Sheikh Khalid Yasin - If you love someone so so much and can't get married to her?

[luvineminem100]

@tigersforchrist if you have nothing nice to say well don't say anything at all !

[naacima12]

Lol mashaAllah

[shuaibfarouk]

knowledge dosent leads to paradise, knowledge with implementation leads to paradise

[Jamilaax3]

I love this Sheik ....so so much !

[Tamkadoute]

@Jamilaax3 I too like him



[rosemarykelley100]

"Dear Abbey" has a rival in the "advise for the lovelorn" department! :-D

[OneNation2525]

@Emiliouus...it is Haram so so so much to do such a thing.Christmas is Pagan. i myself would advice anyone NOT to part take in in Such a act

[MarcoisX]

@OneNation2525 Christianity is not a pagan religion. And no it is not a sin, You can pray in a church but you shouldn't celebrate christmas.

[Emiliouus]

is it haram for me as muslim being in christian house in christmas ?

[Afghanistang]

Mashallah love this

[asiya1011]

loool, I love this Shaikh - he kills me every time! May Allaah reward him!

[punkie411]

All young people need to hear this. Do not allow the devil to seduce U by uncovering your shame; nakeness. Many people are hexed (mentally ill or deaf & dumb) by sex because they stepped out of the will of god. No man should not be around a woman unless he intend to take her as his wife.

[megn94]

I don't get it. How r u suppose to marry someone if ur not even allowed to talk to that person?

[GeedanUK]

@megn94 just to let you know, a man can see the woman in Islam IF he's really looking for marriage. He's allowed to talk to her normally, but NOT privately... Basically a guy goes to the girl's family asking them the marriage of their daughter... if they like the guy, then they say fine, and the two talk to each other, he can look at her, she can look at him. No problem. then after that, if the guy likes her and likes her thinking and beauty and all, he proposes to the girl. very simple.

[1021628]

Inshallah motivation for me jzk!

[purediamond101]

I love this! this talk he just gave... it is very relatable to young people and not only to the parents! any more videos by khalid yasin similar to this one??? thank you! ...so so much. ^.^

[terajasoos]

wtf??? this is what is problem with theeze wahabi/salafy neanderthaals

their version of islam is 2 anti-human,anti-rational and rigid, that most ppl looze faith

if two ppl luv each other, well thats a natural emotion and urge and there iz no problem expressing such feelings albeit within boundaries.

but this imam is being really disingenous and saying 2 kill that luv, 2 suppress that natural urge

im muslim myself but this imam is just a fucking retard

[alaulaqiironman]

@terajasoos well my brother if your a muslim you do realize its haram to call some one a a wahabi or call your self one??

wahabi is original for Wahab many muslims call there sons abd al wahab

Wahab is is one of the 99 beautiful names of Allah and there is no division in islam

And hold firmly to the rope of Allah all together and do not become divided. Quran 3:103

check for yourself and I hope I did not offend and please it would be better who ever sees this thumbs up so ppl can know :)

[urlucky001]

WOW such ignorant words ! Like that could help...stupid mulla diverted the actual question tactically. The 1st thing is y did the kid wrote to this asshole... He should never let his love down...if needed he should sacrifice everything for his love...Thats is what i say is Everest and few ppl managed to climb it. And for the girl my advice is the same . In sexual matter if u r old enough ... have safe sex.

[mohammadtouska]

@urlucky001 in Islam having intercourse between two unmarried ppl is adultery. From what he said which i dont agree to all of it, he said one thing right. He should tell his parents and her parents so they make plans. but i dont think marrying at 15 or 16 or 17 and living in a room makes a good marriage. If she loves him back, she will wait and he will wait, otherwise it isnt destined to happen.

[punkie411]

@mohammadtouska, It is possible to marry at this age, if U are living in an Islamic country or community.

[mohammadtouska]

@punkie411 Yes but what i mean is that nowadays being 15-16-17-18 with no work and no place to live in except ur room in ur parents house like the sheikh is saying doesn't allow u to get married. u have rights to ur wife and kids like clothing, feeding, taking care of in birth and u cant do that living in a room with no job. thats why nowadays u learn, u get a job the get married.so wht he says in the vid dt work.getting married just to satisfy sexual needs is not ok in my opinion.

[sadiqnawazkhan3333]

i love this video so so much

[NRock2404]

Hey guys did you know it's the 21. century already?

[13yoyo1]

@NRock2404 In Islamic Years Its still the Middle Ages , Why do you think we still got Kings :D

[MsShoah]

@NRock2404 and we too =) we still human =)

[Cenobite3]

So instead of getting infatuated and then getting over it like teenagers do (and as a result, learning from it), a 15-year-old is supposed to get married to deal with this kind of thing? Or just avoid interaction and unsupervised conversation with the other half of the human race, making relations much more strained and awkward than they ever need to be? How do you not get some kind of complex when your only personal insight into the opposite sex is from your parents?

[tecnats]

But this wont quite work today. People will talk with eachother in the school or other places, maybe not in some places in middle east, but even there their starting with this behavior. I should i hide behind a tree, everytime she walks by? While some american or european boy hollers at her, get her attention, talk to her and even get her phone number in secret. Should we stand and look on our woman just getting picked up by, europeans and americans. Im not a racist, im a realist.

[waqas1minhas]

Superb Video...

[xforsakenHeart786x]

"So, sooo much" LOOOOOOOL :D

[sshhaammiiiiiiiiii]

MAYN i love His sense of humor .... he is very impressive & funny at the same time....

[BirminghamDan]

funny how at the end it says knowledge leads to paradise so seek knowledge etc

u could also say time in hell make u wish u were in heaven so seek hell...

[ukhtii19]

''so so much'' :-D

[Adelown]

lol i listened to this already on my ipod i repeated this like a hundred times hahahahaha

[ashams22]

looooooool

[singrest2006]

Couldnt stop laughing

[takewhole]

shoudln't ridicule the guy who put the question forward. he wanted a serious answer, but all the idiots just laugh. The prophet Muhammad saws didnt ridicule anybody or humiliate them. The last bit about the parents was sound advice.

[darkmetoo]

@takewhole nobody no him ... the paper will be flipped and passed to the shaikh ... without anyone know who is

[xforsakenHeart786x]

@takewhole You should try giving 'so, soooo much' better advice then :-)

[takewhole]

@xforsakenHeart786x if you cant give sound advice better to keep ur mouth shut - and if ure a Sheikh you have a responsibility to not ridicule people who seek ur help :-)

[xforsakenHeart786x]

@takewhole Certain people have certain styles, and for you to act self-righteous on a video which aims to challenge the very same taboos which people so aptly ignore, is beyond me. Do not attempt to make a comeback, you see, a coward can be differentiated from amongst the crowd when they get all 'up-themselves' as you are. Why the need to raise your temperament to a rude level? Oh...wait...everybody is Google-Shaykh nowadays. You have NO right to tell a Sheikh how to act unless YOU can do it.

[takewhole]

@xforsakenHeart786x Unlike you i have a brain that can think. In the days of old in the islamic world, a sheikh that wasnt knowledgable would be laughed out of the mosque by the people. The early muslims were not droids - they were leaders, they were taught to think and act accordingly. Go join the sheep, you will fit right in. I said the sheikh who incidentally i think is a brilliant sheikh should not ridicule someone who seeks help from him. I did not insult him.

[xforsakenHeart786x]

@takewhole Oh purrlease, we are only starting to sin in vain discourse and your arrogance is just seeping through. The only reason you wanna carry on arguing is 'cause it hurts your ego....enjoy the video, forget the anger. Peace.

[takewhole]

@xforsakenHeart786x thanks for a complete non-reply. Peace

[MrOpie1987]

so so much love....yeah......

[MsThebigtimer]

mashaAllah!

[aleema01]

i was wondering why you wrote ''so so much'' in the title haha and i love his talks so so much aswell

[abshiramal]

this is very cool so so so much!!!

[LaDyErOtICaa]

And I like you Khalid so so much!

[Tanyz1]

he is my favourite sheikh in the whole entire world!!

[hennashah92]

How are you suppose 2 get to know the person you wish to marry then?? if there is somebody you have met and are intrested to get married... if its haraam 2 talk then how else are you suppose 2 get to know eachotherrr??? :s

[twilightskies1]

@hennashah92 you are allowed to speak to each other before you get married but there has to be a waali (the person getting you married) or a mahram (someone you cant marry) present.

[tjobtjobtjob]

@twilightskies1 tell me, even with a wali/mahram around... u think the 2 people can be open about their ideas of marriage?

[twilightskies1]

@tjobtjobtjob you've lost me, what do you mean?

[UnderstandingAll]

Yo maa' Sha' Allah that put a smile on my face so so much! =)

[mimiBeaker5]

alhamdulillah this is the truth

[spectrehaunt12]

I totally understand him so so much ^^

I don't even look at girl more than a glance, I stopped watching tv for this (and other) reason. But it will have so much meaning when I am finally married, to show my wife her worth and value. it is only her beauty that I will never need.

[cornelldillardhaynes]

@spectrehaunt12

mashallah brother its good to know that there are still guys out there withdecent morals and values and inshallah u oneday make someone very happy

[off3r]

haha i love this guy 

[2strokebeauty]

hats off to u ......i love u soo soo much sheikh khalid yasin....

[d4oud7]

haha, legend ! love u so so much haha

[kjuhaful]

Masha'Allah jzl kheyr Sheikh .. i love it !



[RumuhAlg]

May Allah bless you so so much :)

[bbqze19]

This truly made me laugh, and taught me something. May Allah (S.W.T) reward you for sharing this and brother Khalid Yasin for his lectures :)

Thank you SO SO much

[dearqasseem]

JAZAAKALLAH KHAIR.

INSHA~ALLAH THIS WILL GO A LONG WAY TO EDUCATE US.....THANKS.

[Abdi9795]

This is untrue in somewhat it all depends how the 2 people can control themselves speaking from an experience I'm speaking to a sister who's the same age(18) as me, her and I are on the phone all the time and guess what nothing flirty would never come out my mouth or her mouth and we know each other for years insha'allah and also her and I started to talk about marriage 4 days ago we will see how that goes Alhamdulillah

[lolhahah21]

@Abdi9795 Come on bro get real... you're not fooling anybody. If you loved her enough to ask for her in marriage. Then WE KNOW what you have already thought (If you've been talking to her for years). WE don't need 2 hear you say that you never flirted with her and she didn't. I can basically put a guarantee on my life that you have at least had THOUGHTS about what you would want to do to her. Follow Islam and change yourself. Don't disagree with things like this and saying you can talk to girls.

[Madimaadi]

@s0fw0n -- like the Prophet said,Pbuh..Try to Fast mondays and thursdays.And pray more and ask Allah to give you the strength to preserve your self,and May Allah Guide me and All Muslims onto the straight path..Try it,it's the ultimate happiness.

[Madimaadi]

Sheikh khalid yasin,I truly Admire you So So much.

Jazaak allah khair for uploading this video''

[majnoons]

MASHA'ALLAH-___Wow thats so so tru!

[proud2bmuslim1000]

I listened to this - so so much lol

[proud2bmuslim1000]

I love the way this sheik preeches it makes you think that "do you know what islam is actually a really soft and peacefull religion" and not hardships and being forced

[MrAli504]

I love Islam so so much.:)

[TheKingOfTheTemplar]

all praises to Allah that made me watch this video,since i have the exact problem right now ,alhamdulillah ;)

[aotule]

mashala this is what am going through

[tecnats]

I have a question here. This sounds pretty much logical however its not often girls and boys are willing to follow these kind of advices nowadays. How should me as an middle eastern guy in europe respond to a what i like to call a "loose girl". All those girls out there loose and just go around with stupid guys instead of someone educated like me who can respect them. What should i do if these girls are around with european guys , should i just turn away and look? Loosing country women?

[Zahrahz076]

:)



[agmar999]

i love my Allah so so much :)

[zaazi123]

i like this guy so far :)

[buzzzinnn]

so so much....:D

haha-)

[ronz1988]

I Love this So So much too SubhanAllah :)

[harambabi]

i love this SO SO MUCH...jazakallah khair

[miiszMUJAHIDA]

@harambabi sorry for delayed reply,

wa iyyak!

[TheMoath2005]

jazak allah keer 

[miiszMUJAHIDA]

@TheMoath2005 sorry for delayed reply lol wa iyyak (=

[kerin554]

Islam is the best!