Single Black Mothers WILL ALWAYS TRY TO PLACE BLAME On The Missing Daddy, But Who Has More Influence And Control Over The Direction A Child's Life Takes? THE CUSTODIAL PARENT! The Buck Stops With The Parent That Has Full Custody And Control. That's Legal. That's Proper. Yet, Black Mothers Will Go To Great Degrees To Avoid Taking Responsibility For How Her Children Turn Out... That's Unless The Child Turns Out To Be Sucessful. When That Happens, She's Willing To Take ALL THE CREDIT. Has Anyone Noticed This? (less info)