Taren thank you for this comment I needed to absorb this. It explains alot to me personally. Learning from my mistakes and listening to instructions of how to correctly proceed in my daily life when I am not sure of something is a blessing. Having intuition is a blessing from God. Intuition has helped me make very positive decisions. Fear I feel can be very detrimental to you when making decisons about what you want in life.
You explain intuition soo well. It's a KNOWING. The one way i know when i've listened to my intuition is peace and calm. It doesn't stop me from being FEARful about the outcome but i just know i've done the right thing and resigned that it will work out for the best.
Wow this is a great vid Taren! I completely agree.Intuition of all the aspects you mentioned seems to be the quietest.lol Its usually kinda a background noise that you notice or dont.I guess once your in tune with it,it is louder and if you hone in on it I notice that the feeling peice of intuition is in the bottom of the solar plexis. You can ask a question and then focus on that area, if its heavy thats a"No" if its light thats a "Yes" - your so on point with the nagging feeling of intuition.
I must have missed this vid when you first posted it but I recently wrote an article on dailyvenus titled Fear vs Doubt which goes really well with this. Replacing fear with faith is the key to moving forward. Sometimes fear can hinder us because we feed our fears and make them into giants and then the giant becomes so large that we feel like we can't overcome it...like a bully. We can't ever get the bully to stop bullying us until you face it and stand your ground...in that there is victory!
You don't understand how much I needed to hear this! I've always sort of knew the difference but didn't know how to articulate it so that is very clear what the difference actually is. Now I know how to spot fear and I will NEVER base a decision off it again! Fear is such a hinderence to our success. Thanks for following your intuition and sharing this message!
I think you're right...I feel like "intuition" is just being more in tune with God, and making the decisions that follow God's will for us. When we do anything else, any "joy" or "happiness" we may experience is always fleeting....
once our eyes are fixed on God, and we achieve communion with His Spirit, there is no reason to FEAR anything of this world.....
you were on point with the fear v. intuition... but i disagree on the whole follow your emotions because your emotions can lead you astray too... leaning towards one side more than the other...whether towards emotions, intuition, fear, tradition, logics, common sense, spirituality... there needs to be a balance... I can definitely say if you lean towards your emotions to base every decision you will most definitily be dsyfunctional later...
Hey I just wanted to mention that there is no such thing as Fear. The way I like to think of it is F.E.A.R stands for False Events that Appear Real. Fear is something you buy into in essence you can choose to be afraid or make yourself believe that its all in your mind.
@anisa1492 I totally agree! That's why ppl shouldn't make decisions based on these false feelings :-) It FEELS so real and can become very real in someones reality if they let the false feeling get in control...
@taren916 aw, how cool are you for replying to me! I was just reading some really boring material for university and that brightened up the night a lil.
In respect to 'fear' of lets say relocating, it is the fear of the unknown, not knowing if you're going to make it, not knowing if you're doing the right thing, etc..When you KNOW that what you're doing is not in the wrong motive, you can do it. For me, relocating is something that I absolutely MUST do in order to change the course of my life and my career choice. Life is about choices, whatever choice you decide, you ultimately have to live with what you decide.
you always have wise words to share.thanks for all the encouragement and support you give on here.you have no idea how much it helps.looking beautiful as always
honestly it's like you read my mind, cuz i'm actually in that situation, it's like i know what's right n i know wa i should do, but then I fear to do it, n i'm just stuck.
sistah u r so beautiful and i am just compelled to say it every time i c 1 of ur videos(although i dont,lol) "no homo" folks, just comfortable enuff to tell another woman she is beautiful
@treasurecat03isme It's a shame we have to say 'no homo' when we simply are complementing another woman's strengths in an encouraging way. That's what's up, be comfortable enough to give some high praise to someone who wants to make a difference, hats off to you girl!
Wow...that video...thanks for the insight. I am at that life changing point you mentioned and I need the courage to obey my intuition...please pray for me.
Great video, I completely agree with everything you've said. You explained it all very well. Loved your hair in the video as well, the black is werkin lol ;-)
I'm watching your video and all the way through I'm totally agreeing with you. For me, this is a much needed video... I'm planning to move to NYC in 2yrs and at times I get a case of fear because I'll be so far away from everything I know and I think about how difficult it could be to be successful there, but my intuition is practically screaming that "I know" that's where I'm supposed to be (i've known this since I was a child)
Thx for reading our minds and vlogging about this!
OMG!! This came at the right time. I applied this video to my decision to join the Air Force. I mean joining the military is a biiigggggg deal!!!! I was really scared at first (fear) but I am slowly getting to the point of not worrying. I am stepping out on faith. My intuition tells me that the military would be good for me in the short and long run (career-wise, financially, and help my mom as well).
Taren I love your videos but this has to be my favorite...so far. You did a phenomal job of explaining the differences. Thanks for taking the time to gives up all some insite.
Awesome video!!! I really needed to hear this message today. Thank you for sharing this message. Using the words you used to describe how you feel when you are acting contrary to your intuition really hit home for me ("A heavy constant feeling"..."a knowing"..."dullness"). Thanks Taren!
thats crazy in my psychology class we were just talking about freud, and all his thoughts of the id, ego, and superego. but nice subject, very interesting, intellectual thinking.
This is something that I am working on as well. Like I get confused with the fear vs. intuition in situations where I have to sing live cuz I'm always so afraid and nervous right before and I keep thinking to myself maybe my intuition is telling me I shouldn't perform and thats why I feel so bad OR maybe I 'm just afraid of the risk of putting myself out there and ppl judging my performance. I guess it takes some time to master knowing the difference. But I agree emotions are our best guides!
Taren, you say it was random but whatever moved you to speak about this was dead on. Hearing this, AT THIS MOMENT, was such a blessing for me! I don't even know what else to say! Thank you.
Hey Taren great you brought this comment up. I have been having lots of fear in my life by me turning 25. I have been thinking carefully about the decision in my life. I just take my time and think through whatever the situation is usually I follow my first mind.
Wow! Right on... I'm so happy I came across this today. Thank you! :]
bernadettemarlene 2 months ago
What's the name of that song in the intro? I want that beat!
kevinferere 7 months ago
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Anisa1492 you could not have said it any better!!!! Fear is an illusion it is not reality..and is created by the ego mind..great topic Taren!
marinewife929 10 months ago
Anisa1492 you could not have said it any better!!!! Fear is an illusion it is not reality..and is created by the ego mind
marinewife929 10 months ago
Taren thank you for this comment I needed to absorb this. It explains alot to me personally. Learning from my mistakes and listening to instructions of how to correctly proceed in my daily life when I am not sure of something is a blessing. Having intuition is a blessing from God. Intuition has helped me make very positive decisions. Fear I feel can be very detrimental to you when making decisons about what you want in life.
megarubies 10 months ago
Intuition, that knowing, is God talking to you everyday. I think you choosing to make this post is a bit of God working through you, too.
vobetoh 11 months ago
how do you make your logo thats at the top of your video
realmusic1111 1 year ago
Thank You...
crystcraw 1 year ago
You explain intuition soo well. It's a KNOWING. The one way i know when i've listened to my intuition is peace and calm. It doesn't stop me from being FEARful about the outcome but i just know i've done the right thing and resigned that it will work out for the best.
newnikky09 1 year ago
Wow this is a great vid Taren! I completely agree.Intuition of all the aspects you mentioned seems to be the quietest.lol Its usually kinda a background noise that you notice or dont.I guess once your in tune with it,it is louder and if you hone in on it I notice that the feeling peice of intuition is in the bottom of the solar plexis. You can ask a question and then focus on that area, if its heavy thats a"No" if its light thats a "Yes" - your so on point with the nagging feeling of intuition.
curlmebella 1 year ago
i really needed to hear this. thanks.
deLISHtvxo 1 year ago
Have you read the four agreements?
JoiJetson 1 year ago
I must have missed this vid when you first posted it but I recently wrote an article on dailyvenus titled Fear vs Doubt which goes really well with this. Replacing fear with faith is the key to moving forward. Sometimes fear can hinder us because we feed our fears and make them into giants and then the giant becomes so large that we feel like we can't overcome it...like a bully. We can't ever get the bully to stop bullying us until you face it and stand your ground...in that there is victory!
ThePoetikmind215 1 year ago
You don't understand how much I needed to hear this! I've always sort of knew the difference but didn't know how to articulate it so that is very clear what the difference actually is. Now I know how to spot fear and I will NEVER base a decision off it again! Fear is such a hinderence to our success. Thanks for following your intuition and sharing this message!
TheFashionGeek100 1 year ago
Very well explained honey! God bless you!
alex18418 1 year ago
Brilliant
Sougen02 1 year ago
I think you're right...I feel like "intuition" is just being more in tune with God, and making the decisions that follow God's will for us. When we do anything else, any "joy" or "happiness" we may experience is always fleeting....
once our eyes are fixed on God, and we achieve communion with His Spirit, there is no reason to FEAR anything of this world.....
TheMzDiimples 1 year ago
you were on point with the fear v. intuition... but i disagree on the whole follow your emotions because your emotions can lead you astray too... leaning towards one side more than the other...whether towards emotions, intuition, fear, tradition, logics, common sense, spirituality... there needs to be a balance... I can definitely say if you lean towards your emotions to base every decision you will most definitily be dsyfunctional later...
1BlasianCutie 1 year ago
Hey I just wanted to mention that there is no such thing as Fear. The way I like to think of it is F.E.A.R stands for False Events that Appear Real. Fear is something you buy into in essence you can choose to be afraid or make yourself believe that its all in your mind.
anisa1492 1 year ago 4
@anisa1492 I totally agree! That's why ppl shouldn't make decisions based on these false feelings :-) It FEELS so real and can become very real in someones reality if they let the false feeling get in control...
taren916 1 year ago
@taren916 aw, how cool are you for replying to me! I was just reading some really boring material for university and that brightened up the night a lil.
anisa1492 1 year ago
So true! I've made some decisions based on intuition and I felt so free afterwards. I felt like a heavy weight was lifted. I felt relieved.
ebonygator 1 year ago
I follow my intuition now. When I don't I always make the wrong decision. You did a great job decribing fear and intuition. Thank u.
Blkbeautee 1 year ago
This is exactly what i needed to hear! thank you for the insight, i think i will pay more attention now.
ChiCitySavvy 1 year ago
makes prefect sense
TrueAriesRed89 1 year ago
U R VERY PRETTY..GREAT VIDE0
HELL0TITTY 1 year ago
I really needed this, thank you.
TrueSugar 1 year ago
In respect to 'fear' of lets say relocating, it is the fear of the unknown, not knowing if you're going to make it, not knowing if you're doing the right thing, etc..When you KNOW that what you're doing is not in the wrong motive, you can do it. For me, relocating is something that I absolutely MUST do in order to change the course of my life and my career choice. Life is about choices, whatever choice you decide, you ultimately have to live with what you decide.
VickyVue 1 year ago
Haven't thought much about these topics, so thanx for new food for thought.
maximuslyricus 1 year ago
you always have wise words to share.thanks for all the encouragement and support you give on here.you have no idea how much it helps.looking beautiful as always
cherryboboc 1 year ago
honestly it's like you read my mind, cuz i'm actually in that situation, it's like i know what's right n i know wa i should do, but then I fear to do it, n i'm just stuck.
this video helped :) thnx
egyptianbella87 1 year ago
sistah u r so beautiful and i am just compelled to say it every time i c 1 of ur videos(although i dont,lol) "no homo" folks, just comfortable enuff to tell another woman she is beautiful
treasurecat03isme 1 year ago 3
@treasurecat03isme It's a shame we have to say 'no homo' when we simply are complementing another woman's strengths in an encouraging way. That's what's up, be comfortable enough to give some high praise to someone who wants to make a difference, hats off to you girl!
VickyVue 1 year ago
Wow...that video...thanks for the insight. I am at that life changing point you mentioned and I need the courage to obey my intuition...please pray for me.
lola321ify 1 year ago
I'm sure everyone will appreciate this message!
oldsoulisme 1 year ago
An exceptional assessment of the two. Insightful and very well articulated...saturated with tons of wisdom and plain old 'common sense'.
Sarah1955 1 year ago
God you are just so right on it's crazy!
EclecticCaliGirl 1 year ago
Great video, I completely agree with everything you've said. You explained it all very well. Loved your hair in the video as well, the black is werkin lol ;-)
aJwitaFrO 1 year ago
I'm watching your video and all the way through I'm totally agreeing with you. For me, this is a much needed video... I'm planning to move to NYC in 2yrs and at times I get a case of fear because I'll be so far away from everything I know and I think about how difficult it could be to be successful there, but my intuition is practically screaming that "I know" that's where I'm supposed to be (i've known this since I was a child)
Thx for reading our minds and vlogging about this!
EclecticCaliGirl 1 year ago
wise words Taren, been there, still there, listening to myself!!
louloumatou 1 year ago
OMG!! This came at the right time. I applied this video to my decision to join the Air Force. I mean joining the military is a biiigggggg deal!!!! I was really scared at first (fear) but I am slowly getting to the point of not worrying. I am stepping out on faith. My intuition tells me that the military would be good for me in the short and long run (career-wise, financially, and help my mom as well).
kristenjdec 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing!!!! This is a good tip for making important decisions and I will use your strategies to make a decision I need to make now! =)
treylove8 1 year ago
Damn i really needed to hear this, your words of wisdom came at a right moment !
bananybaby 1 year ago
love this video, you describe it so perfect! I needed to hear this really.....I know that heavy feeling.
janeclmty 1 year ago
love it the meat not the milk on my level lol
astrozier1 1 year ago
Miss Tarren...you are incredibly beautiful internally & externally. I LOVE your videos. I see God in you. Thank you for this video. It is SO helpful.
LordGiveMeStrength 1 year ago
Taren I love your videos but this has to be my favorite...so far. You did a phenomal job of explaining the differences. Thanks for taking the time to gives up all some insite.
TWEET629 1 year ago
Taren thank you for this! I needed this today! You read my mind! Lol
kenkat25 1 year ago
You seem to have reached self-actualization in many parts of your life.....you always sound so wise lol...Very in-depth
mayebella 1 year ago
Taren- i just want to say thank you, i am currently going to threw something real and you were just what i needed to here when today. Thank you
pyucku 1 year ago
Awesome video!!! I really needed to hear this message today. Thank you for sharing this message. Using the words you used to describe how you feel when you are acting contrary to your intuition really hit home for me ("A heavy constant feeling"..."a knowing"..."dullness"). Thanks Taren!
KinkyTresses 1 year ago
Hold It!!! Is that a large engagement ring on your finger? Yes...I'm being nosey. hehehehehehe.
ondeemia 1 year ago
WHAT A GREAT VIDEO TO IMPORTANT I GLAD YOU MADE THIS VIDEO
IntlNC 1 year ago
real talk girl!
thatsodiesel 1 year ago
Taren916 that was deep
msteacher7 1 year ago
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS HUN!!
00miss0nicole00 1 year ago
I TOTALLY AGREE!!! EXCELLENT VLOG!!! :)
N.
Nicolejyc 1 year ago
You look fantasic in purple! (Random, I know.)
CetteBelleChevelure 1 year ago
thats crazy in my psychology class we were just talking about freud, and all his thoughts of the id, ego, and superego. but nice subject, very interesting, intellectual thinking.
jahmisha09 1 year ago
This is something that I am working on as well. Like I get confused with the fear vs. intuition in situations where I have to sing live cuz I'm always so afraid and nervous right before and I keep thinking to myself maybe my intuition is telling me I shouldn't perform and thats why I feel so bad OR maybe I 'm just afraid of the risk of putting myself out there and ppl judging my performance. I guess it takes some time to master knowing the difference. But I agree emotions are our best guides!
KaShEeRaLaTaSh 1 year ago
Wow, this is random but a very interesting topic. Yes, intuition is such a good thing to have. Lately I have been listening to it a lot.
M0N3t7 1 year ago
i really enjoy these videos taren :) you're very bright, and i like hearing your views on life.
livingthelife194 1 year ago
Taren, you say it was random but whatever moved you to speak about this was dead on. Hearing this, AT THIS MOMENT, was such a blessing for me! I don't even know what else to say! Thank you.
reinventingthenorm 1 year ago 2
It's so ironic that I was discussing these very situations; the man thing and career choices. I really needed to hear this. Thanks girl.
katarinamariah 1 year ago
Hey Taren great you brought this comment up. I have been having lots of fear in my life by me turning 25. I have been thinking carefully about the decision in my life. I just take my time and think through whatever the situation is usually I follow my first mind.
BeautyMixed 1 year ago
You are simply amazing.
thejennikiz 1 year ago