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  • the most important thing is.. make the girl feel special. little things matter

  • Here is a tip for every man: Don't date a gril on depression medication. Trust me.

  • this is really good. Woot!

  • Your first date should just be a coffee or something that will last for 2 hours max. Just in case you find that you don't have any chemistry and you can move on quickly to another person.

  • Okay. First off, guys... this is the FREAKING INTERNET. Stop "asking her out." That's creepy.

    Flattering, MAYBE, but creepy.

    And she makes some great points, but also noting that every girl is different, these may not work for everyone. The ideas are good though. Always be a gentleman - it communicates who you're really thinking of first. Put yourself ahead of her. And if I see one more guy not holding the car door for a girl when it's raining.. I'm gonna tear that guy a new chute.

  • True. Movies are for more... veteraned relationships.

    And I was definitely raised opening the door for a lady. I also always open the car door (especially important when it's raining), and of course it's polite to stand when she leaves the table (if formal dining).

    And what you say is right.. except that (you obviously know, being female) that every girl is different. Otherwise dating would be mundane and boring. But these are good tips.

    Finally, the music is too hot. Masks your voice.

  • wow ur beautiful!!!!!!!!!!! thanks for all the good tips keep doin what you do

  • Vanae.. Are you Viet?

  • Yeah, she is.

  • royksopp! i love it. but what is the remix of it?

  • Is that a bottle of Jim Beam whiskey and Beefeater gin in the cabinet? How about a date?

  • vanae you're sooooooooooo beautiful. i wanna mary you. seriously

  • royksopp!

  • You know what your saying great tips thanks

  • i was all smiles while watching this video cuz everything you said is so true!

  • You are beautiful. I really want to reach through the screen and put a hairclip on you so we can see both your eyes =)

  • You are one of the few people on youtube that knows what they are talking about. No disrespect to the other people that give relationship advice but you give advice that I acutally agree with. BTW, I agree with the other posters. You are beautiful!!!

  • u look so pretty Vanae!!!

  • wow! this is good! haha good jobb!

  • thanks this will help, and the idea for gifts was a good one, thankyou!

  • wow your beautiful :)

  • the dove chocolates are smart! but my idea with my situation is that the girl i like loves vanilla shakes from wendy's, so wen i see her 2morrow, ima surprise her with a vanilla shake!! =D good idea?

  • cute idea!

    whatever she likes.

  • Im 39 years ld. I have athing for a 19 yr old. On her own, pretty confident. It seems she is throwing her slef at me .I just want a physical relationship. Who knows what she wants. SHould i leave her alone or be a gentleman and take her out?Its been a while since ive dated at all.Thanks your sweet!

  • Vanae your're awesome . Hot-I dig vietnamese girls but that person I keep hearing in the background is so annoying. I like all of your input on dating.

  • Girls always wanna talk about their past relationships 1 time this girl I went out with sulked for the rest of the evening cos I kept changing the subject when she brought up her ex.

  • Amazingly attractive, i dont know if i remember anything you said i was too busy dreaming.

    On a serious level i hope i remember some of this for my first date on friday...

  • I agree with everything you say so far..Your videos are one of a few videos that are worth watching (on YouTube) over and over.

    Where would I find a woman who is articulate/intelligent like you?

    Thanks for uploading (and the reminder) :-)

  • i meet lots of girls.. and go far wif themm ..without ur help .. the things uu say are like obvious.. ur a girl pimp (Y) haha

  • your videos are grate and realy helpful but in some parts the music is to loud and you can't realy hear what your saying

  • damn....ur pretty.

  • this video is helpful!!! i am going on my first date!

  • let us know how it goes!

  • What's the background music? I'm loving it.

  • I want to say sometihng about this video:

    You are geogerous and you seem to be trying to be helpful to people who often have problem in dates. You have earned my rsspect and whatever you are doing, alot of poeple truly appericate your video.

    :)

  • is a card too much

  • but... politics???

    hmmmm...

    Well, you'll certainly discover whether a second date can be pleasant - that's the good part.

    And, hey...you might not want to disagree on these things 5 dates into it.

    You might have a good point there.

    ~Bobby

  • Not bad, you seem to know what you're talking about. The majority of girls find it extremely hard to vocalise what they like in a guy.

    Trouble is, I hate working from a script. So for all the guys watching this who are a bit more laterally minded, it's probably a better idea to relax, avoid putting the girl on a pedestal and lose fear. Fear of silence, fear of boredom, fear of blowing it..from there, just improvise and enjoy the ride!It's only girls. No need to make a big song and dance of it.

  • people have died from platypus poison

  • GUYS LISTEN UP!

    Being a gentlemen is KEY!! It works everytime, and I'm speaking from experience! I used the go-kart date idea when i met my girl 3 years ago, AND I MADE DAMN SURE to be a gentlemen. She loves it. DO NOT be a gentlemen for just the night.

    Ladies always tell me how they think sweet guys are extinct. THIS IS NOT TRUE. So guys, if you want the good ladies (like this beauitul vlogger, vanae12). REAL gentlemen are in high demand! Trust me, and good luck :D Worked for me! ;)

  • I've always acted like a gentleman in the 10 years i have been actively dating. It works the chicks digg it. But seriously vanae if you tell everyone else i'll have no edge on the competition, its a good idea to get your ass down to the gym and get some muscles ;D

  • Why are attractive girls so insecure?

  • you right about the movie VS comedy club

  • wow...seriously ur really hots!!!

  • ive seen 2 of your videos, nice sound solid advice, a smart girl, nice video!!

  • i've noticed three things during this video:

    1.There's alcohol behind you on the schelf (or whatever you call it)

    2.Somebody behind you (probably your dad) kept butting in

    3. You are AMAZINGLY pretty

  • 1. that's the bar in my kitchen

    2. that's my room mate

    3. thanks sweetie!

  • im gentleman..but with ugly face xD..can you tell me how done that..She will never look on my face and dont tell me .,you are ugly..i dont wanna be with you,,just ask..

  • thanks for your advices, it's very helpful. There's smt I have to say you're look so beautiful. Keep up the good job.

  • sry for bad english...im from czech republic :))

  • Thank you.

  • this song's tight

  • Vanae. i have stumbled apon some of your videos and i think that you are very inlitened. Dont know if you have made a major career out of doing this but you definatly have the skills and insight to do whatever you set your mind to. Keep it real.

  • aww thanks! really appreciate the support and i'm glad you guys find it impactful!

  • Good solid advice. Thanks.

  • like your vids. they giv something to think about =). and you are hot ;)

  • thats a pretty good remix of what else is there by royksopp

  • hells yeah!

  • is that true about the platapus?

  • Aye, she's spot on on her facts.

  • What is that groovy music you used?

  • see the video description : top right

  • Who is that strange dude in the background doing the dishes?

  • my room mate

  • He is a lucky guy! :)

  • next week me and this girl is going to have this studying date. can give some tips for that?

    thanx

  • lol do her no just jk

  • Gotta luv paint by numbers dating, always impressive.

  • i dont call girls hot only pretty lol i made a pact lol no joke haha

  • u r hot really hot!!

  • wow I didn't see this one. this one has great advice ms. Vanae.

  • Heh. This is funny

  • hey vanae, im 13 years old and i really like this girl she isnt one of these girls i would say is "fit" but i would call her beautiful but it sounds wierd coming from me because of the people i hang around with,she dosent seem interested in me, i am very good friends with a few of her friends. she thinks im a good dancer ( i danced once in class ) so could i use that to try and get myself more confident with her? please reply. x

  • yo man, just be like, i am awesome. i know it, everyone else knows it. wherever you go, try to feel that positive vibe resonating within you. seriously, people will pick up on it. it sounds voodoo, but something about that attitude leads to hold yourself better. dont look at the ground when you walk if you do, always look up and directly at people. meet their gaze. and whatever you do, dont be the nice guy haha. if she says something you dont like or agree with, let her know (dont be an asshole)

  • great tips but i could barely hear you with the rave music

  • Treat her right,but don't pull out a chair for her. You will love weak. Yes, Opens doors,but Not car doors. You good,but not un-manly. This girl is still good.

  • thank you so much , your advices just like gold !!

  • The Platypus also usees electromatnitism to find food, via it's bill. And it's one of the two known egg-laying mammel (along with the echidna).

  • thanks your rad for telling me this i totally would get along with you

  • I really like girls but I just get so nervous when I get near them. Cant you make a video on how to be more confident around girls?

    Btw youre videos are good =)

  • david wygant has some good advice. Dont get me wrong, this girl gives awesome advice and its great to hear it from the female perspective, but if you want to get pumped to go out there and be awesome and confident, you should probably hear it from a male. Plus david wygant talks about stuff in a natural way, none of the manipulative pick up artists bull shit on tv. good luck man. just remember you are unique and kick ass. girls should feel privelged to spend their time with you. thats how2 think

  • I love the advice... will dove chocolate get me in your pants?

  • u didnt mention this but what if u dont have a job, will it compromise ur relationship to the point where she will break up with u if u cant pay for her everytime u go out?is there any possibility one day the guy pays the next a girl pays?plz help me!!!

  • its not that hard to get a job and get some cash..

  • 1st if you don't have a job you should be going on interviews not dates. 2nd this chick is telling us what she wants to see, good advise but every chick is different. most girls (who have a little $) don't mind you being broke if they see you trying for sumthing. they don't want lazy guys

  • go to a subway "hello do you need some help?" yes or no go look around i got a job in 1 day of searching.

  • I notice how you sort of have to tilt your head back more to compensate the hair that's covering your eye so you can see the camera

  • good observation pheobe

  • she the total package/wifey material

  • good tips, big up :)

  • yip what do u think of all that

  • Very helpful! Btw, you look stunningly beautiful =)

  • Love the röyskopp. Thanks for the tips! The open honesty from a female is greatly appreciated.

  • royskopp rocks my socks

  • the thing is i cant eaven sit near a girl heh...everytime a girl talks to me i get red and then i go away :D damn!

  • you got a bottle of jim beam in the backround maybe we can pop the top of it togehter

    what do you say?

    no just kidding great video

  • you just described me XD

    *wink wink*

  • vanae!!

  • is it ok to talk about sports?

    Because she likes soccer (i love it), but she is not so into it.

  • key thing is be yourself as in be true, these are guidelines not rules as everyone would agree. You don't wanna seem fake and you don' wanna follow these word for word. Everyone is different after all.

  • she hot

  • What if a girl wants to spend more time together before really getting into a relationship and to make sure she likes you ? I already told her what i think of her what should i say now ?

  • you are hot:*

    and thanx for the tips, i knew some of it from before:P cause i was a gentleman from the age of 5;D hehe, thnx;)

  • Thank's =)

    We were suppost to go Paintballing with her French Exchange friend, but she want's to go to cinema instead. Ah well, Son of Rambow it is xD

  • good choice in music, but try some Ulrich Schnauss ;)

  • damn she is sexy

  • music a little bit high, cant hear you well

  • great watch gonna try some of this stuff

    2day going ice-skating, nervous =X p.s what's the name of song in background?

  • good luck.

    let me know how it goes

  • I need help i am too shay i am shay to talk to girls :D

  • passions, childhood topics work but probably not a good starter. for me, girls don't mind going out with me if i bring it up, but if this is typical socializing outside of your local network, i'd imagine they wouldn't feel close to you enough to be that comfortable discussing those topics.

  • Hey vanae I have a story to tell:)

    I watched this exact video before my date and I did exactly what you said we went to a comedy club and everything I thought everything went well and I used your trivia question... during a conversation next day she send me a text saying that did u watch the video this girl made on youtube... I guess I try to danm hard.

  • oh my gosh, that is soooo funny!! i hope my trivia spreads like wildfire. are you still talking to that chick?

  • yea that was funny at the same time sad.. no I dont She was too girly I need someone more serious.. I ran out of ideas Before that date I repeated the answers to that trivia question in my head so much that when she was talking to me I was still wondering if I was going say everything right:))

  • Could you possibly be any hotter?!

  • what if the girl is one of those girls who dont like to keep it pg on the first date

  • try to keep it pg. the more you resist in the beginning so you can get to know her..the more she'll want you

  • The advice sounds good.

    And an advice...

    You really have to do something with your hair. It sure looks good. BUT it keep falling down over your right eye the whole time, so you have to shake your hade or adjust it with your hand. It is actually irritating to watch.

    -Hans - the friendly viking in Sweden

  • white oregon, my trivia is "what is the most poisonous MAMMAL?"

  • what if the girl likes video games?

  • dude, good stuff vanae, you've helped me game

  • go kart racing...haha, i got a better one for you that will definately score- give her some MONEY!

  • lol fkn pedo

  • all this crap wont get you laid. it will get you another girl friend, but not laid.

  • hmmm eventually it will

  • She's right, movies are bad dates. My ex didn't like to talk during movies and I always liked to comment during movies.

  • dont you think i would sound stupid asking her " whats is the most poisoness thign on the world"???

  • the point is...talk about interesting things

  • wow great vids

    me likey your hair too haha

  • this is the best advice on youtube hands down!!! THANKS V

  • I really like your series of videos. A good find!

  • lets get married?!?!...

  • Yeah be a gentleman and ask before you P.I.I.T.B.!

  • What's that?

  • LOL!

  • It seems liek your describing your dream guy here. But thanks for the advice.

  • tip for the next vid. turn down the music in the backgrund. i have a monospeakers i don't hear a thing.

  • hey thank you for the video and by the way your hair is pretty cool.(random compliment)

  • bay areaaaa!

  • guys dont really do those things as much anymore, so if you do..it'll be a pleasant surprise

  • Vanae I've enjoyed watching this video! I am subscribing and am pretty confident I'll really enjoy your posts.

  • man you are sooooooo hot thanks for the great advise

  • thanx for the advice, i got a cute blonde because of you

  • the song's good

  • hey some good tips.....your bf is a very lucky guy your beautiful....

  • me no bf

  • I can get you :).

  • i think u might have just saved my life LOL =]

  • yay*

  • what the name of the song? :O

  • 'what else is there' by royskopp

  • Wondering if you had any suggestions or ideas for me? I have some brewing, but I have no input because nobody views my video. Youtube is not saved from the dogma that sex sells (or at least gets you views). I need some sexy ladies to cameo in my videos or something, which leads me to my next question. Do you want to collaborate on some videos with me (don't have any plans this thought just came to me)?. Let me know what you think... or not.

  • send me a message. i'm interested in hearing what you have in mind

  • hey... im a guy that actuually watches these things and they have some really good advice, so in order for the guy/girl relationship yo wrok, i think the guy should give the girls some advice. so in a few days, i will post some advice from guys and that way us guys can use your advice and you ladies can use our guys advice if you would like.

  • that would be awesome!! looking forward to it!

  • These are wonderful tips for a guy. Tks.

  • music is too loud, really hard to hear you.

  • cooking classes?? oh man, this is 21st century, nowaday gals dont like to cook....

  • thanks..and whats the song?

  • What is the second song on this video??

  • You give great advice Vanae and I like that you don't ramble. Most of it's stuff that you can't go wrong with, like bringing a jacket. Chivalry isn't dead. Be bold and stand out. It's worth the risk if you really like her. Still though... trivia about poisonous platypi???

  • Thanks for the advice yet again. I'm only 14 coming up 15 next month but this will help me through my life and help bring out topic's to talk about.

  • im 16 and without a girlfirned omg...im not fat or anything i just dont know wat to do when i see a sexy girl my age...i seriously dont

  • the thing is though im a kid and i can only go to the movies.... so what do i do...?

  • there's tons of places that young people can do:

    - miniature golf

    - parks, hiking

    - amusement parks

    - go carting

    - volunteer

    - dance classes

    - cooking classes

    so much! look into craigslist under 'events' and research local community centers for activities

  • is bowling a good one?

  • yes

  • I came across your blog by mistake. Interesting concept! I think it has a lot of potential, best of luck with it!

  • what if the girl loves vdeo games? i swear i met thisone girl who loved them and wouldnt stop talking about it haha.

  • Thanks for the tips - not that am crap at dating and all... been at it for ages. The thing which bugs me is when the conversation appears to be one way. Like when the girl seems very enthusastic but cant start up any topics. Its like we guys gotta keep coming up with new topics. Makes life difficult.

  • These tips are good and well intentioned (basic social skills) and thank you for sharing them.....I am not an expert by any means in this area, but I do find that really being true to yourself is what works for me!

  • i love that hot chip 'just like we breakdown' song.. omg

  • i love your hair!!!!