I know exactly how you feel, except I'm the one that called break...
We've been together for over three years, but things are getting stale. Very stale. It hurts so badly, but I feel like it's for the best. And now I'm afraid of "the unknown". I know him well, but it still worries me. It's all so very confusing... I don't know if this break is a good idea or not. I've never taken one before. =/
This business about "Just go ahead and play vid games " (=don't focus on me) I enjoy watching you" (=I'll just put up with it)is probably a LIE, speaks of weak ego, which you naively misread as "fascination with you". I say it's a kind of very subtle passive aggression, and your complicity with it likely will doom /has doomed your relationship.
Im on a break right now.....and idk if it will work im scared she will find some other guy thats way better then me even tho she said im the best and she could never stop loving me but...heres the thing i asked her about the break cause we fight all the time anymore
Well shit. Not every situation is the same but my girl's been taking a break from me for the past month. Pretty much the same besides the age and gap. We're supposed to get back together in a few days when school starts again, and I have zero friends so this Summer's been rough with nothing to do and thinking about it everyday. She took the break because she's got tons of shit in her life (enough shit to almost justify a suicide). It came out of the blue to me and I love her. I'm worried.
I'm currently on a 3 week break as well dude, 1 more week and I'll let you know how it went. I have heard both positive and negative things about breaks so it ends up depending on the person/couple. I wish you the best of luck and if she truly loves you, then she'll be back.
I'm in the middle of a break right now that my girlfriend decided on. I hope that it works out but I think it isn't because she is treating me as if I wasn't even her friend.
my gf is considering this and i was hoping someone here could give some advice on whether or not a break is good. personally i dont think it will work in favor of the relationship mainly because girls will have an easier time than guys will when it comes to trying to find willing partners for both hooking up, and relationships. guys kind of have the short end of the stick as far as im concerned.
Hello---- thank you SO MUCH for this video. I'm considering going on a break with my boyfriend because he had mentioned it a little while ago, I feel that he needs a bit of freedom (being 18) and it would probably be a good thing for both of us to remove ourselves from each other for a few months.
Regrettably Im' a bit late in replying but I was wondering how your break went? Are there any tips you could pass on? I'm so worried this will ruin us. Please message me, thank you so much \:
I think it really depends on each case, but in yours I think she just needs a vacation. Relationships are a lot of effort. Even people who love their job need a vacation sometimes. Best of luck to you both!
I hear ya man, and I understand exactly how you feel. I'm going through a 'break' with my girlfriend right now as well. We're both 18, been together for a year and 5M (LDR), and not being together is starting to take its toll. A few days ago, she wanted to take a break. It's kind of weird how our situations are almost exact. Hit me up with a PM and maybe we can chat via MSN or something. I'm always open to discuss things like this, especially when our situations are pretty much the same.
Oh man, I was in the EXACT same position as you 2 years ago (we were both 18). I'd much rather talk one on one with you about this because I have rather a lot to say on the issue.
I have been in a similar position and the feelings were just as strong (he was 27 & i was 18 @ the time) the thing with him being a male is that he went & had a child and that girl is sprung but he still has feelings and i try to say that he can not have both. its hard but i think that from what u have said in your video that u are sweet & she did mean what she said, & 4 a while even if she meets another guy, u will always be in the back of her mind &she will always compare them to you.
Dude i am in the exact situation you are in except i have more hair on my head than my chin. It sucks man
HannahMantana69 6 months ago
nope u got dumped sorry
WolfLantern1 11 months ago
@WolfLantern1 about 4 years late but yeah, I did
emeyerls12 10 months ago
I know exactly how you feel, except I'm the one that called break...
We've been together for over three years, but things are getting stale. Very stale. It hurts so badly, but I feel like it's for the best. And now I'm afraid of "the unknown". I know him well, but it still worries me. It's all so very confusing... I don't know if this break is a good idea or not. I've never taken one before. =/
misfitdoll23 1 year ago
This business about "Just go ahead and play vid games " (=don't focus on me) I enjoy watching you" (=I'll just put up with it)is probably a LIE, speaks of weak ego, which you naively misread as "fascination with you". I say it's a kind of very subtle passive aggression, and your complicity with it likely will doom /has doomed your relationship.
gabsylv 2 years ago
Im on a break right now.....and idk if it will work im scared she will find some other guy thats way better then me even tho she said im the best and she could never stop loving me but...heres the thing i asked her about the break cause we fight all the time anymore
goldensilent 2 years ago
@goldensilent Man I'm going through the same thing. I have no idea what the hell to do.
20lonewolf 1 year ago
my Gf...i mean Ex Gf =( loved watch and playing guitar hero and call of duty....
goldensilent 2 years ago
u need to get that thing off your fucking face man
Livelife417 3 years ago 2
yea man im goin thru da same thang..acutally im bout to ask her if take a break can we den work on the goal to become a couple again.
bamllih 3 years ago
Well shit. Not every situation is the same but my girl's been taking a break from me for the past month. Pretty much the same besides the age and gap. We're supposed to get back together in a few days when school starts again, and I have zero friends so this Summer's been rough with nothing to do and thinking about it everyday. She took the break because she's got tons of shit in her life (enough shit to almost justify a suicide). It came out of the blue to me and I love her. I'm worried.
willis936 3 years ago
Bro. I'm in the same predicament and i wanna kno how ur break went. advice, tips, anything. But from your vid im gunna guess it went well.
Thengaul 3 years ago
I'm currently on a 3 week break as well dude, 1 more week and I'll let you know how it went. I have heard both positive and negative things about breaks so it ends up depending on the person/couple. I wish you the best of luck and if she truly loves you, then she'll be back.
Gusma07 3 years ago
I'm in the middle of a break right now that my girlfriend decided on. I hope that it works out but I think it isn't because she is treating me as if I wasn't even her friend.
unlucky1353 3 years ago
my gf is considering this and i was hoping someone here could give some advice on whether or not a break is good. personally i dont think it will work in favor of the relationship mainly because girls will have an easier time than guys will when it comes to trying to find willing partners for both hooking up, and relationships. guys kind of have the short end of the stick as far as im concerned.
boojwahz 3 years ago
yea i know fuck our lives haha
FelixLopez 2 years ago
Hello---- thank you SO MUCH for this video. I'm considering going on a break with my boyfriend because he had mentioned it a little while ago, I feel that he needs a bit of freedom (being 18) and it would probably be a good thing for both of us to remove ourselves from each other for a few months.
Regrettably Im' a bit late in replying but I was wondering how your break went? Are there any tips you could pass on? I'm so worried this will ruin us. Please message me, thank you so much \:
melieemoo 4 years ago
I think it really depends on each case, but in yours I think she just needs a vacation. Relationships are a lot of effort. Even people who love their job need a vacation sometimes. Best of luck to you both!
KittysFeet 4 years ago
I hear ya man, and I understand exactly how you feel. I'm going through a 'break' with my girlfriend right now as well. We're both 18, been together for a year and 5M (LDR), and not being together is starting to take its toll. A few days ago, she wanted to take a break. It's kind of weird how our situations are almost exact. Hit me up with a PM and maybe we can chat via MSN or something. I'm always open to discuss things like this, especially when our situations are pretty much the same.
NightHawk871 4 years ago
Oh man, I was in the EXACT same position as you 2 years ago (we were both 18). I'd much rather talk one on one with you about this because I have rather a lot to say on the issue.
neoinvasion 4 years ago
Guitar hero!
Pennys1 4 years ago
I have been in a similar position and the feelings were just as strong (he was 27 & i was 18 @ the time) the thing with him being a male is that he went & had a child and that girl is sprung but he still has feelings and i try to say that he can not have both. its hard but i think that from what u have said in your video that u are sweet & she did mean what she said, & 4 a while even if she meets another guy, u will always be in the back of her mind &she will always compare them to you.
stephanieh2004 4 years ago