Muslim women: can we wear heels,perfume,makeup,ad finger nail polish?

[ozturk100]

NO ITS NOT OK TO WEAR HEALS,FAKE NAILS MAKE UP TIGHT CLOTHES ITS NOT ALLOWED IN THE MUSLIM RELIGON SO GET LOST AND SHUT YOUR MOUTH!

[salamsabee]

@ozturk100

Grow up! this video was discuessing an issue within te islamic community. It seems the whole purpose of the video flew over your head like a bird in the night.

[JaiHindArbhav]

Make up when 99% of your body is covered?

Kinda like a paradox ain't it??????????????????

[nasihahfaruq]

it may not say anything directly about this topic, yet use common sense, the only thing acceptable is khol my hide the beauty of Allah by wearing makeup, or glamorizing like the kuffar. this topic doesnt speak of modesty at allplease sisters fear allaah and refrain from what is said here about it being ik to do what it suggests.

[salamsabee]

@nasihahfaruq

It was a debate video, and I wanted to get people talking. yes, I do have my views on it. In the end go to a scholar or imam that can advice you properly. My videos are meant to speak upon topics, and yes, I do voice my feelings.

[AliahBishr]

woman are not allowed to show your feet, their are no scholars who dont agree with that! lol, oh wow you need a reality check! there is O DEBATE ABOUT LISTENING TO MUSIC, AND NO NOT MOST MUSLIMS LISTEN TO MUSIC oh wow, i will post a vid responce to this in sha Allah its long and even if you accept it, not sure u will watch the whole thing but your heaven and hell is on the line sooo please sister fear Allah for your sake, get your knowledge up!

[salamsabee]

@AliahBishr

Video was made a year ago. Do what you wish. Salam.

[AliahBishr]

@salamsabee so why dont you take it down, you are misleading a lot of people. On the day of judgement YOU will have to answer for all the young or old muslimahs that took this videos "advice"

[salamsabee]

@AliahBishr

The video is a debate video. it was created to get us musliamhs talking about these issues. You took it the wrong way. I was not passing a fatwa and saying that I had all the knowledge. I bring up subjects for us to debate and talk about. Only ALLAH(SWT) can judge why I really made this video. Sisters do wear makeup, listen to music, pain their nails and toes. This is a issue within our community. There are plenty that show their toes, espceially during the summer months.

[salamsabee]

@AliahBishr

I'm not taking it down.Make your video response and spread the proper dawah. May ALLASH(SWT) bless you if your intentions are pure. Salam.

[AliahBishr]

is makeup something that is "plain there of" no i dont think so. some colors are ok like blue white etc... but all that stuff is plain in islam

[AliahBishr]

and follow that advise and its wrong you will be questioned about them too!! modety isnt a choice, but an obligation put on us(men AND woman) by Allah...u need to take this video down sis and or make 1 after u gain some knowledge on islam or bring some quran or hadiths even just the quran Allah said TELL THE BELIEVEING WOMAN TO LOWER (SOME) OF THEIR GAZE AND tO GUARD THEIR PRIVATE PARTS AND DO NOT DIPLAY THEIR ORNAMENTS EXEPT WHAT APPEARS THEIR OF AND DRAW THEIR (HEAD) VEILS OVER THEIR BOSOMS

[AliahBishr]

salam, firsty, hadiths r a science but, all you need to know about hadiths is SAHIH MUSLIM, or SAHAIH BUKHARI they are authentic.. period! all scholers agree on that.. and sis, you dont want to quote any hadiths but your sure giving alot of oppinions and that is what you have to be veeeery carefull of! PLUCKING YOUR EYEBROWS BRINGS A CURSE OF ALLAH ON YOU its not "oh your intention this and oh im a woman that" no! fear Allah! learn b4 you come on here cus if u give wrong adice and people hear...

[mariaeugenia219]

i not muslim , but is very interesting for me can use a mulim girl nail polish or not,

[azureminded1]

what is islam without the hadith prior to making the video you check the hadith it is NOT acceptable to wear makeup and i'm confused about scent but the nails would cause the wudu to be invalid so ur salah would not be accepted there is sin without intent Allah knows the humanbeing better than he knows himself and that is why we read hadith and follow the sunnah and we are supposed to guide each other it is not about growing up it is about someone loving you enough to take a moment to correct u

[azureminded1]

what is islam without the hadith prior to making the video you check the hadith it is NOT acceptable to wear makeup and i'm confused about scent but the nails would cause the wudu to be invalid so ur salah would not be accepted there is sin without intent Allah knows the humanbeing better than he knows himself and that is why we read hadith and follow the sunnah and we are supposed to guide each other it is not about growing up it is about someone loving you enough to take a moment to correct u

[gingerlicious13]

the comments below are exactly why I pulled away from practicing Islam. It sure didn't feel peaceful to me in the Islamic community in my area. I believe what I believe in my heart and you hens can fight all you want. Don't judge, it's not your job!

[salamsabee]

@gingerlicious13

I remove myself from what everyone else is doing, and i seek refuge in ALLAH and his holy Qur'an. I do not care what people are fighting about. I wear my bright hijabs and once in a blue moon makeup,heels, and some scent. I let the others bicker while I focuse on ALLAH. Thank you for commenting.

[verdefull]

Ofcorse muslim women can wear what ever they want freedom is freedom it doesn't matter wher u live or iran or europe....

[increasingmyiman]

According to a saheeh hadeeth, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: The woman who plucks facial hair and the woman who has this done are cursed.

(Reported by al-Bukhaari and Muslim).

I have posted a video of this on my page.

I am no longer engaging in arguments. I have stated half a dozen times that certain people seem to be looking for fights, and that they should ask a sheikh or an imam. This is a well known hadith.

salam aleykom to the muslims.

[canadalove100]

@increasingmyiman Yeahh...I have heard many great sayings of the Prophet but never that one. I am begenning to think that either the sources you have gotten this info from is just plain false, or you are making this up yourself. Keep your lies. We don't need them.

[increasingmyiman]

@canadalove100

GO ASK A SHEIKH or an IMAM!

subhanAllah you're such an instigator and a mess starter...made a new profile just to swirl the fitnah.

YOU are the liar, the fake, the munafiq.

It's Ramadaan and you're causing this fitnah. SubhanALLAH.

Probably a kuffar anti-Islamist anyways...trying to rile up the believing people.

Fake profile. Ugh.

[canadalove100]

@increasingmyiman Acutually I am a regular visitor to this site. Your comment annoyed me and I had to say something, And for your info I read the whole Quran start to finish WITH english translation this Ramadan as it is something you HAVE TO DO. And no where did it say anything about eyebrow/hair plucking. And for your info, I trust the Quran more than what some old Imam or book someone else made.

[canadalove100]

@increasingmyiman Also you are not the true believer - I saw the type of Muslim you are. You are already on the wrong path from the beggening. You don't even belive in the Promised Messiah. You can say whatever you want, but because of the type/kind of Muslim you're NOTHING matters. You ARE ALREADY DEAD WRONG. Goodbye

[salamsabee]

If a man gets turned on by feet, he needs y=to seek professional help. That's not my problem, it's his.

[somelolgirl]

@salamsabee oh my god there is men that gets turned on by feetswow that'sweird

[salamsabee]

@somelolgirl

yes, there are men that get turned on by your hands. They even sometimes feel that a womans face should not be shown. Sometimes people can get too extreme with it. By nature we are attracted to each othe. Lowering your gaze is soooooooooo important.

[memyselfandipod]

@salamsabee yeah but you could say the same thing about arms and other parts of your body

but the end of the day thats what it says

[AliahBishr]

@salamsabee wow so tell Allah that sis, lol

[waoOoma]

How are we allowed to show our toes...the prophet Mohammed (PBUH) said that it is permissible for us show our face from our forehead to our chin and hands from our wrist to our fingertips...he never mentioned our feet. Also, so many men out there have a fetish with feet..so MANY!

[salamsabee]

@waoOoma

i've been amongst muslims in three different states and i know there is adebate if we can show our toes. During the summer most muslims wear sandals. During the winter we cover our toes. When it warms up the toes come out.

[waoOoma]

@salamsabee You can't make a judgment on something based on what you see other Muslims do. You always have to go back to the quran and sunnah and there is nothing that says that it is ok to show your feet.

Some sisters losen their hijabs during the summer and show their necks and ears...that doesn't mean that they are still wearing hijab correctly (just an example).

[salamsabee]

@waoOoma

Not just hear say, but solid facts. I'm not just showing my toes because I can. ven in my islamic studies class we were shown where it clearly states that face,hands, and toes are allowed to be shown. You may not display your ankles. you may also not reveal your neck and ankles. You have schools that even preach young women shouldn't show their faces. There are so many ideas going around. It was shown in the qur'an what exactly should be covered and even sunnah.

[salamsabee]

@waoOoma

Scholars still agrue about the exact meaning of Jalalib. Some say cover your whole face,some say half the face, some say you may show your face. You are allowed to show face,hands, and feet. Now on the details of the toes, that leads to debate. I have watched muslims agrue about this, but it usally leads to the simple fact that one does not wear closed toe shoes in 90 degree weather.

[increasingmyiman]

@salamsabee the quran says to show the hands and the face for the most part. some hadiths describe veiled women who only had the smallest hole for one eye.

people who actually ARGUE over showing feet are usually people who are trying to be salafi.

i personally believe we are supposed to cover our feet cuz it was not specifically said for us to show them along with our hands and our face. but because it was never specifically called haram, i think it's classified as a "disliked" thing.

[increasingmyiman]

@salamsabee also i don't think it's scholars who argue what jilbab is... it's muslims who pretend to be scholars LOL. jilbab is an OVER GARMENT that is loose enough not to show the shape (bust-waist-hip ratios and butt/thigh shape really). That means if ur wearing wide leg jeans and a long tunic you still need an OVER GARMENT. it's no argument. it's quranic. 33rd surah al ahzab :)

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman Also after you read my last comment. Can I ask why exactly you have a pic of your face posted up on youtube??? As Ahmadis we are taught that wether you are covered in your pics or not, you NEVER post them on the internet. Your friends already know what you look like, you don't need to show the world. Do you think the Prophets wives would put up pictures of themselves on huge posters everywhere in their time, even if they were covered up in them? They're MUCH decent than that

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers the prophet's wives are FAR more pure and decent than i, you, or any other muslim woman would EVER be.

lol stop trying to attack your perception of my character you are looking for an avenue to attack. i used to have like 80 videos up on my old channel.

i'm almost 30 years old. i am a grown woman and i can do as i please as long as it is HALAL. and i will be making response videos to several people soon so feel free to critique me there :)

what next? don't wear purple? lol

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman Exactly so why are you bothering people about not plucking their eyebrows? After all none of us are that "perfect". Mind your own business and let people do what they want. And again posting any kind of picture of yourself on the internet is NOT halal. And what are you going to tell me next? Don't trim even a single strand of hair on my head, because I might becompe cursed??? WOW.

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers OMG if you want to rush yourself into the hellfire over some eyebrows go ahead. i did my best. and you are trying to put ALL HAIR in the same category. omg.

funny...the last person who told me to "stop judging" and "mind my business" over some islamic discussion was a person who was pregnant with an illegitimate child, living with her kuffar boyfriend.

it's HARAM. stop wasting time online go ask a sheikh or an imam. one who believes in the Quran and Sunnah not some made up prophet.

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman Also I am not going to waste my time on someone so CLUELESS as you. You say one thing, and then another exactly the opposite. Like I stated in my very last comment. I am not the same Muslim as you NOR will I EVER be. When the day of judgment comes, you will see who the true Muslims are. I PROMISE YOU. Nothing you say can make me change my beliefs. Go ahead and kill/attack my people, and try and get into your so called "heaven" -like your disgusting people already do. B-Y-E.

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman Also after you read my last post. I really don't understand you. You just said to me that NONE of us are as pure and perfect as the prophets wives, when I confronted you about your profile pic, yet you're critizing people over the SMALLEST thing ever which is plucking a some hairs on your eyebrow. You make no sense AT ALL>

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers i make no sense to you because you are not educated enough to understand what i am saying.

IT IS A CURSE.

i can tell you only want to argue and cause fitnah so i am finished with you.

for the millionth time GO ASK SOMEONE WHO BELIEVES IN THE QURAN AND SUNNAH TO BE TRUE, AUTHENTIC, AND PERFECT about this.

you're such a fitnah starter and you want to keep it going so i will just BLOCK YOU so my nafs is not tempted to argue back at you.

[hannahbadtana]

@increasingmyiman I have been watching this argument. I am also a Muslim. And you "Increasingmyiman" indeed do not make ANY sense at all. YOU are the real curse...haha. And I agree, stop telling people what they can and cannot do. And also you are not the judge, Allah is. So STOP acting like it.

[increasingmyiman]

@hannahbadtana when people are closed off of course the plainest simplest things don't make sense to them.

eyebrows are NOT pubic hair or leg hair or arm hair. why is that hard to understand? lol i swear it's the last days.

so when you see a muslim person drinking alcohol or smoking crack i guess you won't try to guide them for fear of being "judgmental"?

as a muslim it is our RESPONSIBILITY and RIGHT over another muslim to tr to guide them.

[hannahbadtana]

@increasingmyiman But didn't you at one point say that hair removal of ALL forms is haram? I personally do not believe in the eyebrow plucking as haram-which is why this debate is so ridiculous. It is such a small thing, people do much worse than this, everyday. A few hairs gone from your eyebrows will not cause any harm. Allah decides who he will guide and who he will not. You have probably misinterpreted some parts of the Quran like many do. The eyebrow thing is just EXTREMELY overboard/strict

[iluvoilers]

@hannahbadtana Also thankyou to you for understanding my point

[increasingmyiman]

@hannahbadtana never EVER ever said that.

if anyone is GENUINELY INTERESTED in knowing - as I have said many times - ask a sheikh or an imam.

back and forth, back and forth - it's pointless.

[canadalove100]

@increasingmyiman That is so weird. I have also been reading this heated debate and I am also a Muslim So weird And I have to agree with the others that you are very confusing. Please keep your opinions to yourself. Do not Tell people what to do. Or criticize them about it. You have no right to. And also I have never heard of this not being alowed to pluck your eyebrows...sounds like a crazy idea to me...

[increasingmyiman]

@canadalove100 trust me, i do keep my opinions to myself. i'm stating what i know to be fact.

ask a sheikh or an imam.

[canadalove100]

@increasingmyiman Hmm...it does not really look like it. I don't know. And also I would have to agree that posting videos of yourself or pictures on the internet-wether you are decent looking in them or not. Is not a HALAL way...If you are not a perfect Muslim yourself, then you can't exactly tell others what to do, and tell them that they are bad people.

[increasingmyiman]

@canadalove100 WOW so a non-perfect person (which is everything that descended from Adam) can't give advise? subhanAllah listen to yourself.

so an imam who has been divorced before can't marry anybody, eh? or a sister who has one bad child and 5 good ones can't offer advise to another mother?

seriously. when people WANT to do wrong they look to other wrong do-ers to co-sign their wrongs.

go comment on every sister with a videos page if you find it so revolting and haram.

[canadalove100]

@increasingmyiman Then howcome you laughed at what iluvoilers said to you about the profile picture, she is just giving advice, why are you attacking it?

[increasingmyiman]

@canadalove100 i laughed cuz i thought it was funny and sad that someone who is defending a major sin and a cursed thing would have a problem with a photograph. WHILE ON YOUTUBE aka video-land.

i told her, i told everyone - ask a sheikh. ask an imam,

[canadalove100]

@increasingmyiman Hmm photo posting is a cursed thing as well, SEE even I can make lies up just like you hahahahahahah! you are also defedning a MAJOR sin and I laugh at that, you are indeed very clueless :)

[iluvoilers]

@canadalove100 Thanks for understanding my point :)

[increasingmyiman]

@canadalove100 LOL!!!!

[increasingmyiman]

@canadalove100 i just checked your page - you JUST made this account, you are subscribed to iluvoilers and you probably are the same person.... you are truly full of fitnah and trying to make new profiles in order to mislead and misrepresent things.

ya allah! 3ayab!

shaytan might be locked up but there are still jinns and EVIL PEOPLE who exist in this world.

[increasingmyiman]

@waoOoma i agree totally!

[increasingmyiman]

heels - no. hair weave? of course not and who would want to? eww. acrylic nails, nailpolish - no. not at all.

and that picture you used shows the sister with crazy plucked eyebrows... sooo many sisters just ignore the fact that eyebrow plucking is a CURSE.

makeup...if ur around other sisters it's totally fine. if ur out with a RuPaul face in front of non mahrams then no.

dying ur hair is fine. plucking brows is NOT. never going to be.

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman Whats wrong with trimming your eyebrows??? I am a Muslim and I do it?....

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers namas (eyebrow plucking, shaving, threading,waxing, cutting, razoring, any for m of it) the naamisah (the woman who get her eyebrows plucked), the mutanammisah (the woman who actually does the hair removal) is a CURSED activity. Not only is it haram, but it is CURSED. so in search of that perfect arch we gotta ask ourselves...is this worth cursing ourselves and not knowing which way Allah will inflict our curse?

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman I am a Muslim, but I don't think I'm the same type as you. How is this a cursed activity? No offence but that is kind of a crazy idea. Hair removal is NOT bad. In fact in Islam we are taugt to remove our hair in our private places in order to clean ourselves. It is VERY important. If you don't take it off, its like behaving as an animal. Animals have fur all over them-but they do not remove it.

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers can you please tell me how you related eyebrow arching to be haram...to pubic hair?

my entire body below my shoulders is hairless. i make my own helwa it's easy.

but removing your eyebrows is haram.

go ask the sheikh in your area. actually go ask ANY sheikh.

eyebrows and pubic hair are totally unrelated LOL

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman There isn't such thing as a seikh. This is what we call people who pray to buddhas. I don't know what you're talking about. You said that ALL forms of hair removal is haram. And obviously it is NOT. Also trimming your eyebrows a little is not bad. All it does is gives you a neat appearance. It doesn't somehow make you reallllly hot or something that guys are going to start staring at you in the wrong ways. Also who wants extra unwanted hair on their faces. We are not men.

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers my goodness...please...my sister...i do not want to argue with you not in ramadan. you're trying to attack me as if i left the letter "H" out of the word sheikh (which I did not, by the way). just ask any imam or sheikh. they will tell you that it is haram. even if you simply look it up online 99% of the sites will tell you it's haram and cursed. there's always that small falsified part though so beware of "googling" Islam, per se.

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman I am not fighting with you. I just can't understand where you would get an idea like that. It is not haram. Which is why so many women do it. And I do not trust any online websites. Everyone I know does it. No one has ever told us that this is haram.

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers i know so many women who do not wear hijab. i know so many women who do not wear jilbab. so just because i know them, and they do it, this makes it ok? no. it's haram. also just because no one has ever told you does not make it an OK thing to do. don't ask your friends and associates or the other misguided people around you. go to a person of PROVEN Islamic knowledge and wisdom. An Ulama, a Sheikh, an Imam, a Maulana, etc. Not just "ask brother Amir or Um Zaynab cuz they're smart"

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers you are comparing apples and oranges. you CAN remove any other facial hair (like mustache or something) if ur a female. but you CAN NOT remove any part of your eyebrows except the part that grows between (meaning, a unibrow). you can't arch them. you can't trim them. there are too many people in this duniya who go against the Quran and Hadith. SubhanAllah I see nail polish at taraweeh. And jilbab-less sisters too. They argue these sames points you are arguing.

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman And again I am not the same Muslim as you. I am not Sunnie I am not Shiita or however you spell it. I am an Ahmadi. I think you are going overboard with this. I can't believe how stubborn and strict some people are. You are misinterpreting the Quran. No where does it say, that you may not trim your eyebrows, and that you will be cursed for doing such a small activity.

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers ok well you being Ahmadi does explain a lot. Ahmadi, Moorish something, Nation of Islam, etc... your type of Islam is not considered Islam by most people who follow Quran and Sunnah. i am sure that sounds cruel but anyone who believes different than what the Quran says about Mohamad being the LAST AND FINAL prophet ... It's like talking to a person when we do not speak a common language. When it comes to Quran and Sunnah I am VERY stubborn cuz it's the ONLY correct way. Peace!

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers I just asked my friend about Ahmadi Islam...cuz she is from Bangladesh and happens to be over my house today and she says that Ahmadi people say that whoever says Mizrah Ahmad is not Rasool is considered a kaffir by Ahmadi people. Also in Bangladesh she said they are legally classified as non-Muslim people? Also in Pakistan? Wow...I don't wanna argue on this sister's comments but subhanAllah may Allah guide us all to the true and correct path. Ameen!

Wow subhanAllah

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman We are true Muslims. Also how can the people in Pakistan/Bangladesh call themselves "real" Muslims? They kill and jail our people just because we are Ahmadi. You can even look up articles. Does a real Muslim kill? NO. You know what they think will happen when they torture and kill our people like that? They think they will go to heaven. Are you SERIOUS? You can even go check right now. And you will get many articles.

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers admittedly i'm hearing this stuff from a very biased source cuz she is still talking about it...but from what i'm hearing Ahmadi people do not believe that Mohammad Rasool Allah was the final messenger, and they also believe that the immaculate conception story told by the Quran is untrue.

i will do my reasearch. but anyone who disagrees with these basic articles of faith and pillars of islam..the quran itself says these people are not the mumin and not of the muslims.

subhanAllah

[iluvoilers]

@increasingmyiman Um WRONG. Totally wrong. I have no idea where she is getting junk like that from. We Do believe in the last Prophet. What does she think we are? Christians???? And I hear that you people belive that some how a Promised Messiah is gonna come from somewhere out of the blue. WOW. Really? Do you really think that in a world like this, someone THAT blessed/and perfect is going to exist?

[increasingmyiman]

@iluvoilers oh also, i am Sunni. Maliki by birth (cuz my dad was born in Morocco) and sha'afi by practice cuz i live in a mostly Yemeni area and my masjid is Yemeni/sha'afi.