Cyber Booty Call

[CaicedoDaBunny]

Yep lesson learned. Ive beenthrough it allwit gus.Im 23 and now i know WAYYYYYY better. Everything ur saying is absolutely right.

[blkmad77]

ur a hottie!

[anybodykhotno]

awhi i feel hony today anyone shares the same feeling as me

[memberson]

FIRST OFF LOVE THE INFORMATION THAT YOU ARE PASSING ON AT THE LADIES. BUT SOME TIMES SOUND LIKE IT IS ONE SIDED OR THAT LADY FOR A PRICE IT IS OK. AND THERE IS LITTLE TO NO INFORMATION FOR THE MALES..

THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME

[icedoutivan]

wow, a hot milf here buddy

[uglypeople07]

lol.. she is da bomb

[BIGBOSSandTHEDOLL]

The title SOUNDS dangerous!  LOL

[tallnicegyal2die4]

shay let the girl down easy!!! lol... i like ur straight forward approach but women in denial do not like to be spoken to like they are being attacked. lmao!!!

[DrGspicylove121]

good stuff ....

[DrGspicylove121]

Sometimes as young people are just looking for excitement of love. And they think that they are into each other but he is not really so this is what happen I agree with you. Foundation if there is none then there is no relationship.

[DarkTwinA]

OMG!!! Lovein30days thx u so much, i waas literally 24 hours away 4rm a train wreck. not really wud b da 1st date, but u summed up every thing! keepin my halleujah sunshine 2 myself 4 a while thx

[redandbluecabbage]

Thanks for all these videos.

You are such a sweet intelligent girl, and you like to help other women.

You are such a sweetheart! :)

[sebkhetsabur]

wow your a beautiful woman...you my type....you remind me of this girl i knew in elementary...wow...peace and love.

[joyariffic]

:) thanks for all the great advice

[meowfornow]

I just recently subscribed cause your Real & Kind in the way you share.

Thanks!

[4LOSTSOULSONLY]

I tried to tell these girls on here about this but hardheads need to be played 1st.

[denisesugars]

Shay, I have been watching your videos for over a year now and I heard you on Love and Relationships on V-103 last Sunday night. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, I am dating wiser and no longer experiencing as many disappointments and I was before. I wish you continued success!!!

[datch1ck912]

lol ur smile is contagious shay !

[kizzmac]

I like your lips.

[1984Akeem]

Well... at least she waited 3 months to let him hit... Ha-ha...

[1984Akeem]

Seriously though... It sounds like they had plenty enough interaction for her to know the guy well enough. Internet + phone calls + dates... for 3 months... Then, after they finally have sex he stops talking to her... SMH

I can only think of 2 possibilities...

1. He was never into her... (as you said SYDD) so, he just waited her out...

2. He was into her... waited 3 months... and the sex was wack... So, he was like: Damn... I waited 3 months for this??? WTF?

[amandacari85]

wow o.k. am i not the only one this has happened to. not glad that it happened to someone else bu i don't feel so bad about it anymore. whew felt alone there for second.

[analyticalw]

how did u take it? did he ever call back?

[kalikadonda]

well i dont know about of this,because first off if u get played man or women, thats on u. so u cannot blame any man or women cause u got played for the booty or the dik,second most women r not looking for a relationship,they,re looking for a booty call,or/ friends with benefits. so honestly what u r saying is erelovent to it all

[analyticalw]

i would say alot of women like men are looking for a booty call, not most women.

[morethanawoman87]

i wish i can give u five stars five times this is so true alot of men are using the internet to be a hoe. they play women g them up and use them. listen to her ladies cause these men do this all the time

[rosnjust]

is it called being played when you looking for the same thing?

[analyticalw]

no its not being played, but just be careful. if u are both looking for sex and u get attached its best to leave it alone. is that what you got from this vid?

[rosnjust]

no..i understand what she was saying. i was just wondering about that though

[SuicidalXlove1]

this is true!

[likefiur]

Hallelujah sunshine...I like that.

[likefiur]

I hate to admit it...I hate to admit it...but I was completely played. Lesson learned though.

[lovein30days]

Its ok sweetie. Just Dont do it again:) Forgive yourself and move on, HIS LOST!

SYDD

[michtenn16]

Yup...i use 2 be a fool...my dad just avoided the subject...lol..he told me just not to do anything....he is prob tht dude tht played tht girl lol...who knows ...GIRLS Be carEful...STDS...AIDS....u don't know this online dudes....let your first date be at the clinic lol..im so serious!

[michtenn16]

these*

[lovelygirl544]

"it sounds like she got caught up. when she went over to his house it was to do that...have sex i'm guessing. but if that's the case she had sex with him and either got lonley enough to think she had a relationship with him or she just thought he wanted to continue speaking to her. either way she's too sensitive for causual sex. but i don't think it was intentional for her to want a relationship...she didn't een say that in the e-mail from what you read."

[420159]

gave it up too fast

[HIMAY10NENCE]

Gone girl ....Tell em

[ettisen]

Yup, sleeping with a man that fast is like eating dessert before dinner, it spoils the appetite. So this man was already full of her before even really rekindling anything. So sad....

[ShyNovember]

If he does call her again or seems interested in her again. I hope that she knows he is just out for another booty call. Please, don't let him pull you back into the same web again and again. Find someone else to take to the concert and if he calls about going, let him know you have someone to go with already.

[mpenny226]

poor baby...yes, you have been played. You allowed your lonliness get the best of you. A lot of folks on line will say anythiing. Take your time! One of the first mistakes is having all of that sex talk in the begining. He told her what he was all about in the first few convos if they have sex talk. Slow Down on the cyber sex.

[ondeemia]

Good advice as usual.

[cutieheart1]

I never open my leg to any guys. im 17 and im waiting for the perfect guy and hell get my goodies after marriage. im a proud diva. ;)

[KissMyButtOk]

"Liquid sunshine...Hallelujah sunshine" You're killing me with these terms LOL. Love it! You're absolutely point on with the advice.

[803HighRollers]

PLAYED!!!!!!! or maybe not. she is a grown woman and she knew what she was getting in to. Women want the same thing at times. She should have saw jumpoff signs and he plays music...woow

[johneblaze82]

Yeah she was played for damn sho.

[kuunami]

Good advice.

[jody808]

did you say "court"?lol good advice here Diva

[bebe4c03]

Well at least she knew him a little...still don't think people should hook-up over the internet though...too dangerous

[LOSTIN253]

way more often ,thats all my friend does. i try to tell her how unsafe it is.