there is a lot of 'i want' to relax one need to let go all those i want i don't want i wish .seems that you are filled with wishes, thay like dark clouds in the sky of conciuosness not allowing the light to get through, absence of light means darknes (depression) .you can't expect that world will fulfill your expectations can you?one more thing do not try to imitate other people, you may get hurt. everyone is unique as you are, so you need to find your own way alone.
Hi Whispersister. I love the way you talk,you have something special makes you stand out,I love your way with words and the way you whisper is just so beautiful. I put the headphones on layed on the bed & just got soooo relaxed. I almost slept,lol ;)There is a difference between lonelinss & aloneness. I play my guitar & write songs to help with my loneliness. I guess we all treat loneliness in our own ways. You're very sensitive & sweet & have a loving heart I can feel it. :))) Big Hugs my dear.
@cbrb40 Thank you for your comment. I'm trying to channel these feelings into music but I'm lacking drive, and still holding onto resistance to reality I suppose... which makes it hard to be honest in song. We'll see. Anyway, I appreciate your comment :-)
@WhisperSister YW sweetie. I know just what you mean,our music should be from our hearts souls and be honest. I get those moments too lacking the drive to complete a song. You'll find that desire to do it. I can imagine how fabulous your songs can be you with your beautiful music talents & honesty emotions & feelings that you show us here in your whispers. :) I'll be a waitin for them. ;)
@busybody19 Well, I can't claim that my motivation for making these is selfless, but I am glad to hear that people get something out of listening to them. Thank you for your comment :-)
thanks you for making this. I was really feeling what you were saying in this video as I feel like I'm in the same frame of mind right now and it gave me a lot of food for thought. thank you!
Loneliness for me is just the feeling that you don't deserve the people around you, that they are just there by circumstance. It's only when you realise your own self worth that you are able to accept people liking you. This allows you to connect much more with those around you (both in terms of friendship and romance) and the feeling of loneliness dissipates.
@whisperexplosions Hmm... I hadn't thought of it like that before but yes, that definitely feels like an accurate description. I can identify with those kinds of feelings for sure. Thank you for that... I've been sitting with this over the last couple days and it makes a lot of sense :-)
...(Part 2) and again in the future. Especially during those times when we find ourselves losing our way. I think instead of just copying/pasting it to my computer (as I've been doing), I'm gonna resurrect that 'Bitch & moan" blog with a new purpose. It'll be an online repository for stuff like this. Anything that might be useful to others (eg; Enneathoughts). A permanent link to information which might otherwise get lost in the ether. Hey, I'm actually doing something positive for a change! lol
(Part 1) - I admire the way you're able to stay focused on one thing at a time. You might see this as obsessing, but I see it as a gift. It's no wonder I never seem to get ahead in life. I try to tackle everything all at once, get overwhelmed & ultimately achieve nothing in the end. I did read that piece on Osho's website. I think you should've posted the link, but like you said, it probably won't be there tomorrow. :( This is definitely an important lesson which needs to be referred to again...
The most beautiful thing about your person is the fact that you are able to recognize all of the things that you need to work on as a person. You are self aware. keep an open heart, and an apen mind and you'll be fine.
@piperpilot26 Thank you for your comment. You're right. I fully expect to be fine. I know things will get better. At the moment, I'm in a place where that in itself seems sad, because it will mean I've let go of someone that I'm fighting to stay connected to. It's a weird place to be, and I don't think there's much I can do to force it to happen. In fact, I'm grateful for this feeling because it's my last tie to him. So even the sadness is welcome. But I know things will change at some point :-)
I agree that he makes some interesting points, but he seems to ignore some very basic facts to suit his own beliefs - foremost, humans are by their very design social creatures. The feeling of loneliness is not a "beautiful completeness" as he says, but rather an instinct of fear that arose from a time when often, if you were alone, you would be killed or left badly wounded. He seems to think that hell is other people and that fulfillment can only be sought in oneself. I could never agree.
@TRRProductions11 Basically, you do need to be your own best friend, but you'd have to be one hell of an ascetic to hope to live a fulfilling life alone.
@TRRProductions11 I definitely hear what you're saying and I agree with a lot of it... Actually, your comments have prompted me to record a follow-up video (I'll make it the first chance I get). Thanks for your input!
If you feel uploading videos is more of a chore than a treat, than don't do it. Do what you want to do, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. But thanks for the video, either way. Good luck with everything going on.
@BigTArmada Yeah, I'm definitely taking it with a grain of salt and I don't agree with everything he says. Or at least, I value things differently and have no desire to live according to some of the things he suggests. But the idea that loneliness can't be remedied from the outside, that's one that I do agree with. I've gone a long time trying to do it that way and I've seen how that plays out. I'm just entertaining new ideas at this point, and some of this made sense :) Thanks for your comment!
@WhisperSister Glad to hear it! For sure there is valuable insight and some interesting "points of ponder" if you will :P ..but as with many things, and I'm not trying to fault or discredit, the assumptions seem to be that these things are definitively qualified, only fit into one category or another, or can be perfected by a universal definition, you know? I just worry that people listen to others who command their communication so effectively, but may unkowningly cause harm or misguide xx
@BigTArmada Hmm, I see what you mean. I guess in the end we can really only say what we believe, and it's up to people who listen to decide whether it rings true for them as well. I try to avoid making definitive statements, especially about observations that are based on my own experience, no matter how sure I am. There are things I know to be true for myself, and I'll gladly share them, but ultimately everyone decides what works for them. This guy does speak with more authority, you're right.
@WhisperSister Precisely! And from hearing/reading many of your thoughts and opinions in your whispers (which are awesome and ty btw lol) I would be much more inclined to trust your analysis of these things.
Thanks for posting this. I've been feeling very lonely lately :/ even though I go out everyday, I feel lonely even within my crowd of friends--- hate it.
@St33nies I'm glad you enjoyed this. I know how that can be, to feel cut off from everyone, alone even in a room full of people. I really do think that the key to changing that is to get more in touch with yourself. That's the only person who never leaves you (if you're lucky). Good luck!
@RENOGUY777 It does make sense. I think it's something a lot of us go through as we try to fit the moulds that we think we have to fit. The process of reclaiming yourself can be difficult and scary, but I'd like to think it's possible. And definitely worth it. Once you've lost yourself, you'll value it so much more when you feel it again.
@MastersOfTheForce I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling depressed. That can be a very debilitating place to be. I'm glad you enjoyed this and wish you all the best :-)
there is a lot of 'i want' to relax one need to let go all those i want i don't want i wish .seems that you are filled with wishes, thay like dark clouds in the sky of conciuosness not allowing the light to get through, absence of light means darknes (depression) .you can't expect that world will fulfill your expectations can you?one more thing do not try to imitate other people, you may get hurt. everyone is unique as you are, so you need to find your own way alone.
MrGreenMellow 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
yep u r blessed
MrGreenMellow 1 week ago
Well, this blew me away
warriorofwrestlingv3 3 months ago
Hi Whispersister. I love the way you talk,you have something special makes you stand out,I love your way with words and the way you whisper is just so beautiful. I put the headphones on layed on the bed & just got soooo relaxed. I almost slept,lol ;)There is a difference between lonelinss & aloneness. I play my guitar & write songs to help with my loneliness. I guess we all treat loneliness in our own ways. You're very sensitive & sweet & have a loving heart I can feel it. :))) Big Hugs my dear.
cbrb40 3 months ago
@cbrb40 Thank you for your comment. I'm trying to channel these feelings into music but I'm lacking drive, and still holding onto resistance to reality I suppose... which makes it hard to be honest in song. We'll see. Anyway, I appreciate your comment :-)
WhisperSister 3 months ago
@WhisperSister YW sweetie. I know just what you mean,our music should be from our hearts souls and be honest. I get those moments too lacking the drive to complete a song. You'll find that desire to do it. I can imagine how fabulous your songs can be you with your beautiful music talents & honesty emotions & feelings that you show us here in your whispers. :) I'll be a waitin for them. ;)
cbrb40 3 months ago
I just want to thank you for taking the time out of your busy life enough to make a video for us... We so appreciate you Whispersister! Thank you!
busybody19 3 months ago
@busybody19 Well, I can't claim that my motivation for making these is selfless, but I am glad to hear that people get something out of listening to them. Thank you for your comment :-)
WhisperSister 3 months ago
hello, Is it me you're looking for?
manvan40 3 months ago
@manvan40 Haha good one :-)
WhisperSister 3 months ago
@WhisperSister good answer :-) thanks, warm hugs if i may.
manvan40 3 months ago
Emo
Taluglalom837 3 months ago
thanks you for making this. I was really feeling what you were saying in this video as I feel like I'm in the same frame of mind right now and it gave me a lot of food for thought. thank you!
WhisperDuvet 3 months ago
@WhisperDuvet You're welcome! I'm glad you got something useful out of it :-)
WhisperSister 3 months ago
Loneliness for me is just the feeling that you don't deserve the people around you, that they are just there by circumstance. It's only when you realise your own self worth that you are able to accept people liking you. This allows you to connect much more with those around you (both in terms of friendship and romance) and the feeling of loneliness dissipates.
whisperexplosions 3 months ago
@whisperexplosions Hmm... I hadn't thought of it like that before but yes, that definitely feels like an accurate description. I can identify with those kinds of feelings for sure. Thank you for that... I've been sitting with this over the last couple days and it makes a lot of sense :-)
WhisperSister 3 months ago
...(Part 2) and again in the future. Especially during those times when we find ourselves losing our way. I think instead of just copying/pasting it to my computer (as I've been doing), I'm gonna resurrect that 'Bitch & moan" blog with a new purpose. It'll be an online repository for stuff like this. Anything that might be useful to others (eg; Enneathoughts). A permanent link to information which might otherwise get lost in the ether. Hey, I'm actually doing something positive for a change! lol
totalrod2 3 months ago
@totalrod2 I think this is a FANTASTIC idea for your blog. I know I would find it a very useful resource. Thanks for your comment Bryan :-)
WhisperSister 3 months ago
(Part 1) - I admire the way you're able to stay focused on one thing at a time. You might see this as obsessing, but I see it as a gift. It's no wonder I never seem to get ahead in life. I try to tackle everything all at once, get overwhelmed & ultimately achieve nothing in the end. I did read that piece on Osho's website. I think you should've posted the link, but like you said, it probably won't be there tomorrow. :( This is definitely an important lesson which needs to be referred to again...
totalrod2 3 months ago
The most beautiful thing about your person is the fact that you are able to recognize all of the things that you need to work on as a person. You are self aware. keep an open heart, and an apen mind and you'll be fine.
piperpilot26 3 months ago
@piperpilot26 Thank you for your comment. You're right. I fully expect to be fine. I know things will get better. At the moment, I'm in a place where that in itself seems sad, because it will mean I've let go of someone that I'm fighting to stay connected to. It's a weird place to be, and I don't think there's much I can do to force it to happen. In fact, I'm grateful for this feeling because it's my last tie to him. So even the sadness is welcome. But I know things will change at some point :-)
WhisperSister 3 months ago
I agree that he makes some interesting points, but he seems to ignore some very basic facts to suit his own beliefs - foremost, humans are by their very design social creatures. The feeling of loneliness is not a "beautiful completeness" as he says, but rather an instinct of fear that arose from a time when often, if you were alone, you would be killed or left badly wounded. He seems to think that hell is other people and that fulfillment can only be sought in oneself. I could never agree.
TRRProductions11 3 months ago
@TRRProductions11 Basically, you do need to be your own best friend, but you'd have to be one hell of an ascetic to hope to live a fulfilling life alone.
TRRProductions11 3 months ago
@TRRProductions11 I definitely hear what you're saying and I agree with a lot of it... Actually, your comments have prompted me to record a follow-up video (I'll make it the first chance I get). Thanks for your input!
WhisperSister 3 months ago
If you feel uploading videos is more of a chore than a treat, than don't do it. Do what you want to do, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. But thanks for the video, either way. Good luck with everything going on.
shadows124 3 months ago
@shadows124 No, no, it's not a chore. Just something that can become a bit of an escape for me so I need to watch that. Thanks for your comment :-)
WhisperSister 3 months ago
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totalrod2 3 months ago
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totalrod2 3 months ago
YAY you finally posted something! yesss
ilovetodraw555 3 months ago
@ilovetodraw555 Thanks for your comment :-) Glad you're glad!
WhisperSister 3 months ago
Idk how much you ought to buy from this individual >> I'm glad it's helping you in some way.. but I think he's missing a lot of.. "stuffs" -_- imho
BigTArmada 3 months ago
@BigTArmada Yeah, I'm definitely taking it with a grain of salt and I don't agree with everything he says. Or at least, I value things differently and have no desire to live according to some of the things he suggests. But the idea that loneliness can't be remedied from the outside, that's one that I do agree with. I've gone a long time trying to do it that way and I've seen how that plays out. I'm just entertaining new ideas at this point, and some of this made sense :) Thanks for your comment!
WhisperSister 3 months ago
@WhisperSister Glad to hear it! For sure there is valuable insight and some interesting "points of ponder" if you will :P ..but as with many things, and I'm not trying to fault or discredit, the assumptions seem to be that these things are definitively qualified, only fit into one category or another, or can be perfected by a universal definition, you know? I just worry that people listen to others who command their communication so effectively, but may unkowningly cause harm or misguide xx
BigTArmada 3 months ago
@BigTArmada Hmm, I see what you mean. I guess in the end we can really only say what we believe, and it's up to people who listen to decide whether it rings true for them as well. I try to avoid making definitive statements, especially about observations that are based on my own experience, no matter how sure I am. There are things I know to be true for myself, and I'll gladly share them, but ultimately everyone decides what works for them. This guy does speak with more authority, you're right.
WhisperSister 3 months ago
@WhisperSister Precisely! And from hearing/reading many of your thoughts and opinions in your whispers (which are awesome and ty btw lol) I would be much more inclined to trust your analysis of these things.
BigTArmada 3 months ago
Thanks for posting this. I've been feeling very lonely lately :/ even though I go out everyday, I feel lonely even within my crowd of friends--- hate it.
St33nies 3 months ago
@St33nies I'm glad you enjoyed this. I know how that can be, to feel cut off from everyone, alone even in a room full of people. I really do think that the key to changing that is to get more in touch with yourself. That's the only person who never leaves you (if you're lucky). Good luck!
WhisperSister 3 months ago 2
@WhisperSister Well i guess im not lucky then. I left me a long time ago. If that makes sense?
RENOGUY777 3 months ago
@RENOGUY777 It does make sense. I think it's something a lot of us go through as we try to fit the moulds that we think we have to fit. The process of reclaiming yourself can be difficult and scary, but I'd like to think it's possible. And definitely worth it. Once you've lost yourself, you'll value it so much more when you feel it again.
WhisperSister 3 months ago
@WhisperSister Not much to say. But i agree :) Thank you.
RENOGUY777 3 months ago
Great...everything about the video. Thank you for making this cuz i feel lonely a lot and depressed like everyday
MastersOfTheForce 3 months ago
@MastersOfTheForce I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling depressed. That can be a very debilitating place to be. I'm glad you enjoyed this and wish you all the best :-)
WhisperSister 3 months ago
@WhisperSister thank you and i wish the best for u as well :)
MastersOfTheForce 3 months ago
This is a great video and an excellent topic. I wish I would have thought of it!
ThePeaceableMan 3 months ago
@ThePeaceableMan Thanks! Glad you liked it :-)
WhisperSister 3 months ago