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  • Awww Stacey ... Big Hug Girl. I missed this video. I know you are having having health problems but I had missed this video. Big Hugs Girl. I am sorry life is being icky right now, Just hang in there hun. you will see the specialist and get it figured out. Be sure to take iron too.. I am sure you have heard that 500 x by now. Try to stay away from iceberg lettuce or anything that works as a natural blood thinner. But hang in there girl.. it will all work out/ Hugs & Prayers

  • Hey Stacey, I had the same problem 10 years ago. Make sure you get to the doctor. If it turns out to be nothing, all the better, but if it turns out to be something, you want them to catch it right away. I always say "plan for the worst, and hope for the best".

  • Sending you good energy for health, calm and relaxation. If I may take the liberty of saying so, this sounds like PCOS. I'm familiar with what you are describing, so please take care and know I'm praying for you and sending energy into the universe that all will be well.

  • Seems like you and Ms Uterus have been having issues for quite a while. It will be ok we are all here for you.

    hugs xx Jen

  • oh Stacey I'm Praying for you :)

  • Seems like you and Ms Uterus have been having issues for quite a while. Obviously, the best I can do is imagine (and I thank the Lord for that), and listen to some of the horror tales I hear, like yours. It does sound like it's time, if just for the preservation of your sanity.

    Let's pray that it backs off and lets you enjoy the holidays!

    Kitty's only problem is that the treats are on the other side of the desk...

    Hang in there, Stacey.

  • I'm very sorry to hear that you're having a rough time. I've watched several of your videos over the last year or two and you're such a sweet person who deserves no aggravation whatsoever. I sincerely wish you well and hope things improve.

  • I am so so sorry to hear that you are having some female issues. I have been through female issues as well. I had a hysterectomy done 14 years ago. It has been the best thing even though I didn't think so at the time. You will get through this. Keep hanging in there. You will be in my thought and prayers.

  • Thoughts and Prayers for you from Memphis TN!!! I hope you get it all taken care of soon!

  • Oh I have been there.  Just go to the doctor! You might find out there are easy in office procedures available now for you!

  • Stacey, nothing is more important than going to see your doctor. Christmas can be postponed, if necessary. Nothing is more important than your health. You need to come first with this. Go to the doctor.

    Sending you all the positive thoughts I can pull together and punch through the air, barrelling towards you.

    Did you feel it?

    - roc

  • I hope you get to feeling better...please get things checked out! It's Eve's fault we women are cursed with these issues!! 

  • Hey Stacey. I'm in the same boat with you. It's time I have no choice. My legs are giving out. There leaking. My back comes and goes. Breathing is a blessing. I say I am about 80% total disabled now. Your the first one to know outside of family. I'm seeing the doc on the 26th. Hopefully I'll be here for the new year.

    Big Warm Hugs

    Gene

  • @BigBoyG1 I am sooo glad to hear you are going to the doc. I was originally going on the 27th...but have been able to get in tomorrow now. They realy need to check out your liver.

  • I've been so behind on videos recently I just got to see this. I am so sorry you are feeling unwell. I really hope that you get better. You are an awesome/kind/sweet/funny/genui­ne lady and I hate to see you unhappy. *hugs*

  • Oh honey girl, i've been there...i couldn't take it anymore, so i told the dr either you take it out, or i'll find someone who will....i went through the same things that you are...it was affecting the quality of my life....HUGS hon,

  • Stacey, you know for years I had this same issue and I went to the doctor it may just be you need birthcountrol. That stoped me. Do you know I'd your anemic? I was well actually still am but that's one if the reasons I went so bad which is why the birth countrol helped.

  • Thoughts and prayers from Ohio!

  • Just now seeing this Stacey. Honey go to the doctor now. Or at least schedule an appt Tomorrow. You will be in my prayers. Hugs

  • The solution to your problem is likely to be easier than you think.  There are medications that will be able to help you.

    I know the disconnect feeling, hope you are back 100% soon.

  • :  (

  • Please do not wait too long to go to the Dr. I went through the same thing years ago and now my Daughter is going through it. She had to go to the emergency room last week and they told her it was a good thing she did. I know the Holidays are upon us but take care of yourself and you will feel so much better about everything. You are in my prayers.

  • Please, please, Stacey call the dr on monday morning and make an appointment for the first thing in Jan. 

  • Take care of yourself

  • Stacey..Go to the Dr now. It can only get worst if you do not take care of it now..

    Love ya tons & want you to he healthy Ok

    BIG HUGS

  • Lots of good advice here Stacey. A drs. visit is definately in order. Hope you get to feeling better really soon. Luvs ya!

  • Is this happening during your monthly cycle or has it just not stopped for months? Could be going through "the change" and it's a hormonal issue?? You won't know until you get ur bootie to the Dr. I have to say I am worried about you :(

  • I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this. I know others have said it, but I do think it's important to go to the doctor sooner rather than later. I hope you feel better soon!

  • Whip that uterus into shape. My wife did. WITHOUT surgery, I might add. No hospital stay,  either.

    Love.

  • Hope you feel better soon, go the doctor, do not think the worst, Some meds will stop it, help control the issue, If you have no pain, that rules out alot, need check iron level, go ms stacey to the doc, I promise you will feel better, forget the holidays, sending hugs xoxo jarat/

  • Oh, I am so sorry to hear that you aren't feeling well. By now, it might REALLY be time to go to the doctor NOW!!! Please don't put it off--especially if you have been noticing BIG changes with your body and overall health. Sometimes, it really is about catching things early--like when you first notice them. That's your body's way of telling you you need to do something immediately. Take care and be well. : )

  • Sorry to hear you are not well, I hope everything works out for you. xoox

  • Hope you get to feeling better soon.

  • Go to the doctor sweetie for your own piece of mind. If it's an insurance thing who cares what the cost I owe so much money to the doctor I just pay a little at a time 25 dollars here and there I pay what I can and that's good enough. I'll be thinking of you Please let us know what's going on hope it gets better soon. Hugs & much much Xoxo

  • here is my prayer for comfort and health. hope your new day dawns with blessings and better health. thanks for the vid...it couldn't have been easy to make.

  • >>>Important than the evil almighty dollar. It will get paid when it gets paid some here and there you know how we roll as a family on that subject. We just love you and want to see you get back to yourself and feeling better. You know if you need me/us we are here always! If we/us can do ANYTHING to help just let us know. GIve a call anytime too, you know this goes without saying BUT Im saying it anyway! I love how our fur babys know when the momma needs lovins! HUGS xooxo

  • Stacey!!!!! I love you so much! I know that this is a hard issue to deal with for you! I know you want to wait till after the holidays to get this 'junk' taken care of BUT as some others have mentioned it might be best not to wait. If something is going on that you are going to need to go to the hospital for you can always schedule that part for after the holidays BUT if there is something they can do to help you NOW then you should seek that out. Remember, you and your health are FAR more>

  • I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this sweetie! I hope things get better for you soonest!! Love you, Ang

  • I have still got you on my mind. You can become anemic and have low iron like myself which makes ya sick and tired. They have medicine that can stop it or slow it down which brings instant relief. But please go to the gyn.

  • Hey Stacy I just wanted to say I'm sorry to hear your not well and that it's affecting you in such a bad way I hope when you do go to the doctor they can help thinking of you.

    Rachel

  • Stacy I do hope that it is nothing serious but you need to be looked at by a Dr soon hoping you feel better soon

  • I hope you feel better soon! I've had those type of issues before. Its terrible to deal with. There is some meds that the dr can give you to help you. You may have to go through test to see whats going on, but the ones I went through was simple and painless, just annoying for the time. Sending you love and hugs.

  • 415-233-1074 I want to help.

  • Yes Stacey, I agree with the other utuber, get to the doctor right away because they can give you a shot in the buttock to slow that issue down. The medication is called lupron. I hope that I spelled it right.

  • BTW, love you.

  • Having "been there, done that" I urge you to make an appt. I was stubborn, too. But there IS help, and you gotta get some "quality of life" back...STAT!

  • Hugs x

  • I agree with everyone here.. you should really get your self to a doc now.. Dont wait till after the HOlidays.. If you have to have Hospital things done you can put that off till after Xmas if you want.. but best to know what you are dealing with ..sending prayers..

  • You are probably as Bull Headed as any of us and you are going to "do" or "not do" what you want no matter what anybody tells you.

    If you are going to wait, then make that appointment now for January.

    And while you are on the phone, tell the appointment nurse what is going on and you may get some free advise.

    Ok, I said my piece.

  • So Sorry to hear you are going through so much!!! I think you should go get checked out sooner than later though. It is awful not to be able to feel like a normal person. I have been dealing with horrible back pain for almost 2 years now and it is just awful!! Sending prayers your way!!!!

  • I think you should go get checked out as soon as possible. Even if they want to do something more intrusive, you can ask to wait until after the holidays for that and they may be able to give you something or do something in the meantime to make you more comfortable until then. 

  • I hope you get sorted out Stacey, you willf eel much better after that.... i'm trying to get myself sorted out medically too.... it's not a lot of fun is it

    x hugs x

  • Stacey, very sorry you are going through this. Please go to the doctors sooner rather than later. Your anxiety and disconnect will just get worse the longer you don't know what needs to be done. Sending you all good thoughts.

  • Stacey, i agree with everyone on here, get it seen too as soon as u can, no point suffering on too long with it, they may just have to do a D&C which is nothing, and u will feel a whole lot better! Your local Gp may have some other stuff to try , so that your monthly is not so extreme! love ya girl, go as soon as its new yr, hugs&hugs, Caroline,xx

  • take care of it!! DO IT DO IT DO IT!

  • I hope you are ok and I hope you feel better soon. :)

  • my dear. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to write to me. You know my memory is not the best but if I can help answer some of your worries, I will help. I too dealt with the same thing. Do not let it continue...

  • hmmm I think you should perhaps go sooner than later. You aren't gonig to put it off when it clears up, are you? Because it doesn't sound like it is going to clear up and just go away. If they want to do a test, let them do the test. Don't have to be hospitalized if you don't want to --you have that choice. But I think that there may be something they can do right away that can stop it. It sounds like a D&C will more than like be done and that can help tremendously. I will be thinking of you

  • Wish I lived closer. Just broke my heart to hear this. Please let me know if you need anything...... :-(. Love you!!!! Have been so busy with work but will do what I can. Just say the word. GOT IT MISSY?!?!

  • Best Wishes x

  • My aunt went through what you are going through. She ended up having surgery. After that everything was fine. Praying for you. *hugs*

  • Oh Stacy i really feel for you. I hope things get better for you and the doctor can sort things out for you in the new year. Sending lots of love your way and angel prays xxxx

  • Sending good thoughts and prayers your way hugs

  • Im so sorry Stacy...hope things will get better for you. Hopefully the doctors can get things straightend out for you *Big hugs*

    Sending healing thoughts your way

  • Hang in there. Sending prayers.

  • hope you are ok and pray that everthing will be ok. But you should go to the Doctor as soon as you can.

    hugs

  • Sending good thoughts and warm fuzzies your way - hope you're okay

  • Id like you to message me I have am in the same boat, weight wise and uterus wise. I can tell you about my experience and what they will do and suggest and what I have done that has helpled me.

  • I understand what your going thru...even i had similar issues couple years ago the gynecologist gave me tabs for my estrogen level it was alright after a month i would suggest you dont sit for long hours take breaks and good rest..its better to go to the doctor soon they will give you tabs and it will help you will have instant relief...Hugs...♥

  • I hope everything gets better Stacey. I can honestly say I don't know you are going through, but I truly hope it gets better.

  • Praying for you to make a doctor's appt asap and for you to not to worry about anything at this time. I can hear the sadness in your voice and the see the worry that you are experiencing at this time. For some of us it is hard to even think about going to the dr. or ER when we don't have insurance or the money to cover the expense. There will be a way that all of this will be taken care of so don't even worry about what it cost. We love you. Please make appt ASAP.

  • oh please go to the doctor and get it check out what is going on... that is not good to keep it on the back burner ... it will only get worse

  • ((Hugs)) Hang in there. Your in my thoughs.

  • I am sorry you are dealing with. But there is often fairly easy solutions to issues like this. I know without health insurance and money it's scary to even go to the Dr. Couple weeks ago they wanted me via phone call to my Dr. wanted me to go to the ER immediately. Needless to say I didn't. You, however, my love need to start getting this checked out. You need a gyno appt. Check and see if clinics are available for individuals without insurance. Or call you gyno and explain. Hugs

  • I hope you get help. I went through a whole year and a half like that. I still can not leave the house for a week when I have it. I had two DNCs and it didn't help. I am still very anemic from it all. I even missed my daughters graduation, several holidays etc. I did have some help with the depo shot but it didn't last. Worse part was being told I was too fat so they wouldn't do a hysterectomy because of the risk in it! but bleeding to death was fine I guess. Go as soon as you can! Good Luck!

  • I just wrote you a comment on your homepage. I hope you get it. If not, let me know..want to share with you.

  • praying for you Stacey

  • Oh Stacey, yes, please do call your dr & be up front with them about the lack of finances and that you are MISERABLE WITH PAIN. Chances are they will bring you in for an appt but they won't be able to get you scheduled for tests until the new year as tests/scans always have a wait list. At a minimum you can get on the lists for the tests and maybe get some pain meds and/or meds to stop the bleeding. HUGS and lifting u up in prayer.

    Could you message me your address so I can mail u a package?

  • have you heard of depo prevera?? its a birth control, and im a big girl and it is the best thing that happened to me......after being on it for a few months your monthly goes away and as long as you get the shot every 10-12 weeks ( i get it every 10) your good to go, no more pain no more cramps no more nasty messes to clean up ( i have been there (((( hugs)))) ) but you should look into it, here if you dont have drug coverage it costs 35 bucks every 3 months..just a thought hope you feel better

  • Stacey, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Nothing embarrassing here, we all have issues. But you opening up like this is very bold, and shows you are one tough cookie. And judging by the comments and likes, you have a whole bunch of friends around you. I hope I can be one of them. I am new, but watched many of your videos. I love you, love you dad (Humper :-)), love your pets, and thanks to you I am vlogging now as well. You ARE changing the world!!!

  • i understand what you are going through.... oh believe me i do..... hope it gets better for you

  • I wish you the best.

  • Stacey, I am so sorry to hear this and I can hear the pain in your voice and on your face. PLEASE do not wait. Call for an appt on Monday. It may take while to get one and you need to see the doc asap. All this will put your mind at ease and who knows, it may be an easy fix. Don't miss out on Christmas, just go see the doc. I wish I were closer so I could go with you. Explain to the doc about finances. They may be able to help there too. PLEASE GO!!! xoxo

  • Sorry you aren't feeling well, doesn't help that you can't get out much.

    Hopefully you can get out on Christmas day to enjoy time with family.

    Hope all goes well when you do go to the doctor.

    {{{{{Hugs}}}}}

  • Stacey, I'm so sorry you're going through this! Maybe they just need to regulate your hormones. I do hope you're taking iron during all this; we don't want you getting anemic or anything! Many prayers going up for you and we look forward to seeing that beautiful smile again real soon!!

  • Awww Stacey, I am sorry you are feeling like this.

  • Dear Stacy,

    Please go to the Doctor, please don't wait. It sounds like you are very concerned about what is happening. Listen to the little voice we all have in us. It is best to deal with issues like this ASAP. Most likely it will not be as bad as you think. It would be no fun to go through the holidays worried about your health. The longer you wait sometimes the worse things get. Go to the emergency room if you have to.

    Hugs

    Lauren

  • I will be praying for you Stacey & I wish you the best. You will be o.k. but you better get to the doctor soon. You are very strong & you can make it through this.

    God Bless You! *HUGS*

    Katie =^,,^=

  • I wish you the best. I know you will be okay.

  • I am sorry to hear this, Stacey. I hope everything gets better for you. :)

  • so sorry to hear :( please go to the Dr asap...-hugs-

  • Hello, Stacey. I just want to tell you, you will pull through! I feel the frustration this year has be ROUGH on me as well. I have kept most personal things off videos but have posted many details on my personal blog. I had Nuss procedure (look it up) which is actually the reformation of your chest. It is one of the top 5 most painful surgeries. I am recovering and getting better it's rough I know. But hang in there. I also feel you, I had surgery on Nov 3 and still cannot sleep in my bed.hangin

  • @erichereatthetube Hang in there, you will get through it, we all do :)

  • so sorry to hear it Stace! You know your body better than anyone - and I really hope that you feel better REAL soon! Thinking about you! :)

  • (((((hugs)))))

    I love ya.

  • Honey, I had a hyst at 31. I know what you speak..but rest assure, I am a nurse I know what is happening but you need to see a doctor....there is so much technology and medication..you can be helped...i am so sorry but you have me as a friend..hugs, louise...

  • I’m sorry to hear your dealing with that crap.. Sounds like you have some depression going on as well; I had that in 1999 ended up with a total Hysterectomy. Please go soon. Go as soon as possible. We all love you and I can hear all the concern. Love Deb.

  • Stacy, sorry to hear about the health issue I agree with most that you might want to get it check out right away. I am sending my thoughts to you and hope it gets better for you. :) Justie

  • As you may remember last year I had a hysterectomy at 38. It ended up being the best thing I could have done. All my life I have had female issues. I know all to well about moving and it messing your clothes and bed up. I would have to put pads down on my bed. I was worried and scared out of my mind. Putting it off will just stress you more. I been there. It will be OK just go and take care of your self. Lone and hugs my friend

  • So Sorry you aren't feeling well, We love you, and will always be by your side... All of your friends will be here to help you through this,,,, Love you always,, Gail

  • Hope it gets better. I'll miss you

  • go to the emergency room right away~~and at least you will bring the New Year in with good health.By spring you will have a perfect bill of health .You are a strong woman you can deal and get better.Please do not wait another day.I have been thr what you are about to go thr.and its not as bad as it seems trust me.It will be alright.GO TO THE DOCTOR NOW!!!!

  • im bad about putting things off when it comes to me.but u let something happend to one of my loved ones or pets and im right on it. im praying about this and pls keep us updated and dont wait on making an appt.they probably wont do nothing until after the holiday's.

  • Oh no, don't be putting stuff off like this for after New Years. :( Holidays come and go but your health should always be priority! My mom was having some issues down there and she put it off and off and off because she wasn't having pain and when she finally went she had to have a total hysterectomy because she waited so long.... :(

  • Don't put off going to the Dr. too long please. Estrogen levels that are stored in your body can have an effect on your uterus. Please don't wait too long.

  • Feel Better. Happy Holidays :(

  • Stacey, your gonna be fine, please don't put it off. Most dr's will work out a payment plan. I know your frightened, your in my thoughts. Think positive

  • So sorry you are having health issues hope you get well soon and sending positive thoughts.~Hugs

  • this kind of thing is not something you should put off trust me , i was checked out right away and for me it wasnt good. i know you dont want to get checked out becuse of the holidays but your health is so much more important.

  • I'm praying for you and keeping you in my thoughts. *hugs*

  • Just my personal opinion, Stacey, but for peace of mind, I think you should not wait until after the holidays to call your doctor. Get the ball rolling now. They probably won't be able to give you an appointment immediately any way, but just knowing you have an appointment scheduled may take away some of your anxiety.

    Sending you a GREAT BIG HUG ((((((Stacey))))))

  • @DebUSA i completely agree.now might b a good time to make the appt.so it will hopefully b right after holiday's.

  • Bless your sweet heart ! I love you sweet Stacey ! Keep your B12 up by slipping a tablet under your tongue letting it melt. Health food store carries that & iron supplement capsules for now.

  • ((hugs)) Stacey. It's got to be hard for you but like Renee said, you have a huge support system here. Don't be afraid of the unknown...stare at it in it's face and take control over it. You'll be fine, I'm sure of it.

  • Lots of hugs love and prayers for you I am so sorry you have to deal with that

  • Stacey hon I am so sorry you are going through this. From a fellow bbw I have the same issue, and I have found that with weight loss that issue sorted itself out. If the doctors bring up having surgery to remove anything and you don't have cancer or anything please consider a second opinion before doing so. You may sort out with just some hormone therapy and weight loss. I recently found out doctors push for surgery because it lines their pockets and not that it's the only solution. Just an fyi.

  • December 18, 2011

    Stacey ~ I sent a private message to your YouTube inbox.

  • Being a woman is tuff. Sorry sweetie. Anxiety is hard to deal with too. I hope your dr appt goes well!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Women's issues are real, the pain is real, rest as best you can, I had a hysterectomy, at a young age, 37, not so young but young enough, and it was the best thing they could have done, no pain, be welll and sending hugs :)

  • Don't dispare, I've been there. Get it checked out soon as you can, so you don't get anemic. The more anemic the more it happens. Try not to panic, there are things that can be done such as hormone therapy, my thoughts are with you. No fun but it can be taken care of.

  • Stacey, I can relate to what you are going through so well. I went through the same issues back when I was in my late teens and early 20's - I had a DNC at 16 because of that. Hang in there!! I am going to be making a GYN appointment in the Spring and am not looking forward to it either. Sending lots of prayers!!!

  • oh Stacey, I'm so sorry you are going through this. Please keep us posted on how you are doing. I'm sending love your way because you truly are a special person. You brighten my day. Positive energy to you my sweet friend.

  • Sorry for your problem :( I have the same thing and haven't been to the doc yet, they told me it has to stop before they can check me. So that is like never, idk what to do.

  • please don't be afraid...i know the process and the unknown is so frustrating and scary and mentally draining...rely on us...you have a huge support system and there is no need to suffer...it may be a quick fix...we need our dose of stacey and want you well..

  • @renee7aw  Well said ! You said what my heart was thinking ... !

  • Will be thinking about you Stacie, sending you much love.

  • You sound so down.Praying that you get things resolved soon.The female stuff can be a pain.

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