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  • I really needed to hear this thanks

  • thank you so much, randomly found this vid and it just made everything clear to me

  • Now I know what to do.. I watched so many videos about it but still its really hard to start.. I just want her out of my head.. I fell so inlove with her that I became too weak to be on myself.. its really hard I just wish I can forget about her

  • This was very helpful thank you

  • Nice to see some men have hearts and actually think about these things too,thank you that really helped.

  • fuck love man. fell in love with this amazing girl but saw me as her best friend and now she's going out with some dick and it fucking hurts \3 . nice guys never win.

  • @MrSkitzophranic i know exactly how you feel you bro, some girl that i met on xbox live and fell in love with and met her 5 times in reality and then some other dickhead came into the picture and stole her of me :'( i was so heart broken, dont worry bro you arnt the only one he is going through depression and sadness rught now, i feel your pain bro, we all do,and unfortunatly its something we just gotta accept and move on from, dont worry bro you will find a better girl than her, im asure you ;)

  • @pancakes2000v1 if you have xbox and would like to add me my gamertag is TITANIUM T800 ;)

  • that was a thing of beauty..you can see the emotion when you talk..so its real..thanks alot man..you helped me

  • Didn't realize that guys actually had deep feelings after all the times I got played :(

  • @leahhalfpenny

    yeah well, when guys have feelings they are usually greater than girl's, feelings, and they can get hurt more than girls can ever imagine.

  • My girlfriend lost interest after a month.. Then said we should get back together, and that we'd be together for at least 6 more months.. then she dumped me 2 days later..

    Suicide is still an option

  • My girlfriend of 4 years dumped me cause I'm joining the marines......

  • @dreglez21 My girlfriend dumped me too and I'm going to the marines in two months

  • Geez I fucking hate her so much

  • Ive been single a week today, after finding out my gf of 4years slept with 2 men.. 1 was her ex, when she visited home for the week previous. Im gutted, but.. im trying to see this as an opportunity because i feel half the man i used to be. This video helps me think that this relationship ending is probably for the best. thanks man. Peace

  • i still feel hurt coz she says she wants me back

  • ):

  • Thanks. I was with a girl at 17 an we were together for 8 years. We broke up a year ago and I've been on a couple dates since. I even fucked a couple chicks. And just when I thought I was over her I found out she was with someone else... Wham! I Instantly got sick and have been crying for a week :( I don't ever wanna fall in love again

  • just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me ...

  • fuck im depressed at the moment i hope this shit helps

  • the girl that had black hair green eyes the one that i loved moved and i cried in1st period and i cried and i watched this video and i still miss her what should i do

  • thanks so much! i just had a break up about a week ago! i didn't want that to happen but it happened. i felt hurt & sad! i still feel pain & lonely sometimes. but i realized what i did wrong in the relationship & what could i've done to make things different! i don't know if i was really happy in that relationship but i was just looking for love! now i understand that nobody can give me that love but me! & that break up came to teach me how to improve myself & do things that i love to do.

  • Thank you. 

  • what if my best friend, in a way, broke up with me??? It seems so much harder to get over than a boyfriend breaking up with me.... it just hurts... so badly.. i can't stop crying!! please help!!

  • Love is like a rubber band. We keep pulling and pulling until one of us lets go, and the person still holding on gets hurt.

  • @Kittyj5B Facebook Right ?

    

  • whats tearign me up is, after 3 years my ex moves on within 1 week? :/ and to top it off this bloke she is now dating has a MASSIVE reputation for using girls and my natural instinc is to get her out of there but she just does not want to know, every time we talk always ends in a massive argument, get back to me on this one! thanks

  • i was with my ex for 3years , we broke up because of family ,its been 2years since then and im still not over him!! no guy matches up to him...now we can finally be together but he has a new gf...i think of him everyday literally it breaks my heart ='( i must be insane .... your tips are amazing though ! wish they worked for me

  • @aucksvtech wow its the same for me right now...i can't be with my bf cuz of my parents and in a year and 3 months we can be together because i'll be out of their control...i really hope he's still single then,.. but i doubt it cuz he's too amazing to be single for long...tares me up every single night and especially when i wake up in the morning. :((((((((((

  • awwwww, this is really helpful

  • Good video! I just got out of a relationship and I put everything I had in to it to try in make her happy and make her love me. I put so much in to it I completely lost touch with myself and what makes me happy. This girl, even though she has moved on is still calling me and it makes those feelings fire right back up. I feel stranded because I just can't not answer the phone when she calls. So I guess I need to figure out a way to deal with this situation.

  • true dat^

  • This is my second heart break and it's hard but not as tough as the first one but still emotionally very hard to process my emotions. The tips are so helpful thank you brother

  • Thank you man.... it really helped i felt like my life was at the lowest it could be so I thank you. Good things will happen in your life, im sure of it.

  • you are wise beyond your years, sir!

  • thanks brother your the man

  • I JUS lost the girl l liked 4 2 years I was in tha friend zone I'm bout 2 cry thx I guess there other fish in tha sea but not like dis fish

  • Thank you so much man. I appreciate the time you took to do this. I'm in a lot of pain right now and this has helped change my mindset a bit

  • This is helping....im going through my first break up and we were really in our fantasy world cause we are youngish....but this helps me so much. I am so thankful for you taking your time to making this video. Made me < ////////\\\\\\\\3 to just </3 sorta lol

  • With bf for 9 years, broke up 2 weeks ago. This is a fantastic video, I agree with everything you say and Im beginning to find myself again! Im finally happy :-)

  • Listen, people. If your boyfriend/girlfriend didn't treat you right, YOU should not be the ones who are upset and crying. They should be, because they treated another person like shit.

  • I was with a girl for 4.5 years. She was my everything, I dnt think im ever guna get over her.

  • Thank you. :) this helped.

  • This is so good. thanks so much

  • thank you for the tips i just got dumped the day be for our 3 month i was so upset thanks

  • Im 8 years older than my husband, and I see that he's not the 1 for me. I feel that he may have cheated, he lies, and so on. I feel hurt and used, but I need to leave. My mother says, "A lady always knows when its time to leave" my time has come. I want a future, with goals and dreams. Not just live for the day. So I hope the next woman can put up with his bipolar ass! I know when someone really loves me. and I didnt find it in him. It hurts cause I did want love. but it wont hurt forever.

  • really good tips. but all i have to say is you have a habit of saying "you know" a lot. we don't know, so don't so that. thank you though

  • I was angry until I saw your video. I waisted 3yrs and he broke me money wise. Im still sad bu not sure shy? Thank you so much.

  • this was the best man ! helped alot cheer mate !

  • This was helpful thanks. But what if we broke up for the best? I broke up with her to make her life better. It seemed like it would have worked out but things just happend. We still love each other so much. She tuck it well but she dident want to break up. I dident want to. What should I do. I need her so much. please help. She make me happy.

  • Thanks for the tips. I just found out that my wife cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend. The best par that we just married 100 days, I am heartbroken, but I definitely file for a divorce.

  • @TheGormanZone shit man im so sorry to hear that

  • Yo men! I Feel Better now!....xD...thanks BTW...God damn! now i know what makes me happy....now i know why it feels like this....thanks Man!

  • Owwwwww :'(

    But thank you though

  • I really need help with my situation could i message you about it, don't really want to tell the world :(

  • seriously. my ex's name is kevin. fuck.

  • Thank you. I thought there was nothing that would chear me up, like this. It still hurts, but now I know that it's normal, how I'm feeling. Thank you so much.

  • This was pretty good.. compared to the other ones, but so much of this stuff just doesn't apply to me.. I didn't just lose a girlfriend I lost a best friend, and she seems okay with it, but I want to become friends again, once my emotions calm down, what are your tips for this? How do i get things to feel as normal as possible? Like, I don't have anger, but I switch, from happiness to extreme sadness. Almost like I'm too apathetic for anything. Anyways thanks for your time.

  • 40-1:00 i was already breaking down....

  • I really needed to hear this right now. The tips are very helpful. Thank you very much.

  • @jnellegirl - i am glad it helped. check out my site for more advice.

  • this impacted me so much, it was great !!! god bless

  • @starrlightkisses - very happy to hear. thank you for sharing!

  • I still want to egg his fucking house.

  • @KiiYellEisLAME let's make a team and egg him!

  • @Eltron25 Oh! That sounds fantastic!

  • ibreakups do suck and i finally realized that i am suppossed to feel like i have recently i did love him truly and i thought he loved me and he broke my heart and these tips hurt but helped at the same yime thank you

  • Thank you thank you soo much that helped so much

  • This was the best advice and perspective I have heard. Everything you said is very true and applied to me.

  • @1743ne27thdr - glad it helped. check out my website at howtogetoverarelationship . com for more advice.

  • @HowToGetOverYourEx great video i realy needed help my girl is with some guy and we have a beautiful baby girl together and im heart broken that some guy is around my child more than me she is my first true love and i cant seem to get her off my mind i pray every day to take her off my mind im going to use these tips they sound great thanks alot for geting on here and helping people i feel a little beter already

  • Im going through the mosion smh !!! Im always crying Im always by my self I go from happy to sad in the matter of moments Im always feelin down Im always pissed I wanna punch every happy couple in the FACE I want to hit every married couple in the face.....I taken millions of bills to eas the pain,Im stress and alone my life is HELLLLLLLL

  • @SexChainsWips same.

  • thanks alot. these are great tips. i just wish getting over it wasnt easier said then done

  • Thanks this was very helpful man

  • im on the 3rd month after my break up. Im still cut up. You know what helps. Sex, Drugs And Heavy Metal

  • thanks! very helpful and Im 56 years old! Beware you are never too old to feel pain in regards to a relationship my stepdad is 84 and he looks at my mom whoes 81 like a teenager in love!

  • Thanks had been chasing this girl for ages and finally I had the balls to ask her out for good, lasted for two years about but she finished me last week, this helped a lot !

  • like when your friend takes yourcrush and they live happily ever after???oh yea, its sad

  • CRAP !

  • it's been 2 years and i still think about her every day, she's a fuckin cheating SLAG! and yet i can't stop thinking of her, God Damm you Charlotte :'( you fucking KILLED ME!

  • i got heartbroken today this was my 2nd time with her the 1st time i messed up so bad by leaving her for a girl i was cheating on her with and then i leave the other girl cuz i noticed shes way better and i never knew what i had was so good but today she broke up with me for good now shes the love of my life!:( FML </3

  • What if I can't find someone as good?

  • @DollieRocker56 I know :(

  • but what if i never go out and look for someone else because nobody will ever be as good

  • this is seriously some good stuff

  • That was really nice. I'm going through depression right now because of an unexpected breakup and that shed a little light on everything for me. Thank you :)

  • He's right, learn from it. God won't put you through anything you cannot handle.

  • Thanks

  • thank you Kev, i was in a long distance relationship for 8 months, and when we broke up today, i heard her cry, she actually cared about me, and i threw it all away because i was jealous, and we dident communicate, :'(

  • Thank yu so much man i can sleep at all and needed to hear everythin you said it really did help alot hope you keep makeing vids :)

  • Hi Kevin, Thank you for the advice... I really did know all of this, but is very easy for it to just slip your mind when you are down. You just reminded me of all the great stuff.. and the way you talk about it makes it even more real. Thank you very much :)

  • how about 4 years? ive fucked closed to 20 girls n still get emotional n think about her

  • how about 4 years?

  • this didnt work for me

  • well for me, its been alost 3 months, i tried everything..but it won help. please help.

  • @alwaysforyou1000 Try your best, try to give up the babits relate to that person, set goals and go for it. I am not a expert, just is one of the way help me out of my ex.

  • @alwaysforyou1000

    Just letting you know your not alone. September 28th was my last day with her and I can't let go or any of that.

  • @ycuy samme im so broken

  • Thanks. I'm dealing right now. Happened yesterday. The quote you shared was really inspiring.

  • dude, i Love youh. Thnx soo much

  • Trips down memory lane are like the worst for me. Best to avoid remembering the times

  • thanks man....

  • How to forget all those things that I wanted to do with her.........

  • @TheMialek360 She is the best on you now, so when you lost her you feel really bad, but look there are a ocean out there. Try, you can do that.

  • Thanks, this was a really awesome video. I've been in love with a guy for two years almost and he doesn't feel the same way for me. I've been in the denial stage this whole time until last night I finally just cried my heart out. The hardest thing is I'm dealing with this while being married, but my husband is being amazingly supportive.

  • thanks this helped me sooo much my ex was lik i love you then she was mad at me and and dumped me and then we got back twice and then on the third time i sad no thanks to you some of your video :D i feel so good now and thanks to you:D :D :D

  • @informer2882 i hope that happense to me we broke up a couple times i finally said no but stilll not happy

  • (had to continue this) back together is because of her friends.

  • It's been 5 days, still upset and depressed. The only reason I am this sad is because she just upright and dumped me. I don't know why. I want her back. I have asked her multiple times. We are just friends. It seems like she is teasing me. She said "You are the greatest person I know and I love you a lot, I feel bad that we broke up, and I would love to get back together, but I just wanna be friends." I really love her. Still. Her bitch friend is the reason behind this. And the reason we are not

  • I'ts been over 3 years, I love her with all my heart, I always loved her for years before we got together, she had an accident and it was near death we were friends through the years and I felt I was about to lose something was never there I helped her as best I could went to the hospital everyday to see her, I somewhat believed in god and prayed he would take me instead. She got better and we were very close then she left me I don't know I'll ever stop loving her. I wish I could have died.

  • @CLSILVERBULLETS i'm so sorry to hear that, but dude, press on, go to a party and see if you can find another, i know it sounds redicioulus now, but trust me, if you bind yourself to the one that you know you can't get to, it won't become better, i've been broken hearted and i tried to kill myself, but then i just reilized something, and that was the simple fact that life goes on and if i do this i will miss out on what the years to come might bring to me, i'm in love with another girl now :)

  • I'm thinking about suicide. I have no one to turn too, reason why I'm on fuckin youtube trying to get help.. My ex girlfriend was my only friend.. HELP.

  • This helped so much! My girl just broke up with me for her ex! And i dident know what to do but you helped! <3

  • You know? ... You know?.. Yeah, I do! hahaha thanks! This actually helped<3

  • Hey man, how should I deal with a girlfriend that lied on me?,.

  • broke up with my girlfriend last night and i know what you mean by all this but all i really want is to be with some one is that normal after....?

  • guys are jerk..this guy love me so much and then he broke up with me....i open my heart for him and he torn it apart...because i won't have sex with him..im just not ready you know...

  • Hey thanks bro, this is gonna help me <3

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  • @kaloeaa sme :/

  • I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me yesterday. I dont want to break up with him..but i dont want him to keep going out with her.

    He willingly told me he was cheating while was texting her. I swear to god I have never felt so alone and depressed in my entire life.

  • @XxsushiscutexX I know how you feel ): <3 hope it gets better soon! xx

  • @CinderellaQueen85 Thank you so much <3

  • @XxsushiscutexX Tis fine, one day you will find someone who loves you like you deserve to be loved, don't dwell on that little tosser ^^

  • @CinderellaQueen85 I understand what you mean but i cant just forget about him so easily. My friends told me the same thing but i dont want to focus on when im older, i want to focus on now and just know that i can trust him. Its hard but i guess its the best thing to do.

  • my gf broke up with me after 2 days we were still friends. but tonight she was being a bitch

  • wat do i do if i was try to get her and he got her :'(

  • trying to get over my first boyfriend that doesnt want me anymore :'( so hard. thanks for the tips.

  • I knew a good portion of this, but this is possibly the best, thorough advice. It still hurts but, it's also good just to hear someone talking about this and point out that things are for the best.

    God bless :)

  • Thanx bro

  • reflect and learn... and start again. thanks man :)

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  • Im in highschool so this situation is relly hard on me I see ppl get together and break up in less than a week so I not only feel wierd for feeling this way but also sad cuz of the realization that all my suffering may have been for nothing

  • I just told her how I feel last night

  • Theres a girl ive liked for about a year and every time im with her I wanted to tell her how I feel about her and I finnally told her how I feel and she didnt say anything and im kinda scared I asked her if theres ever a chance of a me and her and im hopeing shes just thinking on it but most likely not I think its just that she doesnt feel the same and its ripping me apart inside I havent slept much lately cuz I just cant stop thinking about her

  • Wow, this video actually made me feel alot better, realize alot of realities. Thank you so much!

  • thanks for posting the video....you know my ex has a lot of friends and she is coping better than I am with my break up....but I don't have any friends as they all sided with her and in work I never made any new friends as I work alone from home...I just feel lonely...what should I do? plz help

  • there was not one thing u sed that i didnt agree with u r soo rigth

  • Thank you ever so much for a kind of on line councling. I recently broke up with my fiance over about a month ago and still  hurts but after seeing your video and another one I feel way much more better than I did. I've been going through so many emotions to the point I wanted to kill my self but I know I am stronger than that I will get over this and I will find somebody eles who will appreciate me better. Thanks once again.

  • you just made me feel better, thanks!

  • i got have a question are u a leo?

  • @kayvansrt8 - no i am a cancer. why do you ask? or what makes you think i'm a leo?

  • a word of advice for THE DREAM OF LIVING with ur girl...thats where it starts to end

  • jack daniels is good for the situation.

  • why do we men let women do this to us..

  • @kayvansrt8 I hear you friend but to women, the reverse it true. We ask why we let men do this to us.

    Take care and be kind to yourself;

    ~~LS~~

  • quick question, should i get rid of everything that i had of her? like i have a picture of her in my wallet, do i throw it out ? burn it or something?

  • What if I was really happy in my relationship and the girl I dated for more than 4 years was the one? How do I get over that?

  • What if the life of my dreams is living with my girlfriend?

  • thank you for uploading this <3

  • id known my girl for over 2 years we got together after 2 an half years we lasted 1 week , she says it was a mistake and she doesnt want to ruin our friendship , i loved her with all my heart even willing to convert change , i put the world to her feet and she kicked it away..... really am thankful for the advice

  • this is wonderful advice

  • Your beautiful.(:

  • @chickemo i agree

  • thank u it helpt alot

  • thank you so much helped me lots i was cryibg before i started this video then at the end i was all better

  • thanks...this helped SO much...no more crying for me..

  • This just made my day. I am glad you did this. Thanks.

  • dude thanks... I helped me a lot.... I hadn't thought of it this way, and now I see that I can play my guitar and bass more. yeah my ex didn't let me play

  • this actully made me feel alot better and made me smile :) thankyouu :) xx

  • You really cheered me up, thanks, the tips are great and the way you talk abot it is very intelligent ^_^

  • first of all, im in high school. its my first year. i spent the last 3 munths waiting for a girl i asked out to get to high school (her parents didnt want her to date until high school). today she cancelled our date and told me she didn't feel the same. so what i want to say is thank your for this video. i still feel like crap, but at least now i know that's normal. so thank you.

  • Your second tip is a good one, realizing the fact that most relationships don't last.

  • Thanks for making me feel better.

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