!

[DhaItalianStallion]

I ve got a question. What if we get attracted to a girl out of Sympathy.Firstly How do we tell the truth to her .

Secondly,Do I tell her that I knew that she was atracted to me and it was only recently that I got attracted too her. It would be a lie to tell her that I got attracted to her and then after that she got attracted to me.

[ParkParkParkPark]

THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED.

[thefrenchdrop]

dude you are a guru!! where did you learn this stuff!?

[tekkenmaster600]

I pretty much have the same problem as Allstar1387:

I am good looking, tall, strong, smart and I have a good personality, but even with all of that I still seek aprooval from others...it really makes my life suck! I'm sure that's a thing from my childhood but I can't get ride of that feeling that's "closing" my personality...can you give me some advice? thanks in advance!

[gdavies4]

hmmm... il be needing a new chin then

[BIBIdeathnote]

that is JUST what i was thinking.

[truthprincesss]

i enjoyed this, thank you so much ;) im nicolette, im sixteen and your words helped sooth my soul!

[Allstar1387]

I am good looking, tall, slim, I have a super car, lots of money but I seek aprooval from others...it really makes my life suck! I'm sure that's a thing from my childhood but I can't get ride of that feeling that's "closing" my personality...can you give me some advice? thanks in advance!

[CyBoi]

Well its not easy to get of rejection, espcially if you were getting embrassed for

most of your life. But thanks cuz your videos

inspire me to even try

[HarrySackthatsme]

1 im ugly

2 im a nerd

3 i have no life

[RomulusGraphix]

I'm good looking and can talk to women. I have a great personality but I can't seem to get pass being just a good company instead of a lover. What I'm I doing wrong. How do I get them to be intimate.

[arkady39]

Google "avoiding friends zone" to read my article on this issue.

[Siatistian]

What authority, exactly, do you base your "one size fits all" claims about women and relationships? Your profile says that you are an attorney--let me ask you this: do attorney's ever claim anything without a reliable authority? I think not, and there is a good reason for that. I think you are potentially misleading many people. My own advice to the guy above is this. Analyze your own situation to your unique facts and circumstances; don't rely on snake oil salesmen!

[Siatistian]

What authority, exactly, do you base your "one size fits all" claims about women and relationships? Your profile says that you are an attorney--let me ask you this: do attorney's ever claim anything without a reliable authority? I think not, and there is a good reason for that. I think you are potentially misleading many people. My own advice to the guy above is this. Analyze your own situation to your unique facts and circumstances; don't rely on snake oil salesmen!

[tilorb]

yeah im kinda in the same boat myself

[MichaelAgee]

hmm.. that was cool. I like him.

[3474515]

not many men ask me out Arkady, I know I am quite good looking, sociable, intelligent and a person with depth. I think maybe I should talk less, what do you think? I love talking but maybe that could irritate men.

[arkady39]

Indeed, talking to much can be irritating (to both men and women) but the much more likely reason is that you are not approachable and that guys are intimidated by you and the "vibe" that you are giving. Did you ever consider that?

[timossun]

yeah, i myself for sample would like that my girlfriend talks more... she is more the quiet person. but i don't care about that as long as i know that we can talk from time to time about things that bother us on eachother. and we can talk about it openly and free. that's what i really love on her.

[phatso420]

I've noticed that nobody has advice for people who are shy. They never try to help people overcome their shyness. They never even give tips. It's not always about your appearance or how you do things. It's mostly about your state of mind, your thoughts, your feelings, psychological things. For both women and men. (mostly women) hahahaha

[tilorb]

you just learn to work with it and its a part of you.

[SilverSurfer3o]

What if you don't like the way you look (face wise) and your voice sounds terrible? the worst 1-2 punch. I've been noticing when i talk and my recording dont sound the same. i recorded my voice for playback and it's so different meaning terrible... now im starting to hate my hearing. i've been single for 3 years now. HELP !!!

[arkady39]

Interesting. Everyone sounds different from what they think they do. Once you get used to it, you will not notice it anymore.

[bjarte3011]

As long as you've got your grooming and clothes together, you don't have to be good looking to attract women. Just follow Arkady's advice. Improve your style of clothing, and if you really think your voice is that bad, then do something about it. Go to a speech therapist and get some professional advice on how to use your voice. Good luck man!

[RLove99]

they say you should accept what you can't change, and change what you can't accept. but what if something you can't change is also something you can't accept? what then?

[arkady39]

You should accept it anyone and move on since not accepting it doesn't do any good.

[youfreako]

Can u b my counsellor? In 2 mins you gave more immediate, practical advice than I've ever gotten from any Psych.

[Zae180]

thx 4 another great teaching.

[arkady39]

My pleasure!

[Samichichan]

these are so helpful! Thank you so much for posting

[arkady39]

Thanks a lot.

[BeatBuddy]

I believe in focusing on the things I DO love about myself. I'm not a braggart. However, my attitude transforms into body language. Because of the way I carry myself, I'm repeatedly called arrogant and conceited. Let them think it.

[MichaelsRandomVlogs]

i understand what you mean, but i cant change what im not confident about

[arkady39]

Yes you can. It takes more than one tip or a trick - it's a process just like gaining any other skill - it takes work and a bit of patience but those efforts are well worth it.

Thanks.

[arkady39]

I believe you can. You just need real reasons to become confident. Surely trying to act confident about things you aren't like some suggest isn't going to help, but if you work on improving those aspects of your life / personality that cause that insecurity, it will go away and will be replaced with confidence.

[MichaelsRandomVlogs]

but i still dont understand how i can get my voice to go away

[arkady39]

I am sorry. I don't quite understand - what is wrong with your voice?

[MichaelsRandomVlogs]

i just dont like it but its breaking now so it don't matter, thanks :)

[vinababygirl]

i love your accent, and you're a great speaker.

[greekfrk21]

loved it!

thank you..