Wat if someone make fun out of you name, pathetic irony? Don't want to get too personal, if you get annoyed, it wasn't my intention, but learn how to listen what other people's opinion. accept it or not it's fine. People have different opinions and idea, if you'll listen you might get something from it. Well watch the video as long as you want, but for us parents it's a huge help. I don't push or insist anything, we have the freedom to choose what we believe or not. by the way not a good irony,
I don't agree with Dr. Krap... I mean Karp. Parents should always speak to their children in an adult voice so that they know what is expected of them later on. Also, children aren't "little cavemen." He was right about listening to the child though. The best way to make your child listen to you is to be firm and follow through with consequences (ie. time out).
When done properly, spanking can work. But it can have reprecussions when the child gets older.
@Virchew you really don't get it or you're not a parent yet. You cannot expect toddlers to speak the way adult does. You cannot talk to a toddler like the way you talk to you friend. Of course you will not always talk to them in a primitive way as they grow. It's a gradual process. But at this point parents should also listen to them before parents convey their message. It's just the same as we grow, we want our parents to listen to us before they speak.
@kulindang When I said that parents should speak to their children in an adult voice I meant no baby-talk. And, though I don't have any children of my own, I have been around toddlers all of my life because my mother has owned a daycare since before I can remember. This issue is not just exclusive to parents.
@Virchew watch the video again parents did not talk like a baby or use 'Baby talk' . They are just repeating what their child saying to tell that they understands what their child wants before they convey their own message. The situation is 'give and take' fare communication between parents and children not one way communication. you obviously watched how Dr. Karp's(krap to what you call that is so insulting to a Dr. whose main agenda is to help parents) advises shows a fast and good results.
@Virchew Yes you are right this is not exclusive for parents but this is also a good knowledge for soon-to-be parents. it's much better to become more aware and prepared. It doesn't mean you surrounded by toddlers all of your life that you already know the difficulties of parents experiencing with their kids 24 hours a day. you will understand this once you become a parent maybe one day you will do Dr. Karp's advises when you don't have any choice.
@kulindang It seems that you are bent on discrediting my opinion on childcare. You need to actually listen to what I'm saying. I still do not agree that repeating what your child says in a childish, sing-song, manner is logical or effective. And no, I won't be using the Karp method with my children. That's my choice and opinion, let me have it.
@Virchew I respect your decision, but stop insulting other people the way you change Dr. Karp's name to Krap, many parents are grateful with his help,and if you don't agree with him. then stop watching his video.
@kulindang Just pointing out the irony of his name being so very close to crap. Sort of like Dr. Lipshitz... And I would stop watching his video if you would stop sending me back to it to read your comment.
She feels like a moron because she is listening to one! This is utter rubbish! What an idiot...children are not "little cavemen", they are little humans that are filled with sin and of course that is going to come out in them. A few smart smacks to the bum and I guarantee the tantrums will subside over time if parents are consistent! Spare the rod, spoil the child. Didn't have such bratty, insolent children back in the days of the switches!
@celticwhim And we didn't have dr phil either, lol. Or counselling or vandalism to the degree we do today. Punishment for everyone was stricter and so everyone behaved more.
@celticwhim spanking doesn't work. Trust me. I even ask my 3 year old "Do you like to get spanked or what?" and he will reply with a yes. No matter how hard or how often it just doesn't work.
She feels like a moron because she is listening to one! This is utter rubbish! What an idiot...children are not "little cavemen", they are little humans that are filled with sin and of course that is going to come out in them. A few smart smacks to the bum and I guarantee the tantrums will subside over time if parents are consistent! Spare the rod, spoil the child. Didn't have such bratty, insolent children back in the days of the switches!
If my child throws a tantrum at home, I'll lock 'em in there room until they're tired and calm. If they do it out in public, then I'll take off my belt and go Hellbent for Leather! in a loving, and parenting way of course!
Gosh! It does work!! it does!!! My son is now 13 month and he hasn't had a tantrum because before it happens I do what Dr. Karp says and it works. Whatch his video it is worth it and also the happiest baby on the block...they are worth it!
My little one is18m old. She understands the naughty courner....and i sit next to her when shes there...but i ignore her untill her 1min is up...then i talk gently to her tellin her why she was there, ask her for a cuddle and kiss and then we play...works wonders...now i mention naughty corner and she change instantly. All she ever really want from me is some attention...best i give her good attention...with lots of love and reasurance. lots of play time helps too :)
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When they're toddlers, that's the age to start hitting them - you're the parent, not their friend.
One of two good arse-beatings is all a child of average intelligence needs before they learn that their bad behaviour will illicit pain.
It sucks having to endure all of the crying and unhappiness for the first parts of it but, after he/she wises up, the kid learns to behave appropriately.
Resvgram - whoa!! Yes, it's true that discipline is important when they're toddlers but an "arse-beating" isn't the answer. You should read and get the dvd of "the Happiest Toddler on the Block" - it saved our family's life. You can learn to speak "toddlerese" and learn what they want, what they need, and how to communicate with them like the little human beings they are.
@Resvrgam Yes, let's take advice from a person that refers to a child as a screaming little brat. I pity your kids if you have any. There is a reason behind a child's every action- kinda like how a baby cries when they need something. Try going 2 years without being able to talk or communicate your feelings. You'd be frustrated too.
@aquia80 Sometimes there's no reasoning with a child and their temper tantrums. It sounds like if we went with your touchy-feely BS, we'd have more societal burdens that commit crimes.
You can't always rationalize a child's actions and a lot of things they do are completely irrational and need correction immediately.
If you don't stamp out bad behaviour as early as possible, the child learns that it's acceptable to do.
Sometimes pain an excellent teacher - no one's suggesting broken bones.
i just ignore them when they do that and its ether and the discipline should be no joke all you need to do is be strong don't be a push over my cousin used to be like that till i got threw with her.
ok maybe the repeating is just having the parent telling the kid that yes i hear waht you are saying..but this is how things will be...but the constant repetition is annoying
This is a good approach but, children are not a product of evolution nor do they revert to a "prehistoric" being when upset. Emotion is real and of course, proven on the other hand, evolution is not. :)
@gunnerbeast123 I was just thinking that lol
11izzybell11 1 month ago
Where's the super nanny
gunnerbeast123 2 months ago
Wat if someone make fun out of you name, pathetic irony? Don't want to get too personal, if you get annoyed, it wasn't my intention, but learn how to listen what other people's opinion. accept it or not it's fine. People have different opinions and idea, if you'll listen you might get something from it. Well watch the video as long as you want, but for us parents it's a huge help. I don't push or insist anything, we have the freedom to choose what we believe or not. by the way not a good irony,
kulindang 6 months ago
in Jamaica, the solution is a broken ass.
4594901 7 months ago
spare the rod spoil the kid
All u need to know
Headshot568 9 months ago
I like when she said : "kay...NIGHT-NIGHT!!!" lol u can see she's so happy he finally shut up!!! Lol
tatetitatu 9 months ago
i love the lady in the red's face at 6:55 - 7:02 hahaha
ReeceFbaybe 10 months ago
I don't agree with Dr. Krap... I mean Karp. Parents should always speak to their children in an adult voice so that they know what is expected of them later on. Also, children aren't "little cavemen." He was right about listening to the child though. The best way to make your child listen to you is to be firm and follow through with consequences (ie. time out).
When done properly, spanking can work. But it can have reprecussions when the child gets older.
Virchew 10 months ago 2
@Virchew you really don't get it or you're not a parent yet. You cannot expect toddlers to speak the way adult does. You cannot talk to a toddler like the way you talk to you friend. Of course you will not always talk to them in a primitive way as they grow. It's a gradual process. But at this point parents should also listen to them before parents convey their message. It's just the same as we grow, we want our parents to listen to us before they speak.
kulindang 6 months ago
@kulindang When I said that parents should speak to their children in an adult voice I meant no baby-talk. And, though I don't have any children of my own, I have been around toddlers all of my life because my mother has owned a daycare since before I can remember. This issue is not just exclusive to parents.
Virchew 6 months ago
@Virchew watch the video again parents did not talk like a baby or use 'Baby talk' . They are just repeating what their child saying to tell that they understands what their child wants before they convey their own message. The situation is 'give and take' fare communication between parents and children not one way communication. you obviously watched how Dr. Karp's(krap to what you call that is so insulting to a Dr. whose main agenda is to help parents) advises shows a fast and good results.
kulindang 6 months ago
@Virchew Yes you are right this is not exclusive for parents but this is also a good knowledge for soon-to-be parents. it's much better to become more aware and prepared. It doesn't mean you surrounded by toddlers all of your life that you already know the difficulties of parents experiencing with their kids 24 hours a day. you will understand this once you become a parent maybe one day you will do Dr. Karp's advises when you don't have any choice.
kulindang 6 months ago
@kulindang It seems that you are bent on discrediting my opinion on childcare. You need to actually listen to what I'm saying. I still do not agree that repeating what your child says in a childish, sing-song, manner is logical or effective. And no, I won't be using the Karp method with my children. That's my choice and opinion, let me have it.
Virchew 6 months ago
@Virchew I respect your decision, but stop insulting other people the way you change Dr. Karp's name to Krap, many parents are grateful with his help,and if you don't agree with him. then stop watching his video.
kulindang 6 months ago
@kulindang Just pointing out the irony of his name being so very close to crap. Sort of like Dr. Lipshitz... And I would stop watching his video if you would stop sending me back to it to read your comment.
Virchew 6 months ago
I witnessed a tantrome in a McDonnalds. It got out of hand where I couldn't here my new talking atommic watch.
funmike1987 11 months ago
5:41. Background. Creepy.
5uzyD4wg 1 year ago
man, what's with all the crazy filters?
sweden360 1 year ago
She feels like a moron because she is listening to one! This is utter rubbish! What an idiot...children are not "little cavemen", they are little humans that are filled with sin and of course that is going to come out in them. A few smart smacks to the bum and I guarantee the tantrums will subside over time if parents are consistent! Spare the rod, spoil the child. Didn't have such bratty, insolent children back in the days of the switches!
celticwhim 1 year ago
@celticwhim And we didn't have dr phil either, lol. Or counselling or vandalism to the degree we do today. Punishment for everyone was stricter and so everyone behaved more.
TheKitterator 1 year ago
@celticwhim YES!!! Burn them at the stake!
jaynesvision007 10 months ago
@celticwhim spanking doesn't work. Trust me. I even ask my 3 year old "Do you like to get spanked or what?" and he will reply with a yes. No matter how hard or how often it just doesn't work.
THuGZZTA 2 months ago
She feels like a moron because she is listening to one! This is utter rubbish! What an idiot...children are not "little cavemen", they are little humans that are filled with sin and of course that is going to come out in them. A few smart smacks to the bum and I guarantee the tantrums will subside over time if parents are consistent! Spare the rod, spoil the child. Didn't have such bratty, insolent children back in the days of the switches!
celticwhim 1 year ago
i hate how dr. Phil can be so condescending. he's such a know-it-all jerk. does anyone know of other child psycologyst advice shows?? i'm serious.
nuklear7 1 year ago
If my child throws a tantrum at home, I'll lock 'em in there room until they're tired and calm. If they do it out in public, then I'll take off my belt and go Hellbent for Leather! in a loving, and parenting way of course!
GruppeSechs2004 1 year ago
@GruppeSechs2004 Thats what my mother does to my young niece. Works wonders!
BaeWatson 1 year ago
kool...
xXGEN3000KBMXx 1 year ago
wow
MyFamilyTribe 1 year ago
Gosh! It does work!! it does!!! My son is now 13 month and he hasn't had a tantrum because before it happens I do what Dr. Karp says and it works. Whatch his video it is worth it and also the happiest baby on the block...they are worth it!
tatyland 1 year ago
lol fuck that education aspects if your kid shouts at you and hits you hit it 5 times harder and shout 20x louder
insanebenji 1 year ago
My little one is18m old. She understands the naughty courner....and i sit next to her when shes there...but i ignore her untill her 1min is up...then i talk gently to her tellin her why she was there, ask her for a cuddle and kiss and then we play...works wonders...now i mention naughty corner and she change instantly. All she ever really want from me is some attention...best i give her good attention...with lots of love and reasurance. lots of play time helps too :)
IamGypsygirl 2 years ago
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When they're toddlers, that's the age to start hitting them - you're the parent, not their friend.
One of two good arse-beatings is all a child of average intelligence needs before they learn that their bad behaviour will illicit pain.
It sucks having to endure all of the crying and unhappiness for the first parts of it but, after he/she wises up, the kid learns to behave appropriately.
Resvrgam 2 years ago
Resvgram - whoa!! Yes, it's true that discipline is important when they're toddlers but an "arse-beating" isn't the answer. You should read and get the dvd of "the Happiest Toddler on the Block" - it saved our family's life. You can learn to speak "toddlerese" and learn what they want, what they need, and how to communicate with them like the little human beings they are.
CindyInLA1 2 years ago 11
That's a huge mistake parents these days always make: trying to reason with a child.
There's no difference between fear and respect to a screaming little brat and it's a parent's job to assert dominance over them.
Too many parents try reasoning or befriending their kids and this is why today's youth is so misguided and running amok.
Toddlers don't need diplomacy - they need parents.
Resvrgam 2 years ago
@Resvrgam Yes, let's take advice from a person that refers to a child as a screaming little brat. I pity your kids if you have any. There is a reason behind a child's every action- kinda like how a baby cries when they need something. Try going 2 years without being able to talk or communicate your feelings. You'd be frustrated too.
aquia80 1 year ago
@aquia80 Sometimes there's no reasoning with a child and their temper tantrums. It sounds like if we went with your touchy-feely BS, we'd have more societal burdens that commit crimes.
You can't always rationalize a child's actions and a lot of things they do are completely irrational and need correction immediately.
If you don't stamp out bad behaviour as early as possible, the child learns that it's acceptable to do.
Sometimes pain an excellent teacher - no one's suggesting broken bones.
Resvrgam 1 year ago
Dear god PLEASE tell me you are joking...
kingt34 2 years ago
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just give them a good spank and say im youre parent so you lesson to me and tell them the reason you spanked them
ELTRIATE 2 years ago
i just ignore them when they do that and its ether and the discipline should be no joke all you need to do is be strong don't be a push over my cousin used to be like that till i got threw with her.
GhostHunter1986 2 years ago
ok maybe the repeating is just having the parent telling the kid that yes i hear waht you are saying..but this is how things will be...but the constant repetition is annoying
DevilButtKicker 2 years ago 2
yeah i remember Lois using that in Malcolm In the Middle, its annoying
magent15 2 years ago
@DevilButtKicker yeah so i geuss their tryin to annoy them to make them stop
honor21221able 8 months ago
hmmm what if this is just a temporary distraction theyll catch on fast wont they??
charlenekarras 3 years ago
lol...maybe the kid calmed down cuz he's thinkinig : "...wow, mommys got a screw loose...I better humor the old girl..."
HDC17 3 years ago 24
LOL. Exactly!
sprice676 2 years ago
This is a good approach but, children are not a product of evolution nor do they revert to a "prehistoric" being when upset. Emotion is real and of course, proven on the other hand, evolution is not. :)
annodog 3 years ago
...and neither is gravity. :)
RussellsParadox 2 years ago