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  • 1:03 when I first heard this song, I thought that was Michael Jackson singing.

  • who could dislike this song? Like Honestly. Sometimes i feel like no one understands me at all.. and That Im Worthless.. but This song has helped me through so much... i cannot thank deborah cox enough for this song.. <3

  • thank you for your posting, love the song!!!!

  • Seriously love it 

  • i have been struggling with depression lately....this song has inspired me to take control of my own life ..so uplifting!

  • whoaa, jst heard this on the radio after about a year or 2!! completely 4got this song!! but... only 387, 006 views? =l thought there'd b more. IT'S AWESOME!!! =*) !!!

  • I cant believe more people dont know about this song....its a shame

  • no matter how sad or how much i hate my self this song makes everything ok 21 year old single mom

  • i can never get tired of this song...her voice is so hyptnotic, such an amazing singer...love it!!

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  • This song does save lives. I hope Deborah Cox knows it too.

  • While The Lonley Island are declaring that they just had sex, or when Katy Perry is describing her friday night, Deborah Cox is saving lives.

  • Beautiful! U r!

  • I wish this song was more well-known.. I'm sure it has saved some lives.. and it could save a lot more if it was more known!!

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  • this song encourage me to be myself thanks Deborah

  • thumps up if your only here for world cup suns <3

  • My girlpower song.....I share it with all my girls

  • i love this song <3

  • I love this song ! It helped me trough A LOT ! <3

  • I thought she was hot.......................unti­l I saw that she was pregnant! Holy Crap;that's gross.

    Just Kidding.Great Song.

  • This song needs to be heard by more people

  • I am a transvestite FtM, and this made my life. Thank you

  • This song is the best, I always feel better after listening to it:)

  • i am a 14 year old dancer, and the dance world is very hard toget bye if you arent the tallest, or prettyest or ur hair isnt long and beautiful. this song helped me with everything <3 i love it and it makes me feel like im something :)

  • This song got me through my separation and divorce from my exhusband of 27 yrs.. I was controlled and I am NOW free.... I have my OWN voice, my OWN choices, my OWN life... I am stronger and better..... Thank you for Deborah's song.. it helped to show me I am WORTH IT.

  • suicide is for the weak

  • Prefiro a Remix (;

  • this song really helped me thru my self esteem issues---> without this song i don't kno how i would've gotten ova them

  • when ever i get down and upset, i luv to listen to this song, and beautiful by Akon and beautiful by Eminem! they help me remember i am beautiful

  • this song made me better after i got beaten up my other good friends were just watching me get beaten up i started crying and ran home but i failed they caught me and beat me up more so i punched to leader of the group and ran home ,this song made things better i dressed my original way(blue jeans white shirt with the word `Love'on it) then i went to go show those girls whos original but i failed and got beaten up again :l not my preteen years i hope its goods out good this song is my life <3 <3

  • @dawnaprilmoon Oh my god you poor thing. How many were there? Be careful, and fight back and try your hardest.

  • i love this song deeply .... it changed my mind around when im thinkin of giving up LOVE THE LYRICS :)

  • If there is ever a thought of killing your self, think of all the sick people out there that would love to live a heathy life like your. ONE DAY AT A TIME

  • beautiful

  • very powerful song!!!

  • hmm why can't u push the like button more than once? lol

  • @desperatehwfan1 you can...it just doesn't do anything.

  • It's sooo much easier said when you are dop dead gorgouse. and with such a gorgouse women in the video, why wouldn't they believe they are beautiful?

  • beautiful song

  • love this song

  • i had a R&B singer come to school to talk about good and bad messages. He showed us Debra Cox and i intantly loved her message. We need more songs like this. Really.

  • Even thou I am not a girl this is a very touching song because everyone is beautiful in there own way.

  • Oh my goodness! all women are beautiful, that woman who is first shown at second 10 (with the dark sunglasses) and then is one of the women who sequentially appear, she defines divine beauty

  • TOP 40!!!!!!! YAY!!!!!!! FEEL GOOD NIGGAZ!

  • Amazing Song

  • thanks for not letting me kill myself today.

    18, male.

  • @richmanliving ppl are suffering all over the world...even through hard times and your thinking about killing yourself pathetic

  • XOXO!! AWESOME!!!

  • awesome!! beautiful u/we are,!!!!

  • @richmanliving think about it; regardless of the end result, it can't get any better by ending your life now. I'm not going to say anything about god or an afterlife, because the truth is, none of us know about that. But if you did continue to exist after death, would you want to remember your life as incomplete and a failure? Im sure you would want to come back and take all the chances you can, experience all the good and bad things. break the cycle of mere existance and truly feel your alive.

  • @ShkatuIka Would not say that shit if you have been to Iraq and Afghanistan as many times as me and see the horrible shit that goes on there.

  • @154ODA thats where our perspective's differ... do you think I've never been depressed? I've felt pain and lonliness closed within my own mind that I never even imagined possible. My heart wanted to cry out and scream, but my mind told me it was all in vain. But I dont usually complain about these things... because I know other people have it worse still, and I would like to think that they too choose to hold on, with the hope that one day this deep yearning for releif will be quenched.

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  • well then

  • This is one of my all time favirot songs,and it is almost like she is talking to you

  • I have known many "confident" people who have learned by experience. This isn't about insecurity. It is about developing personal empowerment. Critics are people with false sense of selves. If, they live by love- they wouldn't need to bring you down (for even liking this song). Enjoy what you enjoy and stay positive! xo

  • I have known many "confident" people who have learned by experience. This isn't about insecurity. It is about developing personal empowerment. Critics are people with false sense of selves. If, they live by love- they wouldn't need to bring you down (for even liking this song). Enjoy what you enjoy and stay positive! xo

  • loooove u deborah!!!!!!!

  • love the song!!

  • por favor alguien que la traduzca al español? no paro de imaginarme lo que dice, debe de ser preciosa si ya me llena y no entiendo el ingles...no se, tiene algo que hace que la cancion te llegue al alma, por favor subirla traducida al español gracias!!!!!!

  • canada ftw.

    love this song btw <3.

  • i have been searching for this song for soo long, i'm so glad i have found it! i love this song!

  • it's hard to adapt this song in my life :(

  • iv been throw alot of shit this helped me threw it and i dont care what ppl say about this song it helped me

  • Love the song.......don't care what they say anymore! No time to be insecure - I'm leavin' it all at the door! (my favourite part). We are all beautiful.

  • i love this song

  • this song has help me to love myself more deeper thanks deborah cox, we here in guyana love u,.

  • beautiful.... just eautiful ( i am talking bout the song)

  • Great song

  • :) Amasing !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • I am a guy and i think this song is soo tru and has the best message =)

  • very very very beautiful

  • this one's for you my Beautiful Sister Love you always....

  • this song made me realize that no matter what anyone says that i am beautiful just the way i am

  • Such an uplifting song! I love it!

  • This song is really good to listen to,even for the emotionally scarred...........like me.

  • One of my most favorite songs.

  • the lyrics are "in the dark..the pain chips away at your heart" btw!! after the first chorus ;)

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  • a year or 2 ago i had alot of poblems with self confidence and i was always thinking negitive about my self. i used to listen to this song and it made me relize i was wrong. now i love my life :)

  • Dedicted to Ashley, dont let anyone bring you down girl!

  • Dedicted to Ashley

  • all time favorite! <3

  • I am dedicating this song to me, this is my motto for my life.....

  • they are all drop dead gorgeous... don't get it :l

  • @xainarocks thats the whole point :) you are beautiful but you just have to believe :)

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  • @Ajeitha I no But please! It an aweosme song (:

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  • love it

  • i love this song

  • is she pregnant if she is the baby is going to be beutiful just the way he or he is <3

  • It's especially true when you live in a place where a people don't seem to realize that they're more Canadians who have an European background :)

  • i love this

  • My bro told me this song is for people who have self esteem issues. -_-'

    I told him I love this song and he said thanks for proving my point. Screw my brother... THIS SONG RULES! D8<

  • @SASSweetassin

    this song's great :) it made me feel better and I am pretty :) like im sure u r too :)

  • @SASSweetassin all girls havehad judged themselves and if not they probably lived away from everithing and everione their whole life, <3

  • My bro told me this song is for people who have self esteem issues. -_-'

    I told him I love this song and he said thanks for proving my point. Screw my brother... THIS SONG RULES! D8<

  • Deborah is a nice person :)

  • I LOVE THIS SONG AMAZING SINGER.

  • since when is she pregnant?!!!!!!?

  • love this song my fav song best song i've ever hard

  • wow there are about 10 messed up people who dislike this... how?

  • @Moongirl97 cause they don't get real music.

  • this is different for Ms. Cox but good! She sounds alot like Toni Braxton

  • this song is so insipiring i am perfect the way i am i love myself and im a real woman.

    

  • ATTENTION PEOPLE : cum check out my version 2 Deborah Cox'z "We Can't Be Friends" tune wid R.L. click on mah page nd lemme know watcha fink of it :)

  • Love this song.....it does help me and other that i know.....:) Its so beautiful she sang this to her baby...:)

  • i like this song ur beautiful however u look bad or worst

  • i love this song!!

  • some times the pain is unbearable but when i listen to this song it reminds me that what people say does not always mater and their are worse situation that i could be in. it takes a load of my shoulders. thank you Deborah .

  • I had her lyrics on my wall in my bedroom. I absolutely loved this song. And then i got free tickets to a relief concert so i figured why not? and who walks on stage halfway through? Deborah cox! I died, and my friends and i danced on the floor in front of the stage <3

  • this song helped me through some hard times. taught me i can fight through anything and I have ever since and no one can walk over me now!

  • when ever i think im ugly and people make fun of me i lisghen to this song it makes me fell butiful no matter what

  • she has helped me stay alive and i am thankful for great singers who really send great messages. I LOVE HER

    never give up on yourself

  • thank u miss.deborah for making this motivating song. =-)

  • this song has helped me so much

  • What a great song, for picking yourself up...dusting yourself off...seeing that you can do anything..and moving on. And sung...by a wicked canadian..torontonian non the less. DC is so smooth. Shes come so far!

  • it nice to hear uplifting songs now and again. very nice!

  • who is the girl at 0:35? I've seen her somewhere else before now

    and no, I didn't know DC was married with 3 kids

  • always uplifting!!!

  • WINNIPEG PRIDE Looking forward to seeing this beautiful woman perform.

  • beautiful lady

  • i have problems with the way i look and this song brought me out of the slump thanks for putting it on here

  • i love this song

  • Great Song, lyrics actually mean something. truly one of the good songs of today

  • i LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!

  • ashleigh stopping hanging out with retardedd lowlife wannabe gangbangers, you r better then that

  • Beautiful girl and song....:D

  • is she really pregnant then? LOL

  • music-good

    video- sucky

  • i've been trew so much...this song is great....it has helped me tons

  • samewith me

  • @Melgee96 you might also like 'imperfect is the new perfect' by caitlin crosby (if you don't already know it)

    that one helped me a lot :)

  • @Melgee96 Same :) I love it <3

  • Beautiful song!

  • I agree, i mean even the girls in this video have like good figures and are like "pretty"

    what about the rest of us ?

  • great song

  • Is it just me or do these women seem to get happier the more they take their clothes off?

  • LOL its a sexy video in an innocent disguise

  • Uhmmm, like, is there anyone on the musci scene who sings better than Lady Debbie??? Hmmmmm *thinkinggg... thinkiinnnnnnggg* NO! Goooo Deborah! ;)

  • the video's really nice to watch

    The girls in this mv were amazing! Especially the teenager.

  • this song speaks to us.

    the lyrics are meaningful, inspiring, beautiful. (:

  • I'm not gonna lie, first time I heard this I thought it was Whitney! Great song though, love it... :)

  • HUH. There's NO way in hell Deaborah Cox sound anything like some damn Keishia Cole.........or the other way around, it just doesn't happen in a world with a AWESOME voice like her's! Love this song, its truly fro woman! And new life is BEAUTIFUL life........

  • Why does is she pregnant in it?

  • @Horsesrock1000 maybe she had sex a few months before?......just thinking .....my bad !

  • Ha ha ha!!!Yep,thats a ood explanation! :)

  • @H. sorry , it wasn't my best day , tough... my bad. Check-out the ,,Beautiful U R , remixed by Gaby Newman ! It rocks !

  • Hey,thats okay! It gave me a good laugh!!

  • So we're cool , yeah that's the way it should be.. just a good laugh.. Take care !

  • You 2!!

  • the lyrics arent average!! they're really strong an could help alot of people

  • It's a girl song, though i like it.

  • The vocal and flow of lyrics are pretty average but the background beat is fantastic, the only reason that did not stop me from listening to this song.

  • This video and song speaks loudly. I agree so much with it. All us girls are beautiful in our own way's and we shouldn't let anybody bring us down. If people don't like us for who we are then there not worth the time of day.

  • it so weird. she kinda sounds like keshia cole or should i say keishia sounds like her. but deborah is a power house though

  • love the video agree that this video is one of the best i saw in 2009!

  • i think that it is the best video on youtube!

    maxwell

  • is she realy pregnet?????

  • i wish my bf wiuld say something like this...even though hes already sweet enough

  • Good message!

  • It's funny how I never saw this video until now. And I have a habit of teasing my youngest daughter, by raising my stomach and making my stomach swell-up to make her laugh. Very cute video. Loveface43

  • Love ittt :D

  • i am in heartache as i am worried i made my gf i love with all my heart feel like this, by being over protective and insecure. I hope her love for me is strong enough to give me a second chance as shes such an amazing person and my intention wasnt to break her down. She loves me for everythig else i hope thats worth saving

  • i love this song!! n she's so pretty!!

  • Omg she's a really good singer

  • Yes sheis!!! :) I saw her live recently!!!!

  • me and her second child has the same bday