Had I watched this video when it was posted I wouldnt be in a long distance relationship. I complete agree I like to have the person near me. I handle the seperation by filling the empty void with jump offs.
If I couldn't see my girlfriend, how can I know to trust her? That's why I can't do long distance relationships. Because, if you cheat once, you're cut! Don't come back! Don't come back, because you might do it again. So, yeah. Follow me @jjtwit55555. #TeamFollowBack
i'm was'nt gald to here that ill pray fror you that you get your stuff togheter and things go well for you. i really do'nt know about ong distance realationship i'm always deal with heartbreak so i do'mt know what to say about that
I was in a long distance relationship for 1 yr and we finally moved in together. It was great and it allowed us the ability to make sure that we were what wanted.
Long distance relationships takes so much trust. I personally have issues with trust, therefore I would not attempt something long distance. I believe it can work, but it takes a lot of work. A bit overwhelming!
also in addition to the excellent communication needed is money, if you don't have money to go and see each other regularly it's a wrap. the money makes it a reality to be able to make the dream come to life. great video papa.
i'VE tried several times and the love is strong but the pain and reality sets in when you can't be with them and don't have the money to go see them or they don't have the money to see you. I am loving someone like that and they are me but we don't expect monogamy or but talk about the day when we can move to the same city and be together. we have so much in common and are like best friends of sorts finish each others sentences call when the other is thinking of the other etc.
let me ask you this, why do you think you lost your job? Is it because of your a homosexual? nope. Is it because your black? I doubt it. I'll tell you why you lost your job its because the idiots up there in Washington have no idea what is going on outside the white house lawn the economy is in shambles right now and their is no reassurance that our country will come back because of this outrageous spending going on up there. President Obama has noo idea how to run a country properly
Missed u making videos, hope everything is ok with u, hope you get a new job and a nice place soon...
I'm in a long distance relationship temporarily in school for about two years and just got with mine about a month and a half ago, we talk at least twice a day. He is ok with it but i want to see him more, distance makes it hard to focus on just him. It working but i need more maybe other people have some better methods but its not enough sometimes
I can't do a long distance relationship they never work for me! I would eventually become unhappy because i can't see the person and be with them when i want to, also because i'm in one location & my significant other will be in another location and its like whos to say what he's doing i don't know if he's cheating on me or messing around on me, he may say he's not but u never know, In all honesty and trust i think its best to be in a relationship where i can see the person on a daily basis
Hey Mr! I like this video! I think am like you on the whole wanting the partner to be there, but at the same time I can still do a long distance relationship! I think if you care about each other mutually it can work. I am a very patient and understanding person and even though it will be hard not having whoever right there with you, when the time comes for you to really be together the moment will be very substantial. Making it all worth the wait!
Hey Mr! I like this video! I think am like you on the whole wanting the partner to be there, but at the same time I can still do a long distance relationship! I think if you care about each other mutually it can work. I am a very patient and understanding person and even though it will be hard not having whoever right there with you, when the time comes for you to really be together the moment will be very substantial. Making it all worth the wait!
i think while the idea of the long distance relationship is nice i dont think they work. 1 because you dont always have time for the 4 hr phone calls you arent having sex so if your used to sex wave bye bye to that baby. if are used to intimacy and cuddling you wont be able to have it. and then if you meet someone at home what is to stop you from exploring it.
I bitch out when bees are around! I could feel you trying to keep it together for the camera! :D BTW, was the t-shirt message just coincidence to the opening message about your job?
I commend any couple maintaining a long-distance relationship. I couldn't make time for my last within the same city limits! I can only assume there would be a mutual understanding that the separation is working towards a future goal of being together again.
I need constant contact with my partner for a relationship to work. Tried to do the long distance thing and it was TORTURE! I lost countless hours of sleep and missed class talking to that boo on the phone all night, the most intimacy we could get at the time. Funny thing is, if it wasn't for a long distance relationship, I wouldn't be here. My parents could do it, but I can't! Lol.
Handling your fears with poise (bees and wasps)...LOL! Congratulations on that.
I believe that long distance relationships can survive better if the relationship has already been in progress, intimately and one on one. They are far more difficult and near impossible if they "start out" in long distance fashion...(i.e. people who meet on the Internet, etc.)
First let me say that I love your spirit.. long distance relationships... should only be short term... if it is a true relationship, the two people will be working to be together.. if it's jobs or having to sell a house or something along those lines... you should have a plan that will ultimately put the two of you in the same place... long distance relationship (in my oppinion) that don't have an active agreement to move closer to eachother is not a TRUE relationship and probably won't last...
I had to stop by to encourage you.Never give up and dont get tired.The bible says that weeping my endure for just one night but joy comes in the morning light.It WILL WORK OUT.That new job is headed your way just prepare your harvest for the rain and know inside your soul that its a setback for a comeback
I wouldn't say "church". It is NOT the Church that people see. The true Church is His body...His sons and daughters. What ppl see is religion and acting, which negates the MOST IMPORTANT truth of His GRACE and the RELATIONSHIP one has with Him. As seen with this case and with a lot of ppl who boast in self, it's not about you. When you make it about you there is no room for Him.
Def glad to see that you are back and love the vids. Many Blessings :D
In my personal experience I have found that regular assessment works well where the communication is open as to how we feel and what we need as needs may change or be different than what we previously expected due to what we are experiencing in life you can’t fear the appearance of contradiction. (continued)
If people remain open to sharing what they need and want nomatter how much things change things can work well. Great topic, keep up the good work and I hope to hear from you again soon! B4ever Blessed ~Kev.
Long distance relationships aren't -impossible- bt at the same time they aren't better . It depends on the partners in the relationship & how they communicate with one another. Honesty, Communication, TRUST & Love are the important factors in all relationships.
It takes a lot of work and dedication being in a long distance. You can't run into one because it usually doesn't last that way. I can never be with someone unless I'm close to them physically, emotionally, and mentally. I can really see that in a long distance relationship; however there are people able to make it work.
People can get jobs if they can and are willing to relocate. They have to go to the work instead of the work coming to them.
LDRs take a great deal of TRUST. The reality is this: IF it is LOVE,true LOVE, you can and will deal with a LDR if that are the cards that are dealt. I understand that you can both work toward a living relationship that is much more convenient and ideal, but we do what we have to do. It might be better for the relationship to maintain jobs etc instead of moving at first.
Sorry to hear about that. I truly hope that everything works out for you and will grow. Do whatever it is that you need to do to get through this. Pray, talk to friends and family.
A long distance relationship is not destined to fail. It just requires great work and sacrifice.
Welcome back, bro! It's so good to see you posting a video. U just don't know. I feel that long distance relationships are possible but more difficult than others. It can be hard to keep an individual's attention when someone else is closer to them attempting to get that attention, too. Without being able to see one another as often as you would if you were closer, things can get frustrating sometimes..and communication is huge in a long distance relationship. I personally won't get into one.
ahhh man we missed u man im happy to see u up here n im sorry about wat happen to ur job n home man i feel ur pain man and i did try to do the long distanct relatonship n i have to say at first it was nice we talked on the phone alot n we made it work but it got to the point were calls slowed down n the conversation was less n less its all about putting 100% n to it the i believe that it could work u kno
@adamdashawn exactly! if your goal aint to end up togetha in one place eventually whats da use of saying your in a "relationship" might as well be single
LDRs can work, but not indefinitely. I would not go into one again without knowing when we’ll be able to be together. It takes a lot of maturity, communication and commitment, and you have to be willing to accept less – in all forms of a relationship. My last LDR didn’t work because we fell in love before we realized that we could never be together full time. Good luck on your job search.
oh and lol@ that bee/hornet/wasp ..i was amazed it actually made that iconic "buzzzzzz" sound as soon as u mentioned it like right on que like a movie lol that was funny
i think long distance relationships work IF both parties are working towards eventually living in the same city..but if its an on going long distance thing i dont think it works personally...but for some it possibly may work...what works for me wont work for the next individual..to each his/her own is my theory
I feel as if LDRs aren't realisitic unles u have money and thousands of points with an airline. You cant be committed, in love or even feel secure in a committed relationship if u hardly ever see them. Especially ppl who make the commitment and havent even met yet. I have tried it but it just doesnt work. I feel as if its a last resort for an emotional connection by any means necessary for someone who is lonely and needs companionship
such a cutie and sounds intelligent too:)
Nitaloveyou 1 month ago
Had I watched this video when it was posted I wouldnt be in a long distance relationship. I complete agree I like to have the person near me. I handle the seperation by filling the empty void with jump offs.
poppapoppas03 4 months ago
If I couldn't see my girlfriend, how can I know to trust her? That's why I can't do long distance relationships. Because, if you cheat once, you're cut! Don't come back! Don't come back, because you might do it again. So, yeah. Follow me @jjtwit55555. #TeamFollowBack
55555jtube 7 months ago
how do you make channel on facebook
i'm was'nt gald to here that ill pray fror you that you get your stuff togheter and things go well for you. i really do'nt know about ong distance realationship i'm always deal with heartbreak so i do'mt know what to say about that
spokenwordable 1 year ago
i cant do long distance at all smh
TheDefjams 1 year ago
I was in a long distance relationship for 1 yr and we finally moved in together. It was great and it allowed us the ability to make sure that we were what wanted.
billionairntrng 1 year ago
Long distance relationships takes so much trust. I personally have issues with trust, therefore I would not attempt something long distance. I believe it can work, but it takes a lot of work. A bit overwhelming!
Naticapricorn07 1 year ago
OMG. ITS SO GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN. ITS BEEN A LONG TIME SINCE I LAST SEEN YOU ON YOUTUBE. HOLD YOUR HEAD UP MAN. UR STILL LOOKING GOOD TOO. :-)
twinkiememphis 1 year ago
Dont have the time or the skills!
Jazzboluv 1 year ago
he is so cute!
Blatisian 1 year ago 3
also in addition to the excellent communication needed is money, if you don't have money to go and see each other regularly it's a wrap. the money makes it a reality to be able to make the dream come to life. great video papa.
soymiguelalejandro23 1 year ago
i'VE tried several times and the love is strong but the pain and reality sets in when you can't be with them and don't have the money to go see them or they don't have the money to see you. I am loving someone like that and they are me but we don't expect monogamy or but talk about the day when we can move to the same city and be together. we have so much in common and are like best friends of sorts finish each others sentences call when the other is thinking of the other etc.
soymiguelalejandro23 1 year ago
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let me ask you this, why do you think you lost your job? Is it because of your a homosexual? nope. Is it because your black? I doubt it. I'll tell you why you lost your job its because the idiots up there in Washington have no idea what is going on outside the white house lawn the economy is in shambles right now and their is no reassurance that our country will come back because of this outrageous spending going on up there. President Obama has noo idea how to run a country properly
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kriegersa 1 year ago
Missed u making videos, hope everything is ok with u, hope you get a new job and a nice place soon...
I'm in a long distance relationship temporarily in school for about two years and just got with mine about a month and a half ago, we talk at least twice a day. He is ok with it but i want to see him more, distance makes it hard to focus on just him. It working but i need more maybe other people have some better methods but its not enough sometimes
romelgijj 1 year ago
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romelgijj 1 year ago
I can't do a long distance relationship they never work for me! I would eventually become unhappy because i can't see the person and be with them when i want to, also because i'm in one location & my significant other will be in another location and its like whos to say what he's doing i don't know if he's cheating on me or messing around on me, he may say he's not but u never know, In all honesty and trust i think its best to be in a relationship where i can see the person on a daily basis
blkprettyboi19 1 year ago
Usually those who can't/won't do long distance relationships are either needy and/or have trust issues. That is all.
islandboy082 1 year ago
Hey Mr! I like this video! I think am like you on the whole wanting the partner to be there, but at the same time I can still do a long distance relationship! I think if you care about each other mutually it can work. I am a very patient and understanding person and even though it will be hard not having whoever right there with you, when the time comes for you to really be together the moment will be very substantial. Making it all worth the wait!
cooleymem 1 year ago
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Hey Mr! I like this video! I think am like you on the whole wanting the partner to be there, but at the same time I can still do a long distance relationship! I think if you care about each other mutually it can work. I am a very patient and understanding person and even though it will be hard not having whoever right there with you, when the time comes for you to really be together the moment will be very substantial. Making it all worth the wait!
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cooleymem 1 year ago
i think while the idea of the long distance relationship is nice i dont think they work. 1 because you dont always have time for the 4 hr phone calls you arent having sex so if your used to sex wave bye bye to that baby. if are used to intimacy and cuddling you wont be able to have it. and then if you meet someone at home what is to stop you from exploring it.
ekadeep88 1 year ago
I bitch out when bees are around! I could feel you trying to keep it together for the camera! :D BTW, was the t-shirt message just coincidence to the opening message about your job?
I commend any couple maintaining a long-distance relationship. I couldn't make time for my last within the same city limits! I can only assume there would be a mutual understanding that the separation is working towards a future goal of being together again.
adiosmotherfker 1 year ago
HE SO FINE THUMBS UP!!!
thezaychannel09 1 year ago 2
Welcome back cutie! Glad your back with some "real life" topics that i've been missing from some other channels
shyguy8408 1 year ago
I need constant contact with my partner for a relationship to work. Tried to do the long distance thing and it was TORTURE! I lost countless hours of sleep and missed class talking to that boo on the phone all night, the most intimacy we could get at the time. Funny thing is, if it wasn't for a long distance relationship, I wouldn't be here. My parents could do it, but I can't! Lol.
atomicsexxxkitten 1 year ago
Handling your fears with poise (bees and wasps)...LOL! Congratulations on that.
I believe that long distance relationships can survive better if the relationship has already been in progress, intimately and one on one. They are far more difficult and near impossible if they "start out" in long distance fashion...(i.e. people who meet on the Internet, etc.)
lloyd614 1 year ago
Distance means so little when someone means so much.
rraasshhaauunn 1 year ago 8
First let me say that I love your spirit.. long distance relationships... should only be short term... if it is a true relationship, the two people will be working to be together.. if it's jobs or having to sell a house or something along those lines... you should have a plan that will ultimately put the two of you in the same place... long distance relationship (in my oppinion) that don't have an active agreement to move closer to eachother is not a TRUE relationship and probably won't last...
kingxavier2u 1 year ago
Remember, people that are the most vocally against something, are most likely fighting against their own inner demons.
Vaan362 1 year ago
I had to stop by to encourage you.Never give up and dont get tired.The bible says that weeping my endure for just one night but joy comes in the morning light.It WILL WORK OUT.That new job is headed your way just prepare your harvest for the rain and know inside your soul that its a setback for a comeback
lee77004 1 year ago
Oh wow that happend to me... lol I'm outa work too and living back with mother again... sucked don't it.... Well lets just keep a positive attitude...
Anyway,I agree with you... connection is what I believe in...
EclecticTones 1 year ago
I cant stand bees either. 5:47 was the cutest "cant stand bees moment" i ever saw. You handled it pretty well if i must say so.
Dopeloc 1 year ago
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Dopeloc 1 year ago
I wouldn't say "church". It is NOT the Church that people see. The true Church is His body...His sons and daughters. What ppl see is religion and acting, which negates the MOST IMPORTANT truth of His GRACE and the RELATIONSHIP one has with Him. As seen with this case and with a lot of ppl who boast in self, it's not about you. When you make it about you there is no room for Him.
Def glad to see that you are back and love the vids. Many Blessings :D
P.S. A job is on the way...a great surprise ;)
Will9323 1 year ago
In my personal experience I have found that regular assessment works well where the communication is open as to how we feel and what we need as needs may change or be different than what we previously expected due to what we are experiencing in life you can’t fear the appearance of contradiction. (continued)
AmbiguousKEV 1 year ago
If people remain open to sharing what they need and want nomatter how much things change things can work well. Great topic, keep up the good work and I hope to hear from you again soon! B4ever Blessed ~Kev.
AmbiguousKEV 1 year ago
LOL! at the Bee moment !
showsomeluv 1 year ago
Oh em GEe its been yearssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!
showsomeluv 1 year ago
Long distance relationships aren't -impossible- bt at the same time they aren't better . It depends on the partners in the relationship & how they communicate with one another. Honesty, Communication, TRUST & Love are the important factors in all relationships.
ckdisking 1 year ago 12
It takes a lot of work and dedication being in a long distance. You can't run into one because it usually doesn't last that way. I can never be with someone unless I'm close to them physically, emotionally, and mentally. I can really see that in a long distance relationship; however there are people able to make it work.
currelley20 1 year ago
YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSS my FABI is back!!!! :0)
nygndanyc 1 year ago
People can get jobs if they can and are willing to relocate. They have to go to the work instead of the work coming to them.
LDRs take a great deal of TRUST. The reality is this: IF it is LOVE,true LOVE, you can and will deal with a LDR if that are the cards that are dealt. I understand that you can both work toward a living relationship that is much more convenient and ideal, but we do what we have to do. It might be better for the relationship to maintain jobs etc instead of moving at first.
yescandles 1 year ago
Sorry to hear about that. I truly hope that everything works out for you and will grow. Do whatever it is that you need to do to get through this. Pray, talk to friends and family.
A long distance relationship is not destined to fail. It just requires great work and sacrifice.
shawnclub7 1 year ago
Welcome back, bro! It's so good to see you posting a video. U just don't know. I feel that long distance relationships are possible but more difficult than others. It can be hard to keep an individual's attention when someone else is closer to them attempting to get that attention, too. Without being able to see one another as often as you would if you were closer, things can get frustrating sometimes..and communication is huge in a long distance relationship. I personally won't get into one.
anotharemix 1 year ago
ahhh man we missed u man im happy to see u up here n im sorry about wat happen to ur job n home man i feel ur pain man and i did try to do the long distanct relatonship n i have to say at first it was nice we talked on the phone alot n we made it work but it got to the point were calls slowed down n the conversation was less n less its all about putting 100% n to it the i believe that it could work u kno
naries21 1 year ago
They can only work if ULTIMATELY you both will end up together...
adamdashawn 1 year ago
@adamdashawn exactly! if your goal aint to end up togetha in one place eventually whats da use of saying your in a "relationship" might as well be single
blkcoverboy 1 year ago
LDRs can work, but not indefinitely. I would not go into one again without knowing when we’ll be able to be together. It takes a lot of maturity, communication and commitment, and you have to be willing to accept less – in all forms of a relationship. My last LDR didn’t work because we fell in love before we realized that we could never be together full time. Good luck on your job search.
higherground72 1 year ago
You are back!! Looking cuter than ever. I love your intellect!!
mrdefinite 1 year ago
oh and lol@ that bee/hornet/wasp ..i was amazed it actually made that iconic "buzzzzzz" sound as soon as u mentioned it like right on que like a movie lol that was funny
blkcoverboy 1 year ago
i think long distance relationships work IF both parties are working towards eventually living in the same city..but if its an on going long distance thing i dont think it works personally...but for some it possibly may work...what works for me wont work for the next individual..to each his/her own is my theory
blkcoverboy 1 year ago
Finally! I missed you :)
Sam199635 1 year ago
I feel as if LDRs aren't realisitic unles u have money and thousands of points with an airline. You cant be committed, in love or even feel secure in a committed relationship if u hardly ever see them. Especially ppl who make the commitment and havent even met yet. I have tried it but it just doesnt work. I feel as if its a last resort for an emotional connection by any means necessary for someone who is lonely and needs companionship
notabyrd07 1 year ago
yaaaaay ur back good to see u. and good topic
notabyrd07 1 year ago