Is it Wrong to be Angry About Previous Sex Partners?

[stillonparolee]

Ever heard of soul ties?  Whoever you have sex with your soul gets connected to them.

[stillonparolee]

it's a turn-off to be with a girl knowing that some guy has cum into her and things she has done with her mouth. Do what you want, but for me, i'll pass.

[mrlaa1]

That guy is so whipped.

[FlankerVT]

@mrlaa1

lol, yea, he is probably a cuckold.

[galaxything]

i believe ur wrong! Hey guys do you want a prostitute as ur girlfriend? Infact worse than a prostitute cos she doesnt even charge the guys money. No man expects a partner to have no history but come on there is such thing as too many and morals!!!!

[MrEmptyinside]

Most of the time, she was just young, experimenting, and having fun - perfectly normal . . . you have to love her for who she is currently.

[jessica5666]

Men who have had sexual experiences themselves need to shut the fuck up about the women who have had sexual experiences!

[FlankerVT]

@jessica5666

ugh, but there is a double standard.It has always been there, and its there for a reason. but the basic rule you need to understand is that no man wants a whore. And this will not change. So keep lying about how many guys you fucked in the past.

[jessica5666]

@FlankerVT

You're the kind of guy that doesn't get any women or get your ass constantly dumped so your opinion doesn't even matter. That anger is so typical of desperate insecure guys...

[FlankerVT]

@jessica5666

Ok, because you can't really argue my point, your only recourse is to say something bad about me, . Deep down inside, i think you know that men don't marry or get into long relationships with whores. Do you know why we don't?

Because we don't respect/value them, and we don't trust them either. Insecure men accept ANY woman that they get a hold of. Secure men, especially successful ones, have standards. We just want someone of more value. A virgin is more valuable than a whore

[sneakonproductionz]

dude, just break up with her

[99virgo]

Damn!! The guy in this video is sooooooooooo whipped!! Yes there is a freshness seal!! What ever happened to a woman's virtue? Were i'm from the women R very permisquis. And what this lady said is right. What she was makes her what she is today!! In most cases the word slut applies. Feminist redorick, & women's lib have destroyed the woman our grandmothers use to be. Women with masculin thoughts & ideas ARE NOT attractive.

[452mike1986]

I have this problem too.Every once in a while I get this jealousy thoughts in my head for no reason. About my 'common law 'wife having sex with either one of her 5 guys. Not counting the guys she didnt have sex with but still got neck hekiss and ass graps. what hurts the most is that i met her at 16. She had been doing this at 13.8th Gd I know she aint like this anymore so i try to not make it a problem. The main issue over this is not that she wasnt a virgin, but the fact of my 4.5 inch penis.

[Ashabarala]

This is a really, really old video but I just wanted to say that you completely missed the point about the question, it does not have anything to do with virginity!!!! I really hope you see this comment...

[juneride]

I met a woman who wanted to take it slowly. She said she really likes me and wanted it to be "special". Then she told me when she was younger she hit it off with a lot of guys -- she just wanted to have sex with no strings attached. She said she was sexually promiscuous because she was stupid; but now she is a different person, and I have to work hard to win her.

I don't know how to explain it, but I lost my interest right away.

[Tubewyn]

Juneride, I think that's reasonable.

[reignsupreme]

I can respect that.

[FlankerVT]

@juneride

Thank god you didn't jump into that pool of aids.

[jessica5666]

@FlankerVT

You have a lot of issues apparently. writing to everyone nasty bullshit. I recommend you keep jerking off maybe your tiny penis will get bigger...

[FlankerVT]

@jessica5666

Wow, nice comeback.

I'm just being honest, not trying to be mean. But your being a twat.

I bet the smartest thing that ever came out of your mouth was a dick.

I recommend sucking more dick, maybe you will get smarter. XD

[jessica5666]

@FlankerVT

Good luck living the rest of your life alone and watching porn. Poor thing...

[FlankerVT]

@jessica5666

that is better than being married to a bitch like you.

[canibus26177]

look his guy is a whore and you must get rid of the bitch.  no man want to look at another man who have tanted there wife, move on man move on she is who she is cuase here friend fucked her brains out like a trash bagg and you most know cherish it to your hard another man trash is anthor man's gold.

[mpboss]

shes a drunken harlot that needs to keep her legs shut!! lol..but there missing the point that its his friends she slept with.

[waltsets]

Well what to do if u realize u have a problem with her sexual past.....But the problem is u can't seem to get images of her with others out of ur head? if u want to not think about but ur not able too.....Leave it or let it go....its not always that easy even if u admit that its not right. Sorry Dan & jennifer, the answer is not always that easy!

[Strat85]

yea,yea,yea ur right about letting go of the past,but here is the reason men ask that and women as well,if she didnt have too much sexual expirience, its because we want to know what kind of a person u are,can u be trusted in a sexual manner,u need to investigate ur partner,if someone messed around in the past its quite obvious they will do it again,why?because sex is a drug that feels really really good, and if u have tried it many times already, u will not stop and be loyal only to one partner

[LAnotBoston]

right on

[dawoel]

she is with YOU now she choose YOU

[Tubewyn]

Dawoel, Maybe she's with YOU now(for the time being) because she choose YOU(for the time being). But, she wanted THEM then(for that time being)... She might not want YOU later.

The thing to take home here is this: that's not monogamy. She was with other guys before you, and she will probably be with other guys after you.

I will say this: if you aren't a virgin, you shouldn't expect her to be...that's a double standard.

[marikabel]

like they deserve virgins those bastards lol kiddin no really man think they're fuckin honorable or somethin

[nordlac]

are you a manhater?

[marikabel]

no i love men... but sometimes yeah

[nordlac]

oke good

[jvonte]

Alcohol was involved each time, and she ended up being in bed with a guy "friend". Forget about moving on just because she's been sexually active, you need to move on simply for the fact that history has proven that it only takes but a few drinks to get her to give it up. Alcohol doesn't change you. It just makes it easier for you to bring out that which you normally would NOT display.

[dragonlord1134]

agreed to a point. this is true atleast for most people.

[dragonlord1134]

The reason behind mens logic in concern for her past is simply put...history tends to repeat itself. This fear needs to be balanced and its true possibilities need to be understood for the guy to decide whether or not to leave or so risk a relapse. It all matters on how likely it is to happen again and how servere the past action was. Lies only ensure failure.

[sas1ni69]

if she can do it with one more why not another ? that's really what he's worried about.

[lapassan]

I could not agree with you more. I hate it when guys get all upset over their girlfriends sexual history. . .it is such a double standard!

[reignsupreme]

Life is a double standard. Get over it. Laws in American favor women over men. That is something us men have to accept or fight to change. A man has a right to not want to sleep with you because of your past. Just like you have a right to not want to marry a broke guy.

[pinksugr05]

Usually I disagree with you on a few things (diplomatically, however) but I agree with you wholeheartedly on this. You don't see her moping about every girl he's slept with, so he should lay off her past. He fell in love with her anyways, so it's clearly not that important.

[ignaciom777]

Mens' insecurity about previous partners their girlfriend may have had is directly related to paternity reliability. He's right her past experiences has made her who she is. So if she had various lovers, chances are she still may still want that, or desire others other than her partner. the desire to have a sexually dependable woman is an ancient emotion, and it cannot be solved by simply telling men to get over it.

[winny87]

all he can do is get over it or leave her. theres no ancient emotions that need expressing. he can't rewrite her sexual history so he has to take it or leave it. full stop.

[ignaciom777]

I agree, all he can do is get over it. But that attitude overlooks the very real fear men have about women with many sexual partners. This fear is universal, only some men deal with it better than others. Women need to understand this fear in order to better address then with their partner, or have less partners, or, what most do, lie.

[hoodmilk]

No one said it's solve the problem. it's just something you have to do. People should accept things as they are.

[gossamerwindweb]

It is too bad that he is so hung up on her PAST. It is the PAST. He keeps bringing it up which makes her try to soothe his ruffled feathers by telling him 'it was just the alcohol.. I'm so sorry honey'. Once again I am oh-so-VERY happy that my husband is my husband. LOL!

[karry299]

Its not a very realistic thingking, that past always stays in the past. Past affects the future. Nothing stays buried forever. It will come back to bite you in the ass.

[BankaiPark21]

that is the truth =/

[gossamerwindweb]

Here's the deal.... this happened before she knew him! This happened before he was her boyfriend. It isn't as if she cheated on him or something. In what way could it come bite her in the ass? Unless she's running for a government office or to be a beauty queen, I see no reason that having sex with some of her friends should affect her future.

[karry299]

I'm really sorry that you cant see the reason.

[reignsupreme]

So true.

[wolfinside]

You know what strikes me as very odd? Most men want a woman who loves sex, and will have lots of sex with him. But, ... they have some strange notion that women who like sex will come to them without a history of liking sex. Women who like sex will have had sex in the past, get over it.

[stillonparolee]

@wolfinside WRONG...i'm sorry, it's human nature to want sex. It's called hormones. You don't need to have sex to be horny.

[karry299]

They are so utterly WRONG. In the example given - it had something to do with booze they say ? That means she WILL sleep with pretty much anyone if she drinks. It WILL happen.

Also, if its so easy for her to sleep with someone - it tells you things. It tells you that she is not serious about choosing carefully. It tells you relationship means less for her, than sex. It tells you that "turnover ratio" is high with her, and you shouldnt hope for a long-term relationship.

[berrysurprise76]

Ever thought that she may have used the alcohol excuse as a cop-out.... seems to me that the story she is telling him is a soft version of what really happened - She is probably well aware of his insecurities and if she was completely honest with him and admitted she enjoyed sex before him - she would either lose it or never live it down - Dan and Jen are right either get over it or go find a virgin... ---- by the way i think you guys are awesome!!! keep up the great work!!!!! :)

[karry299]

Thats another one. Lying. Great relationship that hypothetic couple is having.

[berrysurprise76]

tis sad... all stemming from his insecurities. If he was able to relax a little and allow her to be open with him just imagine what a great relationship could come from it.

[karry299]

Not really. Nothing good ever comes from fallen women.

[berrysurprise76]

when did she fall? she wasnt with him when she had those experiences... Why even bother being with a woman if you feel that way about her? I guess if you end up spending your life alone because of it... one really has no one to blame but themselves in the end....we can only get what we need in life as long as we remain open to all of the possibilities.

[karry299]

Thats okay, there are still decent girls out there...well, maybe not in USia, i dont know, but in other countires there are.

[reignsupreme]

True. You can definitely find a virgin outside of the USA. Some countries the women are taught to remain pure before marriage.

[anusoida]

So much reasonable explanation!!!!

[drewroxxx]

My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks in a row should I be angry with her?

[klined]

only if she never sucks yours

[Jacob951]

People forget the obvious here... The person you love is who they are BECAUSE OF all the decisions and experiences in their lives so far.

It's silly to be jealous of that.

[amieres123]

Why can't I let it go?

That's the real question. It'll tell you why?

You're a control freak. You want to control the one thing you can't control, her past. And it drives you crazy so you take it on her.

[amieres123]

Yes we all know it's wrong but they forgot to answer the key question: why can't I let it go?

Here is the reason, you are a control freak. You want to control the one thing you can't her past, so you take it on her.

So here is the problem Marty, you are going to have other control issues with her in the future. You have to realize she is an independent person that you cannot mold to fit your wishes. The only person you can do that with is yourself, and not even really.