wow ma'am! Thank you so much! I am now able to believe in myself and have confidence in myself. I used to be laughed at every single day of my life and being called "gay"and "fucktard"and people would also say to me "We wish you could die!'
i'm often not comfortable in my own skin... i'm glad that i came across your videos...my self image tends to be fairly to very negative...i have very low self esteem and low confidence...
oh my gosh, lol thank you God that i came across this vid. i really neeeded this. someone to keep it real. wow.i just gotta ask one thing though, sometimes i feel like im ugly even thought people keep keep telling me that i am not? i hate this feeling and i wish it would go away. (i'm a 17 year old ) also, i tend to take things too personally and no matter how much i try to rationalise the comment- it just always hits a nerve. someone please help me!!
thanks a lot. I reallized a lot from your vid, I used to be so shy , it really affect my life, I I started get trouble with this starting when I was in 2nd year hight school. when my teacher punish me for my wrong unswer in my assignment, she let me stand in front infront of the whole class in her whole period, and everybodies laughing at me and bullies, for the whole week I dint want to go to school, i'm so ashame, I felt like i'm so idiot compared to others and it starts there.
I've been so sick lately i've been 2 doctors but they say there's NOTHING wrong with me. My mom and others r saying its stress and i worry 2 much! I think its been my teachers that have been mean 2 me telling me not to even come 2 class and i've told them i wasn't feeling well but after that i gotten worse i couldn't even get out of bed! i'm starting 2 think it is low self esteem... thanks!
my friends always tell me all this good stuff about myself but i just can't believe them, it makes me angry because i think they are lying to me. :( I think my low self esteem deffinately has a greater hold on me than i do.
it's because of my family they talk about eachother behind eachother's backs and i don't want to be talked about so i just stay quiet and not do what i wanna do
some of them was real ugly, fat, big ol' lips, and even stunk, but i did not make fun of them. they were not a beauty queen. like they could'nt be made fun of. they had rights, and i didn't. it's hard to take care of yourself when you have this feeling.
i just don't give a fox ass how i look no more. i can't wear earrings and cosemetics and feel confident like other women. and i'll tell ya, huh, i've seen some pretty ugly women out there. i was thin as a dime, had a nice hair for a black girl and damn sho was not UGLY. i aint ugly at all like the average women. i look
pretty good to be a black female, cause most of them i seen looks like hell. them kind is the ones that kept me down all this time.
the principal calls my parent, then i get it when i get home. i always have to keep a shut mouth. sometimes my i even get cussed and called names by my own parent. if anyone went through what i went through, they wouldn't care about themself either. the only thing i will do is take baths or brush my teeth, sometimes i don't feel like caring for my teeth. i've thrown my hair away and everything along with my hair. i can't wear earrings and stuff and wear trendy clothes.
it's hard to care about yourself when your level of self worth is low. people say things harsh enough to bring god down form the heaven above. i've let people bring me down very low. the ugliest have called me ugly in school so when i insult them back or fight them back, i always get sent to the principal's office. my classmates can defend themselves or express their opinion of me and i couldn't.
i never bother anyone in school. i mind my own business.
i've heard it all. i 've had bad things said to me about me and called bad things.for some, that's what causes not feeling good about yourself. i will b the first to tell you that when you have a low self esteem,
nothing seems to matter about yourself. i
used to care about my appearance until i got about 14 years old.
I had similar experiences, too. I was a "nerd" in junior high who got teased & physically bullied for reading too much, wearing glasses & being different. In time, I learned to love & accept myself, but for years, I had a fear of rejection by others. My distance was often mistaken for arrogance since I no longer looked like a "nerd." It was a difficult process but I finally overcame it. As long as we like who we are, what others think doesn't matter. To me, it no longer matters.
The same thing happens to me now! I'm painfully shy and people misread that as being a stuck up snob, but really I just close up around people....it sucks
thats so true in 17 years old and people at my school always have name brand shoes and deigner clothes but to me i really dont care if its chepe or expensive if i looks cute then ill get it for me not just to blend in with the crowd
What did I say? DO YOU! lmao. I'm sure that you would add other angles to any topic, go ahead and take the plunge! Perhaps do some response videos here and there to feel more comfortable. It's scary at first but then you get in the swing and all is well. We all have something to contribute here.
I'm glad you made this video, a good friend once told me never dim your light for anyone else to blend in, if your a star then shine dammit lol, you always make great vids. I've been evaluating the fact that I still have some social issues, once I identified with it I now have to sit and figure out who, when, where, how and why. Its all a learning process in life, some of chose to do something about it and some chose to be oblivious
I still have public speaking anxiety at times. I just keep it moving and pray that it's over soon, lol. But I've had to seriously work with myself on this issue.
thx so much for this vid really help
glamcam23 1 year ago
@krakatowaniwa You're most welcome! Glad something I said was inspirational to you. Peace and blessings!
Pinky2D4 1 year ago
wow ma'am! Thank you so much! I am now able to believe in myself and have confidence in myself. I used to be laughed at every single day of my life and being called "gay"and "fucktard"and people would also say to me "We wish you could die!'
But I know this video will turn that around!
krakatowaniwa 1 year ago
i'm often not comfortable in my own skin... i'm glad that i came across your videos...my self image tends to be fairly to very negative...i have very low self esteem and low confidence...
thegoochieguy 1 year ago
Great video! :)
sarahince27 1 year ago
oh my gosh, lol thank you God that i came across this vid. i really neeeded this. someone to keep it real. wow.i just gotta ask one thing though, sometimes i feel like im ugly even thought people keep keep telling me that i am not? i hate this feeling and i wish it would go away. (i'm a 17 year old ) also, i tend to take things too personally and no matter how much i try to rationalise the comment- it just always hits a nerve. someone please help me!!
iyareatibabare 1 year ago
At last a face to put to the voice from Lenon's BlogTalkRadio show ;0) Greetings!
wolkenwatcher 1 year ago
Can you say, "PINKY's RADIO SHOW BONANZA!!!! Love you sis!!!
LenonHonorFilms 1 year ago
thanks a lot. I reallized a lot from your vid, I used to be so shy , it really affect my life, I I started get trouble with this starting when I was in 2nd year hight school. when my teacher punish me for my wrong unswer in my assignment, she let me stand in front infront of the whole class in her whole period, and everybodies laughing at me and bullies, for the whole week I dint want to go to school, i'm so ashame, I felt like i'm so idiot compared to others and it starts there.
juno2415 1 year ago
Sister Pinky; You took my thoughts right out of my head, sat in front of a camera, and read them word for word. Thank you Sweety.
Apsu72 2 years ago
Thank you so much for this video. im so glad i came across this today, i really needed to hear this. your a very intelligent, uplifting person.
0119alt 2 years ago
alcohol boosts my self esteem and confidence
jambrandon531 2 years ago
I've been so sick lately i've been 2 doctors but they say there's NOTHING wrong with me. My mom and others r saying its stress and i worry 2 much! I think its been my teachers that have been mean 2 me telling me not to even come 2 class and i've told them i wasn't feeling well but after that i gotten worse i couldn't even get out of bed! i'm starting 2 think it is low self esteem... thanks!
seimeichan 2 years ago
my friends always tell me all this good stuff about myself but i just can't believe them, it makes me angry because i think they are lying to me. :( I think my low self esteem deffinately has a greater hold on me than i do.
zXJulianXz 2 years ago 3
thanks for this message
AK43ver 2 years ago
Oh my goodness, I'm so glad I came across your channel. What a powerful message.
Great video!
fatchickskinny 2 years ago 3
I'm glad something I've said has been helpful to you.
Pinky2D4 2 years ago
I like your vids!
BigC83Boss 2 years ago
wow
my self esteem is way low
it's because of my family they talk about eachother behind eachother's backs and i don't want to be talked about so i just stay quiet and not do what i wanna do
therealsamanthajonas 2 years ago 6
Thank you I really needed that!
rjones2586 2 years ago
some of them was real ugly, fat, big ol' lips, and even stunk, but i did not make fun of them. they were not a beauty queen. like they could'nt be made fun of. they had rights, and i didn't. it's hard to take care of yourself when you have this feeling.
sweetchocolate1977 2 years ago
i just don't give a fox ass how i look no more. i can't wear earrings and cosemetics and feel confident like other women. and i'll tell ya, huh, i've seen some pretty ugly women out there. i was thin as a dime, had a nice hair for a black girl and damn sho was not UGLY. i aint ugly at all like the average women. i look
pretty good to be a black female, cause most of them i seen looks like hell. them kind is the ones that kept me down all this time.
sweetchocolate1977 2 years ago
the principal calls my parent, then i get it when i get home. i always have to keep a shut mouth. sometimes my i even get cussed and called names by my own parent. if anyone went through what i went through, they wouldn't care about themself either. the only thing i will do is take baths or brush my teeth, sometimes i don't feel like caring for my teeth. i've thrown my hair away and everything along with my hair. i can't wear earrings and stuff and wear trendy clothes.
sweetchocolate1977 2 years ago
it's hard to care about yourself when your level of self worth is low. people say things harsh enough to bring god down form the heaven above. i've let people bring me down very low. the ugliest have called me ugly in school so when i insult them back or fight them back, i always get sent to the principal's office. my classmates can defend themselves or express their opinion of me and i couldn't.
i never bother anyone in school. i mind my own business.
sweetchocolate1977 2 years ago 2
i've heard it all. i 've had bad things said to me about me and called bad things.for some, that's what causes not feeling good about yourself. i will b the first to tell you that when you have a low self esteem,
nothing seems to matter about yourself. i
used to care about my appearance until i got about 14 years old.
sweetchocolate1977 2 years ago
I had similar experiences, too. I was a "nerd" in junior high who got teased & physically bullied for reading too much, wearing glasses & being different. In time, I learned to love & accept myself, but for years, I had a fear of rejection by others. My distance was often mistaken for arrogance since I no longer looked like a "nerd." It was a difficult process but I finally overcame it. As long as we like who we are, what others think doesn't matter. To me, it no longer matters.
SexyVelour 3 years ago
yup,,,its so upsetting when people misunderstood you as being arrogant when actually you are just too shy to talk to them!!!
arugeszenith 2 years ago 4
The same thing happens to me now! I'm painfully shy and people misread that as being a stuck up snob, but really I just close up around people....it sucks
BranFlakes1234567 2 years ago 2
lmao society is sooooo dumb and superficial
audreyanonymous 3 years ago 5
Low self esteem is a major problem among black youth. Thank you for this video and please check out our Pretty Butterfly video. Peace.
nublackmusic 3 years ago
thats so true in 17 years old and people at my school always have name brand shoes and deigner clothes but to me i really dont care if its chepe or expensive if i looks cute then ill get it for me not just to blend in with the crowd
dookeybob17 3 years ago 3
I feel like you were telling some of my story...great video! I still have public speaking problems...
scarletrose17 3 years ago
wonderfull video
mysoulinsideandout 3 years ago 2
5 stars + Favorited!!! Good video.
blackcherryblitz 3 years ago 3
Thank you for giving us straight talk that we all can understand/relate with. Keep em coming sis!
DosesOfTruth 3 years ago 3
thanks for sharing that. some people needs to hear that. keep it coming.
goldenjojo1979 3 years ago
Same with me, in all you said !!!!
More peeps need to check you out!!!
I want to make a video too pinky, but you sayin' everything I would say! You the sh#t!!!
htrfdes 3 years ago
What did I say? DO YOU! lmao. I'm sure that you would add other angles to any topic, go ahead and take the plunge! Perhaps do some response videos here and there to feel more comfortable. It's scary at first but then you get in the swing and all is well. We all have something to contribute here.
Pinky2D4 3 years ago
I'm glad you made this video, a good friend once told me never dim your light for anyone else to blend in, if your a star then shine dammit lol, you always make great vids. I've been evaluating the fact that I still have some social issues, once I identified with it I now have to sit and figure out who, when, where, how and why. Its all a learning process in life, some of chose to do something about it and some chose to be oblivious
renceferd83 3 years ago 4
"Never dim your light for anyone else to blend in, if you're a star then shine dammit"! I love that quote! Thanks for sharing it.
Pinky2D4 3 years ago
one more time great video
bearr7 3 years ago
U R such an eloquent speaker, i cant blv u had a problem with that. Never would've guessed. U go gurl!
CreaTiveNaTive73 3 years ago
I still have public speaking anxiety at times. I just keep it moving and pray that it's over soon, lol. But I've had to seriously work with myself on this issue.
Pinky2D4 3 years ago
This is a nice video with a lot of truth in it. ^_^
DarkLadyJade 3 years ago