I am 57 and have been alone since my wife of 32 years walked out on me 5 1/2 years ago. I have always loved this song but now I know that it is not always possible to Make Love Stay. I only wish I could have made it stay with the person I thought was the love of my life. Like telamon2011 I don't really believe in love any longer either. Love is an illusion and does nothing but break your heart.
I remember hearing this song on the radio way back in late 1982 when it was a hit, and the DJ made a joke about the song conttaining the word "exhunned." The joke aside, this is still a beautiful song that poses a question that, as far as I know, nobody has ever found the answer to.
I guess if I had figured out how to do what Dan's singing about, I wouldn't be almost 40 years old, divorced and alone without any children or any legacy to leave behind. Seriously, his question is the great mystery in any relationship, or at least it is to me.
People look for people with money, perfectly sculpted bodies, who party like they are still 20 year olds, and who have overall hedonistic tendencies. This explains the high rates of breakups, divorces, infidelities and unfulfillments. Translation: women like the bad boys, men like the vampish girls. The decent folk are left to rot in the abyss of loneliness. I have said it before, I will say it again: love is a joke, prepare instead to be with God for all Eternity.
I am a good looking, well educated, kind, compassionate, hard working and religious man, and at 50, have not even gotten even past first base in the "game of love". Translation: LOVE IS AN ILLUSION, RESERVED FOR PRIMARILY (THOUGH NOT EXCLUSIVELY) PEOPLE WHO ARE NEITHER WORTHY OF IT NOR TRULY APPRECIATE IT. A joke and one of the biggest illusions of all time. How I look forward to death, and being with God, Who loves all unconditionally.
Thanks. I did not mean to spout off like that, as the song is very beautiful, and I always liked Dan Fogelberg. (May he rest in peace). I was having a low time, but I do wish to express gratitude to you and a couple of others who offered solace over You Tube. There really ARE nice people in the world!
@telamon2011 Most wonderful people are often not loved or understood, you seem to have wonderful heart....I married amazing precious man who had many life disappointments, he's bee through hell but I recognized his soul....Hope some worthy woman will discover your precious soul. Most people are so shallow and petty, and they don't understand high spiritual souls. That is why spiritual emotional people often walk alone. Don't lose hope. Somebody in the world loves you and waits for you.
@telamon2011 Sounds like the love you have in your illusions is that which you are supposed to receive from somebody else, and since you don't receive it, you'll wait until after death where you'll do nothing but receive love. I've been disillusioned by love too, bro. It makes death desirable, I know too well. However, the love that God intends for us while in the flesh is that which gives more than it receives. We are commanded to love those who do not love back. Heal sombody elses pain.
I do this every day, I assure you, but it would be nice to receive it back once in awhile. Truly, however, thanks for the message, bro. I wish you all the best as well.
@telamon2011 I am a good looking, educated, compassionate, very loving, talented and hard working woman with much love to give, but I am still waiting for "the one"... SO hard to find...! Very sad for people like us. I still can't work it out! It breaks my heart sometimes... I wish you luck. xx
It made me sad to read what you wrote. Have you tried the Christian Dating sites on the internet? My son has a friend who met his wife that way. You deserve to find love in this life and if you do not, may the Lord give you peace and joy that only He can give.
@telamon2011 The only true love is the love between people related through blood- primarily mother and child. This is the only unconditional love. All other forms of "love" are either arrangements for convenience sake or just infatuation and lust. Blood is thicker than water and blood is the only tie that binds. All other forms of so-called love are illusions as you mention.
@telamon2011 I gave up on American woman a long time ago. They neither have the microscopic inclination to understand what love is about. American family culture is gone to hell in a used hand basket.
@telamon2011 Don't give up, don't lose heart, speak to others in church, the grocery store, at work. You have to be willing to share yourself. You sound shy and thats hard to overcome, I will pray for you.
@telamon2011 You may be experiencing what wise King Solomon observed about the way things go in this world system: "The swift do not have the race, nor the mighty ones the battle." (Ecc 9:11) Similarly we could say, "the loving ones do not have the romance". Be assured however, pursuing a good relationship with our Creator (who loves us superlatively, even now) is of far greater benefit and everlastingly important. (John 17:3)
@telamon2011 There is no scripture that says that God loves unconditionally. Even John 3:16 shows that only the faithful will have everlasting life. In fact, the bible shows that there are specific requirements to remaining in God's love and that God will leave those who leave him. But we are also told that God IS love so you can be sure that your loneliness has not gone unnoticed and that your love of God's standards are appreciated by him. Virginity and chastity, too, have value in God's eyes.
This is the great challenge, and not to be underestimated. Once gone, love is hard to resurrect and as much as we long for it- who wants to live without it? And millions do, but don't really know why they feel so empty and deluded.. so they spend their years in stubborn pursuit of the wrong things and then in the end when we are all alone in a cold dark room , crying our tears of lost love and no chance to 'right ' our loveless lives, then what do we do... what do we do?
Answer to this song? Start in the evening with snow falling lightly, in front of a fire with your favorite someone and a bottle of wine wearing pajamas and a smile.Repeat as needed.
You will have completely found your mission on Earth the moment you say to God, like Isaiah, "Here I am, Lord; send me." Thank you Lord for sending this immense talent.
wow..I've loved this man's music for decades and this song and your video are superb...Dan's music will live in my heart for the rest of my life...thanks again for this post
Beautiful tribute to a Beautiful couple and memory of this so very talented and sensitive man. He contributed so much to my life in his music, and continues.
One of the best songwriters in my opinion.
bassmanjoe 1 month ago
I love this artist voice he was amazing RIP handsome
sraceh 2 months ago
Dan Fogelberg!!!!Wow is all i can say.Thanks for this Masterpeice.
SuperBuckwild 2 months ago
I hope you find a way to forgive her.Extend your forgiveness and find that love is not an illusion but a bond that was broken.
PocoPortillo 4 months ago
I am 57 and have been alone since my wife of 32 years walked out on me 5 1/2 years ago. I have always loved this song but now I know that it is not always possible to Make Love Stay. I only wish I could have made it stay with the person I thought was the love of my life. Like telamon2011 I don't really believe in love any longer either. Love is an illusion and does nothing but break your heart.
wa6fhx 4 months ago
One of my favorites in the great years of the 80's... thanks so much for uploading... clicked "like"....stored in favorites.
felixbautista 6 months ago
Dan hit #29 in Billboard, 3-19-83. God bless ya, for postin' it. Thanx! Have a great week! RIP, Dan.
DaveWollenberg 6 months ago
I remember hearing this song on the radio way back in late 1982 when it was a hit, and the DJ made a joke about the song conttaining the word "exhunned." The joke aside, this is still a beautiful song that poses a question that, as far as I know, nobody has ever found the answer to.
kevinhof63 6 months ago
I guess if I had figured out how to do what Dan's singing about, I wouldn't be almost 40 years old, divorced and alone without any children or any legacy to leave behind. Seriously, his question is the great mystery in any relationship, or at least it is to me.
titantransport 7 months ago
@titantransport
People look for people with money, perfectly sculpted bodies, who party like they are still 20 year olds, and who have overall hedonistic tendencies. This explains the high rates of breakups, divorces, infidelities and unfulfillments. Translation: women like the bad boys, men like the vampish girls. The decent folk are left to rot in the abyss of loneliness. I have said it before, I will say it again: love is a joke, prepare instead to be with God for all Eternity.
telamon2011 7 months ago
I am a good looking, well educated, kind, compassionate, hard working and religious man, and at 50, have not even gotten even past first base in the "game of love". Translation: LOVE IS AN ILLUSION, RESERVED FOR PRIMARILY (THOUGH NOT EXCLUSIVELY) PEOPLE WHO ARE NEITHER WORTHY OF IT NOR TRULY APPRECIATE IT. A joke and one of the biggest illusions of all time. How I look forward to death, and being with God, Who loves all unconditionally.
telamon2011 8 months ago
@telamon2011 Don't lose heart my friend
JMEagle101 7 months ago 4
@JMEagle101
Thanks. I did not mean to spout off like that, as the song is very beautiful, and I always liked Dan Fogelberg. (May he rest in peace). I was having a low time, but I do wish to express gratitude to you and a couple of others who offered solace over You Tube. There really ARE nice people in the world!
telamon2011 7 months ago
@telamon2011 Most wonderful people are often not loved or understood, you seem to have wonderful heart....I married amazing precious man who had many life disappointments, he's bee through hell but I recognized his soul....Hope some worthy woman will discover your precious soul. Most people are so shallow and petty, and they don't understand high spiritual souls. That is why spiritual emotional people often walk alone. Don't lose hope. Somebody in the world loves you and waits for you.
doloreshaze1935 7 months ago 6
@doloreshaze1935
Wow, thank you as well! Yes, I am hopeful that my day will come, but bless you for even taking the time to respond so warmly.
telamon2011 7 months ago
@telamon2011 Sounds like the love you have in your illusions is that which you are supposed to receive from somebody else, and since you don't receive it, you'll wait until after death where you'll do nothing but receive love. I've been disillusioned by love too, bro. It makes death desirable, I know too well. However, the love that God intends for us while in the flesh is that which gives more than it receives. We are commanded to love those who do not love back. Heal sombody elses pain.
Trifecta3x3 7 months ago
@Trifecta3x3
I do this every day, I assure you, but it would be nice to receive it back once in awhile. Truly, however, thanks for the message, bro. I wish you all the best as well.
telamon2011 7 months ago
@telamon2011 GOD"S love is the ultimate! But earthly love can be had as well. Hope you find love here! :)
tanyaswedlund 7 months ago
@tanyaswedlund
Thank you. I am most certain about the first part of your message, hopeful about the second.
telamon2011 7 months ago
@telamon2011 keep the faith and God has plans for all of us, while it is not apparent , it will all be revealed...
rienzied 6 months ago
@telamon2011 I am a good looking, educated, compassionate, very loving, talented and hard working woman with much love to give, but I am still waiting for "the one"... SO hard to find...! Very sad for people like us. I still can't work it out! It breaks my heart sometimes... I wish you luck. xx
priestess11 5 months ago
@telamon2011
It made me sad to read what you wrote. Have you tried the Christian Dating sites on the internet? My son has a friend who met his wife that way. You deserve to find love in this life and if you do not, may the Lord give you peace and joy that only He can give.
BalloonLaunch 4 months ago
@telamon2011 You're a selfish idiot. Go to a Jesus blog and cry, not here.
Miss ya Dan.
pr3egl 4 months ago
@pr3egl
Thank you for proving my point about most, though not all, of the desensitized people whom are out there.
spartacus3ful 3 months ago
@telamon2011 The only true love is the love between people related through blood- primarily mother and child. This is the only unconditional love. All other forms of "love" are either arrangements for convenience sake or just infatuation and lust. Blood is thicker than water and blood is the only tie that binds. All other forms of so-called love are illusions as you mention.
junglekuratz 3 months ago
@telamon2011 I gave up on American woman a long time ago. They neither have the microscopic inclination to understand what love is about. American family culture is gone to hell in a used hand basket.
Search overseas my friend....
RacerXGTO 3 months ago
@telamon2011 Don't give up, don't lose heart, speak to others in church, the grocery store, at work. You have to be willing to share yourself. You sound shy and thats hard to overcome, I will pray for you.
Maryloohoo2 3 months ago in playlist Maryloohoo2's favorites
@telamon2011 You may be experiencing what wise King Solomon observed about the way things go in this world system: "The swift do not have the race, nor the mighty ones the battle." (Ecc 9:11) Similarly we could say, "the loving ones do not have the romance". Be assured however, pursuing a good relationship with our Creator (who loves us superlatively, even now) is of far greater benefit and everlastingly important. (John 17:3)
cablemotion 1 month ago
@telamon2011 There is no scripture that says that God loves unconditionally. Even John 3:16 shows that only the faithful will have everlasting life. In fact, the bible shows that there are specific requirements to remaining in God's love and that God will leave those who leave him. But we are also told that God IS love so you can be sure that your loneliness has not gone unnoticed and that your love of God's standards are appreciated by him. Virginity and chastity, too, have value in God's eyes.
checkin4 1 month ago
"But mystery is a thing not easily captured"...
Thank you for the beautiful music, Dan. RIP.
DestroyerofSouls666 8 months ago
So thankful you have been able to share this with all of us who have and do still Love this man of such wonderful music and lyrics.........Kendra
kendraj33 9 months ago
this man was awsome.
tonybigman3 10 months ago
One of Dan Fogelberg's most beautiful songs.
AnAngelOfMercy 10 months ago
I make love stay with you my love, like This song.
zaizai507 10 months ago
Just wonderful music Lyrics and sung so beautifully as are all Dans songs Thankyou for sharing
musicbod2 11 months ago
a beautiful melancholy song to remind us wots important in life
markz133 11 months ago
This is the great challenge, and not to be underestimated. Once gone, love is hard to resurrect and as much as we long for it- who wants to live without it? And millions do, but don't really know why they feel so empty and deluded.. so they spend their years in stubborn pursuit of the wrong things and then in the end when we are all alone in a cold dark room , crying our tears of lost love and no chance to 'right ' our loveless lives, then what do we do... what do we do?
vanislefan 11 months ago
Answer to this song? Start in the evening with snow falling lightly, in front of a fire with your favorite someone and a bottle of wine wearing pajamas and a smile.Repeat as needed.
getreal6969 1 year ago
Still Life With Woodpecker....read the book.
d2xun76 1 year ago
DF was an immense talent and is missed.
KyrieEleison46 1 year ago
You will have completely found your mission on Earth the moment you say to God, like Isaiah, "Here I am, Lord; send me." Thank you Lord for sending this immense talent.
muzzmatrix 1 year ago
Yes, thank you so much for posting this lovely song by Dan Fogelberg.
KyrieEleison46 1 year ago
thank you so much for posting this....
dsloveswva 1 year ago
thank you
dsloveswva 1 year ago
love this song and video...miss you so Dan....beautiful soul.beautiful song.
sandystillblooms 1 year ago
wow..I've loved this man's music for decades and this song and your video are superb...Dan's music will live in my heart for the rest of my life...thanks again for this post
sandystillblooms 1 year ago
is there any more beautiful love song..
jenirocksotb 1 year ago
love this and all the songs dan sang :)
taylordannie 1 year ago
I love this song also. Thank you for posting and keeping his memory alive through his Wonderful Talent of Music.
Rfritz09 1 year ago
beautiful song n video ... has brightened up a dull winters day ..... smile
markz133 1 year ago
Hit #1 AC, #29 pop in Billboard. RIP, Dan. God bless!
DaveWollenberg 1 year ago
This is an excellent song by Mr. Fogelberg. One of my absolute favorites! Great song and video!
kenpalmer1965 1 year ago
Cut in the same key as 'Hard to say', but wasn't as popular. Only made #29 pop.
DaveWollenberg 2 years ago
Perfection in every way!
billp1955 2 years ago 2
Simply Beautiful! God Blessed Dan Folgelberg with an amazing talent that which I am happy he shared with all of us while on this earth. RIP Dan.
tayjay2g 2 years ago 2
Beautiful tribute to a Beautiful couple and memory of this so very talented and sensitive man. He contributed so much to my life in his music, and continues.
JazzzMom 2 years ago 2
simply amazing video! like the song itself, thank you -- i love it!
islandmist24 2 years ago 2
as a LONG TIME Dan fan....thanks for this beautiful video! It is just beautiful, as is this song!!!!!
kannette62 2 years ago 2
Bill, VERY nicely done! I really enjoyed it!
Love, A
iluvsantafe 2 years ago 2
This is a beautiful song and lovely video that puts a smile on your face. :o)
felicityjane1 2 years ago 2
Sheer Perfection. Thank you.
SoothesMySoul 2 years ago 2
Most wonderful, missing you Dan. Thank you JM.
jellyjukebox 2 years ago 2
Love this song! Thank you, Bill, for another great tribute to our Dan!
Dan, we miss you!
headcaseworker 3 years ago
hi Bev :-)
Thank you for your comment, I miss Dan too, take care my friend!
JMEagle101 3 years ago 4
Bravo! I love it!
maizaccc 3 years ago
hi Maizaccc :-)
I am glad you love it, thank you for all your help, I love your creation too!
JMEagle101 3 years ago 2
Great job! You are really getting better and better !! Dan will be very proud of you I bet.
Aprilsue2020 3 years ago 2
hi Aprilsue2020 :-)
thank you for your comment, you inspired me to do more and better picture quality!
JMEagle101 3 years ago
Awesome my friend! Love it..posting it for first review on Stumbleupon...wonderful..and one of my favorites...images are very cool!
Thanks,
Maria Glenn
Mariaglenn 3 years ago
hi Maria :-)
Thank you for your kind review and favorite, your Stumbleupon is like a wonderland, so beautiful....
JMEagle101 3 years ago
Great pictures.
TageKaliandrino 3 years ago
hi Tage :-)
Thank you for your comment and great heart!
JMEagle101 3 years ago