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  • love the song....i think people should get a second no matter what they did in there life...

  • i guess those 4 dislikes are people that didn't do anything with their second chance

  • hes right if u turn to god he will help u!!!! ive gave my life to god here about 4 months ago and things are goin better than ever. the the lord is better than any drug!!!

  • remind me of my mom and step dad i was removed from their home when i was 10 because of meth it is the worst thing tht was ever invented it ruined their life i am 21 now and i havent seen or heard from my mom in 11 years no calls or nothing i dont know where they are and it is worst when you are an only child

  • i wish my former ex fiance did this with his 2nd chance.......wish he meant he wanted out of his viscious circle, he says he does but its getting worse. he said it's cuz i'm not in his life, of course it's my faault it always is. if he really wanted me and a normal life he could have it sio easily, along with working on it hard of course. you can do anything if u want to. farewell babes and best of kuck.

  • I lost my kids when they were real little so I went to drivin' otr trucks for 10 years to find hope. 1999 I became handycap and blame God,I thinks it's time I get down on my knees. My kids are grown now but sure wish I had that 2nd chance on that semi-truck.

  • I've listened to this song about 100 times. It made me cry but it gave me back something I lost along time ago and that's hope and faith. THANKS ALOT FOR THE WORDS TO THIS SONG FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART.

  • I've never heard of him but dang he got the story and voice goin' on!!! LOVE IT!!!!

    

  • i lost my ex gf and my son due to alcohol and weed. but now that im 19 im changing my life around. im joining the marines and im an honors student. i can finally see my son again. he looks so much like me.

  • @theshagster19 congrats man!! good to hear that people are making changes in their own lives, and not being forced to!

  • @butnob951 thanks. my lifes gotten better. ive beend 1 year with out weed or alcohol. now i can see my son.

  • @theshagster19 NICE! good to hear that! and good luck with the marines!

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  • i was wild and stupid but a girl prayed for me to change my ways, i thank you kelly and i hope this time i can keep you forever

  • this video was me 7 years ago, not meth but alcohol and GOD gave me my second chance, and i will not waste it!!!

  • @kevinkyle46542 good job. ive been1 year with out weed or alcohol. and god gave me my life back

  • best part of the vid is 4:35

  • @leviissingle  so true

  • This reminds me of my brother, God I hope he stays sober.

  • i like how he tells his story it relates to so many i know including me

  • I am bawling 

  • this song doesnt relate to me, but I know it does others. It sure made me cry!

  • this song blows me away i know people who have been thru this and its hard not to get that second chance and i am so greatful for my second chance i am a alcoholic but its still hard not to cave in i been sober for a year due to a slip up but i take it day by day an sometimes second by second but all it takes is a second chance i cried when i first head this song because its me

  • @kimmy25053 i hear you there kimmy

  • thanks for this, you have no idea what you just did for me. this is an awesome song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • awsome song i respect any one that cvan support someone recovering from any sort of addiction. Had a mate addicted to P and it really broke him when our group found out cos everyone tured there backs except me. It caused alot of trouble in our group and i was outcast aswell but now hes beeen clean for 6 years.

  • Great song. It really hits close to home.I am going thru the same thing and expect it to be this way the rest of my life.No matter how hard I work to escape my past it just won't go away.Every time I believe it's going away something happens that makes it rear it's ugly head again.I respect you ,Mr.Bates so very much.Not only are you a great singer .But a great songwriter too.Thanks,for putting words to what I would like too.Keep up the good work and may the Lord bless you.

  • You are one of the strongest men I know man. Congrats on staying sober. I am working on trying to earn forgiveness of people I have let down, and you are helping me with that.

  • very good singer deff tell the pain in his voice.

    

  • Takes a lot of courage to make that statement God Bless you Jeff

  • Never been convicted, served several years in the military and qualify for many jobs,....but this song brings tears to my eyes - I'm a current alcoholic & recovering gambling addict.... EVERYONE deserves a second chance, as long as they're trying & asking for forgiveness. When in doubt, get on your knees and ask the Good Lord for help!

  • Love this!

    Honestly, how is ANYONE suppose to get a job, change, have SOME SORT of experience when no one will give em a chance..... Pisses me off whenever I think about it.

    Especially in a case like this...

  • @Taylor2860 This song brings tears to my eyes everytime I hear it. So So true...

  • @Andreswife7 I cant help but cry when I hear this.

  • I know the feeling all to well I have been turned down from more jobs then I can count. Even the services turned me down.

  • he was arrested  on my birthday..

  • My sister is a recovering meth addicit and having her arrested the hardest and smartest thing to do. She has been sober for 5 years. And has gone back to school and is working and I am so proud of her. Everyone deserves a second chance and the support of loved ones.

  • I'm coming up on 5 years.. wow... never knew this ... thanks for sharing!!!!

  • Yep, Been there, doing that. Got out a year ago after 5 years. My son was born 2 weeks after my arrest. 2 this day I’ve not seen him, let alone give him a hug & say "Daddy loves you." Was working 4 months, never missing a day, moved up the ladder, till 1 day I went to an AA meeting & shared about it. A guy I was locked up with said his relative worked there. I ask him to NOT say anything to her about seeing me. He said not to worry. Few days later I get pulled & told I had to leave. Coincidence?

  • I understand this song completely... I screwed up a few years ago, and ending up almost stabbing my cousin... The cops came and took all my knives away, i was never allowed to hold a weapon, and i was kicked out school for 2 weeks.. probation for a year, and reputation that will last a lifetime, ive attempted to get several jobs, but.. they never call me back. I was allowed into the Army (Sgt. pulled strings.) and i went depressed while there, now they wont even let me back.... one second chance

  • @duffymcduff9128 would be very nice... to prove that I've changed, that Ive grown, and that I can be a better person.. the love of my life left me, she wont even come back... after a 3 year relationship i screwed it up and threw it all away, oh how i long for that one second chance.....

  • wow. this made me cry. one word; powerful

  • SONG GAVE ME GOOSEBUMPS!....SO I UNDERSTAND THE SECOND CHANCE CUZ I GOT ONE MYSELF :)

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  • Hes My Uncle!! Im not Joking a swear to god!!

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  • thats a great song i wish some people could change to be that good

  • I have never used drugs or alcohol but I really could use a second chance at life. So many think of me as incompetent, lazy, stupid, etc that its making it hard for me to find work etc

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  • I never got in trouble with the law, but I really messed up and betrayed the trust of my parents. Now I literally have no life. I'm not allowed to go out with friends, it's school home and church, every week. That's my life now. I just wish I could get one second chance.

  • i have so much more respect for this man after watchin this... it takes god, but it also takes the person to get their life back on the right track. dont forget that..

  • the 3 that disliked this have already had their second chance & screwed it up..

  • It's not just GOD It also takes a damm good man to come back,............

  • congratulations Jeff Bates

    

  • @front8era bet

  • 1:50 is where the music starts... But listen to the beginning if you haven't. I've listen to the song 100 times so just need to skip to the song cuz its awesome

  • got turned down for a badass job and raise because of my background check a couple of weeks ago, i can understand this song. how do you self righteous mother fuckers ever expect us to get back up and be productive when you keep us down?

  • @easttxhunter1 don't do it in the first place?

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  • @easttxhunter1 mabey if you didnt molest children u wouldnt be in that situation...is all u care about yourself?...what about the ppl you hurt...eat a dick...if i had my way fellons would be used in weapons expirments for the military

  • this song is the shit folks

  • I work for the Justice System, and nothing breaks my heart more than to see good , honest people messed up with drugs and crimes they made a mistake and committed. Jeff is a testament to them all that there is a second chance waiting. Makes me wanna cry.

  • Well guys this song touched me in alot of different ways i threw it all away and im tryin to get it back ive spent time i was addicted to opiotes and i was a thief now i am sober and all i need is my second chance! this song changed my LIFE!!!!! Thank You Jeff

  • this song is very good it tell a good story that my fam has all been thourght it my dad is now 6 years clean and both of my sis are 5 years clean iam so pourd of them

  • I finally got my one second chance finally got me a job i was addicted to herion and was incrated for poseession of drugs and 2 breaking enterings i love this song

  • my 20 yr old son has been sober for 3 months now... he has one baby and another one on the way.. I think the last time he went to jail it cleared him up .... congratulations Jeff Bates

  • So, im addicted to drugs and Im an alcoholic. this song as put an imput on my life. It gives me hope that I will change one day. I just need to believe in my self and I just need to get straight with God. I would really like to meet this artist, so i can tell him how i feel about this song. I listen to this song everyday, and it just gives me more and more hope.

  • @ChelseaxButler Hope is good, but it takes action also. You can put that away and start rebuilding your life. How bout starting today. Good luck, and be safe.

  • every time im down i lissen to this song it makes me cry every time but it helps me so much

  • the 3 people that dislike this are probably meth heads that have not got caught yet and don't understand the feeling. Everyone deserves a second chance. My brother is in jail right now for somethin stupid. He will be in there till Dec 23. two days before christmas. He has a baby boy & the babies momma is part of why he is sitting in jail right now. He is gonna turn his life around!

  • no one can be the next Johnny Cash, but, does he make any body else think of Johnny?

  • i love this song man. its the best song. its changed my perspective on so many things in my life. im getting my second chance on a life i turned my back on. thanks man

  • You are such an inspiration .....I hope that my man gets a second chance like you did. He has been my friend for years...gets out the end of next year. Hope me and him get are chance with him getting a second chance for a better life.

  • the first minute and 45 seconds, during his confession... he keeps looking down like he is reading off a script. love this song tho.

  • it takes a big man to admit what he has done to others and i have been a huge fan of jeffs for many years..his songs are amazing...and his voice is as close to conway as you can get....i love you jeff youre an amazing man

  • this was the way my dad was.except he did it to get him beer.and that turned him to where he had nothing to do with me.im his only child and it hurts that he would rather drink then see his only child.he told me that he hated me and that if he could take back the day my mom had me he would.but the thing is i still love my dad and i always will. i just wish he would change but i kno he wont.

  • I relate to this song song much.Ive lived this and after I heard this song it changed me it made me wana b a better man.Thank u jeff bates!!!!!!

  • For my sister... Come so far.. Been through so much. LOVE YOU SIS! :D

  • this is the first artist i seen in concert that opened up just like he is in this video... keep up the great work jeff.

  • 10 years now way to go Jeff he is a wonderful person!

  • 10 years now way to go Jeff

  • :) hessss so sexxxy.

  • i lost my dad to a drug addiction. brings tears to me when i hear this song glad that jeff got his stuff together

  • What he did to take responsibility for his actions unlike any politician,actor or anyone else took courage and humility. That is why I why I like and respect Jeff Bates besides being an outstanding singer and peformer.

  • Im 18 now. And when i was about 3 years old. And my father did this same thing and i remeber him lying to me countless times and i really didnt understand why. And now he is 3 years clean. And out of his 4 kids i am the only one that will forgive him for the hurt he put us trew lying and stealing from my mom. But i belave with God anything is possible. God Bless

  • i hate lady gaga she ruins most of the good songs of youtube by showing her face behind the video...

  • @CJXXxxUnknown better than justin bieber bro

  • @TheC0ON god damn, that would ruin YOUTUBE itself!

  • i have sat down and ate dinner with him yesterday he is family

  • i love this song 

  • I had no idea this was his story....Jeff, I know you probably have more important things to do than read youtube, but if you do know I will be praying for you buddy!

  • This part to the song is all my bother

    "It says here you're from Houston: You're certified to drive a truck.

    "It doesn't say what you been doin' the last five years."

    Then I watched his eyes keep readin', then I watched his eyes look up,

    An' watched another job I needed disappear.

    'Cause when they get to the line: "Have you been convicted of a crime?"

    They say: "Thanks for comin' in," an' they don't call you back.

    I ain't askin' for every job under the sun:

    I just want one second chance

  • ilisten to this every time i wanna eta pills it helps me

  • i gave you one second chance </3

  • absolutley amazing

  • two people are heartless

  • man this hits me hard im 15 and this song blows me away sounds like my moms story with alcohol she was a heavy drinker and when she got hooked it all when down hill she wanted to put me up for adoption when i was born but my dad took me and its been 13 years since i saw her i know life was hard for her but i wanna give her a second chance mom if you see this please come home

  • @jdew657 im sorry about ur mom i know wat its like to lose a parent i lost my dad when i was 3 i am 13 now and i really miss him and he got hooked on drugs an never cared about me :'( but i hope ur mom realizes u need her and she comes home

  • @jblover252346 its fine ill pull through all this i have before i dont even know where she is ill never find her.....

  • this is so sadd!!:(

  • thank you jeff, you've really treated my family ok!....darren roth luv!

  • This song tears me up because it's so honest. Beautiful. ;-)

  • Your awesome!!!!

    

  • :'(

    

  • I just found this song on another YouTube video and it spoke right to me. The way I have been living my life hasn't always been the "right" way and now I see that I don't have to keep living my life this war and that now I can change who I am and be a better person then what I have been.

  • This song is absolutely beautiful and I am so proud of Jeff. I have been in his shoes before and luckily I got out just in time. I think this is one of the best songs out there! I give kudos to this song and am glad Jeff turned his life around!:)

  • always tear up at the end when the son comes and hugs him, it's so emotional. epsecially for me. certain reasons.....

  • @heartbroken4879 same part for me

  • that dislike must have be his ex wife.. bitch.

  • My husband has been there! AWESOME SONG...I just heard it on Yahoo music, took me awhile to find who it was.. but thumbs up!

  • i didn't even know who Jeff Bates was. Wow. I've been missing out!!!

  • jeff your the man bra i watched this video and it made me quit everthing

  • I've been following Jeff for 6 years and for some reason the radio stations won't play Jeff. Every woman on a mission has tried for years to get Jeff played more on the radio. The radio played Long Slow Kisses and The Love song because they were in the top 20 and they played Good People one time because Jeff was in concert here in sc the week that Good People came out. I hate the fact that Jeff isn't played and I have to drive for hours to see Jeff in person to here his wonderful voice.

  • This man needs to be on the radio. Very moving and inspirational songs. Come on America give this man the respect and fame that he deserves. We all have a past but to make a song and incourage others from his past is a major task

  • apparently one person needs to give this song a second chance

  • god controls everything tht happen to us and he helper jeff bates get out of meth thumbs up if u agree

  • Really hits home. I've been working a job making between eighty and a hundred thousand a year for five years now. I was only eighteen when I started and being young with that much money got me into a lot of trouble with drugs. Sober for ten months now and finally able to say I'm not living paycheck to paycheck just to feed an addiction

  • im so proud of my bf for being clean now for 8 years and i know its not easy for him because he lost everything in order to get clean but i love him with all my heart and im so proud of him

  • this song makes me cry bc now i know how my uncle feels and i just want him to know that i love him and always will

  • i never cry.. but i just did... amazing song

  • This song makes this Big ole Boy Cry everytime.

  • This is the perfect song to show how people can change. And I wish my parents would realize that. If anybody's done one thing wrong, my parents think they're just a horrible person. I've done so many things wrong...

  • who in the world would dislike this song!!

    Jeff Bates, we are soooo proud of you! your fans love you! don't stop singing! your voice is AMAZING!! and your songs are powerful

  • strange enough my boyfriend is in the hospital and this song is helping me get through my worry....He is in the hospital because of a forewheeler accedent.

  • I've just heard this song and it immediately put me to tears... My mom died almost 6 years ago from the drug methanphetamine. I just wish she could have gotten one second chance, maybe she'd still be here today. Great song Jeff Bates

  • this song was the biggest inspiration for me to quit that terrible drug. I have been clean now for 1 year and 2 months. Thank you jeff.

  • Jeff, I'm the author of the the "Offenders Restoration Act" which I failed to get passed in 2004. I've learned over the years that no matter what you do they will hate you to your dying day. If you will contact me by email, I will send you the 55 min. speech I did on it on CD. When I finish writing "Quotes of a Patriot" I may send you a copy of that too. Hang in there bro....blessings always.

  • I have seen Jeff now about 4 times and he is about one of the best singers out there although the music industry doesn't recognize him the way they should and that's a shame

  • Powerful great ...Jeff it takes balls to stand in front of the world and tell this story good luck with your recovery

  • i have been down this road and still trying to get the shit i f@#k up back and get a job just like it says they get to the part a bout crime then turn me down but one day at a time ill put back together

  • go baby

    

  • im only 13 and about 4 months ago i went to juvee for breaking and entering arinsted and vandalism it got my 3 months and in those three months when i was siting there i read the bible and when i got out i had lost everything no freinds all my teachers where ashemed of me and i just wanted to give up and then my freinds are starting to come bak. ppl r starting to respect me more and im just getting a second chance

  • i know your pain its happend to my uncle and i proud of you

  • Thanks Jeff, We all don't get a Second Chance...I was aquitted of the crime they attempted against me; I received authorities finally apprehend a pardon from the death penalty, an the real criminal is still out their. I got my Second Chance; Keep up the good you do, for it returns back to you.

  • IF THIS DOESNT TOUCH YOU AN MAKE YOU WANT TO GIVE PEOPLE A SECOND CHANCE THEN SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH YOU THANK YOU JEFF BATES ....COULDNT BE PROUDER OF YOU IF I TRIED....GOD BLESS....CHECK OUT LADY ANTEBELLUM ....NEVER ALONE VIDEO...JEFF YOU'LL LOVE IT TOO GOES VERY WELL WITH YOUR SONG AN IT'S MEANING...

  • IF THIS DOESNT TOUCH YOU AN MAKE YOU WANT TO GIVE PEOPLE A SECOND CHANCE THEN SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH YOU THANK YOU JEFF BATES ....COULDNT BE PROUDER OF YOU IF I TRIED....GOD BLESS

  • wow this made me cry.. awsome song

  • this song makes me even more proud of my husband to be he has been through so much and was an addict as well as a dealer of meth and he overcome it for his family and his kids and has been clean for almost 10 years and its an amazing person who im glad woke up and changed im so proud of him

  • Damn, what a song! Been clean & sober one day at a time for going on 11 years now. Watching this absolutely tore my heart up. Thank you God for my own second chance.

  • vevo sucks!!!! It always has to stop for upload!!! SUCKS!!!!!!!!

  • great song!by the way he looks philappino!

  • WOW were was this video whn my life was goin the wrong way the only way tht made me over come my addiction was not given up to quit im glad i got that 1 secong chance tell u the truth this video gives me the chills and makes me tear up whn i listen to it

  • His hairs so shinny!!! Wtf

  • Wow!

  • This song makes me tear up every time!!!

  • WOW im sooo soooo proud of Jeff bates. maybe some people should watch this vid. Maybe they'd learn a thing or two.

  • @skittlesandsquirrels my son was in prison for 3 years, and he has the same problem. He's trying, but nobody wants to give him that second chance. It's sad

  • @Kayden711 yeah. i don't understand why people just look at your back ground....if you fucked up in the past and are trying to make a difference now, that is all that should matter.

  • @skittlesandsquirrels I wasn't meaning the drug part, but, he has problems getting people to even give him a job...how's this one...McDonalds manager, "I'm sorry kid, but you just aren't McDonalds material"...how's that for a kicker? McDonalds hires EVERYONE!!!

  • Jeff is one of the rare one's in Country Music today. Sounds so much like Conway Tritty it's scary. This one beautiful song. I know addiction Norco 100 a week I lost everything. Now a spinal cord injury has me right back on this crap...

  • this song is so true. Everyone should have one second chance!!

  • meth paralyzed my left side the very first time i tried it i am now drug free 4 1/2 years and playing my guitar again

  • Have never heard the music of this guy, but he's coming to my small town community's church this Wednesday so I thought I'd give him a listen.

  • @AsherSax I'd go see him if I were you. He's great live!!

  • I watched my meth addicted uncle hold a gun to my dads throat.. his own brother. All my dad could do was cry and tell him how much he loved him, he put his gun down when he heard that. He's been clean for 7 year's now.

  • man u are talented keep the dream a live

  • Congratulations on 10 years Jeff!

  • awesome song 

  • I wondered what becamse of him.He had such good songs back in the 90s.Glad he's coming back & getting things right.

  • God bless you Jeff, so many of us in a thousand different ways can relate to you. Thank you for this video, you will be rewarded for eternity. Kig

  • This is the most powerful song of forgiveness that I have ever heard. It has truly touched my heart. I want to thank Jeff Bates for having the courage and strength to make this song and video. A lot of people would not have this much courage to admit they had been addicted. Congrats on being drug free!

  • this song has brought tears to my eyes....My birth father is a full blown drug addict & alcoholic.. He is 41 & he has been this way Since his 20's... I feel imma never get my dad back... Rehab doesnt help, Jail doesnt help.. Can anyone tell me what is going to help.. I even tried praying! My dad doesnt love me he has hurt us all & I am just so broken inside now!!!

  • @MissBrittanyT

    The only thing that you can do is pray. The person that you love has to hit rock bottom so to speak before you can help them. They have to want help themselves. My advice would be to pray that they will want help. God is stronger than any addiction and He has the strength to see you and your birth father through this.

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  • This is an amaing song! Love ya bud keep God First and everything will work out :)

  • JEFF BATES NEW INSPIRATIONAL CD WAS RELEASED FEB 15, 2011....title

    ONE DAY CLOSER...available in stores, online and at JeffBates . net

    The CD is truly heart touching...

  • LOVE Jeff Bates.. Tried in 2004 when I first started following him to let me start his FAn Club, he said oh no I just want Everyone to come sit on the bus with me just like you are doing now. WOW.. I said dear that will not work.. you just do not know your own Talent... Keep Keeping on Jeff.. Loveing you here in Texas..

  • This makes me cry

  • Success is not measured by the number of times you are knocked down, but the number of times you get up. God bless you Jeff!