Britney Spears - 3 - Are Threesomes "In"?

[TheCaliCapitalist]

Defiantely just has to be with two women. It can't be with another man and woman because that's weird for me.

[groundhog713]

3some? No fucking way! I'm not sharing my woman with nobody, period.

[xtashax3xemox]

if i knew he wasnt ganna ever leave me over it yea i would othere wise no 

[illaztic]

See I want to try it, Im very open to it and im willing to try it. Just my partner is willing not too, I understand her feelings towards it but I dont feel the same.

[happy4life20]

im not like that i think sex is over rated and u dont know me to say something like that

[adamfreeman20]

i am a 20 year old male and i think that threesomes are gross degrading and i would never want to date someone who was in one because the take the meabning of love and run it through the ground even if your single i think it leaves a mark on you for the rest of your life

[sammyhain13]

@adamfreeman20 Yea, if two cheerleaders wanted to take you to bed I'm totally sure you'd be grossed out

[TheLastOneLeft781]

Ok. So your tittle to this video is Britney Spears - 3 - Are Threesomes "In"? But you only mention the song once at the very beginning. Thats it! The rest of the convo is about having a threesome. Theres like almost no point to putting Britney's name or song tittle for the tittle of this video... Oh, and "In"? If your referring to a line in Britney's song. She says "living in SIN is the new thing"

[joshokc]

Funny they assume it would be FMF and not MFM

[sammyhain13]

@joshokc Obviously girls are way more comfortable with a fluid sexuality. Most guys would kill themselves if they accidentally touched a naked man

[tyler90709]

are three somes meining ur bisexual caz i always thot they were

[JazzAgeFlapperGirl]

I think three-somes are wrong!!!!!

[AapKiNisha]

unfortunately most couples are not so open, atleast not in my culture

[caitilynx]

iv'e done it with a couple ex's dating them both at the time) it was nice he liked it she liked it i liked it but sometimes things can fuck it up... like she moaned more with me then she did with him and apparently so did i with her... i think its just a girl thing... whatever still fun

[jamesoncastor]

merrier the more, two is not the same :P

[saralavedure17]

I'm a girl so I would try it but only with two guys but they have to do whatever I say. sorry ppl I don't do girls. not gay

[chas4x4]

where are you guys haven't seen a new vdo in a while

[DanAndJenn]

@chas4x4 sorry we some family stuff to take care of - but now we're back, better and stronger than ever!!! got huge plans for the coming weeks/months, stay with us! Thanks!!! -- D&J

[itsonlyem]

i would try it...... with my hubby and another lady....

[chrisairwolf1]

you know 1 of the reasons i stop watching this show is all the messed up 3 sums on here and all the sex stuff. you all are supost to be givein advice for realshionships and not this crap all about sex. wow about some real help with realshionships

[caitilynx]

this is for sexual education reasons not to be perverted or anything its something some people are really curious about this stuff.

[AutumnBrooke]

Dan and Jenn are not bound by social taboos which is why so many people like them. If it's not your cup of tea, then you have the freedom to move along.

[doublexax]

stop watching? Ummmm I think your comment is on their video....

Get the fuck off! If your already stop watching, don't even bother to comment plz?

[punkchola92]

3somes are fucking disgusting I don't see how someone can do that shit.....I think it's stupid and I would never want to fuck another guy/girl especially cuz I'm not a lesbian and I only love my boyfriend waaaay too much for that disgusting shit to happen....that's just my opinion.....

[BrielleAngelofsk8z]

damn that's pretty judgmental...btw everyone is a little gay

[artemusprine]

One person keeps me busy enough.

[ananasmanzy]

Thresomee is sound fun to me, but only with my boyfrend and some third girl, beautifull, sexy and atractive to both of us. Wouldnt like it to be with another man. Do kn. wy.....

[heartless666667]

yeah so long as the people in it w/ me r attractive

[aubree1110]

try a gin i dont like it

[jessvampireblood]

a great group sex game is "master misstres" one person is the leader and the rest are servants its actually really fun and you are most likely to expirience some new "feelings"

[bballkann]

threesomes are actually always in. i mean, 4 me:D but its even more fun foursome and more.. new experiences, like Britney's singing: what we do is innoccent, just 4 fun and nofthin meant :D

btw, love the song!

[IAmBlackDragonX]

me and my g/f have talked about it but even today, we're still not sure about it. i did say that IF we did have a 3some, it'd be boy/girl/girl. i'm a little homophobic but she does say she a famtasy about having boy/girl/boy.

[jdfox1]

Were they ever "out"? Nice video! :)

[nblfyb]

Gotta listen to that song hahah I've kinda done a low-level threesome. lol

Benson and Tonic

[luluslovebear]

I feel a 3some would be just like cheating on your partner, even if the partner that is betraying the relationship.

[heartsophocles]

I'm comfortable with the concept, but I don't think I'd honestly do it just because sex makes me nervous as it is with just my partner in the room. I would be a nervous wreck if we added some other foreign person!

[Anglicme007]

I'm a bi girl and a threesome sounds like alot of fun

[karahershey]

tollay try a treesome im bi best of both worlds

[MysteriousDrella]

hm, threesomes, kissing maybe yes.... but i don't think i'd be doing it when it comes to sex... feelings always get involved, in my opinion, even if u agreed not to get feelings... usually threesomes turn out bad due to jealousy. I'm biased maybe, i know a couple who swapped partners just as an experiment( fr sex, to spice up things), and one couple formed by that, is now a couple and married.

[PrincessKLS]

I don't know if I'd ever want to try a threesome or other types of group sex because I'm a very monogamous person. But if I ever did, I would prefer to be between two guys then a guy and a girl or if I did do anything with a girl I would prefer to have a threesome with two other girls, or have a bigger orgy with guys and girls.

But the likelyhood of me doing this, is very low.

[TheWiccanchild]

I would try a threesome with my closest friends. I dont see why not.

[trukinugly]

To engage in a threesome or moresome first off requires maturity not only individually but in your relationship. You have to know each other well enough up front to know the outcome. We were married 20 years the first time we tried it and it was MFM the Sharing was in the enjoyment she experienced. We have since experienced other couples and FMF. The key to success is attitude. Sex can be recreational it is not always "making love" We tried it and liked we started over 10 years ago.

[maxydeamon]

I cant hear any audio ... maybe its got something to do with stereo recording ? the audio for me is very very faint. everything else plays fine other than this video

[ayoumans25]

Very informative as usual & you both look great! ;D

[JPEGUE611]

didnt realize the song was about threesomes i thought it was just like a relationship with 3 people lol. i guess im just a little naive. but yeah you guys are just amazing get me through alot of things and answer ton of my questions :) much love

Francisco

[jesushatesme666]

threesome?

Yes please

[dncfriends]

Notice in the video that one of the hosts refers to the 3rd person as gender neutral and the other host refers to the 3rd person as a female. Is there a bias when it comes to this? There seems to be an assumption in the media that it's 2 girls and 1 guy, but how often is this true? Or does it happen both ways at similar frequencies? vonfox83 seems to make the same assumption that she'd have to share her guy. But what if it was her having 2 guys. Would she feel the same?

[DanAndJenn]

indeed we were referring to the more common scenario (and very common male fantasy) of 2 women - in this particular video.

LOL you can only cover so much in one segment. to answer your question the MMF (two men, one woman) situation is not all that different, most of the same topics and concepts apply.

and as you might expect, guys are more likely to be more apprehensive on that one, just as women are more apprehensive about another woman joining them.

[vonfox83]

Hate to sound like a prude...but you're a "couple" for a reason. Chances are one or more people will get very hurt. I would feel very unwanted in a threesome situation. I consider myself to be pretty confident, but there's no way I would share my guy. I want to feel like I'm enough.

[DanAndJenn]

Why would you feel that you're not enough? Here's an analogy (And I'm just playing devil's advocate here... not trying to tell people that they should or should not do it). I love buttered pecan ice cream - to me, it's the only ice cream there is. But some times (about once a year) I want a hot fudge sundae. It doesn't mean that I don't LOVE buttered pecan, or that it's not my favorite ice cream... Yeah, I know that's a food analogy, but I can come up with 100 more that aren't...

[DanAndJenn]

cont... Why do we feel that we "own' our partner and why do we only love them if they behave in a certain way and cater to our egos? To me, true and honest love is unconditional - I feel that you should want your partner to do what ever it is in their life that brings them joy. But on this topic, both people have to be considered to avoid hurt feelings. So if it's not for you, then it's not for him either... but you do say 'share' your guy, like he's yours to share - you don't own him - period.

[DanAndJenn]

cont... OK now I'm ranting on the 'share' thing... You share your toys, you share your food, you share a ride to the store, but these are all 'things', possessions. As a couple, we choose to be together - he is not yours to 'share' - not a possession? So how can you 'share' him in the first place?

[DanAndJenn]

BTW - please don't think I'm judging you - you have as much right to your opinion and perspectives as I do mine. And I respect and accept you for them :-)

[vonfox83]

I guess I used "share" in the wrong context. To clarify... I think that sex is a gift that you "share" together(as opposed to sharing the person- that does imply ownership and that's not what I meant. Sorry that came out wrong) and I would not want someone else in on the "sharing."

[vonfox83]

cont- I do think that love is unconditional and that you should be your own person in and outside the relationship. That's essential for a relationship to work. But I don't think keeping something as special as sex exclusively in the relationship, if that's what you wish, is too much too ask. Btw- I'm so glad you replied to my comment. I *love* your show.

[vonfox83]

lol. That's a good food analogy. I can see people being comfortable with it, and if that works for them, by all means, go for it! But I would bet that most women wouldn't feel secure in a threesome and whether or not they want to admit it, they would get the message that they're not "enough." Personally I don't think it's worth it to indulge in the hot fudge Sunday once a year.

[DanAndJenn]

@vonfox83 you are absolutely right - most women are not comfortable with it, but many are... We truly believe that we should all have these conversations with those we love and do what works for OUR own relationships. And that's what you're doing - thank you so much for you honest comments!

[zeusbark]

I'm honestly getting tired of the music at the beginning of all your videos, please change it

[DanAndJenn]

LOL you're right, whole intro needs a redo - to be in HD too. starting work on a whole new intro today actually... contemplating our own intro music too.

[stopoutside]

CHILDREN, please do not take these people as your example. It will ruin your relationships and possibly your life. STD's are out there, and when the number of people you sleep with increases, so do your chances of disease, jealousy, and general heartbreak.

I have no idea who these people's who made this video's parents are, but HOPEFULLY their parents would not approve of such an unwise lifestyle.

The internet is full of crazy stuff, even with people like this who SEEM ok, but are NOT.

[DanAndJenn]

If you've watched ANY of our other videos, you would know that we are huge advocates of safe, smart sex between consenting adults. We also encourage totally open and honest communication in relationships which will decrease all of the things you mentioned. Unfortunately, our children are having sex and we owe it to them to at least be honest about what's out there...

[stopoutside]

Sleeping with multiple people is problematic and ADDS to the exposure of possible disease, as you know. I agree, unfortunately children ARE having sex before a real commitment. There are not many people who can have someone they care about "sleep around", and think that it's GREAT, OK, etc. So to present this idea as such, is obviously beyond general sanity. U 2 are married and KNOW that mental stumbling blocks go UP in a marriage, when devastating words or actions occur.

[jennybenny5]

This is something my husband and I have talked about alot. I think it would be fun as long as you know there is nothing to worry about in the end but from what i heard from my friends that have had them is that almost all the time theres problems afterwards.

But i would forsure! its like a turn on for me ;)

[chillipepaz]

Well i had my first threesome last night. im a guy and my friends girlfriend asked me to join and im like is he ok with it and shes like yah. so i did it and i enjoyed it but it was still weird -.-

[ujdo]

Soooo many complications....

[ALiSsDr]

well i'm 18 and i think i'm too young to start doing that kind of things but i think i'll definitely do it some day..the only thing i say is that i'd do it with a guy and a girl who i have no feelings for (im a bi) because i know i'd get so jealous if i see the guy i love having sex or just kissing someone else and i'd probably get mad afterwards even if i agree to do it in the first place..but that will be like on my 20's..not now

[Thestationification]

thank you guys so much without you how to buy a condom and how to put a condom on i would be a 13 year old father

[jiaweizheng1990]

how come the Audio only come out one side of speaker... on this video..

works fine on other audio

[ALiSsDr]

yeah same thing happened to me

[DanAndJenn]

oops - sorry...

[Ana1Hai1]

it would be fun but if you are a couple/in a relationship then there shouldn't be anyreasons why you need another person. that is why it is called "with that special someone" KEY WORD SPECIAL and ONE yes one lol

[Katharsis540]

@Ana1Hai1 well there is no1 special there r others like u so nothing is unique is like saying ur atoms r unique.comes down 2 ppl mentality and how open minded they r.peace.

[Padfoot74]

I'd do a threesome(when I'm older seeing as I'm seventeen) but see I told my boyfriend if we did it with a girl then we'd have to do it with another guy, cause its only fair right? And when I said that he put his foot down.

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

it no issue with me...Thats pretty normal, but I don't think it's a good idea to do it with a wife or if your in a serious relationship of some sort cause women can use that shit against you in a argument later on... Obviously more men will be willing to do it but you should do it with girls you trust.

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

in fact do it with a couple of escorts... it's safer

[kiwisunshine5233]

What if it was the women you're serious with is the one who insisted a threesome?

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

It would still be questionable, trust me dude you seriously don't want her coming back on you and saying she thinks your dog, girls ask u just to see if you would and then they start trippin over it, it's a trap those stupid immature girls use to test guys! it's a total mind fuck! = /

[kiwisunshine5233]

Thats messed up that some girls are like that. I don't think I'd really have to worry about that since I'm a girl and men & lesbians are more open to the idea of threesomes. I suppose you'd have get with a girl that was upfront about liking [the idea of] threesomes before the relationship gets serious.

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

lol yeah, I'm Bi (mostly inclined towards girls though) and my two best friends are gay and lesbian, I guess we just look at sex as more of a therapeutic process of building intimacy rather than a demonstration of the sentimental value we share for each other, There are lots of ways to express love for someone besides sex ,I think... Like talking perhaps?

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

The way I see it, if youre secure and confident in your relationships You dont get jealous And when your partner realises this you become more attractive to her you have just demonstrated one of the characteristics of an

alpha male understanding what sex really is and not being needy or over possessive about her Cause thats what kills most relationships in the end, why can't girls be the same way?

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

I prefer the Intimacy without the intricacy. We all know how feeling can change around certain circumstances right? I like to keep things casual; Ive never referred to sex as love making Love makes sex, sex doesnt make love but people seem to inextricably link love and Intimacy as if they where the exact same thing. And that were magically somehow supposed to not get horny for other people when were in love with 1 girl or guy? = S

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

Some girls seem to think that sex has more value than the time u spend with them and the things u have in common, so they become so insecure and so jealous of the other gils around you. Ive had girl stalk me from coast to coast just to make sure I wasnt talking to another girl! checking my phone and demanding to know who this other girl is in my contacts! if you keep old photos of a past GF your cheating on her.etc Its more crap than I can be bothered to deal with.

(Rant Finished)

[NorwegianGnar]

Maybe if my GF wanted to. I wouldn't say no, but I'm not too into it.

[ZabuzaSOULESS]

ew... a sin and to me its digusting.

[Buddahforce]

what if a dude was having a 3 sum with a guy and a girl . Would that be a 3 sum or a gay experiance ?

[DanAndJenn]

@Buddahforce threesomes with 2 guys are quite popular too, even though that's not the option we focused on here. but every situation is unique. the key to whether you're "gay" or "bi" is more about what you fantasize about, not always what you do. so to answer your question, that's certainly not necessarily the case. consider this: it could be the girl's fantasy to be pleasured by 2 guys; the guys probably want nothing to do with each other, and won't.

[emovitaminwater]

I wouldn't feel comfortable with another person in bed with my boyfriend. I'm sure my boyfriend would be all for it but maybe I'm just the kinda girl who sees sex as 'making love' with just one person who you do love. I understand that if you had a threesome it'd be with someone who you don't love and wouldn't matter later but I just see so many problems after it'd happen. Sex is something special to me and should only be with the person you love. Adding a third person is just greedy. lol

[kiwisunshine5233]

""should only be with the person you love. Adding a third person is just greedy. lol "

What the hell are you talking about? Restricting your partner's sex partners to only you is what is greedy. You're keeping him all to yourself and restricting his sexual freedom.

Why should it only be with "the person you love"? Sex relatively has nothing to do with love & some people would rather not be burdened by love & relationships. Sex doesn't always have to be "special". It can just be for fun.

[ipoop444]

threesomes are so in they are so fun

[mrdarkknight]

i'd try a tensome if my woman's down with it.

[mrdarkknight]

sadly it'll never happen most women are too jealous and they take sex way too seriously.

ps: tensome= no other men >_>

[JoolieRoolie]

I don't think threesomes are for me.....i prefer just my partner.

[EuroInvicta]

I hope people who try this as a fad don't end up getting hurt by it, but as someone who's been interested in this for a while now, I'm kind of glad someone as mainstream as Britney would put it on the table. If more stuff like this were seen as normal, much of the mental hangups about sex would disolve, which we need in America. But, with caution, of course.

[Mardolin]

oh, wine this time

[MrSuperMikey]

yes I would try a 3/4 sum. But with the right people

[happyare]

My boyfriend let me borrow his camera when I had a threesome with a couple of friends of mine. One of those friends was an ex, and the other was a virgin who needed to get laid who I had never met before, but chatted with on facebook. I had wanted to do a threesome for a long time and my boyfriend and other friends are awesome for letting me have that opportunity. This was about six months ago and my boyfriend and I are still happy together!

[EuroInvicta]

That's awesome you found someone so open and cool to let you do that! Congrats! More people should be this way...

[Riotgunner19]

Hmmm is right... I vote no.

[Svet69]

I have tried "goup sex" with several girls at once.

Didn't like it at all.

Some of us just value the privacy of their sexual experiences. To me sex reIt's a special thing that you do with a special woman.

Don't get me wrong, I am not religious or anything like this.

[firegirlemtcop]

I hope people don't start having threesomes just because they're "in". In fact, I hope people never do things just because of that.. but especially when it comes to sex and relationships. It should be something that everyone has decided they want and can handle, not a fashion statement or status symbol.

[JegHarEnLillePik]

ive onced had sex with 20.000 individuals at one time.

that ant-hill will never be the same again.

[HeartChibi]

hmmm... is all I can say.