I'm 26 live with my g/f who i have been with for 8 years. Did programming for company but indeed work & credit stolen allot. I'm now making a game on my own.
I think men such as myself have less trouble because mother nature has been kind. I've always been very confident. Also men aspies don't seem to want as much friendship as our female counterparts.
@Miasansom Thanks for your insight! I hope I can have your positive point of view someday. I just recently self diagnosed myself. There's relief for sure, but anger also. Why me!? I just wish I could be NT. I hate not having any friends and just sit in my room after work. Im in the air force. Umm. Ya.
@mrbunnyfufuu you can personal message me if you want too. I will be your friend. I know it's not real life, but we can write sometimes... the way I see it is: I found out I had mild autism just a few yrs ago and I'm 43. It didn't make me a different person... I'm still me, I'm still unique... I mean everyone is anyway, right? Who cares if they call it autism or what. I just try and think of myself as a weirdo... the good kind. haha - humor helps me, as U can see...
@mrbunnyfufuu I enjoy my ability to retain a child-like view on things, my artistic tendencies, and the ability t retreat within my self if things become too much. For example, I had a very traumatic childhood and young adulthood & my therapist says that it's probably my ability to do so that kept me from suicide or losing my sanity No matter how many negatives there are in this world, no matter who you are, you have strengths and weaknesses and we are all different. There is always a positive.
I have an IQ of 148 and an EQ of 41,I work on computer graphing freelance, I also lift weighs, shread guitar, and box. I'm proud to offend normals with every breath I take.
My life has been one living Hell. I have been taken advantage of hugely. and was abused badly by others who feel no regard for human feelings. I just think you have to remember that Aspies are rather minority and vulnerable. they just function different than NTs. I just think you have to search hard for support networks. and I am looking for the same.
Only go out near my apt. Or with my husband pretty begrudgingly. Have become a recluse. Please do more videos about being an older Aspie and the physical problems and please respond.
The socializing killed me. Could not learn to drive. Am very intelligent but become a bumbling idiot around people-- can not even do simple math if with people. Do photography but too scared of people to take classes so know little but have had small exhibits. Paint. Have migraines all the time. Klonopin has helped a lot but still can't stop myself from pretending to be NT. Also have dizziness and am sick all the time. Am Bipolar as well. Have meltdowns and get over stimulated and can o
I totally relate. Only formally diagnosed at age 60, last Dec. Had a breakdown at 28 from an abusive, semi romantic relationship at work. Nearly lost my job because was fixated on this person and calling her. Had been taken advantage of and lied to by men prior to that. Was put on lots of medication and found an Aspie man I fell in love with and had to pursue (he was too shy and clueless) and we have been married 22 years. Had to quit working full time in libraries ten years ago. The soc
Hi - please check out my channel - I'm an aspie and have found a great way to be calm & happy. My childhood was happy, and I was very lucky there. But work etc was very hard, and I have let go of all that with tapping. I'll be adding more stuff on there, but there should be some stuff to get you started :-)
Please guys do a bit of research into the link between vaccines and autism.
Also look up Andrew Wakefield. This man is a saint in my opinion, he was struck off for doing research into the link between vaccines and autism and the big medical industry tried to destroy him because vaccines means BIG MONEY to them and thats all they care about. Not about us. Also I recommend prayer and the healing power of the Holy Spirit - there is NO no infirmity or sickness that cannot be healed by the Lord.
34, male, diagnosed last year. I've lived at home all my life, only had a few jobs, currently unemployed. I'm an INFP on the Myers Briggs scale, and i also consider myself bisexual and gender variant (if anything, repressing makes my Asperger's worse). I've not been on a date, no friends in RL, and intimacy with other people is something i miss sometimes, social situations are draining. In teens i burnt out trying to deal with with the neurotypical world, though i can "pass" easily.
Thank you so much, I really appreciate your understanding . I'm sorry it took awhile to get back...I get overwhelmed and it's hard to think of the right words ( lol, like these are right ) I would really love it if you'd send me those recordings, honestly your the one person who's offered help to ne in a long time . I'm a singer and I'm smart but...you know how it is with Aspies . my family expected the world of me but gave no help and see me as 1/2 burden and the other 1/2 disapointment.
Hi Mia, I recently self diagnosed with Aspergers( I took several tests and looked into the symptoms -we love research I guess!) ...I so relate to you. I was married to an abusive man and got pregnant at a young age . I think my son has Aspergers too, but I was so in tune with him . I think having a really understanding parent helps a lot... I've had a lot of abuse and been taken advantage of , things are tough now. Stress is bad right now, I'm all aspie'd out hiding in my room...hate it . Messa
@WickedWitchRebelle write me a personal message if you would like to try the recordings I have that help with stress, anxiety, and depression. It is for trauma and all you gotta do is listen to it. I can send it to you if you want.
same here always suffered burnout trying to cope and fit in. the worst drama are jobs. i get great jobs but become exhausted trying to fit in and cover up,,.no sleep, panic attacks, anger. relationships always end in trama...i've givin up. i am recovering from pharma's for depression and anxiety. just lost an 80k job and wondering where my next dollar will come from. my ex is on me for CS. i've been abused financially in friendships. atp i really want to end it or go disability.
I'm kind've drained right now from spending half the day with my discovery of Aspie blogs and "support group" style research to respond in depth. But I've had some similar general experiences with life. Not too many traumas, but the ones that are there are significant and had profound effect causing a sort of disintegration of my ability to cope, I'm not pretending to be "normal" anymore. P.S. not diagnosed with Aspies, but I'm pretty sure I am
i cope with it but since ive been diagnosed it feels more like a prison sentence even though iv been married 20 yrs and 3 kids i always seem to think of all the things i cannot accomplish i feel just like a skipping record if that makes sence it doesent matter that my iq is 140 people judge the aspergers not the human being people are hateful rude and self absorbed ....
But i no it can feel that you are! Im unemployed and only have my mum and dad as support! I bought my own place at 28, now 32, but since found out im a aspie life have got worse for me! :( and lost all my confidents!
My life as an aspie has treated me both good and bad. Goin back as far as to when I was 7 yrs old, I have been a victim of bullies, ppl has spat on me, had done a lot of namecalling ect and so forth. To tell ya the truth I am sick n tired of it cus they didn´t knew wat I was like. I don´t blame em for not knowin at the time, tho I sometimes wish that I could have had things undone. But u can´t change the past u know.... I will continue the rest in a videoresponse...
This has been flagged as spam show
aspies are fun to rob.
c16gregjockca 1 month ago
I'm 26 live with my g/f who i have been with for 8 years. Did programming for company but indeed work & credit stolen allot. I'm now making a game on my own.
I think men such as myself have less trouble because mother nature has been kind. I've always been very confident. Also men aspies don't seem to want as much friendship as our female counterparts.
jg2480 4 months ago
@Miasansom Thanks for your insight! I hope I can have your positive point of view someday. I just recently self diagnosed myself. There's relief for sure, but anger also. Why me!? I just wish I could be NT. I hate not having any friends and just sit in my room after work. Im in the air force. Umm. Ya.
mrbunnyfufuu 4 months ago
@mrbunnyfufuu you can personal message me if you want too. I will be your friend. I know it's not real life, but we can write sometimes... the way I see it is: I found out I had mild autism just a few yrs ago and I'm 43. It didn't make me a different person... I'm still me, I'm still unique... I mean everyone is anyway, right? Who cares if they call it autism or what. I just try and think of myself as a weirdo... the good kind. haha - humor helps me, as U can see...
miasansom 4 months ago
Im an aspie and I hate it. What is there to like about it?
mrbunnyfufuu 4 months ago
@mrbunnyfufuu I enjoy my ability to retain a child-like view on things, my artistic tendencies, and the ability t retreat within my self if things become too much. For example, I had a very traumatic childhood and young adulthood & my therapist says that it's probably my ability to do so that kept me from suicide or losing my sanity No matter how many negatives there are in this world, no matter who you are, you have strengths and weaknesses and we are all different. There is always a positive.
miasansom 4 months ago
im a aspies and i love it
LeifAlexander87 5 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
@LeifAlexander87 that's because you've finally resigned to the fact that you're nothing and will always be nothing. have fun with finger paints. LOL!
c16gregjockca 1 month ago
I have an IQ of 148 and an EQ of 41,I work on computer graphing freelance, I also lift weighs, shread guitar, and box. I'm proud to offend normals with every breath I take.
Turvein 7 months ago
My life has been one living Hell. I have been taken advantage of hugely. and was abused badly by others who feel no regard for human feelings. I just think you have to remember that Aspies are rather minority and vulnerable. they just function different than NTs. I just think you have to search hard for support networks. and I am looking for the same.
Duardn 7 months ago
life is living hell. i could go farther, but,not enough room in here
Latiasmasterball1234 7 months ago
Only go out near my apt. Or with my husband pretty begrudgingly. Have become a recluse. Please do more videos about being an older Aspie and the physical problems and please respond.
Lnred1 10 months ago
Can only go out with my husband and begrudgingly. Please do more videos and write.
Lnred1 10 months ago
The socializing killed me. Could not learn to drive. Am very intelligent but become a bumbling idiot around people-- can not even do simple math if with people. Do photography but too scared of people to take classes so know little but have had small exhibits. Paint. Have migraines all the time. Klonopin has helped a lot but still can't stop myself from pretending to be NT. Also have dizziness and am sick all the time. Am Bipolar as well. Have meltdowns and get over stimulated and can o
Lnred1 10 months ago
I totally relate. Only formally diagnosed at age 60, last Dec. Had a breakdown at 28 from an abusive, semi romantic relationship at work. Nearly lost my job because was fixated on this person and calling her. Had been taken advantage of and lied to by men prior to that. Was put on lots of medication and found an Aspie man I fell in love with and had to pursue (he was too shy and clueless) and we have been married 22 years. Had to quit working full time in libraries ten years ago. The soc
Lnred1 10 months ago
hahaha, fake asperger's slut needs stronger medication.
a15gregjockca 1 year ago
Hi - please check out my channel - I'm an aspie and have found a great way to be calm & happy. My childhood was happy, and I was very lucky there. But work etc was very hard, and I have let go of all that with tapping. I'll be adding more stuff on there, but there should be some stuff to get you started :-)
NewAgeLondon 1 year ago
Please guys do a bit of research into the link between vaccines and autism.
Also look up Andrew Wakefield. This man is a saint in my opinion, he was struck off for doing research into the link between vaccines and autism and the big medical industry tried to destroy him because vaccines means BIG MONEY to them and thats all they care about. Not about us. Also I recommend prayer and the healing power of the Holy Spirit - there is NO no infirmity or sickness that cannot be healed by the Lord.
spiritualwarrior1100 1 year ago
34, male, diagnosed last year. I've lived at home all my life, only had a few jobs, currently unemployed. I'm an INFP on the Myers Briggs scale, and i also consider myself bisexual and gender variant (if anything, repressing makes my Asperger's worse). I've not been on a date, no friends in RL, and intimacy with other people is something i miss sometimes, social situations are draining. In teens i burnt out trying to deal with with the neurotypical world, though i can "pass" easily.
Magnulus76 1 year ago
Thank you so much, I really appreciate your understanding . I'm sorry it took awhile to get back...I get overwhelmed and it's hard to think of the right words ( lol, like these are right ) I would really love it if you'd send me those recordings, honestly your the one person who's offered help to ne in a long time . I'm a singer and I'm smart but...you know how it is with Aspies . my family expected the world of me but gave no help and see me as 1/2 burden and the other 1/2 disapointment.
WickedWitchRebelle 1 year ago
Hi Mia, I recently self diagnosed with Aspergers( I took several tests and looked into the symptoms -we love research I guess!) ...I so relate to you. I was married to an abusive man and got pregnant at a young age . I think my son has Aspergers too, but I was so in tune with him . I think having a really understanding parent helps a lot... I've had a lot of abuse and been taken advantage of , things are tough now. Stress is bad right now, I'm all aspie'd out hiding in my room...hate it . Messa
WickedWitchRebelle 1 year ago
@WickedWitchRebelle write me a personal message if you would like to try the recordings I have that help with stress, anxiety, and depression. It is for trauma and all you gotta do is listen to it. I can send it to you if you want.
miasansom 1 year ago
same here always suffered burnout trying to cope and fit in. the worst drama are jobs. i get great jobs but become exhausted trying to fit in and cover up,,.no sleep, panic attacks, anger. relationships always end in trama...i've givin up. i am recovering from pharma's for depression and anxiety. just lost an 80k job and wondering where my next dollar will come from. my ex is on me for CS. i've been abused financially in friendships. atp i really want to end it or go disability.
giving up...
morpheus1x 1 year ago
I'm kind've drained right now from spending half the day with my discovery of Aspie blogs and "support group" style research to respond in depth. But I've had some similar general experiences with life. Not too many traumas, but the ones that are there are significant and had profound effect causing a sort of disintegration of my ability to cope, I'm not pretending to be "normal" anymore. P.S. not diagnosed with Aspies, but I'm pretty sure I am
jonandra 1 year ago
hard life!I have a problem with making friends!
jamie7777700 1 year ago
i'm at the age where i understand myself. lots of drugs, music and lovely people got me over the horrible start. not sure what to do next though
cuntscab555 1 year ago
@cuntscab555 what age is this?
marquismyfriend 1 year ago
@marquismyfriend same age as jesus when he got crucified
cuntscab555 1 year ago
@cuntscab555 based on your username alone, you are now blocked. Totally unacceptable.
miasansom 1 year ago
holla! :)
gimmydeans 1 year ago
i cope with it but since ive been diagnosed it feels more like a prison sentence even though iv been married 20 yrs and 3 kids i always seem to think of all the things i cannot accomplish i feel just like a skipping record if that makes sence it doesent matter that my iq is 140 people judge the aspergers not the human being people are hateful rude and self absorbed ....
PhilMyBod41 2 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
I woud love you to sit on my face Mia he he
Aspergianstar2009 2 years ago
Hi Mia, First your not alone!
But i no it can feel that you are! Im unemployed and only have my mum and dad as support! I bought my own place at 28, now 32, but since found out im a aspie life have got worse for me! :( and lost all my confidents!
P.S sorry about poor spelling!!
MrHowie1976 2 years ago
@MrHowie1976 i feel you.
marquismyfriend 1 year ago
My life as an aspie has treated me both good and bad. Goin back as far as to when I was 7 yrs old, I have been a victim of bullies, ppl has spat on me, had done a lot of namecalling ect and so forth. To tell ya the truth I am sick n tired of it cus they didn´t knew wat I was like. I don´t blame em for not knowin at the time, tho I sometimes wish that I could have had things undone. But u can´t change the past u know.... I will continue the rest in a videoresponse...
moonsister83 2 years ago