Guys: How you can tell if a shy girl is interested in you

[tigerfreakz101]

For the boys that are watching this......usually guys get put in the friend zone (sadly) so be a little more interesting or try to show off to her ;)

[DeepDownFear13]

There is this one girl at my school who always complements my shirts and I thought she just liked my shirts, but one day I was wearing a Hangover shirt thats mostly blue and without seeing the design on front she says "Rockin' the blue." so I can't tell, and I'm kindda a shy guy when it comes to girls I like, Ex. Her, but not with freinds I'll say the most dirtysexual stuff to them no prob, so dose the girl like me?

[troydeancarpenter]

I know a shy girl that seems to make it a point to come near me and sit in my area.She will also speak to me if I don't speak to her.On the flip side,when I enter the room,she doesn't seem to notice me like the other gals in the room do.Sometimes when I ask her for a dance she'll make up some excuse,like wanting to make sure she dances with everyone.I'm very respectful and I only ask her to dance a few times anyway.She never refuses me the first time I ask and sometimes SHE asks me.So confusing.

[mrchuchupoo]

what if she does not look at me too much when i dont talk to her but when i do like in a reading confrence or asking her a question she looks at me alot and leans in?

[EpicShadow1221]

I am a shy girl, and I just want to say that pretty much ALL of these match with how I act. Just want to put that out there,

[AkpFlores15]

There is a girl in biology i really like and she shows some signs that she likes me but were both shy to talk with eachother.

[usernameiforgotit]

@kingdomhearts1126 I'm in the same boat! The EXACT SAME boat!

[NicoleFarkas123]

It sounds like trying to pet a stray cat tht is scared of ppl

[gogokoko95]

I thought this shy girl liked me.... but no. she just thought i was weird -_-

[WZKmontage]

What if your both shy?

[lawshorizon]

Some things I’ve recognized when you’re around: She freezes-up when talking to someone or her attention shifts away from that person; she freezes when you talk to her; don’t look at her then look quickly to see her staring at you; she looks at you from the corner of her eye (typical shy girl action); she drops her head and to the side when you look at her; she comes up with a reason to smile when you’re around; she looks at you as if in shock if you suddenly appear ... Love 'em.

[pawner33]

can you help me?i have a BIG crush on a girl and im not sure wether she likes me every time i try to talk to her she swings her head away and talks like that im not sure wether she likes me or hates me private message me plz plz OH AND THx in advence

[Missy31201]

me and this girl have been friends for 6 years and she is shy and i really can not tell if she likes me ?????

[TheConvenientMike]

We are both 15. I'm the only one who asked this girl out. Is this something that is an advantage or disadvantage. I've known her for three years, but we just started really talking this year. I know she is interested. I don't think she knows though. I've caught her looking at me for a few seconds, I sit behind her so she has to completely turn around. When I talk with her it's like she has nothing to say. Is it because she actually has nothing to say?

[towamencin2005]

@Awesomeallie2319 saaaame

[TheKiler350]

ooooooooooooo sh!t

[TheDatfatrat]

Ask her out... be MAN... not vag

[mikesomething]

what a load of fucking horseshit.

wanna know if someone likes you ? ask them the fuck out. Simples.

"lets go on a date", you have your answer instantly.

dont fuck about playing with your vagina

[HalflingShireFolk]

Even these miracles will not work on any typical Turkish girl. Guess I must leave this moronic country once and for all.

[bitasalek]

luv ur videos short n useful,thx

[COD6TEAMGHOST]

wow u cover everything how about wat things u say

[Awesomeallie2319]

Ok so I NEED help I've been shy my whole life and theres this guy I like but I dont know him really well and I wanna get to know him more and I don't know what to do cuz I don't know what to say to him or how to start a conversation PLZ PLZ SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT TO DO

[DeepDownFear13]

@Awesomeallie2319 Just rub your pussy on him and see what happens... :\

[CodenameKillaD]

Exactly what I needed :D

[Dunonian]

@girlabc1 I'm a guy and that would really annoy me i would just get angry at her.

[mouse4689]

If your shy, have a couple drinks. That should help.

[Riccoh21]

Just ask the bitch out, for fuck sakes. If she says no, than you know she's a lesbian lol.

[noname19111]

@Riccoh21 lol that actually happend to me then a week later i saw her kissing another chick

[MMArtist99]

Guys,

It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.

Here's what you need to do:

Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com

Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program

Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist

Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is

[badbronc16]

all of your videos repeat themselves. its the same video with a different title every time. and also are you promoting reading into suttle things? it is obvious that this tactic will make people start reading into every little thing, which terrible because then they get self concious and start interpreting every little vody motion or word as something negative or vice versa, they take any motion or word as a sign that they are interested and then look stupid when they try to flirt.

[MrSnipz4ever]

i have this shy girl i like but i am shy so i don't know how to tell if she is interested in me we look at each other for 2-5 seconds and then we both look away,i notice she is looking at me until i notice it and then we make eye contact and then she pretends she wasn't looking at me what does this mean

[Riccoh21]

@MrSnipz4ever Maybe you had a buger on your face lol.

[alehax27]

Haha I knew a girl that did these exact same things with me. It was at a place where I volunteered. She would stay longer than her shift and act like she was doing something around me. Other times she would walk towards the front where I worked and take that exit instead of the back(closer to her section). Other times I could see her looking at me from a distance from the corner of my eye. Never talked to her because I knew it wouldn't work, but I'm impressed at how accurate Marie described it.

[93feride]

i am a shy girls jus saying (HAHAHAH

[JoeCaliforniah]

Shy girls are easier to spot. If she wants to go out alone with you, then she's into you. Done deal.

More Extroverted girls, just because the 2 of u are going out together alone, doesnt mean she will wanna push the relationship further.

[kingdomhearts1126]

How will i get this one girl to like me? we are both advanced in school and we both play the keyboard and we both like anime.i was thinking of asking her about an anime she likes

[calastiur]

Few months ago I went on a schooltrip and noticed this shy good looking girl from another class. Two weeks after the trip there was this little Spanish test. I went to this room where the teacher would meet everyone. I noticed this guy of her class and talked a little to him while suddenly the girl who had her back towards me turns to me and asks for a pen. I talked a little to her but she didn't say a lot but smiled. Could this be a sign that shes perhaps interested in me? Thanks in advance

[soph60]

you deffo give the best advise on youtube..period ! thank u sooooo much ! xx

[JBloverforever94]

what happens if the mutaul person asked the girl if they would go out with them right in front of the kid?

[LJohnnyXX]

so there's a girl in one of my classes...and...if i look towards the teacher. i notice. she looks towards me...and if i look at her. she'll look away. and she smiles alot if i smile. and she laughs when i laughs. and she's not my Great friend..but she will do that. she'll also look talk with me only a little. and i like her..so MARIEDDUBUQUE..what do you think will happen???

[JeffersonDinedAlone]

Why all of the silly bullshit psychology? Ask her out; if she says yes, then she's interested.  Pretty simple.

[jctrock]

@JeffersonDinedAlone Bro I did that and the girl was all shy and it did not happen. Now I am taking it slow, baby steps after I noticed her eyeing me. It is a process I learned...

[morganablackrat]

but how do you get a guy to talk to u that you dont know im to shy....?the guy and me make eye conntact all the time ....but we have never talked......my friend is friends with him please help

[thenightshroud77]

@morganablackrat if you two have never talked does this person know your name? we're in the same boat here what you need to do is get a little more louder, speak more and don't be afraid to just do random things in class you'll get his attention and then overconfidence will come to you so you can talk and start a conversation. to get him to talk go up to him in the hall and just say hi and ask him a simple question. he'll answer and something will come of it

[Revelations95]

fuck my life

[MeshugenahScientist]

A shy girl told me get lost---in no uncertain terms. She hid her shyness in a mask of arrogance. I found this out when she (several weeks later) began to warm to me, finally succumbing to ... um .. well, "nature", I guess.

But never did I believe it would happen on the day she turned me down---after my persistent "outgoing" conduct towards her.

C'est la vie.

Or should I say, instead: "C'est aux femmes."

[DancingShoes11392]

So true. I'm a shy girl. This is so true!

Take a hint guys lol

[MeshugenahScientist]

@DancingShoes11392

Well put on your dancing shoes, and get dancing. Shake off your shyness, girl.

[AAMLfan]

Sometimes I walk AWAY from the guy I'm interested in...because I don't think he feels the same way and I guess I'm trying to convince myself that I don't either.

I'm such a contradiction. You'd never know if I like someone.

[DontPublicMe]

@AAMLfan

How typically Australian! *LOL* Or rather, typically Northern European.

A shy girl, who I tried to be friendly with, finally told me to get lost. She did not seem actually shy, but arrogant and self assured. But it was only several weeks later, after she warmed to me, and finally succumbed to .. um .... "nature", that I began to find out that she was really very shy, and hid her shyness in a smoke-screen of self-assured-ness, and hard-to-get-ness.

Yes, she was N.European. Also..

[DontPublicMe]

@AAMLfan

Also ..

Something else that's typically Australian, is a woman who can't get a man will convince others (AND herself) that it's HER that's doing the rejecting. Of course, it's not, and by convincing even herself, she drives down the chances of finding her natural pair to zero.

You're the first Ozzie woman to actually admit that to be the case, though you've done it in the anonymity of the Internet! :)

[AAMLfan]

@DontPublicMe Funny, cos I'm an Aussie-born Chinese.

Naah I'm just a bit frigid...to the point where I'd rather not risk being rejected. So yeah, what you said is right. I walk around with an invisible wall.

[Danendran93]

i got some question?

when she walk public with her friend only 2 of them,she never starts the conversation,if i start conversation or eye contact she keep smile on me and look ground and try too hide friendz shoulder

what does this mean?

[DontPublicMe]

@Danendran93

Maybe she has bad breath. 

[freikendude]

hey theres this group of girls that are here at the hotel im staying at i kinda approached them, how could i tell which one of them might be interested in me, one thing one of them keeps looking at me lik no dcimulation lik she looks and when we lock eyes she quickly looks away or the other one kept lik turning completely around to lock eyes for lik 3 seconds andu she kinda got closer but i didnt approach her emm advice?



[DontPublicMe]

@MMArtist99

Thass roit, mate! Edger-cation is the key. Get it and ya gottit.

[Darkkor3]

I have a question. i normally have to start a conversation but once it is started we normally talk for a long time but she never starts the conversation, what does this mean?

[DontPublicMe]

@Darkkor3

It can mean a lot of things, but that's irrelevant to what you should do.

After talking to her for some time (during one of these long conversations), get up, tell her you're tired, then, when she's on her feet also, kiss her on the lips.

The kiss has to be quick and unexpected. The chances are high that she will kiss u back, but if she doesn't, move on to another woman.

From the fact that she likes u enough to have long conversations with u, chances r high she'll kiss u back

[mariedubuque]

Waylongrules20--I don't think that's true! If she communicates a lot with you through Facebook or any other way, that's a good sign. And also if she responds quickly when you message her, she might be interested!

[waylonrules20]

I have a couple question. I've read that a girls pupils get dilated when there interested in you is this true? And Is there any way you can tell if she's interested in you over face book?

[whojulie93]

@waylonrules20 people's pupils get dilated not only when they see their crush but also when they're afraid of smth or interested in smth. but not everybody knows this fact.

[DontPublicMe]

@whojulie93

I knew that "fact" (or indicator) when I was 14. It was when I stood in a bookshop reading some book on these sorts of things. I believed it totally at the time, but as I grew older, I realized that I had to watch for other indicators also, to decipher a more definite conclusion.

[jorgan121]

Hi! umm i have a question.. Theres this girl i like she also likes me.. but we are to shy to talk to each other bcuz shes a bit embarassed,, and also how do i know if she likes somebody other than me plz reply ASAP plz

[DontPublicMe]

@jorgan121

Are you sure you're 30, as your profile says?

You shouldn't be shy at that age.

Try emailing her, or sending her a message on Facebook ... just something where you don't have to be face to face.

Better still, do it in a light-hearted way. Being too serious can put too much pressure on the other person, enough to scare her off totally. I mean, say something light-hearted, and see if she responds.

Being light-hearted and easy-going tends to work best. I'm not sure why.

[40Adhi]

I recently was attracted to this shy girl.Shes the type that dont really talk much with a lot of people.Then one day when i ask her to go on a lunch ,to my surprise she actually said yes even though it took her quite a while to reply.Then ,since that day when ever i try to chat to her on facebook ,she did not reply to any of it.Then there is one time when i try to apologize to her if there is something that i have offended her in some way or another,her reply is just a smile thats all.plz help.

[DontPublicMe]

@40Adhi

Maybe the lunch she had with you made her fart excessively, so now she kind of associates this episode of physiological extravagance with your company, which she henceforth irrationally seeks to avoid.

It's best you tell her forthrightly that breaking wind is natural, and that you would actually find it cute to hear her bottom burp once in a while.

[dannymanthing]

Getting her best friend is the way to go! It works trust me :)

[mariedubuque]

blob440--You have absolutely the right approach. Just keep doing what you're doing.

[blob440]

There is a new girl in school i like. My friend likes her 2 , but seems like he's trying 2 force something, which freaks her out. I'm just hangin back, but i am talking 2 her so she knows that i dont wanna ignore her. she smiles at me and giggles at things i do that r funny. she tries 2 get close 2 me in the hall, but then she slows down a little, because she's shy. she is nice, and i know isn't tryin to play games cause shes not that type of girl. when she sits, her feet point near me.plz rply

[mariedubuque]

AceGunner--Yes, she likes you! Because if she didn't she would have said it in no uncertain terms. So, consider what she said as a definite yes!

[mariedubuque]

Pepeusouza--Inititially, I thought she was just shy around you. But the fact that she barely answers your texts is not a good sign. Even is she were shy, if she liked you as more than a friend, she would answer your calls. Try distancing yourself from her a little.

[Pepeusouza]

MARIE,

Ok so i met this girl 4 days ago and i got this huge crush on her.

during the double date, she seemed to be shy around me.. and only me.. like, she'd talk to my friend and his date but less to me... she was very friendly and VERY outgoing; she laughed a lot at the things i said, even when they weren't even my best jokes..she even asked me to go with her to many different places at other times!

but she barely texts me back or answers my calls.what is that? its like shes into me and not rly

[mariedubuque]

youngforever--Ask her to do something with a group of people. That way it won't seem like a date, and you can see how she responds when you are out together

[2011TOMCAT]

In my whole life, girl when I was much younger. For now woman, because I am much older that I am not interest in, I can talk to them easily. They are the one thought that I am interest in them and I got freak out. But, for the woman that I like, I am afraid to approach them. I keep on thinking that I am not good enough for them. In my whole college years, girls chase me and I back off. Girls that I like and they back off. For some reason, girls that liked me and I liked them back, and they

[TheChickenRiceBowl]

I'm really shy and I do all of these things when I like a guy except for the eye contact thing. I usually make eye contact when we aren't very close but if he's talking to me I'll just look down and try not to look up much. It's so annoying and awkward. Ugh! I hate being shy so much! And it doesn't help when you're really tall AND shy. If you're short and shy it's ok and even cute at times but if you're tall and shy you're just percieved as socially awkward >_<.

[yobolion]

Being shy and an introvert are not the same things as implied in your description!

[mariedubuque]

Toby, that's ok. She'll break up with the boyfriend soon enough. So, text her like you would any other friend and see where this goes. Even if it turns out to be just a friendship, that's ok too.

[tobyhawk828]

this is afc ways of flirting. this isnt exactly true

[mariedubuque]

Lloyd, try talking to her a little more every time you see her. You con't need to talk about personal stuff right away.

[RubMyBlueBerry]

@mariedubuque Hey Ive stmbled on yur vidz and wel I could realy use sme advice This girl cme into my school new & she was vry quiet the first 2 mnths im the sme way but i sprked a conversation with her & she was amzin she was laughin & it was the first time ive seen her smile a couple days lter i asked if i could have her # she said yes paused then said but i have a bf i quickly replied sayin its ok so i got her # but i dont know where to go from here i like her but im worried shes not intersted

[LLOYD19851012]

There is a woman who smile's everytime she see's me. I make her laugh, and she talks to me more than other people. Her eye's follow me. I am shy about talking to her about personal stuff.

[mariedubuque]

Lurick--I would take what she says at face value. If she says she is not interested, become a little distant. Then, she will probably all of a sudden become interested in you!

[mariedubuque]

Lurick--She likes you! That is just her way.

[Lurick13]

What if she like always tries to bother you and stuuf like throwing stuff only at you and laughing?

[mariedubuque]

hari8028--I think the fact that she said "she is not sure that will happen" is not a good sign, I'm afraid. This doesn't sound like she is playing hard to get. I would be friendly, but not too friendly, just business-like. And she how she reacts.

[hari8028]

There is this girl in office I like. She stares at me. Turns back from her chair to look every time I step out of my cabin. She knows I like her. I even told her ,"I would like to know more about you, would u like to know about me." and she was like,"But, I am not sure that will happen ".But she keeps lookin/staring at me. Turning back from her chair to look.Is she playing hard to get ?She sometimes does look down or away after making eye contact and some times we will just hold the eye contact.

[HayaoMiyazaki1fan]

omg, so true xD but the walking away from him thing isn't necessarily true, I get so nervous around him that I try to avoid him sometimes :/

[12onnieful]

what if i have small asian penis

[Cubandude77]

Wow ur good thanks for the tips

[mariedubuque]

No problem! Have a wonderful holiday!

[mariedubuque]

OohCoolLayLay--That's a good plan. See what happens. It sounds like she needs to take things slowly.

[medianga]

@mariedubuque oops i assidently voted down on this... i didnt mean to lol

[mariedubuque]

PphCoolLayLay--If you already have a time and place set for tonight, I wouldn't worry about it. Just show up. But if not, I would confirm that you're still on for tonight. I don't think that's too forward. She just might be really busy, I wouldn't read too much into it.

[OohCOOLayLay]

@mariedubuque Hey just wanted to give an update.. so plans last night were cancelled because of weather conditions and bcause she was tired from work. BUT, we ended up talking on the phone for like an hour because she had work early this morning. We talked more about ourselves and i finally brought up the subject of ex boyfriends... i learned shes really skeptical about dating because of her bad past. i figured the only way to prove i'm not like those guys is to just wait it out in time.

[OohCOOLayLay]

@mariedubuque Then at the end of the conversation, i told her straight up like "hey i wanna let you know that i really do like you and i know we just started talking and i'm already going to be gone for a bit but that doesn't mean i'm not gonna miss you" her response was "aww you're so sweet, i'm gonna miss you too". we're hanging out after you get back and definitely before you leave. at this point, i'm not really suer how to handle the situation.

[OohCOOLayLay]

@mariedubuque throughout the convesation, i kept being persistent on things that hint that i want to be that guy and stuff but like you said, i didn't necessarily say "lets get serious".Lastly, for our trip to disnetland, i found out that the following week, it's her best friends birthday so shes inviting her to come. would that still be okay for me? i said if worse comes to worse, would you still be down to go with just us two and she said of course, shed still try to get the time off .

[OohCOOLayLay]

@mariedubuque but, it all depends because if her friend can't go, she doesn't want to request too much time off because if something comes up with her friend, then it'd be important for her to not miss it. My only guess like i said before, is to just keep talking to her, keep being persistent that i'm a genuine guy, and let time tell the tale. note that she's 23 and im 19 if that matters. and we work together so it helps that we see each other often

[mariedubuque]

OohCoolLayLay--Normally I would say don't talk about your feelings so soon. But I like what you plan on saying. Because it' s not saying, "Let's get serious." You're basically asking her to hang out with you more, and that you enjoy her company. I think that's totally appropriate. Also, I do think she is interested in you. Because if she weren't she wouldn't suggest doing things together in the future. In fact, she would completely avoid saying that at all. This could be a relationship!

[OohCOOLayLay]

@mariedubuque yeah.. it's a really rough situation. like i was explaining, the little spark we have together is still a bit fresh and i'm scheduled to leave for vacation in a week and ill be gone for 16 days.. thats why i was really taking it into consideration to really put it out there and give her the reassurance that i WILL still be thinking about her you know? the last 2 days have been hard because we haven't really talked...she mentioned having 3 hours of sleep thurs nigght and had a final

[OohCOOLayLay]

@mariedubuque yesterday so i didn't really hear much from her.... it kinda got me twisted because i did have a brief conversation with her in the afternoon yesterday and told her to give me a call to let me know how it went, but i didn't receive that call. to worry or no? we have plans for dinner and ice skating tonight, but i just plan on letting her come about it and letting me know if the plans are still on.. i don't want to seem pushy and ask for confirmation when she already asid yes.

[OohCOOLayLay]

So i'm really in a frustrating situation...ive become close w/ one of my co workers for the last 3 weeks, and weve been on a date, weve talked on the phone for hours, i brought her dinner while she was still working, and weve planned a trip to disneyland, just the two of us. Im really interested in becoming an item, but i just can't read her. Frm what i know, shes a shy/conservative gal but since breaking the ice, we've seemed to be comfortable around each other.

[OohCOOLayLay]

At work, she's always playfully teasing me, we always "bump" into each others paths, we always talk to each other, and she's made it clear of a future ("we should do this together, that together, etc"). As i said earlier, i brought her dinner while she was at work and my other co worker mentioned "oh that was ncie of him to do that, i wonder why?" and he said she just smiled and then he walked away. During the one long conversation weve had on the phone, we really oepned up abt family, etc

[OohCOOLayLay]

the other morning, she even called me to wake me up and make sure i didn't miss my final and wished me luck... One thing which is confusing me, is that im usually the one to engage the conversation... i mean from what i've heard, since the bond between us is still fresh, she might be expecting ME to make the first move/call? I'm leaving for vaca for 16 days and am curious of whether or not i should lay my feelings down on the table during our date tomorrow night.

[OohCOOLayLay]

I was thinking at the end of the night something like "you know, i like you, like i really enjoy your presence and i really have fun when around you. we should definietly hang out more and really get to know each other. i know im going to be gone for a bit but hey, when i get back, we have disneyland to look forward to right?" should i let her know how i feel? or what? even if its only been about 3 weeks. id gladly appreciate for some advice. thanks a lot youtube.

[OohCOOLayLay]

sorry but i forgot to mention again... so when we were having dinner, i tried that little "accidental physical touch"....i was swinging back and forth in the chair, and when our knees finally made contact, i held it there and she didn't move away... positive? it seems like im thinking a little too deep into detail (which i probably am) but im just really having trouble reading the situation. its just hard because this is the first female i've had genuine feelings for in a while.

[mariedubuque]

doorsopen--I hate to say this, but I think she likes you just as a friend. You said that since you had coffee together she has not been talking to you really at work. I think she is trying to send the message that she is not interested in a romantic relationship with you. She's probably worried that you got the wrong idea when you talked for hours that one time. So she is trying to set the record straight by not texting you unless you text her. I hope I'm wrong!

[doorsopen]

I mean is she just playing hard get? Or is she just shy? When we hanged out for the first time we just had coffee together and talk for about 3 hours straight but when it's work I pass by her all the time and she just doesn't look at me. Also she never randomly texts or calls me ever. I always have to start it but sometimes I feel like I'm just bothering her. seriously confused

[doorsopen]

So I have this shy co worker that I am attracted to and I basically see her everyday. I finally had the courage to hang out with her for the first time and it went well but, the next day at work it was like she was a whole different person like she doesn't look at me or even say hi. And when I text her sometimes it seems she just wants to keep the conversation short like always saying "good night or have fun at work" at the end of her sentence. Ima bit confused at the moment

[1bookfish]

(continued) know i'll run into him i get out of my class ASAP! and i completely agree with 0:49. it's really hard for me to talk with someone i'm not close to, so you have to try to get me to talk. don't just ask questions like 'how are you?' well, that can be a very small start, but then you can continue on with questions to get her talking, and i find stuff like questions about me really works. maybe something like 'what's your fav book?'

go ahead, try your best and get to know her!! :D

[1bookfish]

YES. for all you guys out there watching this, YES. i should know. i am a very shy girl who has a really big crush on this guy right now and i do ALL these things. i get SO excited when we have the same class together and i'm always anxtious (LOL, i don't think i spelled that right) when he's not there, so i'm always trying to be around him. i do notice that i linger a bit after a class we have together because... well, i don't really know. and when i have a class with him next or i KNOW i'll

[Kurios4Life08]

THANX :)

[mariedubuque]

Kurios4Life08--Every time you see her, talk to her a little bit more. Start out as friends. Then, when you look at her as a friend, she won't seem so intimidating, and you can really get to know her. For now, don't approach her as a potential girlfriend. Instead, look at her as just a pal, and go from there. That way, the pressure is off, and the relationship can evolve, because you're not trying to impress her anymore.

[mariedubuque]

Dreadnought942--You've got to give it more time. Either she is really shy, or really fickle. Wait this out to see if you even want a relationship with her

[mariedubuque]

Niceguy999918---You could do that, and see what happens. Or you could try to talk to her a little more and see if she warms up to you. Then you would have a better sense of whether or not she is interested. But don't give up, unless you get a really bad vibe from her. She could just be extremely shy, like you said. What about a group date with some of her friends? You could start with that, unless you don't know any of them. That might make her feel more comfortable.

[niceguy999918]

I like this girl,a nd she is very shy. The background on her is she is 27 and never had a boyfriend. I talked to her today and she was nice but crossed her arms and smiled but walks and I just do not get her. Should I just ask her out and find out one way or another if she likes me?

[Dreadnought942]

this girl im into is driving me nuts...i don't know if shes shy or not

sometimes she ignores me altoghether, sometimes shes playfull and open as hell.

i make her laugh and try to make her comfotable...but shes just changing her behaviour so fast..... im goin' mad

its like ...she ignores me in class...and after we can talk like nothing happened. im really confused

[L3g3ndkill4]

00:42 so true, do you read minds? LOL

[MistyLove7]

I am shy girl, espchially with men I like..I don`t how to act to show this certain guy how I feel about him..

[gossipgi]

how do u know this... were u a shy girl or something?

[mariedubuque]

Thunderfan23--That's a hard one because she could just be a friendly person. See if she keeps coming up to you every time she sees you. Or if she makes a point of coming up to you even when you don't pass by her. I mean, if she goes out of her way to walk up to you and start talking on a consistent basis...Then she might be interested!

[thunderfan23]

What if a girl is walking down the hall and sees you. Then she whats up for and begins talking to you. Is that the same thing?

[Leslybear]

lol im shy and i always do that when i see a guy lol.

[superbrand8]

why am i watching this?? haha

[mariedubuque]

Bigz547899223--I would just talk to her. If you can appear confident, she will forget about your lisp. And don't talk to her with any kind of expectations. Just start chatting, as if you are talking to your best friend. If you think of her as a possible friend instead of a potential "girlfriend" it will take a lot of the pressure off. Good luck!

[safire920]

lol,, the comments have nothing to do with the vid

[friends4ever97]

Good video.. lady.

[Spanduer90]

hey lady, this is very informative thanks

[jmanschools]

lol

[oursirpeace]

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[lazyducks74]

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[my3406cat]

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[lazyducks74]

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[oursirpeace]

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[lazyducks74]

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[strangersxcandy]

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