Much love sister, thanks for helping our women and men in some cases. More than one family i don't agree with, but it is happening and for sure, the children brought into the debacle deserve to be properly taken care of . keep up the good work and receive strength to fight on.
Men, when you try to hit a woman, get ready to get hit back...I'm not going to be treated like some child or disciplined like some animal and I will not be treated like one...Treat others as YOU would like to be treated
@Superseadragon why are WE out of control. Who are we getting stds from, let me help you, MEN, and who is responsible for the other half of those bastard babies, let me help you again, MEN. It's nothing wrong with being a church freak because that's the answer to the things you mentioned. If we had more church freaks, then we'll have more self respect and less of the things you mentioned and especially when it comes to men. The male population need Jesus in a real way!
@aeatmon "If we had more church freaks, then we'll have more self respect and less of the things you mentioned and especially when it comes to men." Is that what JESUS wants? To hop and flop on dildos in church? WOW!!! You need Jesus. Seriously.
@aeatmon so you are saying all black society problems are all on the men right? Im just asking a question if you can answer in a respectful way please dont answer thanx
@NewMan826 it's no such thing as a white man's system & a black man's system, God created 1 system, humankind, WE created black & white & all of these racial issues...these are OUR issues, not God's, don't get it confused...God didn't base the bible on America, he based it on ALL mankind & we couldn't do right from the beginning & God never mentioned race in Genesis during the fall of mankind, the only thing he mentioned was disobedience, NOT RACE; God is not petty like us; He LOVES everyone
I am encouraged to hold my peace. I am encouraged to continue to believe in him and support him even through these trying times. Thank you sister Shahrazad. I'm not Muslim but I thank Allah for you.
Not just that they were sick and wrong but live in a society/raised to help perpetuate these cycles. I for one cannot spend the rest of my life blaming or battling brothers. I have a great black man in my life right now, we are struggling through communication issues as we both break the chains of dysfunction from our pasts and this is such an encouragement.
I feel that more of us need to step up and accept our roles in this mess. We must brave the pain we have held and allow our men to console us, protect us, put some clothes on and respect us. I can say this, as a woman that has been abused in childhood by black men and can now see the dysfunctionalism that allowed it to occur.
TAKE CARE ABOUT THIS GUY KOLONGA. HE IS RACIST, HATES SOUTHAMERICAN WHITE PEOLPE. BUT WE ARE NOT RESPONSABLE ABOUT THE ENGLISH MEAT TRADERS MADE IN THE PAST AGAINST HIS RACE.
I appreciate this sistah so much!!! She's a beautiful woman and lady who knows and teaches women to be appreciative in (our role) how the Most High created us...Prov 31:) Being able to birth our babies and teach them the truth of the Most High and His Son, cook for our husbands, get righteous counsel and protection from them etc... Oh, and it's lawful for a man to have more than one wife...it's all in the scriptures! Not all men had more than one wife, tho. May the Most High be with u
I'm a Christian and I don't agree with a man having 2 families...that's wrong in my religion...if you tell men they can have more than 1 wife, then more men will be going to prison and we have enough in jail already...you have a lot of great points and i love love love what you had to say about the black family, but telling men to hit women and telling men they can have more than 1 wife is ridiculous and illegal Ms. Ali. I also don't agree with what you said about MLK.
@vincerashaad read your Bible, God died for our sins and we are under grace and mercy now, new testament, and no longer under the LAW, old testament; 1 wife, 1 husband; this is HIS WILL not ours; study to show yourself approved
Well here is a news flash: When you get with another man from another culture, you babies will still be black and you will make another BLACK MAN so you can't get away from the Black man. We are INSIDE of you and YOU ARE IN US. We are one!
Symbolically, The white man is having sex with the black woman and he is making sure she HATE herself and love his sex and world. That's Demonic.
But the blk man does NOT envy the wh man. The Lord blessed us with somethings too! We are still lords too.
You are absolutely right. The black man and woman is inside of each other and that is a blessing in itself. I love my black men no matter what. Black men and women have to be re-educated on life in it's totality.
Thanks sister. You are right when you say that we must be RE-educated on life and WE must JOIN forces with each other. I realize that ALL of us can NOT join together but one man and woman can join each to become one. Then, we must look at each other with new eyes of LOVE in stead of hate. We must reprogram ourselves to know that the other party in the union means us well because he or she love him or herself. We are a part of that SELF! US!
So, in other words, you are saying that a black woman lower her standards by investing in a black man?
My question to you is that: if the black man is the head of the family, then who gave you the ideas to USURP his leadership? Is this what being affiliated with OTHER people do to you? Did a good job do this to you? Did slavery do this to you? How can you be a traitor to your fathers, uncles, brothers and sons that hold the black seed. Self hatred is rooted in this thought.
I watched them all and I like her. I hope she has this on DVD but if not, no worry, I'll buy the book. Just to bad I'm getting it like 15-20 years after she wrote it but, I know the same still applies or I wouldn't have watched all of these vids.
I disagree.. She looks too butch and unfortunaltely its too chic in Hollywod! lol Plus...did you listen when she said: " Women acting like men..!" LOL
Lastly, as a rapper-she's alright but as an actress- TWO THUMBS DOWN! Peace with two fingers....
I believe that Sis. Ali has hit on a subject that's been ignored for far too long. I cannot say that either black men (I happen to be one) or black women are wrong or right. All I know for sure is that we could stand to take heed to a lot of what the sister had to say. Otherwise, our struggle to flourish and step into our futures looks more & more bleak daily. Wake up black people! It's time to get it right!
The problem is you state this as if ALL black men are by nature a lower standard. Your mentality is what she's talking about. You don't respect black men because society doesn't. I see people like you all the time who get bent out of shape when you see a classy sophisticated black male that doesn't live down to your low expectations.
I dont agree with race commitment any more, I know black woman who have low self worth from race commitment its no good. But if she has a white man I guess she doesnt believe in race commitment as well lol.
So a black woman that dates white has HIGH self-esteem? That's the problem isn't it? Many of you think a white man is the Holy Grail that'll solve all of your problems. I see too many BW with white men looking at me like sad puppies because they realized that white man isn't necessarily better than a good black man.
did she really marry a white man I was going to ask if she was single too and if not how is her realationship with a brotha lol. Wow any ways she kinda makes since but I feel black men worked hard to not become the backbone of our communities, Also bm have been dissing black woman way before black woman due too hip hop and other forms of media communication. Black woman are just fed up.
Your a hypocrite you said you were going to not argue with me and look at you now. If that comment I made sounded ignorant to you then you need your ears cleaned and you eyes examined. You threating me now. Don't start something and then cry to the authorites about it that an ugly female trait.
Sis you are totally correct because the first thing he said to me was I was not listening. Btw this women married a white male so I always sy read with an open mind!
what you said was a made up statement("as long as black men were blamed (or are blamed), it's never a problem") That's your personal opinion but that you made up in your head!I never blamed black men and blaiming does not solve the problem.
Well sounding ignorant is enough for me to place jugdment and your last statement just reiterated it. Please don't try to start nonsense with me because I will only shut u down!
I can respond to any comment I want because I have that right. Only an ignorant fool would get upset for me responding to their question. Only a dumbass would ask stupid questions. If it was that bad then you shouldn't responded.
You assumed I was upset? I was simply asking a question because it was a bit weired to me that someone would respond to a comment I made so many months ago and now you are doing it again! Get a life loser! lol!
Okay first and foremost I didn't think you were gonna respond considering what you said before. You saying "it was a bit weired to me that someone would respond to a comment I made so many months ago" proves your an idiot. You wrote an anwser and you expect someone not to respond because of the time frame. What a dumbass you should think very hard before you write something because as I said before you prove to everyonje your an idiot.
You don't speak with any logic do you? How does me replying back to you promply make me an idiot? Go take some meds, cause you don't even know how to argue properly lol! You are just mad cause you made yourself look stupid!
Ohh now I get it I should have looked on your profile before. Your a girl thats why logic couldn't sink in your head. All this time I thought you were a guy. Anywho like I said before you put up an response and I voiced my opionin about it.Last I checked I can voice my opionin about anything I want regardless how old it is. I don't get why your perplex about me responding to something you wrote?
I never said you couldn't opinions you fot mad at me when I voiced mine! I simply asked you why u responded to me so late and you went haywire like a lil bitch! you are the one saying I shouldn't have wrote you! When it comes to logic you don't come too close!
You still fail to see the logic. I think you would benefit reading to sharazad ali's book. I responded so late? Lady it wasn't like I planned it I just hoped on the page read comments and yours stood out and I replied. Your the only person complaing about someone replying to your stuff. Nobody else every complianed when I replied to their comments. I never complained when they replied to mines. Your arguements are fruitless give it up. It's over.
No you too it as a complaint. I was never complaining like I said I simply asked a question and you took offence by it! It wasn't meant for you to take offence but being the overly emotional being that you are, YOU DID!
OMG lady let it go. Your logic will never bear any fruits. I tried to explain it to you but you just don't get it. You keep making up stuff. I can't believe im saying this but leave me alone. I'm not gonna argue you down anymore.
I can tell by looking at your profile page that you get into alot of disagreements on youtube. Yoy are nothing but a mindless child! Leave you alone? You need to leave me alone. You are the one bothering me obviously because you keep bringing up arguments out of thin air. You are probably gonna send me another message 3 months from now!
I thought that what I was doing leaving you alone but here you go writing me you could have left me alone. You don't listen. Give it up you can't win.
Actually I don't get into alot of disagreement because people understand you can respond to anything you want. And those comments had nothing to do with me he was talking about someone when you find the page we were on you see.
No dumbass the ignorance started when you asked this question. "why you wanna write me a comment about something I was talking about 2 months ago?" You could have just ignored it if you felt that way dumbass.
No idiotbox you shouldnt have wrote me to begin with with your ignorant 3rd grade level writing techniques. I commented back because I'd couldnt understand why someone who couldn't put sentences together properly would have the audacity to try to go against something I said. Read everything I wrote and read everything you wrote and you will see who the dumbass is! YOU! BTW You are the one getting upset not me!
They should tell it like it is and sister ALi book is meant just for, i will personally buy you a copy and gladly send it to you. You are generalizing right now, not one time did you see me calling anyone a bitch or a whore. You contradict yourself by geralizing my actions. Your emotional level needs to be check and shut down, until you learn your place in gods order of his creation. Calm your mind!!!
Men are not more emotional than women, satan taught you that message. God did not create man to be more of anything of a lessor than image. You need to shut your mouth and learn and watch every video sister Ali has to offer, and humble yourself and turn from your wicked thought process and your wicked tongue.
You did not listen once again. Like she said, men are not waiting to anyone to have children by more than one person. So, if it has already happened take responsibility at both households and uphold them financialy or any way that you can. Once again, women still dont listen and only hear their emotions speaking. All you hear is someone is cheating and hurting from the message. It's not a pass for men to cheat the damage is done so take care of what u brought in this world, no matter by whom.
What do you mean by "I did not listen once again" when else was I not listening? I am listening and I am being emotionally clear! Why do you have 2 come at me like that brotha?
I agree, what she is saying is that these men already have children from different women. If I were involved with a man who has children with another woman I will have no choice but to accept that he will spend time with his children. I would want him to handle his responsibilities. That's one of our greatest failures in the Black community. The Black man's seed is just floating around. I know a guy with 11 children by 5 different women, now you know that's a shame. Talk about sharing.
But you know what, Greg? Black people in America's sense of gender roles has been decimated. Ali is speaking about how black men have been shut out of being in any position of responsibility.
I agree with everything except men being able to have two families. It isnt even about jelousy its about the spirtual union between a men and a women. You cant have a man at your house today and then with his other wife and kids the next day
Thank you for posting this. It has given me a much broader outlook on her. I believe that her book was meant to invoke emotion, but she actually has alot of positive things to say that we all as black people need to hear.
Thank you
187BangEm 5 months ago
I will take responsibility as a blackman for my family, Thank you sister for your book.
iqgray 7 months ago
everybody thats dressed up is not clean
2011nafissa 8 months ago
Much love sister, thanks for helping our women and men in some cases. More than one family i don't agree with, but it is happening and for sure, the children brought into the debacle deserve to be properly taken care of . keep up the good work and receive strength to fight on.
shalom
bahamianbinyamine 9 months ago
If you tell a black woman to start dealing with having less,that be the day she leave you for T Bone or some frat boy up the street.
mightyblack1 9 months ago
i love this message. she's not excusing us black men and i dont see too many men disagreeing with her either
MrJonasprayer144 1 year ago
Men, when you try to hit a woman, get ready to get hit back...I'm not going to be treated like some child or disciplined like some animal and I will not be treated like one...Treat others as YOU would like to be treated
aeatmon 1 year ago
@aeatmon That's why you black females are out of control. High rates of stds, church freaks, bastard baby makers, etc.
Superseadragon 1 year ago
@Superseadragon why are WE out of control. Who are we getting stds from, let me help you, MEN, and who is responsible for the other half of those bastard babies, let me help you again, MEN. It's nothing wrong with being a church freak because that's the answer to the things you mentioned. If we had more church freaks, then we'll have more self respect and less of the things you mentioned and especially when it comes to men. The male population need Jesus in a real way!
aeatmon 9 months ago
@aeatmon "If we had more church freaks, then we'll have more self respect and less of the things you mentioned and especially when it comes to men." Is that what JESUS wants? To hop and flop on dildos in church? WOW!!! You need Jesus. Seriously.
Superseadragon 9 months ago
@Superseadragon give your life to Jesus? I don't have a clue what you are talking about!
aeatmon 3 months ago
@aeatmon so you are saying all black society problems are all on the men right? Im just asking a question if you can answer in a respectful way please dont answer thanx
decep01 7 months ago
@decep01 of course not...where did you get that from?
aeatmon 3 months ago
@Superseadragon well i'm none of those things
aeatmon 3 months ago
@aeatmon You are all of the above
Superseadragon 3 months ago
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aeatmon 1 year ago
@NewMan826 it's no such thing as a white man's system & a black man's system, God created 1 system, humankind, WE created black & white & all of these racial issues...these are OUR issues, not God's, don't get it confused...God didn't base the bible on America, he based it on ALL mankind & we couldn't do right from the beginning & God never mentioned race in Genesis during the fall of mankind, the only thing he mentioned was disobedience, NOT RACE; God is not petty like us; He LOVES everyone
aeatmon 1 year ago
GREAT VVIDEO CLIPS BY THIS VERY KNOWLEDEGABLE WOMANA POWERFUL TRUTH FOR ALL THE BLACK NATION TO SEE
MrAnkless 1 year ago
I am encouraged to hold my peace. I am encouraged to continue to believe in him and support him even through these trying times. Thank you sister Shahrazad. I'm not Muslim but I thank Allah for you.
seedsofabundance 1 year ago
Not just that they were sick and wrong but live in a society/raised to help perpetuate these cycles. I for one cannot spend the rest of my life blaming or battling brothers. I have a great black man in my life right now, we are struggling through communication issues as we both break the chains of dysfunction from our pasts and this is such an encouragement.
seedsofabundance 1 year ago
I feel that more of us need to step up and accept our roles in this mess. We must brave the pain we have held and allow our men to console us, protect us, put some clothes on and respect us. I can say this, as a woman that has been abused in childhood by black men and can now see the dysfunctionalism that allowed it to occur.
seedsofabundance 1 year ago
Wonderful video, we need more truth like this out there.
lovetruthism 1 year ago
she is hard on point and speaks str8 truth 2 power
vincerashaad 1 year ago
TAKE CARE ABOUT THIS GUY KOLONGA. HE IS RACIST, HATES SOUTHAMERICAN WHITE PEOLPE. BUT WE ARE NOT RESPONSABLE ABOUT THE ENGLISH MEAT TRADERS MADE IN THE PAST AGAINST HIS RACE.
grodvil 1 year ago
I appreciate this sistah so much!!! She's a beautiful woman and lady who knows and teaches women to be appreciative in (our role) how the Most High created us...Prov 31:) Being able to birth our babies and teach them the truth of the Most High and His Son, cook for our husbands, get righteous counsel and protection from them etc... Oh, and it's lawful for a man to have more than one wife...it's all in the scriptures! Not all men had more than one wife, tho. May the Most High be with u
sheteak 1 year ago 2
I'm a Christian and I don't agree with a man having 2 families...that's wrong in my religion...if you tell men they can have more than 1 wife, then more men will be going to prison and we have enough in jail already...you have a lot of great points and i love love love what you had to say about the black family, but telling men to hit women and telling men they can have more than 1 wife is ridiculous and illegal Ms. Ali. I also don't agree with what you said about MLK.
aeatmon 1 year ago
@aeatmon abraham, the patriarch, and i emphasize Patriarch, had 2 wives, and Issac had several, Leah and Rebecaah
vincerashaad 1 year ago
@vincerashaad read your Bible, God died for our sins and we are under grace and mercy now, new testament, and no longer under the LAW, old testament; 1 wife, 1 husband; this is HIS WILL not ours; study to show yourself approved
aeatmon 1 year ago
@aeatmon WHERE DOES COME IN TO THIS LOGIC
1911beauty 11 months ago
@1911beauty your statement makes no sense
aeatmon 3 months ago
@vincerashaad old testament...we are under the law...read hebrews
aeatmon 3 months ago
Thank you Thank you
SunnyWinters718 2 years ago
Well here is a news flash: When you get with another man from another culture, you babies will still be black and you will make another BLACK MAN so you can't get away from the Black man. We are INSIDE of you and YOU ARE IN US. We are one!
Symbolically, The white man is having sex with the black woman and he is making sure she HATE herself and love his sex and world. That's Demonic.
But the blk man does NOT envy the wh man. The Lord blessed us with somethings too! We are still lords too.
devoutman 2 years ago 4
You are absolutely right. The black man and woman is inside of each other and that is a blessing in itself. I love my black men no matter what. Black men and women have to be re-educated on life in it's totality.
supervirtuouswoman 2 years ago
@supervirtuouswoman
Thanks sister. You are right when you say that we must be RE-educated on life and WE must JOIN forces with each other. I realize that ALL of us can NOT join together but one man and woman can join each to become one. Then, we must look at each other with new eyes of LOVE in stead of hate. We must reprogram ourselves to know that the other party in the union means us well because he or she love him or herself. We are a part of that SELF! US!
devoutman 2 years ago
So, in other words, you are saying that a black woman lower her standards by investing in a black man?
My question to you is that: if the black man is the head of the family, then who gave you the ideas to USURP his leadership? Is this what being affiliated with OTHER people do to you? Did a good job do this to you? Did slavery do this to you? How can you be a traitor to your fathers, uncles, brothers and sons that hold the black seed. Self hatred is rooted in this thought.
devoutman 2 years ago
I watched them all and I like her. I hope she has this on DVD but if not, no worry, I'll buy the book. Just to bad I'm getting it like 15-20 years after she wrote it but, I know the same still applies or I wouldn't have watched all of these vids.
Seniortrends 2 years ago
Weather it's sooner or later as long get the knowledge ! Stay on the path ! God bless you !
cjonyx 2 years ago
i would love for Queen Latifah plays her in a movie
joeabennett 2 years ago
I disagree.. She looks too butch and unfortunaltely its too chic in Hollywod! lol Plus...did you listen when she said: " Women acting like men..!" LOL
Lastly, as a rapper-she's alright but as an actress- TWO THUMBS DOWN! Peace with two fingers....
basquait1 2 years ago
I believe that Sis. Ali has hit on a subject that's been ignored for far too long. I cannot say that either black men (I happen to be one) or black women are wrong or right. All I know for sure is that we could stand to take heed to a lot of what the sister had to say. Otherwise, our struggle to flourish and step into our futures looks more & more bleak daily. Wake up black people! It's time to get it right!
UniLuv2008 2 years ago
I liked listening to this...good stuff
suthernbel 2 years ago
The problem is you state this as if ALL black men are by nature a lower standard. Your mentality is what she's talking about. You don't respect black men because society doesn't. I see people like you all the time who get bent out of shape when you see a classy sophisticated black male that doesn't live down to your low expectations.
backnthedaydawg 2 years ago 5
I dont agree with race commitment any more, I know black woman who have low self worth from race commitment its no good. But if she has a white man I guess she doesnt believe in race commitment as well lol.
blissfullyme1980 2 years ago
So a black woman that dates white has HIGH self-esteem? That's the problem isn't it? Many of you think a white man is the Holy Grail that'll solve all of your problems. I see too many BW with white men looking at me like sad puppies because they realized that white man isn't necessarily better than a good black man.
backnthedaydawg 2 years ago 2
did she really marry a white man I was going to ask if she was single too and if not how is her realationship with a brotha lol. Wow any ways she kinda makes since but I feel black men worked hard to not become the backbone of our communities, Also bm have been dissing black woman way before black woman due too hip hop and other forms of media communication. Black woman are just fed up.
blissfullyme1980 2 years ago
TEACH SISTER!!!!!!
KnowledgeB1 2 years ago
POWERFUL!
TruthFan 3 years ago
Your a hypocrite you said you were going to not argue with me and look at you now. If that comment I made sounded ignorant to you then you need your ears cleaned and you eyes examined. You threating me now. Don't start something and then cry to the authorites about it that an ugly female trait.
smoking1212 3 years ago
Sis you are totally correct because the first thing he said to me was I was not listening. Btw this women married a white male so I always sy read with an open mind!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
she makes good points, but she does pass her time blaming either women or white people
de1258 3 years ago
as long as black men were blamed (or are blamed), it's never a problem.
Soulblackman 3 years ago 12
This is a made up statement brotha, it is always a problem for our brothers being blamed!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
what's the made-up statement?
Soulblackman 3 years ago
what you said was a made up statement("as long as black men were blamed (or are blamed), it's never a problem") That's your personal opinion but that you made up in your head!I never blamed black men and blaiming does not solve the problem.
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
No that the truth what he said.
smoking1212 3 years ago
why you wanna write me a comment about something I was talking about 2 months ago?
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
Cause I felt like that why.
smoking1212 3 years ago
Well you sound ignorant and I don't want to argue with idiots.
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
Sounding ignorant and being it are 2 diffrent things. You asked a stuipd question and I anwsered it.
smoking1212 3 years ago
Well sounding ignorant is enough for me to place jugdment and your last statement just reiterated it. Please don't try to start nonsense with me because I will only shut u down!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
I can respond to any comment I want because I have that right. Only an ignorant fool would get upset for me responding to their question. Only a dumbass would ask stupid questions. If it was that bad then you shouldn't responded.
smoking1212 3 years ago
You assumed I was upset? I was simply asking a question because it was a bit weired to me that someone would respond to a comment I made so many months ago and now you are doing it again! Get a life loser! lol!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
Okay first and foremost I didn't think you were gonna respond considering what you said before. You saying "it was a bit weired to me that someone would respond to a comment I made so many months ago" proves your an idiot. You wrote an anwser and you expect someone not to respond because of the time frame. What a dumbass you should think very hard before you write something because as I said before you prove to everyonje your an idiot.
smoking1212 3 years ago
You don't speak with any logic do you? How does me replying back to you promply make me an idiot? Go take some meds, cause you don't even know how to argue properly lol! You are just mad cause you made yourself look stupid!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
Ohh now I get it I should have looked on your profile before. Your a girl thats why logic couldn't sink in your head. All this time I thought you were a guy. Anywho like I said before you put up an response and I voiced my opionin about it.Last I checked I can voice my opionin about anything I want regardless how old it is. I don't get why your perplex about me responding to something you wrote?
smoking1212 3 years ago
I never said you couldn't opinions you fot mad at me when I voiced mine! I simply asked you why u responded to me so late and you went haywire like a lil bitch! you are the one saying I shouldn't have wrote you! When it comes to logic you don't come too close!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
You still fail to see the logic. I think you would benefit reading to sharazad ali's book. I responded so late? Lady it wasn't like I planned it I just hoped on the page read comments and yours stood out and I replied. Your the only person complaing about someone replying to your stuff. Nobody else every complianed when I replied to their comments. I never complained when they replied to mines. Your arguements are fruitless give it up. It's over.
smoking1212 3 years ago
No you too it as a complaint. I was never complaining like I said I simply asked a question and you took offence by it! It wasn't meant for you to take offence but being the overly emotional being that you are, YOU DID!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
OMG lady let it go. Your logic will never bear any fruits. I tried to explain it to you but you just don't get it. You keep making up stuff. I can't believe im saying this but leave me alone. I'm not gonna argue you down anymore.
smoking1212 3 years ago
I can tell by looking at your profile page that you get into alot of disagreements on youtube. Yoy are nothing but a mindless child! Leave you alone? You need to leave me alone. You are the one bothering me obviously because you keep bringing up arguments out of thin air. You are probably gonna send me another message 3 months from now!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
I thought that what I was doing leaving you alone but here you go writing me you could have left me alone. You don't listen. Give it up you can't win.
smoking1212 3 years ago
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smoking1212 3 years ago
BTW I have read both of her books and though she has valid points she is hypocritical! What is your point of suggestion!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
Actually I don't get into alot of disagreement because people understand you can respond to anything you want. And those comments had nothing to do with me he was talking about someone when you find the page we were on you see.
smoking1212 3 years ago
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smoking1212 3 years ago
"No that the truth what he said"
This is where the ignorance started! I think you should think b4 calling someone ignorant!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
No dumbass the ignorance started when you asked this question. "why you wanna write me a comment about something I was talking about 2 months ago?" You could have just ignored it if you felt that way dumbass.
smoking1212 3 years ago
No idiotbox you shouldnt have wrote me to begin with with your ignorant 3rd grade level writing techniques. I commented back because I'd couldnt understand why someone who couldn't put sentences together properly would have the audacity to try to go against something I said. Read everything I wrote and read everything you wrote and you will see who the dumbass is! YOU! BTW You are the one getting upset not me!
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
No you shouldn't have wrote me to begin with if I was so ignorant like you said. If I felt like you felt I would have ignored it and kept it moving.
smoking1212 3 years ago
They should tell it like it is and sister ALi book is meant just for, i will personally buy you a copy and gladly send it to you. You are generalizing right now, not one time did you see me calling anyone a bitch or a whore. You contradict yourself by geralizing my actions. Your emotional level needs to be check and shut down, until you learn your place in gods order of his creation. Calm your mind!!!
DiScUrNmEnT 3 years ago
Men are not more emotional than women, satan taught you that message. God did not create man to be more of anything of a lessor than image. You need to shut your mouth and learn and watch every video sister Ali has to offer, and humble yourself and turn from your wicked thought process and your wicked tongue.
DiScUrNmEnT 3 years ago
Who is Satan? What spirituality do you practice?
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
You did not listen once again. Like she said, men are not waiting to anyone to have children by more than one person. So, if it has already happened take responsibility at both households and uphold them financialy or any way that you can. Once again, women still dont listen and only hear their emotions speaking. All you hear is someone is cheating and hurting from the message. It's not a pass for men to cheat the damage is done so take care of what u brought in this world, no matter by whom.
DiScUrNmEnT 3 years ago 2
What do you mean by "I did not listen once again" when else was I not listening? I am listening and I am being emotionally clear! Why do you have 2 come at me like that brotha?
bahiyyah19 3 years ago
I agree, what she is saying is that these men already have children from different women. If I were involved with a man who has children with another woman I will have no choice but to accept that he will spend time with his children. I would want him to handle his responsibilities. That's one of our greatest failures in the Black community. The Black man's seed is just floating around. I know a guy with 11 children by 5 different women, now you know that's a shame. Talk about sharing.
TruthFan 3 years ago
But you know what, Greg? Black people in America's sense of gender roles has been decimated. Ali is speaking about how black men have been shut out of being in any position of responsibility.
bibimiyoshiplus 3 years ago
I agree with everything except men being able to have two families. It isnt even about jelousy its about the spirtual union between a men and a women. You cant have a man at your house today and then with his other wife and kids the next day
bahiyyah19 3 years ago 2
why not? BUt if i submit to your point, he can have both in one house, each wife on her own floor or apartment.
Soulblackman 3 years ago
Thanks for the videos. they were great.
marcdaddy33 3 years ago
It's crazy that we turned our back on her but if you look at the other videos BW are sayin' the same thing-Wow...Sistas let's get it together.
pookiebear97 3 years ago 2
a real woman
goodgame79 3 years ago 9
Thank you for posting this. It has given me a much broader outlook on her. I believe that her book was meant to invoke emotion, but she actually has alot of positive things to say that we all as black people need to hear.
CamilleJefferson 3 years ago 5
Thanx for your kind words and comment.
each1reach41 3 years ago