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  • WHAT HAPPENED TO SHARRISSA???

  • Really love this!!!! Like your style

  • I only watched this cause is was filmed by where i live

  • @lamegurl1996 so what ?

  • so glad i aint dealin with thugs no more, finally got a good man and the thing was he was there the whole time just never looked at him that way

  • fq it i'll never hate it =P

  • Luv kells part

  • Thug Passion! I'm in love with a Chicago Thug~millionire!

  • nice

  • Love it

  • be quiet na na na na

  • @RKellyKingofRandB LMAO i was bussin up! R.Kelly is a mess!

  • "Ooo na na na na na na be quiet na na na na" LMAO!

  • She has the look of the actress from Whats love gotta to with it:P...only prettier:P

  • He has the look of the actress from Whats love gotta to with it:P...only prettier:P

  • im in love with a thug

  • ooh na na na na na na be quiet na na na na

  • why do i get the feeling r kelly actually wrote this song? lol i can hear him singing it too

  • @mjjcng8958 Tank and Sharissa originally wrote it as a solo record. R. kelly's verse was later written by his self, recorded and mixed in to what was already recorded

  • this is me and my baby song love u forever baby always will be down for u

  • I married a thug but i love the ups but not the downs. Thts the price u pay when when get with a thug. And thts just keepin real!!!!

  • my song

  • im in love wit a thug....an da streets come before anybody

  • SHARISSA SHAREEFA AND SHAWNNA ALL LOOK SO MUCH ALIKE AND THEY ALL UNDERRATED. THUMBS UP IF U AGREE

  • I hate it too.....streets come before you

  • its Omar from the wire

  • It's hard as hell!!! been there done that!!!!

  • Sharissa - K. Michelle = Same Person! R.Kelly ain't slick!

  • i'll take a hard working country boy over a thug any day....love the song though...

  • oh,this song brings back memories...i still love this

  • Ha damn My baby is a thug...a Straight up hard core white thug. and he always out there getting arrested, blowing purple clouds, and doing what he gotta do. I have a question for ya'll girls that know what im goin thru. You see I think I love him:) Even though we young cause Im 14 and he's 16 I see myself with him. I never felt anything anything with other guys buh he's....diffrent. and he dont wanna drop out. and well wha do i do?

  • now if your man doesn't have a job and hustle to purchase you an expensive car with straight cash (no car payments) that nigga is slangin' straight dope... lol

  • I just found out this video was shot 2 blocks from where I worked when I was 16-18. It's funny though because it's sure no ghetto as Sharissa said in the song. The building the song starts out in front of is gone now. It used to be Sterns Clothing Store in Waukegan, Illinois. It was like the one place a guy could buy a pimp suit or some 6 inch platform shoes back in the day. There's nothing left of the downtown any more. It's nothing but empty buildings and social security offices.

  • It's crazy, but it seems like all girls go through their thug stage.Fucked up part about it, it's always in their prime years.From the age of 16-25, a female is in her peak years of physical attractiveness.It's the best time for her to pull a quality mate, but most girls waste away those years dealing with men of low character.Thugs, playas, or superficial things.By the time she comes to her senses, she got 2 or 3 kids by shady dudes, lowering her value in the eyes of the decent, quality men

  • @DirtyFaceCapon3 I seriously believe that's why God made the female brain bigger than the male brain.It benefits a girl to mature as fast as possible.Men are different.We don't really reach our peak years until the early to mid 30's.Men and women are the same,but our natures are different.Women like stability..finances..homes..mo­ney in the bank.Most men don't reach those things until later on in life,if they're taking the legal route.Instead, the deadly path is glamorized.Thugs..drug dealers

  • @DirtyFaceCapon3 You know, those high risk lifestyles that end in either death or prison terms.If a female was wise,she'd stay away from that confusion.You don't want your life to be sucked into that energy.The men in that lifestyle might even be intelligent and structured,but his decision to live his life on the dark side should be a hazard sign for females.This is especially true in the black community.Most girls deny the thug love thing, but if you look around, it's promoted everywhere

  • @DirtyFaceCapon3 I so agree Dirty....let the truth b spoken!!

  • @DirtyFaceCapon3 (Applause) Come on man, tell the truth....I completely agree with you.

  • @DirtyFaceCapon3 man dis is so tru, im a female at the age of 26 and for the past few yrs i was out hitten da streets runnen after these thugs. Dont have no kids thow, if i would of relized that these niggas didnt want anything but my goods i would be good now. but took me a min to relize that a good man dont have to be a thug

  • @DirtyFaceCapon3 Wait.....16? Where's Chris Hansen at!!!!!!

  • i loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee thissssssssssssssss songggggggggggggg

  • Thanks, she is pretty good I don't remember hearing any of her music before

  • every song R.Kelly writes/produces or whatever is a straight hit.

  • this is a biig song still

  • Dax from the philanthropist

  • Her and singer Sharrifa look just alike...OMG!!!

  • Man , this song is the truth !

  • me too @tluvgetmoney and i hated it sometimes too.

  • sharissa stay rite nn my town nn kershaw sc i knw da house her mother stay nn i past by it every day i wish sharissa come back wid somethinq new... nn brinq our town out aqain.. so much talent nn my lil town she da onlii one that hadd made itt out.. buuddd camee backk.. fo whadd... i wouldn't have just to viste nn out aqain i still love nn support her tho... specially when she came tew my uncle place of biz da chicken shack...

  • @deydey117 New Sharissa single dropping the end of this month on Itunes "All Or Nuthn" also you can follow her on twitter @SharissaSings she is working on her new album as well.. thanks for the support!

  • @deydey117 Get her new single "All Or Nuth'n" on ITUNES and AMAZON support her movement @TeamShairssa, @SharissaSings <==Twitter

  • im feelin this shyt!!! sum tymes i hate being n luv wit a thug....i luv this!!

  • They Shot Most of That In Waukegan Illinois. WoW

  • My gal use 2 hte when i beat d blocc down til i told her she cn quit her job.. 

  • YES! I bought no half steppin when I was in the 8th grade in atlanta & even though I was young I fell in love w/ music..I loved "over a man" "wrong time" & "all these years" ...she is truly underated..come back sharissa!

  • gotta love and stand next to ya man no matta what when I get my man he ain't gone ever have to worry about me doing him wrong forreal!

  • the truth!!! always stand by your man!! nomather what!

  • my song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • So True, But i will Always Love & Stand by my thug For i Am Truly His Queen & He is My True Thug King..... I LOVE YOU PAPA!!!!!!!!

  • So true, but I will always stand by my thug for I am his Queen & he is my King Thug.

  • K Michelle reminds me of Sharissa

  • @StartRespectingLife yeah you right, she do

  • I was inlove with a wanna be thug!!

  • BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN SELL OUT GOOD FOR THIS. SHE'LL GET WHAT SHE DESERVES.

  • thugs are the cutest.

  • I AGREE I LOVE ME A THUG

  • @xGOSSIPGIRL95

    lol xD rotflmao

  • @geezermeezer haha it's true.

  • i love this song, but i am not going to jail to get beat up and raped for my man.. then you got ppl trying to do drive bys on me?? I am not letting no man.. thug or not ruin my life...#imjustsayn

  • i agree wit @marisevenoseven1 the sex do be so damn good lol

  • Yes i know what she means but damb, alot of times these thugs just know how to sex us so good! That we get sprung even though we know were gonna get hurt in the end..

  • @marisevenoseven1 Co-sign lol

  • she is so beautiful, i love this song..

  • when did this song come out

  • ILOVES DIS DANG SONG

  • aint nuthin sexier than a fuckin THUG!!!!!

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  • she is a good singer she seems like nice person and i feel her pain about this song i love this song

  • ughh im dealin wit the same thing rite now, but i can't leave love him 2 much

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  • No disrespect, but "Sharissa" and "Shareefa" both song and look alike, the names too.

  • hey this was filmed in my old home town...Waukegan!

  • sumtimes I really hate bein in love with a thug...dhis song is dha truth for me right now....

  • i remember this song when i was 11 love it

  • This song was made for a movie ?

  • it all gravy I know the feeling

  • Keyshia Cole is da new Sharissa...

  • @MzTeeL Sharissa Sounds Way Better Than Keyshia Cole

  • @longpreboi I think both of them have strong vocal abilities...Sharissa has more of a ol skool rnb vibe while Keyshia is more modern..I don't think they should be compared in that way

  • @MzTeeL

    Eww no wayyy

  • @MzTeeL yeah, nd Keyshia is laying low now hope she comes back out soon,

  • @jabeebakes Definitely much respect for Keyshia

  • @MzTeeL she remind me of keyshia mixed with k. michelle & maybe even a little angie stone

  • @MzTeeL Her style in this video reminds me too much of Keyshia Cole when she first came out.

  • i was in love with a thug before its was hard

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  • I remember when this video was shot in waukegan right outside of sterns. They was gone stop shooting cause the people watching them where to loud. lol

  • u kno how it is n wauk-town bruh

  • this sun good bull its wack..... r.kelly part good

  • dis song so true luv it

  • bad tuneee

    charliee i love you!

    im sorry!!! :(

  • OMG!! LMAOO!! This song used to come on and I used to be like OMG!! I hate this song!! LMAOO!! It was just sooo weird to me. Like the title of it, and the lyrics.. LMAOO! It will forever be in my heart though.. LMAO! I LOVE to hate this song. lol. :)

  • Yep R.kelly reps the thug R&B i tyring to think the new ones who rep thug R&B We  got Trey songs

  • dis is da shit

  • this some true ish

  • video waz done in waukegan ill da best city out there in the chi

  • what movie is this?anybody know

  • Movie? This is from Sharrisa's Sophomore 2005 album "Every beat of my heart"

    Which never saw an official American Release

  • Thanks..........you are well informed

  • away from this thug, but still wondering if he's coming home okay =S

  • i hate being in love wit a thug ,anthony,

  • 1 i'm not a nigger 2 i'm not a faggot...u have that locked down but cracker why r u watching black music videos let me find out ya want 2 b black...oh no wont happen u have 2 stick with ya kind...u flaming gaylord/peter puffing/doo doo chaser/shitty breath/ pink thong wearer!!! u keep hiding behind d computer dont be scared it wont take that long 2 kicked ya azz but do 2 d fact u will stay where u r safe...new day kkk nazi skinhead...we run d world...white house is now black bow down my BITCH!!!

  • stinky pinky with d1 eyestinker...yes 2 ya statement i'm a real bad ass THUG...when ya money works 4 u&u dont have 2 work 4 ya money u can respond to music videos all day...d fucking joke is u b-cuz u know u like it in d ass&mouth&i'm not talking about pussy...which u r but i was trying 2 figure out which was u d lil girl r d lil boy in ya fudge packer world...now i know u r d dress wearer u take dick&u like i mean u really love it...2 long on mother's tits r sucking on ya father/uncle's dick???

  • fag pinky o pinky...i do have the skills 2 turn on a computer&get it popping in da streets i am a educated thug like ya man crush trump n bill gates...u wouldnt last a day r a nite in my world but i can hold convo with da kennedys of d world and da fat cat nichols of d world...ur try 2 see my dick in ya mouth u will not get that wish granted but if u n ya boyfriend cant get it right u should stop playing with ya self while have thoughts of me slapping ya 2 a bloody mess while u call me DADDY!!!

  • some time i hate with a thung thats y i broke up with him and this her sis

  • well in ya world...thug is a uneducated nigger...but in my world a thug is somebody who dont take no shorts n who will do whatever he r she has 2 do 2 make thangs happen!!! trump is a thug so is the apple dude...da kennedys r nothing but thugs...and yes i am a thug n proud of it...i rather b a thug then a punk b-cuz in my world punks die a thousand deaths n a thug die only once!!! i never have nothing that was mines ever taken from me can u say the same???HA HA HA...ALL PRAISE DUE 4 LIFE!!!

  • yea im pretty sure thug doesnt mean success. i wouldnt call donald trump or steve jobs thugs. id call you a moron though

  • u wouldnt call trump r bill gates thugs but what would i expect from a person who goes by pinkystinks...moron has never been a word that goes with mines and thug does mean success!!! how u think america was stolen from da native americans???and bush stealing da election in 2k!!!success is what u get away with... JESUS CHRIST was a thug...check ya bible when jesus came into the temple and saw what was going on...he flipped out...THUG!!!so watch ya mouth when it comes 2 calling me names!!!

  • bigbish68....are you a fucking moron or something, what kind of disrespectful dumbass calls jesus christ a thug????

  • pinky...ya mouth dont know its a mouth not a asshole because ur talking alot of shit but since u can hide behind ya computer u cyber fag u say thangs that u would never say 2 my face r even near my block so d dumbass is u because if u knew d bible u wouldnt question what i said about JESUS CHRIST but what would i expect from some1 who's father & mother' s brother r d same person...do what u do best suck cock & keep more seamen in ya belly then pearl harbor...since u r fucking retard thats cum!!!

  • anytime n anyplace since u want 2 see JESUS CHRIST that bad i'll make sure u get ya wish...u full time homo...no way a ass opening-dick taking in d mouth&asshole piece of shit will face me so keep trying 2 turn me on...i am thug and i dont do fags i crush them back 2 hell where they belong...tell ya mother that worthless ho that she better stop sucking my dick and 4getting my balls...also tell ya grandma she can eat my shit again but dont try 2 kiss me after...dont hide behind d computer!!!

  • Damnn this song is like so 4 me

  • this the song!!

  • filmed in wayukegan

    glad I left.......

  • Wow, how did you spell Waukegan...Learn how to spell before you talk about why you left some where....LOL

  • TYPO ERROR SPELL

    does it matter correct spell Waukegan  still glad I left

  • <3 'LOViNG-&&HUGGiNG.

  • sterns waukegans top choice for pimpwear in the 60s the greaser bands got there matching suits there. can you get thugwear now?

  • filmed in waukegan,il

    used to stay there

    glad I left

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  • my song

  • Take a deep breath

    2. Think about the one you love

    3. Press ''F10'' 5 time

    4. Send it to 5 video on youtube

    5. Look at your background

  • thugssss need love too......so I do what I can for da cause

  • yea i can really say dis song hit me hard cause my boyfriend waited after eleven months and up and got a babii on me but he out n the streets all times of the night but i cant do nun but PRAY for my baby cuz i still luv him...

  • thugs give the best love!

  • SH3 S0UNDS SCRATCHY AT TH3 B3GGiNiNG 0F TH3 S0NG. D03SNT S0UND T0O G0OD. BUT R0B3RT DiD HiS THiNG AS USUALL!!!

  • dis dat song right here. SHARISSA and my boy R.KELLY did a FANTASTIC job with this song. I LUV IT!!!

  • to ladywhisper 13 please email me at or give me your email adress so that we can instance message about this because i see we got alot that we can talk about

  • this song is so true because am in love with a thug but he don't love me back and the sad part is i still love that dogg and don't know how to stop

  • i know how u feel my man is actin all sketch and idk what to do cuz i found a hickie on his neck n idk if its from me n im so heart broken

  • WOW!

    i thought i was da only person in this kinda situation. i wanna figure out how to make him love me bk :(

  • Why would anyone want to date a thug? The don't bring anything but bullets and babies.

  • I get u on that one because both of my children are by the same thug and it bring nothing but tears and pain

  • I agree with u 100%

  • Waukegan,Illinois baby!

  • filmed in Waukegan,Illinois

    gennessee and water streets.... why ?because I RECOGNIZE it and I'm a former resident Waukegan,Illinois .... however I'm glad I lefttttttttttttttttttttttttttt­ttt!!!!

    ms. valentinegurl74 norcross,ga

  • i love this song to the max

  • this song iz pretty gud i like it

  • sumtymes i hate being n luv wit a thug

  • whats sharissa up to now?

  • Unknown. The album this is on got a Japan Only CD release, a non-American download release except for Wal-Mart, where they call it "Nicole" Something

  • walk town wuz good¿stand up

  • some time she hate bein in love with a thug i feel her u stand by ur man u will be good

  • dis my jam:)...love this song!!^_^

  • Anyone else recognise Omar from the wire?

  • Yea, like his charater... funny part is he was murdered byt a 12 yrs old . Btw i think they stoped airing the wire can`t wait to dl the rest of it!

  • I love this song and R. Kelly.

  • waukegan nigga

  • that guy who was being a jerk to that girl. he was that cop in R.Kelly's " trapped in the closet" holla if u agree =)

  • you rite

  • btw the guy is in syleena johnson vid 'guess what' isn't it??

    I see a bit of Keyshia Cole in her debuts day 'the wai it is' in this song of sharissa, I don't know why...

    plus they kinda look alike at 2:44..the hair, the style...

  • Now this girl right here could sang!!! Wonder where she at....we missing real musci righ now:)

  • She fell off because of lack of promotion. Her first album, "No Half Steppin" was a commercial disappointment due to lack of promotion. That was on Motown. They dropped her. This album "Every beat of my heart" from Virgin got released in Japan in Nov. 2005 and hasn't seen an American CD release. On Wal-Mart's website, the album is digitally sold as "Brave: Nichole Nordeman"

  • does ne1 no the other song she has.sometin to do with...'i can do better''????

  • do you mean her song 'you can do better' featuring tank?

    I got it from her second album

  • Definitely shot in downtown Waukegan on Genessee and Water streets. Nice video.

  • tHIS video filmed in my former hometown

    W-A-U-K-TOWN

    a.k.a Waukegan,IL...

  • i finally found dis song , i love it!!!!!

  • Its not management or the label's fault. A label invests a lot of money in an artist but if the projected sales doesn't look like it will make a profit the plug gets pull on the project. The blame is the consumer for not supporting her.

  • good job guys love this song♥

  • this sing is real!!!!!!! Sometimes it really does suck to be in love with a thug, but other times it can be good!!!!!!!!!

  • dis was shot live in waukegan, il