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  • Amazing words

  • i am now in a rut relationship

  • your page cannot be found on facebook :(

  • none of  'em!!!

  • i hate these people against gay ! we r just like u NO different we are not gross we are not weird we r just people who like the same sex BIG DEAL! stop being rude keep it to yourself!

  • Long distance, and right now I'm in a secretive relationship

  • I would skull fuck your lisp away

  • I havnt had a propper relationship with anyone, but the closest I ever got would have ended up secret, dependant (at some stages), and probably end up with the rut for her. The other would have ended up with that lot, AMD being long distance, which was the reason we didn't go ahead with it. Its a shame, and im still getting over that first one came to a close, as such, with her getting a boyfriend and not telling me till I was about to ask her out )

  • Long distance, Secretive, and I guess kinda Dependent . (:

  • Gross

  • Dependance was happening with my ex and I.......first it was long distance but I moved down to be with her, even though her parents NEVER knew about us. I really tried to make it work out but my ex never tried, so eventually after months of crying myself to sleep, I broke up with her....... Yay! :)

    You give great advice btw. Thank you!

  • so..are u lesbian?

  • @ahrims221 yes,yes she is

  • Long distance, parents found out BOOM. All over with!

  • Me and my girlfriend are in a secretive relationship from only our parents, our friends know. But her parents are lesbians and my parents wouldn't care, so we shall tell them anytime soon probably :)

  • this really helpeddddddd :) you are awesome bro ahh! jaja i'ved checked out a bunch of ur videos they're nice very help full i have a couple of questions from my friends side ill be asking u soon :)

  • can't tell if i'm bi or lesbo. when your at that point it really SUCKS!!!! I actually hope i'm full lesbian though^^

  • long distance and secret, and shes kinda dependent.

  • my parents and I live live in new york and she would kill me if I told her I was bi so I just am gonna stay secret

  • secret and I will allway be in one

  • emotional and dependant, still in it, i need to become less dependant, but i love the emotional side of things,

  • Rut, And I'm in one now

  • Emotional, secret, rut, dependent....shmeh.

  • Emotional- Its amazing to be emotionally attached to someone who is feeling the same for you.

    Secret- It was hard, having to hide it for 6 months and telling my parents and having to hide it again for a year, the relationship just broke it was too heavy for her because of my mother.

    The Rut- I was too scared to break up with one of my ex's because she loved me but I didnt love her as much, so I had to break up with her for her own sake I swear I wasnt thinking about me, it wouldve been easier.

  • Dependence-it's hard cause you don't want to hurt that persons feelings -.- and it does get ver tiring.

  • I love your little random moments lol

  • Secret... and I'm still in one...

  • secret relationship ... idk it just gets supper hard and you get tired of hiding it .

  • Secret; It sucked so bad -.- But I didn't want to force my girlfriend out of the closet so I just put up with it. She was also REALLY dependent on me... which also sucked... And just recently (with the same relationship as before) the rut. I eventually ended it... which, again, sucked.

  • i dont have any experience with any types of relationships yet. keeping my fingers crossed!

  • Secret Relationship,My parents are religious and would kill me if they knew I was Bi

  • secret relationship - maybe because i really don't want my family to know that i do have girlfriend . LOL

  • Secret Relationship

    It wasn't because I didn't want to come out, but rather trying to lie to myself about it being in another relationship. For most of it, ze was willing to be patient and understood it was what it was and nothing more due to my issues. But ze got exhausted.. every day I regret not doing better by ze.

    Ze's happy now with a beautiful girl and I'm happy for them. In a painful, gritted toothed smile sort of happy, but happy.

    I learned a lot from what we had.

    It was beautiful.

  • Long distance relationship, didn't work out very well. I went into it because there aren't very many gay people in my area as in only one other gay girl in my school besides myself and we're just best buds. Long distance does not work out 99% of the time I agree.

  • ive been in a long distance relationship and it was really hard on me

    she was so far away and all we could do was talk on msn

    she was in the Netherlands and i would stay up late to talk to her and hardly b with my friends and they got mad at me then i realized it was just too hard

  • very well said jenna

  • i've been in a secret relationship. it lasted over a year but only for her. my family ended up finding out but we kept it from hers for that year. even after she broke up with me i still don't think her parents found out. It kinda sucks that i'll never be acknowledged as anything important in her life

  • secret relationship.

    

  • first off, i completely love your channel, it's amazing and very helpful'informative. i was wondering if you could make a video on how to find a girlfriend if you are in high school ? im aware you've made a similair video, but i was looking for something more specific to people between the ages of 16-20 sort of thing. :) xx

  • never had one :/

  • secret relationship!

    amazingg.....till we got caught. :/

  • Friends with benefits :/

  • The opening song is pretty catchy

  • Exp w dependant,, long distance, secret and friends with benefits. So far FWB works best for me. Your vids rock!

  • Friends with benefits and trust me it does NOT work:( i lost my best friend

  • I think I've been in every type of relationship you talked about :O and they are not mutually exclusive, so sometimes I had two diferent types of relationships u mentioned with the same person :O

  • I've never been in a relationship. I guess my thing with my friend could count...but that was more of a 'waiting for something that was never going to happen'crush than an actual relationship.

  • Long distance was the roughest relationship I've had, I loved her more then anything but we had to split. just isn't my thing.

  • long distance im actully in one now i love her more than anything but its hard sometimes when u need someone there but there thounds and thounds miles away u allways have that fear of them cheating or looking at other ppl but if u trust them enough you will probily get tho it :)

  • ive been in a emotional, the rut, secret but only for the other person which ended badly, and friends with benefits which did also ended badly. but now im in a str8 forward one. we're just out there, and its going great :)

  • I've been in a dependant relationship, friends w/ benefits, secret, not secret, long distance, emotional, and im in a semi-secret relationship now lol

  • Secret and Friends with Benefits

  • I am a straight guy, but i find myself to think that lesbians are the way COOLER and attractive than the normal gals, what is wrong with me and what should i do?

  • ive expirienced with long distance, and close also dependent relationships??? l0lz

  • Wow you are a very pretty, I am a dude tho lmao

  • 9:12-9:16 was REALLY worth the time. :D

  • Long distance..in one now

  • long distance & emotional 

  • whoo!! CELLO!! <333

  • hmm. I've had a long distance relationship that ended very badly. lol. and a few emotional ones.

  • Jenna said poop. Awesome.

  • umm..my girlfriends parents dont know shes gay but she wants to go out with me in a longterm relationship but i want her to be honest with her parents what do i tell her to do?

  • i would say my relationships pretty secretive. me and her have been dateing for 2 months and 4 days now. some friends know. her parents know she is gay but dont know shes in a relationship. my dad knows nothing about it! thank goodness. some of our friends know. we flirt a lot in public and people are starting to ask questions. so im thinking soon it wont be so secret. which can end up bad for me sadly.

  • You two were AMAZING!!!!

    My long distance relationship lasted six months...I left him because he demanded I be a Jehovah's witness like he is...=( Sometimes being with a guy is hard too. <3

  • i began my long distance relationship through yourube/yahoo and flew out to be with him. im glad i watched this because i am also a bit of a dependant person and have been wondering how to fix that. thanks a bunch! :D i feel confident that i can get better at this since im getting back into school soon and also getting a job so i will be doing things on my own =)

  • I've been in a long distance relationship before and hated it. I've been in a few friends-with-benefits relationships and I've actually had one that went really well. Mostly because we were always on the same page with each other. I think being extremely honest on both ends and knowing that it is not a serious relationship helps the friends-with-benefits relationship not die. I've also been in regular relationships, which have gone both well and not so well. You learn through experience, mostly.

  • if you lived in CT, I would deff wanna be best friends! hahaha keep up the awesome advice!

  • I'm currently experiencing a secret relationship, I'm not gay, but bisexual, but still scared of telling my parents because I feel they'll be ashamed because I'm Catholic. She doesn't want to tell her parents either, because we think it's just gonna get too messy. It is pretty emotional, but we're being rational and it's working so far :)

    I've also experienced the friends with benefits relationship. It didn't work out, and I got really hurt

  • i was in an almost year long long distance relationship. it ended about 5months ago and i learned alot about what i did wrong from this vid. i was somewhat emotionaly dependant and im surprised it didnt end sooner because we both are/where very physical people and i am very impatient. but i did wait months just to see her. although sometimes i wish it wouldnt have ended because i loved her so, im kinda glad it did cuz it was very painful for both of us to go thru with

  • secret, friends with benefits, and long distance... lol im not even 16 yet :X

  • Secret relationship for over two years

  • Secret.. and it ended badly

  • I've been trought all kinds and... I can tell I've been broken like.... Mmmm 20 times now but I still have hope. Thanks for the answers now I know how to deal with relationships... Do you sing the opening song of your videos? That part that says "ooh ohh ohh ohh lesbian answers"

  • I've been trought all kinds and... I can tell I've been broken like.... Mmmm 20 times now but I still have hope. Thanks for the answers now I know how to deal with relationships...

  • Nearly every single relationship I have been in was a rut, and the one I'm currently in I'm seriously in need of getting out of but I don't know what to do because I broke up with them already, but after seeing them I felt so terrible about it that I got back together with them. I don't really want to be in this relationship though and I don't know what to do because I don't want to lose them as a friend and I feel like if I break up with them again I won't be able to be their friend anymore ):

  • I added this to my favorites when you said "You need them to poop." :3

  • I found out I was bisexual last year. I knew it because I was in love with this girl, who was also my best friend. She's straight, but returned my feelings.

    She's now my girlfriend. Secret relationship xD

  • i havent been in a relationship yet im only 13 but if i were to have one it would probably be a secret one because everyone at my school would freak out :P

  • i went to school with your cousin. he's a very good cellist. is he going to school for music now?

  • Ive only had long distance ones and one started out good but both ended up being awwwfulll. Anyways, now that Im in college and going to PRIDE (our GLBT club :D), Im hoping to make more friends in the GLBT community and maybe even find a girlfriend who I can actually hangout with and be with :)

  • I looked at your channel just because I needed advice about a long distance relationship, and I am so glad that you talk about it. I thought about it a lot and it helps me so much.

  • rut.twice.my god,I cared too much about them(still do),it was really hard to tell them...

  • To poop? O.o

  • i've had 2 FWB's and they worked out well...

    i'm in a long distance relationship now & i might be a "physical" person like you, jenna, but at the same time, i have faith in my boy & i so i probably wont be ending it soon.

  • Im good how are you? x) haha you made me blush and i havent even meet you lol

  • friends with benefits

  • i watched it:)

  • ong the ending was so cute

  • it seems like all of those you mentioned is what i'm dealing with. : X my lover had just exploded out to her mom that she's a lesbian and being with me cos we were having a fight, she wanted to fly to meet me right away and wanted to ask for mom's approval, and her mom is a very religious catholic, i'm doomed. her mom is trying to stop us and said my gf is mistaken that shes a lez and asked her to go to church and pray more -_-!

    yes, long distance is hard as you said..

  • I wish i was you, just saying(:

  • I've dealt with all of these relationships. D:

  • long distance :/

  • You are just too funny.

  • still working on a long distance relationship. you are so right about it!!

  • distance relationship

  • hahahaha :P "you need then to poop."

    I laughed so hard.

  • i have a question...i fell for my best friend,what should i do

  • The best part was "Hi how you doing?"

  • right on lldaydreamer all couples have problems and yes anyone can split up or divoce this girl is years of common sense above her age bravo

  • i guess i can say ive basicly been threw every kind of relationship that you explained..but currently im in the rut relationship and ik it is selfish for me not to want to end it to hurt her but to me it feels like shes pressuring me to stay with her and sayin stuff like..if you end it i might have to be hospitalized cuz ill be so upset or ill want to roll over and die everyday cuz ur not mine anymore and its just hard for me and askin for ur advice and what i should do..reply in a msg plz&thx(:

  • Awh haha the endings so cute <3

  • you need them to breathe, you need them to poop, to sleep, to eat

    lol HILARIOUS

  • Did the dependent thing, I was the one who got depended on. I stuck around because I loved her and I wanted to help her. It was so exhausting, but I'll do anything for the one I love haha. Guess who dumped who? 15 months in, she ended up wating to have an open relationship, which I wouldn't go for. Now I'm in a long distance relationship, it is tough, but I'm hopeful. However I do worry she might need the physical part more than I do. Just seeing how it goes.

  • Thanks :]

  • dependency... except i'm the dependent one...

  • I've never actually been in a real relationship really, I mean, when I was younger I had boyfriends, but they didn't really mean anything to me, and when I lived in Colorado I SORT OF dated this girl, but I wouldn't call it dating cause we never actually went on any dates, and when I moved I never got to say goodbye. But that was back before I ever even thought about being bi, I think it was experimental, but now I have come to terms with what I am and I think I'm ready for a real relationship.

  • I was in a long distance relationship for a year, and that's all it was. We never got to visit each other, so we never had any physical contact. It suited both of us well; we cared about each other very much. I may even go as far as to say that we truly loved each other. Eventually though, it morphed into a rut relationship and I had to build the courage and end it with her. It was sad and I didn't want to, but it got to the point where it was hurting us more than bettering us.

  • i've been in a long distance relationship. i was in brasil for 6 months. and shes was back here in texas. im more of the emotional than physical type. and shes more the physical type. it was hard. i mean who wouldnt want to be some one and not be able to touch them. or hold them. or tell them to their face what you feel. to see that twinkle in their eye? it was really hard. its really not for everyone. but some ppl can handle it better than others.

    -Bella

  • Rut. Definately. I dated him for a further 6 months after I decided that I didn't even LIKE him let alone love him. I don't think I really ever did. He was very clingy and that freaked me out. He wastoo physical all of the time. He had all the traits I despised, but was just good at disguising them at first. I was reluctant to dump him because he can be VERY emotional and even threatened to kill himself when I didn't speak to him. I broke up with him and he broke down. I didn't know how to react

  • ive delt with long distance relationships before. one was for a year and a half and i became very attached to him. looking back on it i didnt love him as much as i thought. i was partcially lying to myself cause now i relize i like girls way more than i like guys. (im a girl btw) but just it was hard to break it off with him cause part of me will love him. ive also delt with FWB...that never works out well lol. love you jenna <3

  • I love youre advise. aha. youre adorable.

  • You need them to poop!! Haha!

  • I think I am starting to fall in love with you.

  • I'm currently in a long distance relationship... :C its hard but we plan dates to see each other and i'd like to think its going pretty well...

  • With my last girlfriend we were in a rut relationship. What was hard on me was she was dependent on me and she was having all kind of problems and I wasn't sure what to do. I was just trying to buy time to figure out what to do but all I did was ultimately hurt her. The worst part of this was she was my best friend so even after we broke up we'd still talk about everything but we would just keep hurting each other. I distanced myself a little and it helped. We still friends but its not the same.

  • you are awesome!!

  • im 16 and ive been in 1 secret relationship and one secret friends with benefits relationship, the friends with benefits actually ended pretty well, the other girl and i are still friends and we talk quite often.

  • i love your video's, they're good advise for any type of relationships gay or not :)

  • haha. I loved the end. you're so cute.

  • So I'm in a long distance and secret relationship... ahh. D:<

    You're very wise, though, so thank you. :)

  • at the end ur sooooooooooooo cute!!!!!! Haha iv been in a long distance relationship its goin ok but havent spoken in a wee while =[

  • I was in a secret relationship, then it became public (only to my friends) and all my friends were ok with it so everything was good then my dad found out and didnt let me see her but being completely inseperable to her - which i now know was the most unhealthiest thing - made it secret again, only to my family which was mega hard. Then she moved away for university and its a long distance (another country) relationship. She keeps telling me she cant be without me, so unhappy, etc. doesnt help:(

  • This is actually the most sound, helping and relating video i have ever watched on youtube! You rock jenna!!!

  • this is like the most helpful video ever made.

  • I just got out of a relationship. We were a secret but her mom found out.. She won't let us see eachother anymore.. Blah /:

  • @SpinnerBree that sucks ass, that happened to me and my girlfriend too, my dad said if i ever saw her again i'd get kicked out but i loved her with everything so i kept seeing her. We never got caught out but now she moved away so its a secret/long distance thing

  • you are like dr. phill in the lesbian world but some much hotter....hahahaha :) i´m just kidding!! I love you´re videos and the way you think! XD

  • yes, i definitely need my girlfriend to poop.

    time for ice cream!

    haha no. i am in an emotional relationship now but it feels long-distance since it used to be secret but her family found out and now they won't let us see each other.

    :(

    but i sneak out and see her anyway cuz i love her that much :)

  • I'm in a long distance relationship x3 I just love this person soo much that I just don't mind waiting for that person :) ♥ you're beautiful btw !

  • i was in a long distance relationship for basically a year. it was a secret from her parents, but not her friends. she eventually told her mom and her mom flipped and her mom hated me. we're no longer together and i moved on, but we're still friends. it's still a little weird though. :/

  • @melissanicolex3 oh noes i dun want that to happen to me D:

  • I want a long distance relationship.. ): There are like no lesbians here where I live and I haven't been able to talk to anyone about it :\

  • @EmmaJulieAislinn I'm looking for one too. Do you wanna chat sometime?

  • @Skaielements13 Yeah, sure :] Do you have msn or icq?

  • @EmmaJulieAislinn Yeah, it should b Skai Kyoko. What's yours?

  • @EmmaJulieAislinn where do you live? because i'm facing the same problem..

  • @EmmaJulieAislinn I feel the same...it sucks here.

  • I have been in a very brief long distance and a secret one because the girl it was with was catholic I've been in a good friends w benefits and a bad one and a dependent and a rut but it wasn't long before it ended by the way u r amazing

  • aww ur gay wtf dream ruined=,(

  • Jenna Yur one Gorqeous chick

    but iwnna know if yur conceited?

    im Just Curious thnxx(:

  • Wow.. I am currently in a secret, semi-long distant.. It has its ups and downs.

  • Emotional, Long distance (which REALLY didn't work haha), mostly secret though. Oh and one Friends with Benifits where there was no... communication, and it ended badly.

  • will you marry me ?? hahaha xD jk youre awesome!! xxx

  • Long distance, in a rut...

  • Long distance relacionship :( but my lack of patience won

  • Can I have your autograph :D

  • i've been in almost every kind you named. except the secret relationship ..

  • DID U EVER THINK THT U WOULD BE GOOD FRIENDS WITH UR EX?

  • would you say your more attracted to "fems"? whats your type physically and emotionally (:

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  • Friends with Benefits : /

  • Yeah, you know you love us ;D

    I have unfortunately, not been in a relationship with a girl yet... but the one im in with a guy right now is going strong all the same ^^

    Can't say it's really any of those, except for emotional in a good way

  • (2) but I know I can't just act like it never happened. I put her first. I don't want to hurt her again and I don't want her to look in my eyes and think about what I did every time. :/ I have to just let her go :'( and accept that we can't be together.

  • (1) I made a mistake and cheated on my girlfriend. I don't know why I did it. I got caught in the moment and - well there's no excuses..Anyway she kept saying she forgave me, begged for me to stay with her, clung to me and I had to force myself to break things off because I knew deep down I hurt her and it was completely unacceptable what I did. She thought I was just trying to get rid of her but I don't tolerate cheating. Whether it's my partner or myself. I love her so much, even still. but

  • How do you get over a break up?When the girl who is your ex is your bestfriend also.

  • Secreeet. And kind of long-distance. But not reallyyy.

  • I didn't want to leave~ :P

  • Great job in your videos, I love them

    You are really good looking btw

  • Awesome video. <3

    I've been in a long distance and a secret relationship.

  • haha why have i never seen your videos before?! you're wonderful =)

  • Hahaha funny ending!

    Secret relationship and it ended badly (x_x)

    The way you give your advices is really good. I've been watching your videos for a few days now and I have to say congratilations! You're very good at it!

  • Long distance and secret at the same time. That sucked. I'm glad I watched to the end though, it made me laugh :)

  • Awesome video!:D

  • well i have a gf right now but its long distance,,,,i really love her but its hard not being able to see her in person.....idk what to do cuz im more of a physical person i need someone i can be around .....plz help........btw love your videos...and youre pretty :)

  • Secret, haha. Don't get into one unless you think its really worth it, which it was for me. (: