What age is good to start dating?

[americangirl3141]

RIP

[Brittanyissocool101]

Rip we love you

[cmpunk72390]

RIP Saw your heart vid at church now you are best friends wiht god

[madmonkey51998]

RIP Ben...

[Soccer17fifa]

Fucking awsome kid! Rip ben 😃😥

[polymerclay12234]

R.I.P. I SUBSCRIBED EVEN THOUGH UR GONE FOREVER! LOVE U BEN!

[ThePeacelovesoccer7]

RIP Ben everyone (or at least everyone should) love u. Your my story video changed my life thank you! -3 U should be an ANGEL -3

[bickly777]

though in my personal opinion, i would say that to start dating you should be inbetween the ages of 13-15

[bickly777]

he was so intelligent

[thepandacity]

how did he die??? im reallly sad, but i want to know what happened.

[Jethawk72]

@thepandacity he went into cardiac arrest

[gwennifer100]

@sallovesunicorns RIP Ben. He had a beautiful soul. He's a complete stranger, some one i've never met in my entire life, yet I miss him and I know he was special <3

[XxLindsaymorganxX]

This really helps bc i feel i can date! my parents let me so yeah and im 13!! Rip Ben I Love You See You In Heaven!-3

[xxcookiemonsterfulxx]

I heard about breedlovetv on the news. I immediately put his YT name in my phone because his videos sounded so interesting on the news. I heard ben's story on Christmas day and even though I've never even watched a single one of his vids until yesterday, I feel like he was a part of me b/c his vids are so inspiring. He died so young, but he made a difference in this world. R.I.P Ben, you'll never be forgotten, I promise you.

[ItzMeRongChong]

I love you. <3

[slpqmd6]

Rest in peace buddy. I love you

[bieberbros13]

@axtony45- if the girl has a boyfriend don't ask her.. At this point u stay in the friend zone and just kinda let her realize u care about her so when her and her boyfriend break up u can be the shoulder she cries on and that wil let her know u really do care about her!

[RiderRocker13]

RIP Ben you died so young but died as an inspiration to the world.

[13LovexMusic]

He shouldn't have died. It's not fair. -|3

[bornthiswaygirls]

I know your in a better place rip lovely-3 xoxoxoxo

[axtony45]

i like a girl but she has a boyfriend were good friend but i am to afraid to ask her please some one help me what if she gets weirded out

[gwennifer100]

I just wanna go through the screen and hug him.

[miyaandzasha]

R.I.P Ben i have only watched a few video of yours but you already have touched my heart you have helped a lot people i hope your family is okay and i will listening to my parent completely instead of listening to them 95% of the time

[EmmaAnime96]

R.I.P Ben, You were a great person, Only the good die young <3

[TwilightAdiktus]

I like the advice about listening to the parents! I definitely did that! they said that i can only date if im in college or if i'm 18 so i waited but i started dating at 19 and almost done with college. I say it's worth the wait even if the guy i dated didn't become my bf.. well i never had a boyfriend. Still waiting for the right person! LOL! RIP Ben! You're awesome!

[Mel123kar]

I'm so happy for you finding a happy place in this world but I'm so sad that you won't be making more videos :( I LOVE YOU BEN R.I.P !! ( Do u believe in Angels and God ?? I do )

[unicorn16]

only the good die young RIP

[ImSuchaBabe1]

Awee<3 Your so cute! i watched your "This is my story" part 1 and 2. Im not happy you passed away</3 im happy that your in a better place<3 You said the last time you cheated deth you wished you would have never woken up. Your in a better place. I love you<3

I hope to meet you in heavan <3

[musiclover8996]

When Ben smiled, I couldn't help but smile too. Even tho I didn't know him personally, I could tell he was an AMAZING person and a great friend/ brother/ son to everyone he knew. You will be dearly missed by everyone! My heart goes out to Bens family and friends..You are truly flying w/ God's angels now Ben :))

[lolagreen4]

He seemed soo nice but now he is at peace

[lillylovesutube]

RIP Ben God bless

[ohhxmyjess]

It breaks my heart to see him. he was such a good kid <3

[chinesecat3064]

RIP :( <3 i miss you

[sexybrittneyboo]

I MISS U EVEN THO I DONT NO U BUT UR VIDEOS MAKE IT SEAM LIKE IM UR SISTER FAR AWAY BUT I TOTALY AGREE WITH U ON THOS VIDEO BEN COME BACK PLEASE

[bratzforeve55]

Rip ben :3 my brother (calab your close friend) and I miss you!!!

[nicole902101]

Hearing his voice again make's me smile R.I.P Ben<3

[rosetro925]

I miss you Ben! But im glad that ur happy and peaceful where you are now :) im gonna watch ur videos over and over again :)) -3

[09azkathy]

R.I.P Ben. <3 You're a good guy, wish you didn't leave. xx

[JessieVlog]

Rest in peace Ben. god bless you :)

[LyssaBoo141]

You were such a goody guy: ) Everyone will remember you for your amazing videos!

RIP Ben-3:)

[NotYrCandy]

R.I.P Ben =)

[AdriannaCubellis]

I love you ben. -3

R.I.P

:) -3

[allstar5304]

only the good die young</3

R.I.P ben<3

[TheCody4ever]

R.I.P ben ):

[ThisBeBianca]

R.I.P. Ben<3 I love you so much. you're loved and in a better place!(:

[TheMaky1225]

I tried dating when I was 10=Fail xD R.I.P. Ben <3 I love youu:3

[WWE12Storymode]

rip ben

[SabinaJustice]

-3

[BewareiSparkle]

:( -3

[teencouture101]

-3

[teencouture101]

-3

[TellyTellyTaTa]

AAAAHAH..I JUS FEEL LIKE CRYING RIGHT NOW! why is the world so unfair?

[TheCopper547]

RIP 

[teengossipful]

Rip Ben u are a good person god bless everyone who is in ur situation right now and I hope in 2012 sicknesses to be gone u are in a good place!And it's funny how all the girls in this world who break up with their boyfriends or didn't get the guy they wanted make a big deal like its the end of the world chill there are even more important stuff in this world he was smiling even tho he knew he had a problem so I thank god for giving me this great love and I'm saying this for real he is my inspir

[Alexys3512]

RIP Ben!!!

[maggie20822]

I hope that you are happy and with god RIP Ben

[Abbee63]

@maggie20822 Well I think he is happy, He said in his flashcards that he was smiling and that he couldn't stop smiling and that he didn't want to leave that place...so I want to believe that he is at peace and is smiling down at his family and friends. I only wish them the same peace in the future as well. It has to be very difficult for them.

[TheKiks62567]

Hopefully ur with God now!

[xdancefulx]

Ya in elementary a few guys asked me out it's crazy

[whackyhacker1]

srsly?

[ashlw100]

I didn't know the Breedlove family personally but I do know what ever happen it was meant to. He changed the life of thousands of people even if he didn't know it. I am truly proud of Ben Breedlove.

[sunny199811]

R.I.P Ben :(

[xMadisonBeauty]

RIP BEN!

[lovinmymakeup]

God Bless and keep you xoxox <3

[KristinaMarieMusic]

I think 13 or 14 is a good age

[9stephaine]

R.I.P Ben <33 

[chocolatebabyteoni12]

I should've asked him for some advice...he's amazing at it. Fly high Ben. -3

[zanaaida]

r.i.p <3

[cutegeek098]

R.I.P <3

[youtubinredneck]

I agree with the Elementary thing I hate it when 11 year olds run around the playground telling everybody they're dating! -_-

[yesiknowimawesomee]

R.I.P. Ben. You will never be forgotten. You were a true blessing from God. Fly High <3

[xNessLeigh13x]

R.I.P Ben, you were truly loved and will always be in our hearts. The best ones die young.

[michinette3]

R.I.P Ben, we will all have you in our hearts... <3

[ElleSorenson]

R.I.P-33

[OhJoNoJo]

@DeskJet1104

Come on im a guy and i dont want girls pants now that is a fucking stereotype

[AutmnWolf]

@zeralinda82 The perfect one for you wouldn't care about your looks, they'd love you for who you really are. For that wonderful person you truly are, the diamond in the rough. :3 Anyone who likes you for your looks is visually judgmental, and one who just wants your body is a perverted freak. XD

[TheGomez599]

HOW DO U TELL UR PARNTES U WANT 2 TRY DATEING CUZ IM SACRED OF ASKING MY DAD...........im his lil gurl

[missxlovexx15]

i'm 15, soon to be 16, and haven't dated anyone or been asked out before. i'm content. i believe that you should date when you're able to drive (lol). i mean you don't want your parents driving you around :P the reason people do date, though, is to find someone, maybe, that they want to spend their whole life with. i'm not saying its wrong to start dating at 12 tho.

[SummerLoving4ever]

Thanks Ben for the answer. My friend and i did date and it was going well we were dating for about 3 months and i was going to tell my mum at the end of the month but one day in school he came up to me and broke up with me and he walked off with this other girl. i was really upset but the week after i saw him do the same girl he was with and walked off with a new girl. It make me notice how he has no respect for anyone! i think i will start dating around 15/16. Thumbs up so ben can see it!!!:)

[zeralinda82]

im almost 16 and ive never been in a relationship. people ask me if i have a boyfriend and why i dont, and i just say i dont want one. which is part of the reason but also its because im ugly and no guy would want to go out with me.

[umemmy1]

Where I am ppl started dating since 2nd grade and my little sister when she was in 1rst grade she said her friend had 2 boyfriends

[ScarletGoldForever]

ahaha I'm 13 .. my mom told me that I couldnt date till I was 16, or even hang out with guys ! so ... I told her that she can either LET me hang out with guys and supervise it, or I'll hang out with guys anyways . that fixed that problem . lmfaaao !! yea .. I'm allowed hanging out with guys and dating now . ;P

[SummerLoving4ever]

Thankyou so much for doing this for me i now know :)

[Msbritcouture]

I personally think that 16 is right, im almost 16 and I've never even considered having a boyfriend coz looking at young couple is just strange..

[maryinwonderland07]

@Msbritcouture I think 15-16 is right cause like dating comes before marrdge, i'm not saying the first person you date you should marry or something but u know

[saaaabiO]

in germany we're not allowed to drive under 18 so that's not the point why we shouldn't dating because i'm 14 i know that's not 16 but i have a boyfriend and this is really serious because we know each other a long long time. I think you should date someone who you really like and than the age is not the most important point. I doesn't want a relationship with 14, but you can't control feelings. I think it's up to the person, the personality when you're ready for dating or not thats my opinion:)

[DeskJet1104]

@dressgirlfashion Virgin? What the hell are you talking about? I think you need to read my comment over again, sweetheart. The purpose of dating is to GET LAID. I am under 25 and have plenty of sex - I just choose NOT to have “committed relationships” with women. “Mr. Advice” here is using the terms “dating” and “relationship” interchangeably. You want commitment? WAIT UNTIL 25. Don't be fooled, just because I don’t have a “relationship” with someone doesn’t mean I don’t get laid.

[briannaanetaXOXO]

can you do a video on how to get your ex back !!??

[DeskJet1104]

"Do what feels right and try it out" WHAT TERRIBLE ADVICE! NEVER let your emotions guide your actions, instead use your BRAIN and the LOGIC inside of it to guide you. Anything UNDER 25 is too young to be in a relationship. Now, since DATING=PORKING, if you wish to "date" (as in, have sex with no strings attached) well that's something different. But as for committed relationships...you MUST be 25 OR, more importantly, you MUST have achieved your career dream. Otherwise forget it.

[Kyraalex13]

Could you do a video on how to just keep a boy as a good friend?

[DeskJet1104]

@Kyraalex13 NO. Guys do not want to be your friend. They are with you to get in your pants, THATS IT. And if you were my girlfriend, I would kick your ass to the curb if I found out you had any "GUY" friends.

[Kyraalex13]

@DeskJet1104 wow, umm ur no help

[DeskJet1104]

@Kyraalex13 What don't you understand about my comment?

[mrsdrfozz]

When you both have your license and have a job.

[JasmineIsTheName]

i believe u should wait till your 16 (unless your bf/gf is older) just because, do u really want your mom or dad driving you to your date? lol when your 16 you can drive yourself and i just feel your more responsible at 16.

[xLovebirdx]

If you have to ask if you're too young, you're too young

[BluebigFeather]

every video I watch of you you get cuter. and cuter :) but not in a creeppy way.

the way that a girl would be lucky to have you. :)

[hannahindc]

So is it okay if I'm 17 and I've never dated, had a boyfriend, or my first kiss? :/

[acoop050]

@hannahindc girl thats completely fine in my opinion! :) 

[BluebigFeather]

@hannahindc yes!!! :) you don't have to have a boyfriend. You should qaith until the time is right.

[BluebigFeather]

@hannahindc yes!!! :) you don't have to have a boyfriend. You should wait until the time is right.

[0SophieJane]

@hannahindc im 16 and thats how i feel :/

[JULZ7991]

@hannahindc same! i wanna cry...

[MsColdsuns]

@hannahindc thats completely fine! its good to wait for the right person :)

[000sundancer000]

@hannahindc I didn't have my first kiss until I was 23 and engaged. i saved my first kiss for my future husband because I thought that was thend I don't regret it. :-) it was VERY romantic. My kiss was so much more special!!!

[000sundancer000]

@hannahindc P.s. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 20!!! I didn't want to date just any guy. p.p.s. even though I loved my first boyfriend, we didn't kiss, and that was cool. I'm glad we didn't kiss because I was able to give a special gift to my husband an to myself.

[craqqer]

@hannahindc

this just means when you find someone you like it will be extra special

[bonehed2216]

i find it so wired how english culture and attitude to going out and stuff is so differtent englands :) xx

[Twilight19922008]

I dunno, I think it depends the kind of relationship below 18/19 I don't think you should have a sexual relationship. But 16 for a non-sexual one seems pretty fine.

[Twilight19922008]

I dunno, I think it depends the kind of relationship below 18/19 I don't think you should have a sexual relationship. But 16 for a non-sexual one seems pretty fine.

[Me28Just]

I think everyone can decide fo their own, but with 10 you are in another relationship with your boyfriend than with 15 or even older.

[Misspinklady03]

Ben you have great advice! Keep up the good work! :)

[juicygossipxo]

can you do a first love and heart break video?

[peachykeenx44]

i think like 14 is a good age to start dating

[PiNkbERRYxO]

good advice... except no one wants to date me.. -__- LOL

[anjumstar3]

Heh, people dated in elementary school at my school. And we were the goodie goodie brat school!

[XoJillybean4Xo]

I really like you! Youre so cute and so sweet! I wish I could meet someone like you (:

[Kristinalee15]

Wow. You give awesome advice! Thanks Ben, wish I knew you as a person because you seem like a really cool guy inside and out :)

[marinchyglossy]

honestly 15 is just normal and fine for me. but i can bet that till 2015 we will see 11 year old couples that r actually dating cuz children r just stupid these days.

[xxdancedollxx]

@marinchyglossy Um I'm 12 and I've been dating my current boyfriend since I was 11.

[hannahindc]

@xxdancedollxx And when did you turn 12? Yesterday?

[xxdancedollxx]

@hannahindc August 29th thank you:) haha

[marinchyglossy]

@xxdancedollxx then i must have mistaken the year..no offence dear, but i'm 18 and seeing kids at 12 dating is just silly...

[musicfreak041]

@marinchyglossy Finally someone that I agree with! I'm 15 and I even think dating at my age is pointless. So I especially think that someone dating at 12 is pointless. I hate when little kids can't admit that they aren't really dating. How do they go out? Their moms probably take them :P

[MsLovebug132]

go ahead and try it!! AHHAHAHAHAH lol.

[abbielouise2010]

I have a question ben, where can I privately ask you it? And could u help me? Thank you :)) xoxo

[christineholmxb]

@ixheartxmakeup it's also like that in my school,it's so sad...

[RoyalCandy1998]

Any girl would be lucky to have you ben!

[pripra32]

YOU ARE SO CUTE

[melodietina95]

you're super stretched ben.

[franceslss]

Way more responsibility and problems than you can handle, especially during fights.:- \

[krystalwj]

I think it should be natural, the more u look and focus hard on it, its not gunna happen, when u back off, enjoy life and be yourself, it will happen and it will be the best and most amazing thing!!!!

IT WILL COME WEN ITS SUPPOSED TO!

[Samaanthaxo]

This was actually really good advice.

[kristinaaa29]

You shouldn't get a boyfriend just because your friends have one.

[RosieeRozaa]

We need more guys like you in London. All we have here are sex-crazed, immature animals :/ xoxo

[live4beautyx]

hahahha u look so gat in this video! but ur still hot :) <333

[WaterLilySPLASH]

Let's be real here, if you need to ask someone whether or not they think you're old enough to date, you probably aren't mature enough to handle a relationship. Also if you like someone, you can be friends with them or hook up with them without disrespecting your parents rules

[EBTdancEr7854]

where are your reviewing products videos!?

[BeckyHasRespect1]

I think it depends on the maturity level. If your ready to have a boyfriend/Girlfriend go for it. But if your too shy to talk to the guy (I know people who do this) then wait!

I started dating at 13, was I mature about? yup. No biggie.

[mytwilightobsession1]

16 is way to old to start dating!!!!!! 8th grade and up is good

[laura56126]

I think you should start dating when you realize its fine to not date, and not have a boyfriend.

[MsLovebug132]

@laura56126 thats better advice than he gave. XD

[TheDarlingsOfficial]

@laura56126 I agree

[BarbiesArePlastic22]

missed you!!!

[fashionedbyfate]

i think that at 13 you really don't need a boyfriend. if its just like "oh yeah i like this guy and i call him my boyfriend" then whatever, but nothing too serious because you have so many years in high school and in college and even after that to date, but you only get to be a kid once.

[luvineverything101]

If you have to ask someone if you're too young to date then, you're too young to date.

[PatrioticGirlUSA]

@luvineverything101 Absolutely true.

[TheGLOSSette]

True about the responsibility... there is a lot of handle when you are in a relationship. Its not only about you now you have to think of the other person. Also dealing with fights and problems with your significant other. It all depends on your maturity level. Some people are very mature at a young age.

[mjrocksmiworld]

ben has great eyebrows :D

[RealGirlz3]

Great vid! Good subject. :)

[lovelyflower88]

boring

[prettyinpink170]

ben your a true role model of mine

[play27boy]

can you do a video talking about hookups !!??

[pinklover2210]

where is the perfume video??? :D

[kirr1864by]

@pinklover2210 did he take it down?

[pinklover2210]

@kirr1864by he hasn't done it yet..

[kirr1864by]

@pinklover2210 ya he has :) i think....?

[BoWeR117]

u should b comfortable about dating

[missbeautyxoxo]

Definitely 16 and up! Who dates at 12 lol hey mom can you drive me.. And my date... to to movies please!? Haha that's hilarious and stupid! I am just saying MY opinion!

[lareca9]

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 6 months and we plan on dating for much much longer. i'm a sophmore in highschool (15) and he's a junior (almost 17). because of the age difference we aren't in any of the same classes but we do see eachother in the hallway sometimes. is it weird that we don't ever show any form of PDA? we don't even hold hands...all my friends think that it's weird and we should at least hold hands when we walk together. what do you think?

[textbookbrooke]

i voted 17 and up on the poll but i really wanted to say starting in high school (which i guess would be around 14 turning 15), just because I know things change in high school. But I, personally, think 13 is way too young and that when most kids start "dating" at 13 it's not really dating.

[Lovepinkfashionista]

Ah! Finally a new video, I've been waiting forever :] Thanks so much for the tips Ben, they always help me out!

[maryestes24]

I just love your videos... so much.

[heyitsaislinn]

We can drive here at 14 not 16. xP

[xXPrincessNadineXx]

@heyitsaislinn really 14 ? where do u live ?

[heyitsaislinn]

@xXPrincessNadineXx Well I live in a house. xD Wikipedia has a list of states that allow 14 year olds to drive.

[kwl7j5dw]

@heyitsaislinn what state/country do you live in?

[heyitsaislinn]

@kwl7j5dw U.S.

[JunoKuno]

I used to want to date in jr high/freshmen yr but now I think it's funner to be single ;) also if u start dating when ur younger u might do things that you'll regret later. I'm not dating till college!

[ForeverUndertheSun]

Thank you :) I am seeing her later today so i will definetily talk to her :) thanks for the advice<3