Tyra Banks indirectly exposes the-super-single mother beleif

[MrFuckyoubitch69]

Men lie, women lie, numbers don't. Children raised by single mothers become adults who are worse off than children raised by both parents, or a single father. Check the stats if u don't believe.

[JediWitness]

I don't think I EVER saw any shows about a single FATHER that was having trouble, couldn't handle it, etc..I wonder why??!

Even the courts have realized starting years ago that when they give the kids to the fathers the child fares MUCH better than with single mothers because the children, even the daughters, just laugh when the mother yells..but when the dad just changes his voice a little bit...the kid run in terror and do what they should. But it's all about "men being disposable" Bullcrap.

[OpenERP1]

emales have ready access to all forms of contraception. They can take the contraceptive pill. They can take the morning-after pill. They can don the diaphragm. They can insist on condoms. They can use spermicide. They can have abortions. And they can refrain from having sex.

[patriciacarrasco]

this is all a vicious circle and mostly unconscious. if ure raised by a single mother u probably will be a single mother unless you say to urself VERY early on in life and make a conscious decision that u will not allow urself to be like this. its almost like a curse. its similar to alcoholism, its a disease supposedly and if ur parent was an alcoholic..u probably will be one too if u dont intervene in time.

[nesia9]

Hey pinkelephant, I don't know if you've been under a rock, but most single moms never opted to be a single mom. You asked where are the fathers, they decided to leave. And since they decided to leave, then whats wrong with a women decided she can do alone hell because she has no choice!

[pinkkelephant]

@nesia9

Here we go again. The fact that a man should be a man does not remove responsibility from women making better choices. If i complained about a women doing me wrong and said a women should still be a women you would still tell me that u should of made a better choice. A women being a women does not remove the fact that a man needs to be wise in who he decides to be with especially sleep with and have kids with. God Bless.

[MsNicolT]

Women dont want to do it alone, but we have to because the fathers are gone ... so no, its not better to do it alone, but if you have to then YES it can and has been done... I have never heard a single mother glamourize anything! however, I have heard them testify and encourage other woman in the same situation to stay strong... thats what its all about you incompassionate idiots

[mrshutter77]

The reason why single motherhood is so glorified in the media today is because Feminists & gay lesbian supremacists have a huge foothold in the media & they are pushing this idea of single motherhood--because they know as more & more kids get raised in a single mother household or lesbian couple household-- they will be more homos & lesbos-- and that is exactly what they want all societies to become! They hate the father figure & male figure period.

[jmbhottie23]

this is the video i disagree with. Most single mothers dont OPT to do it by their self, the men usually walk or or dont participate in their kids lives when the parents split. Women dont want to fucking take care of kids theirselves, its broken relationships that force them to do it. Your saying a women should stay in a bad/abusive/ unhappy relationship for their kids and thats ultimately unhealthy.

[MiaMonique]

Whomever takes on responsible parenting is the best parent. If you give a damn about your offspring. Men stop treating your babies as puppies. They don't just take care of themselves. Sisters check out their family first before you get with these men. If the men don't have a father they wont be fathers to your children. It goes back to " you ain't shit cause your daddy aint shit and your daddy's daddy ain shit so.......I know you anit going to be shit. Word is bond. Look at the family!!

[supersayin1]

Kenye West is the perfect example of a father not being present in a household. He has beenbraught up being momies lil Angel, and prince, and can do no wrong. He feels as though he can do and say whatever it is he wants. SOME Single mothers well alot on TV shows and stuff show thatthey aren't suited for single parenthood simply by the way the kids have no respect for anyone or anything. Like you said they never say where weres the father in all of this? It's always just a crying mother!

[DiamondsnGold4p]

Kanye West was mainly raised by his grandparents after his mother and father divorced his mother traveled the world she brought him along sometimes but if you read the book raising Kanye she tells you that he was raised by a man mostly his grandfather.

[supersayin1]

I'll check that out! Thanks!

[MrsD7777]

WOW! I didn't realize there were so many angry & black men & women on youtube. *lol* My old "way off" stats came from a Black Male Clergyman from a prominent Blk Church (so true, i'm doing my Own research now)...nevertheless, the situation for blk male/ female relations seems grim & needs much hope for the future. My Husband and I are raising our 2 children as positive Blk Parents in a rural area, ending that negative cycle.

[79followme79]

i feel u its like black girls are being groomed when they are young to be single mothers i tell my moms all the time i don't like my niece babysitting all the time because she thinks its coo to play momma walking around the hood with a baby in a stroller with all the other single mothers she is getting the wrong impression.

[ebbowman]

I see this kinda stuff on Maury too.

The result: It leads to these kinds of girls growing up to be the ones on the show who get paternity tests for 10-20 men and none of them end up being their kid's fathers. Then the cycle just continues and continues.

Wash, rinse, repeat...

[demaification]

that why 2 perents need to be at the house no one in they right mind can't be a single perent that shit is hard something everbody need help once in a while

[PrisonerOfaNation]

Motherhood is a woman's job. what's the problem?

Single motherhood is not glamourized; it's actually the opposite.

You're right to ask "where are the fathers?" If a woman HAS to do it by her self, though, what's the problem?

I don't care what statistics want to say; kids who grew up with their fathers around turn out fucked up too.

[Nigerianborn]

Actually kids that grow up with single fathers turn out better children than kids that grow up with single mothers. Thats what statistics show. Do your research!

[PrisonerOfaNation]

Nigerianborn:

Statistics??? You're confused.

Statistics are rarely intended to reflect the reality; they are meant to create the reality.

If you are a woman and feel as if a man... a man is better at being a mother than a woman (whose natural purpose on the planet is to BE mother), you are going to have plenty of problems raising your babies. Good luck with that though.

If you're a man, then I forgive you because obviously you don't know what you're talking about.

[Nigerianborn]

The problem with many females especially black females is that a child can never go wrong by being raised by two GOOD parents. Too many black females ignore the fact that they made a poor choice in the type of man that they chose to have a kid by. BLACK MEN arent the ones causing problems in the black community and leaving their children. its NIGGAS and THUGS that are causing all these problems and leaving their kids. And who chose these NIGGAS and THUGS? Thats right, BLACK WOMEN!

[supersayin1]

Amen!!!

[DiamondsnGold4p]

@Nigerianborn WRONG! A child can never go wrong? I know plenty of pep that grew up in 2 parent households and they turned out to be fucked up. It is not about the number of parents but the quality of how both raise they children. Yes there are men who are not thugs that don't take care of their children. This guy who is doing this video is most likely a stupid ass African who mind has been poisoned and Africa will not be proud to have him back. They run simple minds out!

[whitedaisez]

Parenting is different in many cultures. I am from Nigeria and in many african cultures, the fathers are EXTREMELY responsible and the children are less likely 2 go astray.

[DiamondsnGold4p]

Also their are PEDOPHILES in AFRICA who are MOLESTING newborn babies b/c "they won't get AIDS". Meanwhile they ruin these childcare's lives right from the start and probably give the babies AIDS.

Now you tell that is not a poison in the mind I hope they don't bring their baby molesting butts over here.

[whitedaisez]

@DiamondsnGold4p so there are no pedophiles in america? and what has that to do with nigeria and this video? nothing. so far nothing u av said has had any substance or relevance. u americans just hate to see poor immigrants come here and do better than u. hahahahahaa. like i said, u r just insecure and looking for someone to blame for ur failures. when u start working hard and living a respectable life, u'll realize it is not asians, africans or mexicans stopping u, but urself!

[DiamondsnGold4p]

pdf They are everywhere. It has everything to do with the questions you asked I know I am not talking to a complete AIRHEAD! You ask the question then when I OWN YOU with the answer you come back and say what does that have to do with the video? Americans hate to see poor immigrants come here on our tax money receive education,money,shelter,jobs, food and loans for business then they turn around and get ungrateful,commit crimes and look down on us the hand that is feeding you. O W N E D!!!

[whitedaisez]

@DiamondsnGold4p hahahahaha! u "owned" me? hahaha! i don remember asking u any question from the start. u simply told me to go back to nigeria, that i think i am better than u and started mentioning random things u r not knowledgeable about, things u av not studied, things u av no proof of, things that lack any detail, things that has nothing to do with nigeria, me, the video or anything u accused me of in the beginning. so my dear, u did not "own" anyone. but if that fills ur ego, be my guest.

[DiamondsnGold4p]

OWNED!!! If don't remember go back and read your comments. is that so hard for you? not knowledgeable?

I remember you being the one who asked me for proof thus you are to DAMN lazy to do your own research or are you SCARED to find out that what I am telling you are in fact true? huh?

Face it you cant hang! O.K Goodnight I am tired of typing to a f-ing poisoned airhead. Go piss in the wind by yourself booty scr. Pidgin IBO!

[whitedaisez]

@DiamondsnGold4p

hahaha u urself have not done ur own research yet u make yourself look stupid bringing up things u have no knowledge of. hahahahaahahahaa u av proved nothing and explained nothing. u know nothing because even the simplest of questions u cannot answer. instead u avoid them by saying "go back and read". hahahahaahaaa idiot. there is nothing to read because there is nothing substantial u av provided to read. u have not answered ANY of the questions or done any of the research.

[whitedaisez]

@DiamondsnGold4p i am proud of my culture & what it teaches. it doesnt make me a bad person & it doesnt mean i am better than anyone. u are not better thn me and i never professed that i was. u kno nothing bout the history of sudan, rwanda or nigeria. hate is a human trait. everyone exhibits hate including americans. americans kill, do fraud, fight, scam, bomb each other, steal and everything associated with being human. so why are u being biased? ur arguments have no basis, just mere bickering.

[whitedaisez]

back in nigeria, its true.

[DiamondsnGold4p]

@whitedaisez if Nigeria is so good why don't you go back to where you came from? Never come back!

You let this dumb man poison your mind b/c his mind is already poisoned.

[whitedaisez]

@DiamondsnGold4p i dont remember where i said nigeria was soo good. why r u putting words in my mouth? why r u trying to start an argument/ confrontation? u r nobody to tell me what to believe or not. u r the one brainwashed and poisoned to think broken single-parent homes are the ideal. i suggest u mind ur business and stay away from trouble cuz dats wat i am. and btw I AM GOING BACK TO NIGERIA. and i wont come back. u can now go jump off a window and never get up. thanks.

[DiamondsnGold4p]

You Africans come over here because they hate you over in Africa so you come here and get an decent EDUCATION and get POISONED instead.

Look down on the pep that are already here and have the nerve to think you are better. NO I am not trying to start an argument with you. I would like to see all of these damn Africans and mexicans Asian and every other nationality that comes to America and look down on Americans go back to wherever the hell they come from and never come back! O.K. THUG

[whitedaisez]

hate us? my fellow countrymen will never hate me! and what is wrong with getting a good education? how have i looked down on americans? why r u making up shit? r u high? u r obviously starting a pointless brawl over nothing. its u pple with a complex who always look for someone to condemn and blame for ur failures in life. just because i was raised in a diff culture doesnt mean am a bad person. but don worry, i'll soon go back to my wonderful country while u'all keep having BASTARDS for kids!

[DiamondsnGold4p]

YES HATE If they didn't why do you have a precious corrupt goverment who favors aribac people more than african? Dafur and let's not forget the complete GENOCIDE of Tutsi pep over 800,000 Tutsi and hutu pep killed in less than 3 months. WTH?!?! Nothing i wrong with education the problem is that our government usually pay for foreigners to attend school plus room and board food transportation then when you finish they place them in jobs. What nerve to think they are better.

[DiamondsnGold4p]

continuation I never said u looked down go back and read the reply. No i am drug free! You started the so called net "brawl"telling me u r trouble. HA! Internet thug u. I don't have any complex. When I mess up I blame myself. I never said u are a bad person b/c u have an diff culture. Don't act as if ALLL Africans get married b4 they have kids! I believe in 2 parent household are good ONLY when the parents are great NO I will not want 2 bring down a single mother b/c I think I have the right 2.

[whitedaisez]

plz provide proof that the nigerian govt favors arabic pple over their own. what has dafur and tutsi have to do with nigeria or this video? how does anything u said prove africans come to the US cuz they r hated by africans back home?

so do u mean americans r not corrupt, dont kill each other, dont do fraud, rob, etc? and u have also failed to tell me where i said nigerians r better. u have made up a lot of nonsense without any back-up. looks like ur just frustrated at ur own personal failure.

[DiamondsnGold4p]

find your own damn proof that is how the whole dafur was started 5 years ago.B/C of the belief. Do you get it dafur and tutsi {over 700,000 pep were killed in 3 months}were mentioned backing up the claim of SOME Africans hating one another answering your questions. Stop asking them if you don't want me 2 answer. I will tell what came straight from Nigeria that dumb piece off shit that tried 2 blow up OUR plane on christmas day.

[DiamondsnGold4p]

con..Yeah there is crime in the us 17,ooo murders last year compared 2 the 700,000 in 3 mons in Africa not counting the other murders that were committed on the continent. Personal failure no no honey I am lovely you replied to me like the THUG you remember. Maybe you should stop trying to call names it only makes you typical.

[whitedaisez]

@DiamondsnGold4p hahahahahahaaa again wat has dafur or tutsi have to do with nigeria, this video and me? nothing. the boy who bombed ur plane has Yemeni ties, nothing to do with nigeria. and there have been lots of killing in america, hate and american terrorits as well. so it seems to me all u have tried to do is say u are better by giving flimsy reasons. u av no proof of anything u r saying because they are unsubstantiated generalizations given to make u feel worthwhie. hahahaahahahaa!!

[whitedaisez]

@DiamondsnGold4p

1. u av yet to tell me how the nigerian govt favors arabic pple.

2. u av yet to tell me how the recent bombing by the nigerian boy has to do with nigeria

3. u av yet to tell me details of what u know about the wars in sudan and rwanda, and how the "hate" u mentioned is different from that exhibited by ALL humans.

4. u av yet to tell me how the corruption in nigeria is different from that in america and all over the world.

5. u av yet to tell me how i think i am better than u.

[whitedaisez]

@DiamondsnGold4p

6. finally, u av yet to tell me how all the subjects u mentioned above have to do with me, this video and any of my earlier comments

only then will u realize that u are the stupid one, uneducated about the topics u speak of. u know NOTHING. u've seen nothing and u make pointless imbecile remarks about situations and territories u are unfamiliar with. You are a recalcitrant fool; a failure who has nothing to do but blame his misery on pple who are trying to better themselves.

[DiamondsnGold4p]

Go get a life. You will always be who you are b/c your mind is will not advance.

Goodnight simple minded creature.

[whitedaisez]

@DiamondsnGold4p

i should get a life? how about u? did u not know that YOU yourself needed to get a life as well before spitting shit about other lives u are too stupid to know or research about, before starting to make pointless irrelevant flimsy comments? hahahahaa if my mind wont advance then urs definitely wont because u av proved urself illiterate and inane for avoiding logical explanations when confronted with vital points. You are indeed the primitive one. i suggest u get a clue.

[marcdaddy33]

good vid, pink... yeah, these shows definitely expose the fallacy of the "do it all by myself independent woman mother" concept.

but I DO remember the question of the father being asked on some of the past talk shows like Ricki Lake by audience members... and sometimes the hosts.

[willia3r]

The powers-that-be put a kibosh on that "personal responsibility" stuff in a major hurry!

I used to remember when talk shows would ask the single mothers about where their fathers were too.

The one show that I can think that identifies who the father is(or isn't) is Maury Povich, although the general premise of that show seems to be to show how pathetic the guests are, which Surprise, Suprise... Are usually black.

The more time goes by, the better the media gets at brainwashing people.

[MllG0]

I have a suggestion: LET THESE GIRLS ROT!!!!

These women were damaged goods from the day they were born. EVERY BREATH THEY TAKE IS A SIN. lol

[MrsD7777]

Yes some are wrong, But I don't understand how you can believe that most Single Mothers CHOOSE to be in that position, especially in the Blk Community when stats show that: 1in4 blk males will die before age 21...blk/hispanic males make up 50% of U.S. Prison pop ...25% of Blk Males live the Homosexual lifestyle(or down-low, especially in ATL)...10-15% Blk Males die in Armed Forces...49% of ALL aids cases are Blk men & women...etc. With stats like these...how many men do YOU Expect to be at home?

[raisismith]

Are you trying to tell me that millions of black men are on the down-low?

Your statistics are waaaay off!

[knowledgeblack2012]

are those real stats or Tyra stats??

[pinkkelephant]

lol

[nothing5630]

@ MrsD7777 --

haha those statistics are waaay off. I'm not surprised though.

[rockb922]

They do choose that position.if I need 2 make a road trip from Atl to DC,and I pic a hooptie thats known 2 have problems 2 make the ride,did I not choose 2 be in the position 2 be stranded on the road,or is it the cars fault that it broke down,despite the fact that it was a piece of shit when I bought it?

When women choose shitty men 2 procreate with,they're choosing 2 be single mothers.If they didnt wanna be in that position, they'd pick men according to their ablitity/desire 2 b a father.

[rockb922]

and your stats are WAYYYYY off, post a link to the site where you got those. How do you even count down low men if they're DOWN LOW?!?!?!? How can you count a hidden amount?

post a link or stop spewing nonsense/lies just to support your bullshit ass point.

[1986toronto]

i tired of blk women saying that black men r down-low, or in jail. look how many white men are in jail or secretly gay, but u never hear white women say there r no good white men

[raisismith]

Tyra Banks' role is the help perpetuate the destruction of the hetero family.

What you're viewing on television is a well orchestrated theatrical performance which was planned before any of us were even born.

NOTHING makes in on TV by accident or without the intent of controling and brainwashing the population.

Strategically speaking, you can't expect to know your enemie's next move by watching television; to win you have to understand what the Generals have planned for us a the top.

[MsAshonte]

I don't understand. Now what's the problem with Tyra? I actually watch her show and I don't think she's trying to idolize single motherhood. But they reality is that many women are single mothers and b/c her show is for women she's going to have to deal w/ single mothers.

[pinkkelephant]

its all indirect. she will try to solve issues especially with teen girls. and the problem is that these girls or young women have not male presence in their life. no some of these women are in a bad positon b/c they have no father to turn to but some have issues because they think or their mothers think that fatherly influences cant help and they can solve them on their own. like i said this is all indirect. how many times do u hear tyra ask is there a father around. never.

[MsAshonte]

well lets be real from a business perspective she can't ask them if the fathers around b/c they'll probualy get offended and since it's women who watch her show she can't afford to offend single mothers. Ppl like Tyra may want to help women but they still have to consider their careers...there may be things they'd like to say but can't that they cant.

[knowledgeblack2012]

so basically these shows dont really want to help, just want to make money from all the viewers they get...if she aint tellin these girls the truth, then she aint helpin!!

[TheMrProtocol]

@pinkkelephant You know who else has made the same observation about choosing single motherhood as an option? Anne Coulter! that's right, the provocative and controversial conservative has pointed out the same thing you just did. The problem is largely political. Single motherhood is an idea promoted by liberals. 

[mrshutter77]

@MsAshonte Why are they single mother? Because they choose to be single mothers! Because they know babies are free meal tickets for them 7 they will get catered to by everyone, including the government & school districts & universities & foundations, not to mention the free money they from the father to spend how ever they want. They could have used birth control-but they didn't, they could have had an abortion-but they didn't because they want the free meal ticket! Selfish & Irresponsible!!

[chenderson30]

I can't counter this video anything,Personally I would love for someone to say,Pink isn't telling the truth and have a legitimate arguement as of why they think he's wrong.

[1helluvanite]

Alot of these single mothers have hidden issues with men in general. They just flat-out don't know how to interact with us, and / or they secretly hate us, but they still want kids.

I feel sorry for the kids, especially male children, who become the offspring of these types of females.

[MllG0]

@1helluvanite

this is why there is nothing that comes before God. And whenever this subject is brought up, people are reluctant to talk about it.

No matter how badly these male children may be treated by their mothers, if they put faith in God, no wound is beyond repair.

[Silkravage]

How can a woman that can't keep a man raise a daughter to be a good wife? It won't happen, she will only indoctrinate the girl to be just like her...

[Silkravage]

The craziest part is the default term is "Whats in the best interest of the child..." Giving the child to an immature person that doesn't have to account to anyone for her behavior is in the best intherest of the child?!?! This is all purposeful, by default giving a boy to a female when his father wants to raise him is absurd. She cant teach him to be a man, they have a hard enough time raising the daughters to be productive women.

[southsideroy]

Its Tyra on the left side, Beyonce on the right, and Oprah in the middle on the throne when it comes to Mens Rights enemies. Thats the way I see it.

[iBeMagzii]

yh.............havent really thought of it like that

[Ricb67]

Glad you put the spotlight on the fallacy of the super single mother in truth its a social failure but its so infused and entrenched into the modern African American culture I dont see how it can be turned around

[eyeonwashparish]

Male presence is not something Tyra and company are interested in discussing. Got to push the idea that men are not needed. And they will do what they have to do to push it. lol

[YoungGrizzly82]

Just like Oprah

[Remedymp]

It's about False Pride. They're so intoxicated off their own Patriarchal bigotry and Matriarchal pride, they can't see the errors in their way. Yet, it's the man fault for not being there? I lose calories in laughter at their delusional mindset.

[pinkkelephant]

its funny because she will even have episodes where she helps out single mothers. and the irony in that is that the help implies that they cant do it on their own. so why then glamorize it.

[Remedymp]

Because they're looking to eradicate any sort of relevance of male presence being the solution to single motherhood. Families needs fathers like fishes need water. You don't see fishes trying to be "independent" of water, so why become independent of fathers?